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rocktheboat
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:09 AM
(Just came across that in a magazine and did my best to translate.Sorry Guys :p)

If u do,answer the following questions honestly, u might be surprised at how appreciated u are :) I was surprised :p

Think well b4 answering

I am sure u’ll find at least one person to answer for each question.A maximum of 5 answers is allowed per question. Of course u can answer the same names over and over again

Names of ppl who :

1.say/said u are funny? G/f,My sis Virginia,my little bro Vicky

2.care about u :Mum,Virginia,G/f

3.say/said u are beautiful: g/f,mum,Anthony (old roommate),my neighbour Aurélie :confused:

4.are there when u are down: Amy,Virginia,g/f

5.will lend u money: Virginia,anthony

6.make u feel good:g/f,david,virginia,amy,mum

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: amy,anthony

8.say/said that u are caring: g/f,amy.sociology teacher :eek:

9.say/said u were smart: dad :eek:,Anthony

10.often compliment u: g/f,Virginia,mum,anthony

11.call u a lot: mum, Anthony,Sylvia (sis in law)

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : g/f,mum,dad (:eek:),Virginia, Valérie(other sis)

50-60 – u r a star
40-49 – ppl think u r special
26-39 – u r considered a good person
13-25 – u r appreciated by a category of ppl,it takes longer for ppl to know u
0-12 – are u sure u answered honestly or modestly

The one who’s name appears the most is ur biggest fan :p
which means my g/f is :hearts:

39!:eek: One more and I'd be a SPECIAL person :p Oh well I am happy :bounce:

King Satan
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:28 AM
Names of ppl who :

1.say/said u are funny?

lil cuz mikey

2.care about u :

mom, lil bro hex, older bro eddie, eldest bro george, cuz Alex

3.say/said u are beautiful:

no one :o

4.are there when u are down:

Alex

5.will lend u money:

Alex, mom, hex, step dad

6.make u feel good:

Alex

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u:

hmm *thinking*

8.say/said that u are caring:

cuz cindy

9.say/said u were smart:

Alex, mom, dad, george, eddie

10.often compliment u:

unc Jess, Alex

11.call u a lot:

Alex

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : mom, george, hex.

13-25 – u r appreciated by a category of ppl,it takes longer for ppl to know u

per4ever
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:40 AM
I'm too scared of the results to answer this :o

BritneySpearsIsHot
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:40 AM
Names of ppl who :

1.say/said u are funny? Ronie ;)

2.care about u: erm..........

3.say/said u are beautiful: erm

4.are there when u are down: Ronie ;)

5.will lend u money: pffffffft

6.make u feel good: Ronie, Claire

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: erm.............

8.say/said that u are caring: Ronie, Claire

9.say/said u were smart: erm........................

10.often compliment u: Ronie, Claire

11.call u a lot: My bank and credit card company

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : my g/f, well 11 years ago, does that count :confused:

gentenaire
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:43 AM
actually, this makes me feel even more depressed and unloved

matthias
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:45 AM
0 points :sad:

per4ever
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:50 AM
Originally posted by Beggin' Beguine
actually, this makes me feel even more depressed and unloved

agree :o

Lynx
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:50 AM
Awwww Per & Tine :sad:
And matthias, too.

I can't believe that, guys. (Not that I am scoring that high :sad: )


Damn, this is a depressing thread. :(

King Satan
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:55 AM
You guys suck :p, just do the stupid thing :)

irma
Jan 22nd, 2003, 11:55 AM
I learnt to live with it

rocktheboat
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:00 PM
NO NO NO! It is not supposed to be! U are not trying hard enough !Think well i am sure u'll find ppl whether in the past or now who care for u and guys, online ppl count too so u can mention ppl from here too! :D please be positive, it took me a long time also to answer these questions and anyway the answers are almost the same ppl over and over for me !

per4ever
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:04 PM
Names of ppl who :

1.say/said u are funny? euhm don't know :confused:

2.care about u: my friends and parents I hope :)

3.say/said u are beautiful: nobody

4.are there when u are down: a friend

5.will lend u money: lol..all my friends

6.make u feel good: nobody atm

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: nobody atm

8.say/said that u are caring: several friends

9.say/said u were smart: lots of people :o

10.often compliment u: nobody

11.call u a lot: nobody

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : 1 girl

King Satan
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:06 PM
Originally posted by rocktheboat
NO NO NO! It is not supposed to be! U are not trying hard enough !Think well i am sure u'll find ppl whether in the past or now who care for u and guys, online ppl count too so u can mention ppl from here too! :D please be positive, it took me a long time also to answer these questions and anyway the answers are almost the same ppl over and over for me !

I didn't know online ppl count :( I'm gonna re-do it, cos if I count online ppl, i'm a star :cool:

Finally got the courage ehh K ;):)

irma
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:12 PM
rocktheboat I had to learn to live with it otherwise it's impossible that it will ever change!

per4ever
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:13 PM
Originally posted by irma
rocktheboat I had to learn to live with it otherwise it's impossible that it will ever change!

