it depends, selesrules...if you know this friend to be a lazy ass who basically spends his life mooching off of others then yes...i would tell him to get up off his lazy ass and earn some food. however, if your friend is a productive person who just happened to run out of money this week and needed help for whatever reason...then mostly certainly i would give it to him and not even expect it back.selesrules said:So if a friend needs money to buy food, you will tell him GO WORK FOR YOUR OWN MONEY? Where do you draw the line? Would you let a friend get fired if you can stop it? Would you let a friend fail a class if you can stop it?
no doubt. real friends are rare, selesrules. that's why, when you find one, you don't ask them to compromise their integrity for you. you cherish real friends.selesrules said:By reading some of the replies here, I think that good friends are getting very rare. I guess everyone is to himself these days.
what kind of friends do i have? good ones. lifelong ones. ones that would never ask me to cheat and lie for them. mature ones.selesrules said:So you should never ask for help if you really are in trouble? What kind of friends do you have? Integrity? Please, everyone at one point has cheated including this person, you, me and everyone on the planet.
okay? and not just a question, but a poll as well. so you give some answers from what you honestly believe and he/she gets all riled up at me. i'm thinking, "hey, i'm not the dumbass who didn't do my homework".decemberlove said:why ask a question and get offended when people disagree with you, yknow?
right. what this friend did is right... cos in the future it would only hurt selesrules. learn some time management... you wont always have someone you know there to bail you out.DeuceDiva said:okay? and not just a question, but a poll as well. so you give some answers from what you honestly believe and he/she gets all riled up at me. i'm thinking, "hey, i'm not the dumbass who didn't do my homework".