Originally Posted by lienie18
wow kattie you made the tears come into my eyes..what you say is so true..It does sound like they 'have to end it' and I'm also sure they still love each other. I mean, it's not possible that one day you're planning a wedding and love each other deeply, and the other day it all stops. I wish we had an explanation, but I don't think kim will write a diary now. Kinda understandable. ..
It's shocking news, especially because I'm 100% convinced they really loved each other dearly.
We can speculate to death about this, I don't expect that they will give an explanation soon, and it's nobody's business than theirs of course, but on the other hand I'm not totally falling off my chair either.
You can love each other, but at the same time there can be things intervening to stay a couple.
I believe the cause might be found there.
When you're preparing for a wedding, it's a very stressful period, or at least it can be one, but it's certainly a period where a lot of things are tested. Family matters, practical things, you have to arrange, agree upon so much (from silly things like flowers to serious business re possessions, prenuptials or whatever) while there are always people (usually read family) trying to have things their way, or to have a thing or two to say in the matter.
Speaking personal for once, from my own painful experience, I must say that sometimes I'm surprised that not many more couples break up in the light of a wedding.
I think it's a very, very sad affair if there is still enough love between the couple, as I think this is the case here for them.
Well, I just hope that they both can find a solution (maybe an idle wish of me
) and if not, than I hope they can get over this extremely painful period.
I won't start blaming Lleyton at all, or Kim, or whoever, such situations usually have not one bad person, and one good in the couple. And I certainly don't see Lleyton having been cheating on Kim or so, he was way too serious re her, way too much in love. So I am inclined to think that there were other things going on.
Just so very, very sad.
And still a fan of Kim AND Lleyton, for that matter.
Now I have to kick myself as I have to be off here and do some work.
Big HUG to every CCLer.
edited for spelling errors