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i'm fortunate that i get to meet a lot of amazing gurls, hot, smart, interesting, and responsible. some are nice, some are "dirty", some old, some yuong, but i just cant picture getting married to any of them

in fact, i cant picture myself getting married at all..

when i ask my single friends the same question as to why they haven't settled down yet, most of them reply "i havent met the right gurl yet blah" but i assure you that in my case i have -- a few times...

i've just turned 30. I'm supposed to be thinking about this stuff now. On one hand i love my life just the way it is, but on the other hand, if i'm not careful, i could see myself in 20 years becoming some sad old fucktard who spends all his time surfing internet porn or paying yuong hookers to go down on him (yes, i know some of yuo are gonna post that i'm already a sad old fucktard who blah blah blah :) )

so for now, i don't really wanna get married blah, but i'm wondering if i should before it's too late.....

thoughts on this kinda stuff?

opinions from gay bois and lesbos also welcome

- Car Key Boi
 

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I don't think there is a good age, it will just happen when the time is right.

If I were you, I wouldn't worry yet too much. You are still only 30 anyway.

30 is the age I envisage myself settling down and getting married, but you can never tell what the future holds. I might meet the right woman sooner than I think, or it may never happen.

Just be patient, and things will fall into place soon enough.

And if you don't get married, at least you can afford the hookers. :p
 

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I think it is different for everyone. I just got tired of working, to be honest, and my shelf time was coming up. I'm still hot and all, but not like yuo need to be for my business. I didn't mind being single, but being single was a big financial responsibility. I pegged Ronnie and figured it was my way to stop working, so I got pregnant and trapped him. It was a selfish move, motivated solely by money, but once we actually lived together and got married and Ronnie, Jr. came, things came together and I am really happy, though not at the moment as I am miserable with this second pregnancy.

While I am not wild and crazy for Ronnie in the sexual sense (he is really old) and would not have given him a second look if he didn't have money, there is something nice about having someone to support me and buy me things and I don't have to work. I do really "love" Ronnie in the larger sense because I feel we are together now, but I cannot tell yuo one day yuo will meet a gurl who you just cannot stand not to be around. Other things motivated me, and I think a lot of marriages are like that.

You either will or won't find a Mrs. Right Car Key Gurl. As long as yuo like what you're doing, keep doing it until something changes.

BTW, there is nothing wrong with electing to be single and getting hookers.
 

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*claps* excellent post, Celeste.

Marraige is fairly pointless unless you just want to sit around all day with the kids while your husband works. That's the only motivation I'd have to get married.
 

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i'm fortunate that i get to meet a lot of amazing gurls, hot, smart, interesting, and responsible.
Blah blah blah... do you think anyone falls for this shit?

Please, just go away...

Every man is a loser on this board... why do I bother coming here?
 

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Very funny, but at least I am honest. Plus, should Car Key Boi find himself a lonely, childless mid-40's guy, he will have enough money to land some young hottie. By that time, he won't care if she's after money.
 

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Car Key Boi said:
i'm fortunate that i get to meet a lot of amazing gurls, hot, smart, interesting, and responsible. some are nice, some are "dirty", some old, some yuong, but i just cant picture getting married to any of them

in fact, i cant picture myself getting married at all..

when i ask my single friends the same question as to why they haven't settled down yet, most of them reply "i havent met the right gurl yet blah" but i assure you that in my case i have -- a few times...

i've just turned 30. I'm supposed to be thinking about this stuff now. On one hand i love my life just the way it is, but on the other hand, if i'm not careful, i could see myself in 20 years becoming some sad old fucktard who spends all his time surfing internet porn or paying yuong hookers to go down on him (yes, i know some of yuo are gonna post that i'm already a sad old fucktard who blah blah blah :) )

so for now, i don't really wanna get married blah, but i'm wondering if i should before it's too late.....

thoughts on this kinda stuff?

opinions from gay bois and lesbos also welcome

- Car Key Boi
if yuo can't picture yourself being married to any of them, then you haven't met the one, ckb. seriously. you've met the one only after you can't imagine your life without her. then, you'll know.

