Originally Posted by gaviotabr
Are you serious? So we should think every single guy is a douchebag who puts his own interests ahead always and is unable of altruistic actions? WTF?!
Human beings are selfish. If you do what your bf wants too often, he'll learn how to take an advantage of you or he'll leave you. One thing is for sure, you can't have a normal relationship with anyone (including your friends) if you can't stand up for yourself. You can't be naive and expect people not to take an advantage of your weaknesses. People sometimes do it even if they don't want to, they just get used to it.