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Weinstein is a monster but he is just the first one to get called-out by the media. Debra Winger dared to call-out a few guys back in the 80s (most, if not all, of them are dead now) and she was just portrayed as a loud drud addict that everybody hated in Hollywood. She was treated like a pariah (not unlike McGowan) and by the mid-90s she disappeared from mainstream films and TV.

It was important that Terry Crews came forward with his case, too. The Singer case pretty much died because not a lot of guys are willing to recognize that they have been abused. Abuse is a very serious problem in Hollywood. Weinstein is just the tip of the iceberg.
Oh yeah. Bryan Singer is another abuser and with underage guys even
This industry is sick with all the stories that are coming out
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What's so special about film industry where actors and actresses chose silence over naming the perpetrators so as to keep their own false careers going? A clean-house is needed but they will never do it because of money.
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There's always been a casting couch in Hollywood. Explains how some really bad actresses continue to get work.
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"There is no such thing as the patriarchy or rape culture! "

Some people I just... ugh

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He, and his HW cohorts, need to be castrated without anesthetic and then locked up and the key thrown away.
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It's sad and disappointing to hear. I was a massive fan of Miramax films from Shakespeare in Love to Chicago. I loved how he pushed actresses to Oscar glory or near Oscar glory. Very disappointing.

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It's sad and disappointing to hear. I was a massive fan of Miramax films from Shakespeare in Love to Chicago. I loved how he pushed actresses to Oscar glory or near Oscar glory. Very disappointing.
Now that Harvey lost his power (I still believe he drew the short straw of a Hollywood power struggle and someone decided to dish all the dirt he had accumulated throughout the years) which means there is another invisible hand controlling Hollywood. I won't be surprised there is a hidden HW out there and the actors are all keeping mum.
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Also - as much as I adore Queen Meryl - she is horribly exposed in this whole Weinstein drama with her complete double standard.

https://www.vogue.com/article/meryl-...in-allegations

http://www.dailywire.com/news/22096/...-james-barrett

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...or-Harvey.html
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as awful and numbing as the whole thing is, i'm not that surprised that it's harvey weinstein. this is hollywood, and he's been a powerful man with some sort of reputation there.


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Ben Affleck condemned Harvey Weinstein — then apologized for groping an actress on MTV | Washington Post

Ben Affleck dubbed "Buttman" as more groping allegations emerge | Telegraph

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Harvey Weinstein: English actor says alleged sexual assault ruined her film career

Exclusive: Sophie Dix says encounter at the Savoy hotel when she was 22 was ‘the single most damaging thing that’s happened in my life’

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An English actor who was on the brink of a career in the British film industry in the 1990s has told how her trajectory was “massively cut down” after an alleged sexual assault by Harvey Weinstein in a London hotel.

Sophie Dix claimed the Hollywood mogul performed an unwelcome sexual act in her presence after she was invited up his room at the Savoy hotel “to watch some rushes” – a film production term for unprocessed footage from a day’s filming.

She now says that what happened next was “the single most damaging thing that’s happened in my life”.

Dix had been cast in a new film with Colin Firth in 1990. Having been excited about her big break, she says that she accepted Weinstein’s invitation “naively”.

Once in the hotel room, “all the alarm bells starting ringing” and “within a heartbeat” she found herself pushed on the bed with him “tugging at her clothes”.

The young actor, who was 22 at the time, says that she managed to bolt to the bathroom and after some time in hiding opted to make an escape. She opened the door and found him facing her “standing there masturbating”.

The incident left her traumatised and depressed. She “took to the bed for six months” and concluded that the movies were not for her. “I decided if this what being an actress is like, I don’t want it,” she said.

Dix, now 48 and a screenwriter, had thought she was on verge of a film career after appearing alongside Colin Firth and Donald Pleasance in a film called The Hour of the Pig in the UK and The Advocate in the USA. When Weinstein invited her to dinner at Joe Allen, an American restaurant in Covent Garden frequented by people in the entertainment business, she said she “felt flattered”.

She had met Weinstein socially with colleagues in the industry, but was nervous about the one-to-one because he was one of the most powerful men in Hollywood.
Before I knew it, he started trying to pull my clothes off and pin me down and I just kept saying ‘no, no, no’
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“Maybe I went to talk about the film, maybe I went because it was a dinner in Joe Allen with someone from Hollywood. The point was, I had met him before I was doing a film with him. It was an exciting time of my life. I was open and trusting and I had never met a predator; I had never considered a predator,” she said.

“He made sure the wine was flowing,” she recalls. He told her he was “struggling with scenes” in another film and explained she might be able to help if she came to his room to watch the rushes. “I went trustingly and naively perhaps ... I suppose I just took it at face value,” she said.

“As soon as I was in there, I realised it was a terrible mistake. I got to the hotel room, I remember talk of a massage and I thought that was pretty gross. I think he showed me his big back and I found that pretty horrid.

