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"In Ireland, they said, 'Either say you're Ukrainian, or we won't let you on the court.'" An interview with Vitalia Dyachenko about tennis, escort etc

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#1 ·
In Dublin. I flew there to train before the grass court season because my coach is Irish. It's a great club, called Carrickmines. It's very old, the logo looks like Wimbledon, and everyone plays and trains in white. It was cold, and I couldn't wear pants or leggings because I'd only brought colorful ones. I had to play in a skirt and socks.


This is one of the only clubs that will give me courts. Because I'm Russian, that's a problem in Ireland. Since 2022, all the clubs I've trained at before have been turning me down.

This hasn’t happened before?

"Until 2022, we were very well received. But now the coach called, and they told him I either had to say I was Ukrainian, or they wouldn't let me in."

– So they understand that you are Russian, but they ask you to lie?

"Yes, I have to lie, because there are Ukrainians among the club members. They might be upset, so I have to say I'm Ukrainian. The funny thing is, I really am half Ukrainian. My dad is Ukrainian, we're a mixed family. But I would never do such nonsense. The coach just told them off."

And you didn’t pay anything?

"Yes. The funny thing is, it's like that everywhere abroad. Wherever I go, the courts are free. It's only in Russia that I have to pay if I'm not assigned to a club."

Abroad, even at Mouratoglou's in Nice, everything is so convenient. I'm welcomed in any condition, any rating. And not just me, but other players too. There are as many courts as you want. And there are also sparring sessions, a basket of balls, water, towels. Whatever you want, they'll bring it to you. And there are so many places.

You just need to call the club managers or Patrick in advance. And only in Russia do you have to pay. This is completely absurd.

You said you were offered to play for Kazakhstan, and you agreed. Am I mistaken?

"Yes, I was 19 or 20 years old. I won the 100,000-ruble singles and doubles. I was worth 100. They offered me the offer, and I accepted. Three months later, I crashed at the Kremlin and was out for three years. That was the end of the negotiations."

At that point, everyone told me I'd never play tennis again. Everyone was sure of it. All our coaches—I won't name names—every single one of them thought I'd never play again. Then, bam: in 2014, I qualified for the Kremlin and made it to the quarterfinals. Everyone was like, "Oh, hello." Well, hello.

Why did you agree to move to Kazakhstan?

"Not only did I agree. I would advise everyone to do the same. When you're a young player and they offer you full funding, it's a huge career boost. Unless, of course, you're the child of oligarchs, and you already have everything."

You have to do this for your career. Everyone who transfers gets excellent funding. You don't have to worry about anything. You have all the coaches, all the physio, doctors, sparring, full support. It's stupid to give that up, no?


- Even now?

– I would advise everyone to do this.

I thought that the situation with support from the FTR was better now.

"Now it's completely gone. It never was. No one ever helped me. They didn't help me at all in Russia. They didn't even give me a wild card. At 18, I was one of the top players in the Kremlin Cup qualifiers. I was number one in Russia in my year. CSKA asked me to play the Russian championship at the expense of the tournament. I went and won. At the awards ceremony, they said, 'Your prize is a wild card to the Kremlin Cup qualifier.' 'Did you know I was in the top five in the qualifiers? Why would I need it?' In the end, they gave it to someone else.

No one even thought about giving me a basis. Never in my life have anyone helped me in any way.

If you had moved to Kazakhstan and received support, would you have been expected to give something back in the future?

"I don't think so. Moreover, Kazakhstan even pays you a salary for playing for them."

– You've never had a sponsor. Have you ever received any offers?

"Yes, a lot, but they were all failures. Some asked for a huge percentage, others something else. It was never in my favor."

Did you ask for a percentage of the prize money?

- Yes.

- And in return?

"Some amount or travel expenses to tournaments. But I can travel myself. Why pay interest when, as children, we gave up the Mouratoglou we all dreamed of? Everyone saw me play when I was 17 or 18. I played well. Why would I need their options when I traveled all the way with my parents? Of course, I didn't want to pay any interest."

If someone wants to help properly, like they do abroad and in Europe, then fine. Anything else – no thanks.

– Who made the proposals?

– From people from tennis, companies. From everyone.

- From the oligarchs?

- That happened too.

– Donskoy was sponsored by billionaire Bokarev.

"I didn't get any from him, but I did get some from others. I won't name names. Plus, girls work differently. There were some not-so-great offers, too."

- "Come be my escort, and you'll also play tennis"?

"That happened, yes. Move there, live there, leave everything in Moscow behind. It became clear which way things were headed, and I said, 'Goodbye.' I didn't go into any more detail. Why do I need all these details?"

