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I am totally utterly confused! and i need help :eek: :eek:

Well, *takes deep breath* i am 17 and i think that i could b bi/gay, i have had girlfriends b4 but am PHYSICALLY attracted to guyz and on a previous occasin i had a guy suck me off b4, but that fully freaked me out and went 2 the doctors 4 std tests and everything... all negative thank god :worship: :worship:

I thought that mayb it woz juss the wrong person, and that when i find someone that is more likeable (the guy woz not exactly Brad Pitt, u get what i am saying?)but then realized that i had no intention of havin anal sex, actually just the though of it turns me off...COMPLETLY

However i still find guyz attractive, but doubt that i could develop feelings for one and therefore would not be able to have a relationship with one, but all my frendz say that think that i am gay not bi (which they are cool with, which iz surprising considering that i go to one of the roughest schoolz in Brisbane) and i jackoff while while watching gay porn not straight porn,

Then..... (long story Iknow, but i am almost finished) the otha day i went to a frendz house and he woz like "oh! there is this guy who wants to meet u" and i agreed and i met him he was good looking enuff, and and we engaged in mutual masturbation but it didn't feel comfortable.

Now... I have this frend, and wheneva i introduce him to my frendz they give me the "iz he gay look" and all the questions that degenerate from there, and heiz HOT!!!! all my frendz think he iz gay, but i was wondering how much of it woz my influence on him, he knowz i am bi/ gay and iz kool with it! i think i am lusting after him but he iz only 15 :fiery: :fiery: :fiery: :fiery: what do i do???? thanks guyz
 

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You are gay, you are just going through the process of acceptance. Give it time. Don't feel guilty. Not every gay man has an STD either.
 

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That's all I needed to know. Just wait and give it time, meet people (for friendships and relationships) and keep your options OPEN. Experiment and find out exactly what you like but make sure to use protection. That's all I can say. You don't need help at all. It's normal for people your age.
 

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I am completly open to prospect of being bi/gay, hey i even embrace it, but there are just so many conflicting emotions inside, i honestly thought that i woz ready 4 this :confused:
 

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That's all I needed to know. Just wait and give it time, meet people (for friendships and relationships) and keep your options OPEN. Experiment and find out exactly what you like but make sure to use protection. That's all I can say. You don't need help at all. It's normal for people your age.
Good post. And also BigB08822 post is right on.
 

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Sam L said:
That's all I needed to know. Just wait and give it time, meet people (for friendships and relationships) and keep your options OPEN. Experiment and find out exactly what you like but make sure to use protection. That's all I can say. You don't need help at all. It's normal for people your age.
what he said.

mixed emotions and confusion at this point in your life is commonplace whether youre bi/gay/straight/asexual, etc.

the last thing you need to drugs to dull the mess going on in your head. eventually everything will become clear.
 

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you are a person regardless of what you or others think.;)
 

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Basic tennis; i don't understand ur post, i never said nething bout feeling like i wazn't a person coz of my sexuality! :confused:
 

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My baadddd....I thought you're a banana...sorryyy.:devil:
 

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i hope somebody could straighten up your "banana"...otherwise, I wish you the best of luck.:angel:
 

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pffff...it's not your fault but you can still be the best citizen of the world if you want to be....just stay positive or I'll break your banana.:devil:
 

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*scratches head* :confused: What on earth r u going on about :p as u can tell i am deeply deeply troubled :devil:
 

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which head did you scratch.hehehe

you should not feel troubled because you are not the first person to be in this situation....just try to be yourself and this should not stop you from achieving your goals.:angel:
 

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u sick little puppy (oh mi god u r soooo cute) but what the hell r u going on about man, achieving goalz? rite now the only goal i have iz 2 get laid!
 

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LMAO...that's just part of the learning process.:p
 
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