Originally Posted by shap_half
The way I see it is you either want to be a party to the problem, or you don't.
I don't. And I think more people should take a stand against it. By sleeping with a man whom you know is married, you're only contributing to all the issues that are attached to the situation. Chief among them: The married man wants to have his cake and eat it, too. Perhaps if there were fewer guys open to sleeping with him while he is able to put up a heterosexual front, he'd actually come out instead. By knowingly sleeping with this guy, you're telling him that - at least sexually - it's fine that he hasn't come out, because there will be guys like you who will help him sneak behind his wife's back for as long as his looks will allow it.
What if the married man isn't gay (i.e. bisexual) and it's unlikely that his wife would find out about the affair?