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how old were you when it was your first time??
were you nervous??
im seeing this guy and i think its about time and im very nervous??
but dont want him to know coz he is older and more experienced
 
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Is he gay? If so, tell him yourself...
 

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I think no matter how old you are, your first time will always makes you nervous. It is normal to be. Besides, like the others said, I believe the other guy should know that it is your first time if you really think you are going to have sex with him. It will probably helps you to feel a bit less nervous and your partner will act differently. Finally, first time happen only once. So, don’t put too much pressure on this, you will have plenty of occasions again. Just try to enjoy it and keep a good feeling about it, that’s the most important thing.
 

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Keith said:
Let him know!

I was 17. Of course I was nervous - But it was over before I even knew it.
Same. Except i didnt let him know and that i was 22.

I was good cos he still thinks it wasn't my first time :cool:
 

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I was quite young, so he knew I was "new" to it all.

Be Honest with him, if he is worth a pinch of salt, he will show you and try and teach you the best of things that can happen between two men :)
 
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I was quite young, so he knew I was "new" to it all.

Be Honest with him, if he is worth a pinch of salt, he will show you and try and teach you the best of things that can happen between two men :)
Well said Flat!!!! ;)
 

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I wanted to add this. There is nothing to be ashamed of in the fact that this is your first time. So, no need to hide it. You wont be superior or inferior to him because of that.
 

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Mase said:
Well said Flat!!!! ;)
Well Mase I was shown that the first time and have had the pleasure of passing that on 2 times in my life and I always thank that person for making me feel as if no one exsisted but me that night. I know it is a bit cliche, but that is how he made me feel and I hope the 2 inexperienced guys (ok, Virgins :p) I was with later on feel the same :)
 

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The fact that I had no one to talk to about it maybe made it better, cuz I didn't think about it. I don't know, I loved him.

I've never de-virginized someone.
 

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15 virgin, I hope to stay that wayyy until I find someone I ACTUALLY LOVE! and not puppy love.
 
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My first time was my best... I wand I'll nEcer forget it... I just discovered that I could experience love and pleasure and orgasm and love and pleasure...
Just enjoy, he'll be glad and flattered this is your first time!
 

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You wont be superior or inferior to him because of that.
Too bad, mine was our 1st time, when I was 19.
 

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20. i was nervous during dinner because he hadn't told me he was gay, but i was suspecting, and i didn't know what was gonna happen.

but when the sex came, HELL i wasn't nervous. why would i be nervous after having seen it in porn movies only like 1000000000000 times? i just did an imitation of a certain pornstar. i am SURE my technique and foreplay sucked. my foreplay sucks to this day...it's like, foreplay??why bother? i just wanna fuck or get fucked!
(and straight boys, dont tell me you dont pick up sex tips from pornos)

ANYWAY, why be nervous. have confidence and go in and have fun!! that's what it's all about--FUN!! please, how many people's first times were great or memorable? i've had much much better sex many times after the first. the first was dorky and i dont even care.and neither should you.

but, the bottomline--whether you tell him or not, i think he'll figure it out that you're new to this. oh relax!! no one is born having had sex with 10 people.

remember the most important part=====USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!!
 

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Whenever you decide to have sex for the first time, make sure it's your decision, not his. If you decide to have it, make sure he doesn't make you do something you don't want to do! If you're not comfortable with it, don't do it!

I was 15 and it was memorable because we both pretended we were asleep and that it was our unconscience that was taking off our clothes and...
 

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I'm still a virgin....I'm waiting for true Lurve!
 

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omg.... i'm 15, still a virgin.. turning 16 on the 28th june:D hoping to find someone i love to have sex with.... good luck ozfan :)
 

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Keith said:
Let him know!

I was 17. Of course I was nervous - But it was over before I even knew it.
You got him off that quick, Keith!? Haha, sorry, I couldn't resist.

I was 18, I think, just turned 18 I believe.

I was nervous, but honestly, I wasn't nearly as nervous as I always thought I would be. It wasn't the best though, it was the first for both of us. HAHA!

It only gets better, thats the good thing. :)
 
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