Did the oligarch personally propose this?

- Yes.

Is he a public figure that everyone knows?

– Yes, and it wasn't just one person. There were many such proposals. A lot.

– But even if you were kept, you could play tennis?

"That's unknown. I don't think so. Moving to, say, Monaco... I'm not sure those people would have given me the opportunity to play. And I found it funny, I thought, 'What nonsense?'"

And these offers came naturally. It wasn't like I came up to them and said, "Oh, I need something." I don't need anything.

Do you communicate with Ukrainian women?

"There are a couple of girls who talk and say hello. And then there are those who don't say hello at all. When I first got into a tournament against them, I had to go up to Tsurenko—and we were talking—and say hello just to get any response."

A counterexample is Katya Kozlova, who now lives in Germany and plays under the name Beindl. She communicates well, no problems. The Kichenkas communicate and say hello.

I understand that they need to save face for the federation. To show that they don't take photos with us, don't train with us, don't shake our hands. In that sense, I understand them. Perhaps, if I were on the other side, I would do the same. On the other hand, as Kostyuk puts it... Or Svitolina once said that we should either not play at all or move our families. But how are you going to do that? We have grandparents, 70-80 year olds. That's nonsense.

You said that the coach received threats because of working with you.

"Yes, there were reports that he supported Putin because he was working with the Russians. At one point, he actually became pro-Ukrainian, ha-ha-ha. He told me, 'Now they'll be accepted into the EU, and that'll be the end of it.' I started studying history and said, 'No, they've been wanting it for a long time, but they're not accepted.' He argued with me."

I remember the beginning of the training session—half an hour of arguing about the situation, when it would end, who was right and who was wrong. By the end, I was already saying, "Listen, I don't know anything and I don't want to know anything. There are things we don't know in detail, so let's not discuss them. Okay?"

When it all started in February 2022, I was in France. I got injured and had to stay in Europe for another three or four months. I couldn't fly home because the flights were canceled, plus they told me I shouldn't go back to Russia; I wouldn't be able to fly back. I had to wander around Europe.

– What do you think about Kasatkina, who changed her citizenship?

"After her interview, it was clear she'd be transitioning. Dasha received far more help than anyone else."


- Federation?

- Yes. And she said that they didn’t help her at all.

- How did they help her?

– Financially, with a wild card. And everything else.

Right now you're in the top 500. To break even, you need to be in the top 130."

"Not 130, much higher. But I earned some money and can afford to play some more."

- So you live on the money you earned earlier?

"Of course. Certainly not the same as now. I don't earn anything. But I can't say I spend much either."

 
#4 ·
very interesring interview. it shows what a c8nfident character she is.

it also throws a bad light at russias federation... only country to let their players pay for courts.

and the oligarch thing omg
 
#5 ·
So apparently she’s not wrong, she’s half Ukrainian 😂

But in all interesting interview, and very sad she didn’t get the support from her own federation. Am I understanding she accepted the offer from Kazakhstan and got injured and then it just ended there? 😢 but I like how she still supported the idea to take the sponsors and funding from other countries if they give it to you. Tennis is a very expensive sport especially if you’re not ranked high enough and I would think since tennis is the only international sport right now for Russia they would do better in funding its players, maybe that’s why Mirra hasn’t decided to play for France?

Im also glad to hear that she has spoken with some of Ukrainian players, I suspected as I have all along that it’s the Ukrainian federation pushing its players to save face and not be shown interacting with the Russians especially it’s top players Svitolina and Kostyuk.
 
#19 ·
I think I read that it didn’t work out exactly because of that - no funding from Irish Federation.

But in general, Ireland would make little sense for a proper pro player’s base. Outdoor conditions are extremely unpredictable at all times of year. If it’s not freezing, it’s raining, and if it’s not raining it’s super windy, and more often than not, it’s all three. Indoor facilities are limited in general, and who would the consistent hitting partners even be?

I’m making assumptions that Diatchenko had an Irish fancy man at some point (or maybe is enamoured with Irish men over those damn Oligarchs) and she always ends up back here. Because it ain’t for the tennis!
 
#7 ·
That's such a blunt unfiltered interview, loved it! She sounds like a balanced and confident lady. Great find, OP!
 
#8 ·
In Dublin. I flew there to train before the grass court season because my coach is Irish. It's a great club, called Carrickmines. It's very old, the logo looks like Wimbledon, and everyone plays and trains in white. It was cold, and I couldn't wear pants or leggings because I'd only brought colorful ones. I had to play in a skirt and socks.