I think I still have to learn that :(

gentenaire
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:19 PM
1.say/said u are funny? ??

2.care about u: parents, family, I suppose, I've been wondering about my friends lately

3.say/said u are beautiful: ??

4.are there when u are down: ??

5.will lend u money: lots of people

6.make u feel good: ??

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: ??

8.say/said that u are caring: my mother

9.say/said u were smart: lots of people

10.often compliment u: ??

11.call u a lot: ??

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : 2 boys, I did a runner both times.


Pretty depressing, huh!

King Satan
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:22 PM
Come on tine, I think you're great, everyone thinks you're great :kiss::)

btw, K, how old are you? oh and you too tine

per4ever
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:23 PM
22

King Satan
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:25 PM
Originally posted by per4ever
22

Wow, I thought you were a lot younger lol, I thought you were like 16 or 17. :)

saki
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:28 PM
Well, Tine, I've seen your photo before and you are beautiful! So take away the ?? beside that question! ;)

King Satan
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:29 PM
ooooo I wanna see Tine's pic :bounce:

BritneySpearsIsHot
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:33 PM
Originally posted by irma
rocktheboat I had to learn to live with it otherwise it's impossible that it will ever change!

Me too, although it is still hard, just listen to Christina Aguilera, what she says is right (and i don't mean dirrty)

gentenaire
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:34 PM
Thank you, Saki :kiss:

I'm 24.

King Satan
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:35 PM
Tine, is your pic in one of the threads?

gentenaire
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:39 PM
It used to be, but I deleted it.

King Satan
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:39 PM
Can I see your pic hun? :angel:

rocktheboat
Jan 22nd, 2003, 12:49 PM
Hey guys if u knew me b4,u’d have found a very miserable person, I had some hell yrs where things did not go my way at all,even got kicked outta the house by my dad :( I don’t know how but I held on and if now u see me as a more positive person its simply cuz there’s love in my life:) It has changed things around. If something good can happen to me who’s nothing great, it can happen to anyone. So keep the faith :)

Lord Chips
Jan 22nd, 2003, 01:17 PM
1.say/said u are funny? :sad:

2.care about u: Mum, Dad, my sisters, Cao, Jez, Kev, Claire (from work)

3.say/said u are beautiful: :sad:

4.are there when u are down: Mum, Dad, Cao, Yuenny, Claire (from work)

5.will lend u money: Mum, Dad

6.make u feel good: Cao, Noga, Kerry, Llekyi

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: Normally its me telling friedns this

8.say/said that u are caring: :sad:

9.say/said u were smart: :sad:

10.often compliment u: :sad:

11.call u a lot: If texting counts, Cao, Jez, Kev, Kay, Lleyki, Kenno

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u: :sad:

13-25 – u r appreciated by a category of ppl,it takes longer for ppl to know u

Elske
Jan 22nd, 2003, 01:45 PM
1.say/said u are funny? my biology teacher :rolleyes:

2.care about u: mum, my sister, grandma, Maeike

3.say/said u are beautiful: my sister, mum, stijn, kathleen

4.are there when u are down: Greet, frauke, my sister, mum, K

5.will lend u money: mum, dad, sis, grandma, Eef

6.make u feel good: Maeike, Greet, sis, grandma

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: Greet

8.say/said that u are caring: erm?

9.say/said u were smart: mum, sis, Eef

10.often compliment u: sis, grandma

11.call u a lot: grandma

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : g/f, grandma, mum

Brαm
Jan 22nd, 2003, 01:48 PM
1.say/said u are funny? Hannelore, Boris, Hauben, Hannah, Céline, Jane, Thomas, Liese, Liselotte, Greetje, Joke, Delfien, Lorenzo, Jasmien, Stijn... oh and my parents :p

2.care about u: Parents, Stijn, Hannelore, Valerie, Hannah, Boris

3.say/said u are beautiful: Joonas :rolleyes: & the woman next door :o

4.are there when u are down: Mum, Hannelore, Joke, Boris

5.will lend u money: Sofie, Thomas, Jane, parents, Linda, Boris, etc. etc.

6.make u feel good: Hannelore, Boris, Hauben, Hannah, Sofie, Jane, Thomas, Liese...

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: Hannelore, Boris, Hannah

8.say/said that u are caring: Hannelore, Mum

9.say/said u were smart: Joonas, Hannah, Liese, Delfien, Inge, Jane, Hannelore, Greetje

10.often compliment u: Hannah, Joke

11.call u a lot: Hannah (well texting)

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : no comment

---------------

Not depressing at all :D

2284
Jan 22nd, 2003, 01:51 PM
Originally posted by rocktheboat


Names of ppl who :

1.say/said u are funny? Tash, Liz, Bethany, Amelia, Vanessa

2.care about u : my mum and friends as listed above

3.say/said u are beautiful: no-one
4.are there when u are down: Tash, Bethany, Liz, Jaclyn
5.will lend u money: Mum, Jaclyn, Liz...wait! Liz owes me money!...so does mum!

