i just find it terrible that some people just call the shots in this forum! it's not because you are a senior member that you have the right to scare junior members off to post anything that they find valuable to post. I'm not talking about you fifi, i think the person i'm talking to now, knows i'm talking to her!
you just don't hurt people like that, not even with good intentions!
people have stopped posting because of these kind of comments, and i just cannot stand seeing it possibly happening again ... you realy should think before you post anything! And believe me, i have thought about posting this, and i think it's the right thing to say!