Harvey Weinstein at the Cannes film festival in 2015. Photograph: Bertrand Langlois/AFP/Getty Images “Then before I knew it, he started trying to pull my clothes off and pin me down and I just kept saying, ‘No, no, no.’ But he was really forceful. I remember him pulling at my trousers and stuff and looming over me and I just sort of – I am a big, strong girl and I bolted … ran for the bathroom and locked the door.”

“I was in there for a while, I think. He went very quiet. After a while I remember opening the door and seeing him just there facing the door, masturbating, so I quickly closed the door again and locked it. Then when I heard room service come to the door, I just ran,” she said.

Dix told her family, friends and colleagues about the incident at the time, but has decided 26 years later to tell the story more widely because for the first time she feels it will make a difference.

“I was very, very vocal about it at the time. I didn’t want to own it. I wanted people to take it away from me. But I was met with a wall of silence. People who were involved in the film were great, my friends and my family were amazing and very compassionate, but people in the industry didn’t want to know about it, they didn’t want to hear.

She considered going to police and discussed the incident with other women, but they felt they would be “trashed” and lose their careers.

She also vowed never to see Weinstein again, but months later she said she got what she felt was a phone call from him telling her to “stop talking”. Then over Christmas that year, when her family were away to visit her brother in Australia, Weinstein called again.

She believes it was Christmas Day, but cannot be certain. She recalls she had been at friends’ for dinner and was back at her home in north London when the phone rang. It was a call that she said terrified her.

“’This is Harvey. How are you?’ I was paralysed. There was no one in the house, I remember … and then he said: ‘It’s a new year, and I’ve decided to turn over a new leaf and I’m going to start with you, and I’m going to say I’m sorry and is there anything I can do for you?’

“I remember those were his exact words. I don’t know if he meant money. I didn’t think what he meant at the time. I knew very definitely I was speaking to a tape-recorded situation and I said, ‘No, thank you,’” she said. “It was awful. I felt frightened. I was alone in the house. It was like further abuse, further trauma.”

Dix went on to have roles in television series such as ITV’s Soldier Soldier, but she never got another movie role and she now concentrates on her work as a screenwriter.

“I had done some TV and stuff before, that but this was my big movie break. I still had a decent acting career, but it was all in TV. I never really had a film career. I think my film career was massively cut short.
She hopes speaking out could help change what she describes as a “misogynist” and “antiquated” industry where “men hitting on women” in the workplace is accepted. “I told a lot of people who I thought might be capable of action, and I realised their hands were tied and they weren’t willing to help me in the way I hoped, so I just buried it.

“You think you go into the film business because you think it is this free-thinking, liberal-minded industry, but actually it could not be more opposite. It is as antiquated, as sexist and rigged as they come.

“What I’m interested in talking about is the aftermath of a trauma like that. I’ve had friends call this week after the New York Times pieces came out, some who are now really famous, who knew about it at the time, and they say: ‘This was the moment it changed for you.’

“It was massively damaging. It’s the single most damaging thing that’s happened in my life.”

She said she buried her memories of the incident until, this week, dozens of actors from Angeline Jolie and Gwyneth Paltrow to Cara Delevingne stepped forward with allegations of unwelcome sexual overtures and assault. London and New York police have also said they have opened unspecified investigations into Weinstein.

Weinstein said he realised his behaviour with colleagues “has caused a lot of pain and I sincerely apologise for it” when the first allegations of sexual misconduct emerged a week ago.

He has subsequently “unequivocally denied” any allegations of non-consensual sex, and a spokeswoman has said that he never retaliated against women who refused his sexual advances.

“Mr Weinstein obviously can’t speak to anonymous allegations, but with respect to any women who have made allegations on the record, Mr Weinstein believes that all of these relationships were consensual.”

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‘Dawson’s Creek’ star James Van Der Beek says male executive groped him



?Dawson?s Creek? star James Van Der Beek says male executive groped him | myfox8.com


Women aren’t the only ones compelled to share their stories in the wake of the Harvey Weinstein scandal.
Actor James Van Der Beek revealed in a series of tweets that he was groped by a male executive.
The “Dawson’s Creek” star tweeted late Wednesday about Weinstein, who has been accused of raping women and harassing them. His alleged actions were detailed in two explosive stories, published in the New York Times and the New Yorker magazine.
“For anyone judging the women who stayed silent, read this for perspective,” Van Der Beek wrote. “Also for anyone brushing off harassment as ‘boys being boys.'”


“What Weinstein is being accused of is criminal,” the actor said. “What he’s admitted to is unacceptable – in any industry. I applaud everybody speaking out.”


The 40-year-old actor then added, “I’ve had my a** grabbed by older, powerful men, I’ve had them corner me in inappropriate sexual conversations when I was much younger.”
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