6.make u feel good:as above
7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: friends as listed above
8.say/said that u are caring: no-one
9.say/said u were smart: lots of people who hate me
10.often compliment u: friends (I'm not typing their names again)
11.call u a lot: My little brother
12.say/said the words "I love you": no-one...wait, did we agree that online people count?


I'm not special :(

i-girl
Jan 22nd, 2003, 01:57 PM
Well, Tine, I've seen your photo before and you are beautiful! So take away the ?? beside that question!

oh, that's so sweeeeet:) . I think that too. you are just too critical of yourself and your life. K is, too.

i-girl
Jan 22nd, 2003, 02:22 PM
1.say/said u are funny? my little brother must think I'm funny. he always laughs at me;).

2.care about u: parents, bro & sis, friends (though, ofcourse, some are closer than others)

3.say/said u are beautiful: ex-boyfriends, friends, parents.

4.are there when u are down: parents, brother, sister, my friend Darry (who's leaving to go to Uni in the US next year:sad: ), my friend Bee, my friend Adva.

5.will lend u money: loads of people. they know they'll get it back.

6.make u feel good: same as no.4

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: the only person who has said that to me in actual words is my friend Shiri. but I hope the rest of my friends feel it too.

8.say/said that u are caring: lots of people. I'm a softie, and my real friends know that.

9.say/said u were smart: lots of people

10.often compliment u: my friends and family say nice things usually.

11.call u a lot: My mom, lol, everyday. my friend Darry, most days too.

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : I've had some b/f's who said it... except with one guy, I didn't feel the same way, so it was akward.

per4ever
Jan 22nd, 2003, 04:21 PM
Originally posted by i-girl
oh, that's so sweeeeet:) . I think that too. you are just too critical of yourself and your life. K is, too.

if you're not happy with it then you're critical ;)

Princess Fiona
Jan 22nd, 2003, 04:28 PM
http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/whinging.gif

Is it possible to have "minus" scores? :sad: Waaaaaaaaah!! *cough* ;)

i-girl
Jan 22nd, 2003, 05:03 PM
not everyone's a party animal, K. some people will never have scores of friends. and some people are late bloomers in love, and will never have a long trail of ex partners behind them. but what really matters is finding that one person, right? and to have that one friend you can really count on. you are who you are. you should always work to improve, but some things need to just be accepted. you have your family, the few people you do consider friends, and love will come- sooner or later. why not just enjoy what you have? you are only starting your life (you're not even out of college, K!), just trust yourself to make it happy. trust that you will make it in into something you like.
lol, I remember something Ally Mcbeal said (before her show went totaly lame). Billy was accusing her of being incapable of happiness, and she said something like "I may have my problems, but I am GAINING on happiness. I WILL get there". sorry for quoting Ally to you, but I thought that was a good line. the sentiment is admirable. people on this board seem to be so down on themselves. they think they've failed in their lives when most of them are barely starting it.

per4ever
Jan 22nd, 2003, 05:09 PM
I know you're right noga :) but it's not always easy :)

and I'm out of college(that's the same as high school no?) I'm at uni and in my final year

really nice post btw :kiss:

i-girl
Jan 22nd, 2003, 05:13 PM
no, when I say college I mean University. and I know it's all easier said than done. sorry for the lecture, I'm a bit sick today, I think it's time for me to go home, I'm getting wierd;) .

per4ever
Jan 22nd, 2003, 05:18 PM
nah I don't consider it as a lecture..just good advice :)

and it's not that I don't have any friends..not at all..I have several great friends, but at this age some start settling etc :o
A classmate of me in highschool is already married :o and I'm still single :( It's frustrating.

Gonzo Hates Me!
Jan 22nd, 2003, 06:17 PM
Names of ppl who :

1.say/said u are funny? really, everyone, Anthony, Charlie, Lori, Tina and Tim

2.care about u : Anthony, parents, brother, brother, sister

3.say/said u are beautiful: Jessi, Anthony, Kelley, Rebeca, Stefanie

4.are there when u are down: Anthony, Tina, Tim

5.will lend u money: Tina, Rebeca, Anthony, Charlie

6.make u feel good: Tina, Anthony, sister, Hye Mi, mom

7.say/said they are glad to have friends like u: ...

8.say/said that u are caring: ...

9.say/said u were smart: my sister and Anthony

10.often compliment u: Tina, Anthony, Charlie, Snuffy and Chelsea

11.call u a lot: Tina!

12.say/said the words ‘I love you’ to u : my parents and Anthony