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Old Feb 3rd, 2013, 02:41 PM   #196
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there is no sane reasons not to allow two people register their relations, moreover it will settle up all this problems with inheritance etc....

BUT, adoption of children should be allowed only to heterosexual pairs, because children should have mother and father and not parent1/parent2. WHY? because no second father can substitute mother and vice versa . (ready to get a huge number of Bad Reps from those whose opinion is "the only one which is always right")

already got one from CanIGetAWhat , will continue counting )))
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Old Feb 3rd, 2013, 03:11 PM   #197
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What about these orphan kids ?
These single moms/dads raising their kid?
Step family and no bounds with the father/mother who is gone ? etc etc
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Old Feb 3rd, 2013, 03:23 PM   #198
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What about these orphan kids ?
These single moms/dads raising their kid?
Step family and no bounds with the father/mother who is gone ? etc etc

these are great problems of contemporary world , why should government make the matter worse? My mother had stepfather , it's different situation ... i don't think she would have liked to have second mother instead of stepfather ....

my first word in my life was "Мама" (mother) .... not "Parent number 1" , i think yours too
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Old Feb 3rd, 2013, 03:45 PM   #199
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these are great problems of contemporary world , why should government make the matter worse? My mother had stepfather , it's different situation ... i don't think she would have liked to have second mother instead of stepfather ....

my first word in my life was "Мама" (mother) .... not "Parent number 1" , i think yours too
No, they would just call them "dad" and "dad" or "mom" "mommy"..
What about these parents who beat up their kids ? that's not a problem of our current world as it has always existed. Really, as long as a family provides some love and care and all to the kids, where is the problem? they will have maternal and/or paternal figures in their entourage so
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these are great problems of contemporary world , why should government make the matter worse? My mother had stepfather , it's different situation ... i don't think she would have liked to have second mother instead of stepfather ....

my first word in my life was "Мама" (mother) .... not "Parent number 1" , i think yours too
No, I would hope that your mother would have preferred a life that is happy no matter who raised her.

You are out of control, and obviously a hateful idiot. If two loving people are committed to providing a home to a child who doesn't have one, the government - and narrow-minded people like yourself - shouldn't get in the way of that. Apparently for all the bullshit you spew about how a mother-father family is best for children, you have not thought at all about what you rob other children who are being offered homes by same-sex couples.
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If Tomas would take your closeted ass you'd be out campaigning for gay marriage right now.
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Old Feb 3rd, 2013, 05:24 PM   #202
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No, I would hope that your mother would have preferred a life that is happy no matter who raised her.

You are out of control, and obviously a hateful idiot. If two loving people are committed to providing a home to a child who doesn't have one, the government - and narrow-minded people like yourself - shouldn't get in the way of that. Apparently for all the bullshit you spew about how a mother-father family is best for children, you have not thought at all about what you rob other children who are being offered homes by same-sex couples.
go and ask 4 y,o children in the orphanage about who are they waiting for ? do you really think they want father + father? I'm sure they are dreaming about the mother which will very soon pick them up, it's natural. Why should government force them get parents of the same sex, why should government force these children be deprived of having mother ever? Just to give them better conditions and a roof for living?
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go and ask 4 y,o children in the orphanage about who are they waiting for ? do you really think they want father + father? I'm sure they are dreaming about the mother which will very soon pick them up, it's natural.
Possibly, because society has pushed images of the "ideal" "nuclear family" at every turn (Though if you told a little orphan that his parents will be two women or two men he would not be disgusted and refuse, he would be happy to finally have a family). But logically that's not good enough of a reason to deny gay couples from adopting. JUST LIKE IN THE OTHER THREAD you have no scientific basis for your claims. Because every scientific study done on same-sex parents has found that the children of same-sex parents are just as happy and well-adjusted as children of opposite-sex parents. And actually, if I recall, one actually found that children of two women are MORE adjusted and happy on average than children of any other parents. But I know this was a waste of a post, because scientific studies aren't going to convince you of anything. It just "feels wrong" to you so all the many, many scientists, behavioral specialists and child psychologists in the world that agree with me won't make you budge an inch. And that is where, thankfully, most Western governments are moving towards a logical approach towards gay rights, and not an approach based on whether random straight people "feel" that gays should be equal.

