I have a friend (crazy stuff I know) and I have a mum... That's how the story starts.
My mum is really nice to all my friends whether she likes them or not so if they have a problem and start talking to her about it etc then she will sit there and talk it through with them and give them advice so naturally all my friends think she is great, which honestly i don't mind.
But the other week, a drunken moment in one of my friends resulted in her crying on my mum's shoulder and mum talking things through with her for a while (nothing really gossipy or dramatic) but ever since then she is so bloody clingy
If I say I can't go out or have her come over to watch a movie with me coz I have study to do, every time she says "well I'll come over and watch a movie with your mum" or "ask your mum if she wants to go shopping with me" "do you and ur mum want to come out for tea with me"... Mind you she lives at home with her own parents and she is close to her mum.
My mother is a loner and has some 'issues' and she prefers to have a lot of alone time then people being with her a lot of the time (unless of course its me
) so we have to think up some excuse to say no and said friend never gets the hint.
Its incredibly frustrating coz if I am at MY house and need to study and say no u can't come over and spend time with me then that means I need my own personal space, by still wanting to come over and be in the next room and 'chillin' with my mother, that's still my bloody personal space!
Before starting this blog I had a lot more to say about that but now its lost
In short, I wish she would find a way to entertain herself, I'm not her baby sitter, nor do I have time to constantly sit there and watch a movie with her simple coz she is bored... She is the only one who gets so clingy and I suppose to most this wouldn't seem like that much of a big deal but for me who prefers to be by herself locked away in a room and occasionally spend time with others but generally prefers her own company, its annoying
Ok that will do me for a rant I think
P.S. Don't get me wrong, if she needs to talk coz she is upset or needs advice then I am and I've helped her look for jobs and all that sort of thing but when it comes to moments when she is just bored so she wants me to drop everything and watch a movie with her, why can't she just do that herself
(with saying that, if a few of my other friends asked me to random do things like that then i would probably say yes without hesitation but she is kinda draining