This is one of the only clubs that will give me courts. Because I'm Russian, that's a problem in Ireland. Since 2022, all the clubs I've trained at before have been turning me down.

This hasn’t happened before?

"Until 2022, we were very well received. But now the coach called, and they told him I either had to say I was Ukrainian, or they wouldn't let me in."

– So they understand that you are Russian, but they ask you to lie?

"Yes, I have to lie, because there are Ukrainians among the club members. They might be upset, so I have to say I'm Ukrainian. The funny thing is, I really am half Ukrainian. My dad is Ukrainian, we're a mixed family. But I would never do such nonsense. The coach just told them off."

And you didn’t pay anything?

"Yes. The funny thing is, it's like that everywhere abroad. Wherever I go, the courts are free. It's only in Russia that I have to pay if I'm not assigned to a club."

Abroad, even at Mouratoglou's in Nice, everything is so convenient. I'm welcomed in any condition, any rating. And not just me, but other players too. There are as many courts as you want. And there are also sparring sessions, a basket of balls, water, towels. Whatever you want, they'll bring it to you. And there are so many places.

You just need to call the club managers or Patrick in advance. And only in Russia do you have to pay. This is completely absurd.

You said you were offered to play for Kazakhstan, and you agreed. Am I mistaken?

"Yes, I was 19 or 20 years old. I won the 100,000-ruble singles and doubles. I was worth 100. They offered me the offer, and I accepted. Three months later, I crashed at the Kremlin and was out for three years. That was the end of the negotiations."

At that point, everyone told me I'd never play tennis again. Everyone was sure of it. All our coaches—I won't name names—every single one of them thought I'd never play again. Then, bam: in 2014, I qualified for the Kremlin and made it to the quarterfinals. Everyone was like, "Oh, hello." Well, hello.

Why did you agree to move to Kazakhstan?

"Not only did I agree. I would advise everyone to do the same. When you're a young player and they offer you full funding, it's a huge career boost. Unless, of course, you're the child of oligarchs, and you already have everything."

You have to do this for your career. Everyone who transfers gets excellent funding. You don't have to worry about anything. You have all the coaches, all the physio, doctors, sparring, full support. It's stupid to give that up, no?


- Even now?

– I would advise everyone to do this.

I thought that the situation with support from the FTR was better now.

"Now it's completely gone. It never was. No one ever helped me. They didn't help me at all in Russia. They didn't even give me a wild card. At 18, I was one of the top players in the Kremlin Cup qualifiers. I was number one in Russia in my year. CSKA asked me to play the Russian championship at the expense of the tournament. I went and won. At the awards ceremony, they said, 'Your prize is a wild card to the Kremlin Cup qualifier.' 'Did you know I was in the top five in the qualifiers? Why would I need it?' In the end, they gave it to someone else.

No one even thought about giving me a basis. Never in my life have anyone helped me in any way.

If you had moved to Kazakhstan and received support, would you have been expected to give something back in the future?

"I don't think so. Moreover, Kazakhstan even pays you a salary for playing for them."

– You've never had a sponsor. Have you ever received any offers?

"Yes, a lot, but they were all failures. Some asked for a huge percentage, others something else. It was never in my favor."

Did you ask for a percentage of the prize money?

- Yes.

- And in return?

"Some amount or travel expenses to tournaments. But I can travel myself. Why pay interest when, as children, we gave up the Mouratoglou we all dreamed of? Everyone saw me play when I was 17 or 18. I played well. Why would I need their options when I traveled all the way with my parents? Of course, I didn't want to pay any interest."

If someone wants to help properly, like they do abroad and in Europe, then fine. Anything else – no thanks.

– Who made the proposals?

– From people from tennis, companies. From everyone.

- From the oligarchs?

- That happened too.

– Donskoy was sponsored by billionaire Bokarev.

"I didn't get any from him, but I did get some from others. I won't name names. Plus, girls work differently. There were some not-so-great offers, too."

- "Come be my escort, and you'll also play tennis"?

"That happened, yes. Move there, live there, leave everything in Moscow behind. It became clear which way things were headed, and I said, 'Goodbye.' I didn't go into any more detail. Why do I need all these details?"

Did the oligarch personally propose this?

- Yes.

Is he a public figure that everyone knows?

– Yes, and it wasn't just one person. There were many such proposals. A lot.

– But even if you were kept, you could play tennis?

"That's unknown. I don't think so. Moving to, say, Monaco... I'm not sure those people would have given me the opportunity to play. And I found it funny, I thought, 'What nonsense?'"

And these offers came naturally. It wasn't like I came up to them and said, "Oh, I need something." I don't need anything.