And again, if you told a 4 year old his parents are going to be two women or two men you are LYING if you are trying to say he or she would refuse. Orphans want loving families, they aren't going to thumb their noses at a chance. Because, guess what: homophobia is a learned trait. A 4 year old doesn't think gays are strange or gross.
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go and ask 4 y,o children in the orphanage about who are they waiting for ? do you really think they want father + father? I'm sure they are dreaming about the mother which will very soon pick them up, it's natural. Why should government force them get parents of the same sex, why should government force these children be deprived of having mother ever? Just to give them better conditions and a roof for living?
What do you think a 4 y.o. child in an orphanage would choose: staying there indefinitely or being adopted (regardless of the gender of the parents)?
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go and ask 4 y,o children in the orphanage about who are they waiting for ? do you really think they want father + father? I'm sure they are dreaming about the mother which will very soon pick them up, it's natural. Why should government force them get parents of the same sex, why should government force these children be deprived of having mother ever? Just to give them better conditions and a roof for living?
No, it's not natural, it's social. They've been taught to think that an ideal family situation involves a mother and a father. But you know what is natural for a four year-old, to want a family, any family. If you asked a child if she or he would prefer a family with same-sex parents or no family at all, what do you think that child would say? That's the rub, isn't it, NashaMasha, is that you are more concerned with robbing homeless children of opportunities for homes because you're stuck on a one-dimensional idea of what would constitute a healthy family set-up.

You don't actually have any tangible, natural proof that what you say is right in all cases.

This isn't about doing what's best for children. This is about you and your prejudice.
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What do you think a 4 y.o. child in an orphanage would choose: staying there indefinitely or being adopted (regardless of the gender of the parents)?
depends on the age of child and how much is he socially organized . By the way the main problem is adoption of older children . 7-8 y.o children are aware of what is homosexual/heterosexual and may be heavily opposed to anything related to homosexuality....

as for scientifical juiced researches ..... it's always laughable , becuase for 10 positive reasearches can be found 10 negative , when we speak about psychology( not only.... global warming for instance )))
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depends on the age of child and how much is he socially organized . By the way the main problem is adoption of older children . 7-8 y.o children are aware of what is homosexual/heterosexual and may be heavily opposed to anything related to homosexuality....

as for scientifical juiced researches ..... it's always laughable , becuase for 10 positive reasearches can be found 10 negative , when we speak about psychology( not only.... global warming for instance )))
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No, it's not natural, it's social. They've been taught to think that an ideal family situation involves a mother and a father. But you know what is natural for a four year-old, to want a family, any family. If you asked a child if she or he would prefer a family with same-sex parents or no family at all, what do you think that child would say? That's the rub, isn't it, NashaMasha, is that you are more concerned with robbing homeless children of opportunities for homes because you're stuck on a one-dimensional idea of what would constitute a healthy family set-up.

You don't actually have any tangible, natural proof that what you say is right in all cases.

This isn't about doing what's best for children. This is about you and your prejudice.
Is the social not natural though, being a circumstance of natural environment? I agree with your other points, though. I just think that the natural/social distinction is a bad one.
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Is the social not natural though, being a circumstance of natural environment? I agree with your other points, though. I just think that the natural/social distinction is a bad one.
I thought by natural, he meant "innate".
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I do support it just because I don't care about Christianity or even marriage at all. I do understand the argument that marriage was actually a thing invented for a man and a woman - two of the same was not it's purpose and is pointless to the concept etc etc. But it's a free country and banning anyone from doing something purely because of their sexual orientation is wrong in my opinion and a slippery slope. That kind of logic does not support equality and isn't a strong enough reason to BAN people from doing something. Also marriage can be useful for legal purposes too which I believe everyone should be entitled to and nowadays is the only reason people get married in the first place - not to get married in 'the eyes of god' but to secure themselves financially for whatever reason (as well as showing they are in love and will be loyal etc).
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