it doesn't matter that you're 30. there's no age limit to finding your soul mate (unless you're worried about having children soon). when it's right, it'll be right and you'll know it. no one will have to tell you, remind you, or make you realize it. you'll just know. for now, don't worry about it. you're happy doing exactly what you're doing so if it ain't broke don't fix it.

on the other hand, there's nothing wrong with being single. it's quite possible to find someone who makes you laugh, makes good love, and is just a wonderful companion to have. this is a far better than the alternative. i've been on this board long enough to know that you love yourself. at least enough to know that you don't want to sail off into your twilight years swimming in public pools (hookers). :)

be patient for the real thing. good things come to those who wait. :wavey:
 

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Car Key Boi said:
thoughts on this kinda stuff?
You're, sorry, yuo're just having a crisis because yuo've just hit the big 3-0.

Yuo'll be over it in no time.

If not then remember there's no point in getting married if yuo're not ready for it.

It's not age specific.
 

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Car Key boi, I'm not sure what the right age for marriage and kids is, but the one thing i can tell you is that it sure as hell is not 15.
 

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JelenaDokicIsHot said:
It hasn't, but 30 isn't old, everyday you 'meet' new people, one day it will just click with someone, and marriage isn't for everyone
Jelenadokicishot, 30 is incredibly old, and you better believe when I'm 29 and 364 days I will have my stepladder and noose out.

no no, I kid. I don't want to be 29 either!

no no, I kid. i'm sure CKB will meet somebody nice, and if he doesn't, maybe he can write a great book about his suffering. bad times breed great art.
 

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Car Key boi, I'm not sure what the right age for marriage and kids is, but the one thing i can tell you is that it sure as hell is not 15.
I second that, and what's more my advice is that you wait as long as possible and discover yourself and what YOU want before anything else. Marriage and kids are not something we should rush into. Again, marriage and kids are NOT for everyone. There are so many who goes down that path when they're not really suited to it at all. That's when you see the divorces, the single parents and lengthy legal battles. It shouldn't be compulsive like just buying something.

So I suggest you think hard about it. There are too many people in the world who thinks having kids is like buying a pet. We all need to be more responsible for our actions.
 

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Car Key Boi said:
i'm fortunate that i get to meet a lot of amazing gurls, hot, smart, interesting, and responsible. some are nice, some are "dirty", some old, some yuong, but i just cant picture getting married to any of them

in fact, i cant picture myself getting married at all..

when i ask my single friends the same question as to why they haven't settled down yet, most of them reply "i havent met the right gurl yet blah" but i assure you that in my case i have -- a few times...

i've just turned 30. I'm supposed to be thinking about this stuff now. On one hand i love my life just the way it is, but on the other hand, if i'm not careful, i could see myself in 20 years becoming some sad old fucktard who spends all his time surfing internet porn or paying yuong hookers to go down on him (yes, i know some of yuo are gonna post that i'm already a sad old fucktard who blah blah blah :) )
i can see you being one of those lonely old men, too :)

but if you cant picture yourself getting married, you prolly shouldnt. the divorce rate is high enough... we dont need you to contribute.

and while i dont believe in soulmates and all that blah, i do think you havent met the right one yet. i think real love changes people for the better, and when you meet someone that suits you perfectly, maybe youll change your mind. maybe not... like someone above said, marriage isnt for everyone.

ugh, im getting too mushy...

if you do get married, make sure its to a younger girlie.
 

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You will probably do what other men do who are afraid to become old fucktards. Around 40, you will be so afraid to become an old lonely fucktard that you will marry some decent younger woman, not because she is so fuckable but because she will make a good mother for your kids. It won't matter that she is not that fuckable since your testosterone level will have gone down considerably anyway. And after having fucked women in all sizes and shapes you will find sex very boring. It's what I see happen all the time.
So in the end, you will sit at home with a nagging wife and nagging kids, and since you won't get a lot of sex, you will start to eat and drink and you will develop a nice belly and a triple chin.
In the mean time, those guys who were not constantly hunting but were able to really love a woman will still have great sex with that same woman.
So my advice: enjoy your empty life while it lasts and while you still find women who want to go down on you because it's gonna go downhill someday.
RA!
 
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