Originally Posted by Burisleif
Many times and not subtly, but then again we get hit on by all genders and orientations, wether or not the man realised it or not at the time.
Less interesting than if they were gay or not is the the idea of all the perfect matches that did hit, and that you didn't notice because you just weren't tuned into at the time because your life was full of other things?
Definitely r.e. the second paragraph. But then again, I think if you have a long-term relationship with someone they tend to change you and you tend to change them. So it's not necessarily that someone is immediately 'perfect' for you, but maybe over time the compatibility would increase.