Do you communicate with Ukrainian women?

"There are a couple of girls who talk and say hello. And then there are those who don't say hello at all. When I first got into a tournament against them, I had to go up to Tsurenko—and we were talking—and say hello just to get any response."

A counterexample is Katya Kozlova, who now lives in Germany and plays under the name Beindl. She communicates well, no problems. The Kichenkas communicate and say hello.

I understand that they need to save face for the federation. To show that they don't take photos with us, don't train with us, don't shake our hands. In that sense, I understand them. Perhaps, if I were on the other side, I would do the same. On the other hand, as Kostyuk puts it... Or Svitolina once said that we should either not play at all or move our families. But how are you going to do that? We have grandparents, 70-80 year olds. That's nonsense.

You said that the coach received threats because of working with you.

"Yes, there were reports that he supported Putin because he was working with the Russians. At one point, he actually became pro-Ukrainian, ha-ha-ha. He told me, 'Now they'll be accepted into the EU, and that'll be the end of it.' I started studying history and said, 'No, they've been wanting it for a long time, but they're not accepted.' He argued with me."

I remember the beginning of the training session—half an hour of arguing about the situation, when it would end, who was right and who was wrong. By the end, I was already saying, "Listen, I don't know anything and I don't want to know anything. There are things we don't know in detail, so let's not discuss them. Okay?"

When it all started in February 2022, I was in France. I got injured and had to stay in Europe for another three or four months. I couldn't fly home because the flights were canceled, plus they told me I shouldn't go back to Russia; I wouldn't be able to fly back. I had to wander around Europe.

– What do you think about Kasatkina, who changed her citizenship?

"After her interview, it was clear she'd be transitioning. Dasha received far more help than anyone else."


- Federation?

- Yes. And she said that they didn’t help her at all.

- How did they help her?

– Financially, with a wild card. And everything else.

Right now you're in the top 500. To break even, you need to be in the top 130."

"Not 130, much higher. But I earned some money and can afford to play some more."

- So you live on the money you earned earlier?

"Of course. Certainly not the same as now. I don't earn anything. But I can't say I spend much either."

this interview is very propaganda coded

I also doubt that Irish tennis clubs need to know nationality whatsoever to book a court and even if they did - who’s going to know by looking at her to get upset?
 
#10 ·
#11 ·
I’ve booked into many clubs in Ireland for practice or tournaments including the one mentioned and not once been asked my nationality.

If you’re joining a club as a member I’ve never been asked it either. Maybe someone mentioned she should keep being Russian to herself in light of it being a more pro Ukraine space in terms of “keeping the peace” and she has embellished that.
 
#12 ·
She said A LOT of other stuff in this interview :lol2:
Like shading Alize Cornet who ditched her in doubles without any explanations once and then stopped talking to her.
Or saying Kasatkina shouldn't have talked trash about Russia because it's your country no matter what, and that her changing citizenship to Australia isn't as justifiable as those who do it with Kazakhstan for financial reasons.
Or openly admitting she celebrated the annexation of Crimea because "it's historical justice".

So, yeah.
 
#14 ·
She said A LOT of other stuff in this interview :lol2:
Like shading Alize Cornet who ditched her in doubles without any explanations once and then stopped talking to her.
Or saying Kasatkina shouldn't have talked trash about Russia because it's your country no matter what, and that her changing citizenship to Australia isn't as justifiable as those who do it with Kazakhstan for financial reasons.
Or openly admitting she celebrated the annexation of Crimea because "it's historical justice".

So, yeah.
Sounds awful. Luckily I never support her
 
#16 · (Edited)
She has no filter but jeez...she's such a hypocrite :oops:

Switching countries for money is totally OK for her but if there's something more going on, like happened with Dasha, then it's wrong :scratch:
 
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#21 ·
Private clubs can choose who they invite. It's not as bad as in pre-Open days when black and Jewish players were routinely excluded from clubs. Racism would likely be illegal in most countries but this would have been a political decision. Not sure what her point is in raising it. Russian tennis players are fortunate to be in an individual sport with strong players associations who back their right to compete.
 
#22 ·
Great interview, she wasn't holding back, hah. She also seems to know a lot about everyone, considering how little she plays.

They covered a ton of different topics, including lots of details about life on tour, and the interviewer didn’t shy away from challenging her on some of the more questionable things she said.


The beginning reads like a horror, she describes her injuries and struggles in detail, and her mother's death. Then at some point it turns into a tragicomedy:

- But Dasha didn't say that Russia sucks.

She said so in an interview.

- She said that she didn’t like the laws.

