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Moderator ^bibi^ should be removed from his function

This moderator ^bibi^ has misused his function as moderator. He has badrepped me for no good reason at all. He accuses me of twisting the truth, while I did nothing of the sort. I will explain the situation from the beginning without "twisting the truth"

I sent him a private message on Friday night with the question of adding Clijsters' link to the Players Website List Thread. I got no response on this message while I could see he was online at the time I sent him a second message (on Saturday evening). So there was approximately 18 hours between my first and second message. He still didn't reply although he was clearly online (I could see so in his profile). After 30 minutes I sent him a third message. After this message he finally responded in a brutal manner. This can be read in the thread "Clijsters Exclusion in Players Website Thread".

To make a long story short, all he had to do was give me a short reply that he would add her website link in the near future. If one does not respond (while being online), it comes over as ignoring a person. I don't think I speak for myself in this issue.

So he already misused his function by responding to me in such a brutal manner, but if this wasn't enough, he defends himself in the above named thread (saying that I twisted the truth), while that thread was already closed by an administrator (meaning that I can't reply to his post). Then he also has the nerve to give me a personal bad rep by repeating that I twisted the truth. I don't want to read his bad rep in my user CP, because I feel I have done nothing wrong. He was behaving childish, not me.

All this wouldn't be a problem if this person wasn't a moderator. I could just simply put him on my ignore list, but alas, since he's a moderator, I can't even put him on my ignore list.

I hope this issue can be solved in any way, because I definitely feel mistreated here. It wasn't my intention in any way to get mixed up in this sort of conflict by simply asking if a players' website could be added to a thread...
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I am not sure which is the correct story cause Bibi's is a bit different, but if this is true, then yes, Bibi must be removed. Seriously, is it so hard to answer " Thanks for notifying. It will be added on my next update.".
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That's an extremely terrible and heartbreaking experience, you poor little thing. You should get a treatment
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That's an extremely terrible and heartbreaking experience, you poor little thing. You should get a treatment
Thanks for being so sarcastic. I don't to want to read his bad rep in my user CP. I don't give him that pleasure, especially because I didn't do anything wrong.
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I believe your rather pointless whining gives him even more pleasure. Can't you just ignore the bad rep? Pretend it doesn't exist?
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I am not sure which is the correct story cause Bibi's is a bit different, but if this is true, then yes, Bibi must be removed. Seriously, is it so hard to answer " Thanks for notifying. It will be added on my next update.".
There's a big lie in his story. He makes it seem I already sent him a second message 30 minutes after the first one. This is entirely false, since my first message was on Friday night and I only got to the site the next evening (so approximately 18 hours had passed). Then I checked if he was online and sent him a second message asking him: "Did you read my message?". Again he didn't reply and that's why I sent him a third message after 30 minutes. But he chooses to ignore the first part of the story, because it conveniently fits him...
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I hope this issue can be solved in any way, because I definitely feel mistreated here. It wasn't my intention in any way to get mixed up in this sort of conflict by simply asking if a players' website could be added to a thread...
This wasn't your initial demand

Your initial demand was to accusing me of being biaised because Justine's website was there and not Kim's, which all the way has been your sole problem in here.

Because I'm online dosen't mean I go to my PM every minute.

Now, I will bring your case to the admins as I'm fed up of being harassed just because I give my time to help this forum being not too much of a mess.

And, I'll really stand to this one, but could you PLEASE get a life, this is getting ridiculous.

This can't last. This misery can't last. I must remember that and try to control myself. Nothing lasts really. Neither happiness nor despair. Not even life lasts very long. There'll come a time in the future when I shan't mind about this anymore, when I can look back and say quite peacefully and cheerfully how silly I was. No, no, I don't want that time to come ever. I want to remember every minute, always, always to the end of my days.
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I believe your rather pointless whining gives him even more pleasure. Can't you just ignore the bad rep? Pretend it doesn't exist?
Nope, because it's there. I have to see it and reminded about it every time I open my user CP. This could be solved, if I could put him on ignore. But since he's a moderator, I can't do this.
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Why don't you just wait ? Is it a matter or life or death if your website is not added ? I have sent mine a few days ago, and bibi did it today, which is already good enough. I'm glad people will see my website, it's not because it would have been posted yesterday instead of today that it's gonna chance the future of your website.
You both should calm down, there are way bigger problems in the life than this kind of misunderstood.
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This wasn't your initial demand

Your initial demand was to accusing me of being biaised because Justine's website was there and not Kim's, which all the way has been your sole problem in here.

Because I'm online dosen't mean I go to my PM every minute.

Now, I will bring your case to the admins as I'm fed up of being harassed just because I give my time to help this forum being not too much of a mess.

And, I'll really stand to this one, but could you PLEASE get a life, this is getting ridiculous.
My initial demand was if you could add Clijsters website link to the thread. You probably don't have my first message anymore. You probably erased it for your convenience. After your brutal response to my third message, I asked that question about Henin. But I didn't accuse you in any way of being biased. That's your interpretation and isn't even to the point of this discussion. You just look for little things to discredit me.

You don't have to go to your PM every minute. My second message only came 18 hours after my first. In that second message I asked "Did you read my message?", but you still didn't respond. And then I'm not allowed to think that you may possibly be ignoring me? You made a mistake and you still can't admit it. That's also why you responded to me in such a childish manner (that I should get a life, etc.)
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I believe your rather pointless whining gives him even more pleasure. Can't you just ignore the bad rep? Pretend it doesn't exist?
Why do you feel the need to comment everything? You tell everyone to ignore certain things after making sarcastic points. Why don't you follow some of your advices?

I think bibi is correct in this case. Just because he doesn't add the website right away doesn't mean he ignores it.

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May I see that "BRUTAL response"? . I need a laugh, I'm quite moody right now.
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Why do you feel the need to comment everything? You tell everyone to ignore certain things after making sarcastic points. Why don't you follow some of your advices?
Yet again, you're making a big deal out of my post. It's a public forum, I think I'm still allowed to comment on whatever I want
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I think bibi is correct in this case. Just because he doesn't add the website right away doesn't mean he ignores it.
That isn't the point. He should have sent me a confirmation message that he would do so in the near future. He didn't even respond to me after I asked him "Did you read my message?". At that point, I thought he was ignoring my demand.
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May I see that "BRUTAL response"? . I need a laugh, I'm quite moody right now.
"1) Please get a life
2) The site will be added in the next update, now please try to breathe"

It came off as brutal/childish, because he didn't have a reason to respond like that, especially after not responding to my first two messages.
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