"I don't remember exactly what words she used. But she didn't say very nice things about our country. That's for sure. I was at a tournament at the time, and Manyukova, one of our tennis coaches, was standing on the court with me. She was shocked by Dasha's interview. So shocked."

Dasha went around the federation and said they never helped her, even though they did a lot. Even taking the wild card for the Kremlin, she always got one. And they supported her financially.

– If Kasatkina criticized the government rather than the country, is that acceptable?

- No. :tears:

– Can’t you criticize the authorities?

- I don't think so. This is your country, your homeland.

She comes off a bit ungrateful. Who’s going to support a player with hardly any results who barely competes? And yet she still had deals with Nike and the like, mostly because of her looks.


For someone who complains about not getting support she sure talks a lot about turning down support.
She can afford it, clearly. She's had so many surgeries, and she spends a lot of time in Italy, France, etc. I guess her parents are wealthy.

"– Do you keep your dresses in your wardrobe or do you carry them with you?

"I have some in my wardrobe, but I take a lot of things with me. That's a problem. When I fly, I have to fit everything into two large suitcases. That means two 30-kg suitcases, plus another 10 kg in my carry-on. I usually return home with an extra suitcase or two because I'm shopping." :lol2:



and that her changing citizenship to Australia isn't as justifiable as those who do it with Kazakhstan for financial reasons.
But that’s not the whole picture. She argues it was fine for her and others to want to go Kazakh because they do it at the beginning of their pro careers when they arguably need the most support. On the other hand, Kasatkina who, according to her, got a lot of support from the federation (even though she also claims in the interview that they offer very little or no help?), did it when she was already financially very secure. Of course, she completely ignores the political and gay angle, which clearly plays a big part. I am sure she considers it a betrayal, based on her other views.

I still think she is a hypocrite, but I can understand where she is coming from, speaking from a purely career perspective.
 
#28 ·
But that’s not the whole picture. She argues it was fine for her and others to want to go Kazakh because they do it at the beginning of their pro careers when they arguably need the most support. On the other hand, Kasatkina who, according to her, got a lot of support from the federation (even though she also claims in the interview that they offer very little or no help?), did it when she was already financially very secure. Of course, she completely ignores the political and gay angle, which clearly plays a big part. I am sure she considers it a betrayal, based on her other views.
I believe it's also because she views Kazakhstan as Russia 2.0, or least the most similar to it, so it's not a big deal to switch because it's obviously just for the money and essentially you remain Russian. I can't be bothered to read the interview again, but I believe she also compared it to switching to France (as an example) where they'd make you change your ways and whatnot. While with Kazakhstan, no one expects anything of you, only to bear KAZ next to your name, in a nutshell.
And she made sure to point out that she DOES NOT find her reasoning hypocritical. :lol2:
It's also interesting how she openly states she's half-Ukrainian, but then goes on to show complete disregard (but not disdain!) for all things Ukraine. The identity issue is still incredibly complex in ex-USSR, even after the war.
 
#29 ·
I’ve booked into many clubs in Ireland for practice or tournaments including the one mentioned and not once been asked my nationality.

If you’re joining a club as a member I’ve never been asked it either. Maybe someone mentioned she should keep being Russian to herself in light of it being a more pro Ukraine space in terms of “keeping the peace” and she has embellished that.
I also think it’s BS as there are multiple Russians in the club I play in and nobody gives AF. More like them telling her “please keep your awful political options to your self when playing here if possible!?”.
^ Come on, guys... Pro players will attract significantly more attention in any club than the average member does. And so it's definitely within the realm of possibilities that pro players will be more highly scrutinized than will the average member. No-one cares about the average member. But, as pro players will attract attention, the reputation of the club is directly tied into that.

That said, I've always found that this blanket discrimination and prejudice against Russian players simply because of where they were born is no different than any other discrimination or prejudice. But somehow - and incredibly hypocritically -, it is far more accepted against Russian players than it is in any other context.
And that's not only very wrong, but is also very sad.
 
#38 ·
The anti-Russia sentiment in Ireland (not saying it’s in any way pro) became massively secondary to the anti-Israel sentiment that is here currently and thus I don’t think people feel as strongly against as they may have this time in 2022. I also really cannot imagine a Russian player being blocked from knocking up, and using facilities here, considering also that there is no limitation on them playing on the tour in general.

While I also agree that there would be more eyeballs on pro player coming to a private club like Carrickmines, reading between the lines of this interview, and considering she clearly is outspoken against what the sentiment would be in Ireland, it sounds more like her coach was just telling her to keep her mouth shut.