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Jan 7th, 2009, 06:11 PM
Since it looks Sarah isn't updating her blog anymore :sad: we can all enjoy Megan's hilarious adventures on Tour :bounce:
Just a random entry from $75K Dubai last month :lol:
http://meganmoultonlevy.blogspot.com/2008/12/wow.html
Wow! (http://meganmoultonlevy.blogspot.com/2008/12/wow.html)
I don’t even know where to begin. This has been one of the most interesting weeks that I have had since I have been on the tour. Audra and I landed in Dubai late last Wednesday evening. On Thursday we arrived at the courts only to see that there were two courts on site. If we knew what was going to be in store for us we would have turned right around.
Obviously because there were only two courts finding a time and a court to practice on was difficult. We were approached by a girl from china who asked us to come and hit with her. Given the limited practice situation we jumped on the opportunity to get some hitting in. We began warming up and 10 minutes into the hitting session there were some men on the court telling that we could only play until “the boss” came. Everyone was talking about the boss, the boss.
“The boss” was the owner of the hotel where the tournament was held and quite frankly he could have owned Dubai for all we know. This man is stinking rich, I am talking like one of the richest men in the world. We did not know this when he asked us to play doubles against he and his friend. I am still not sure if it was a good or a bad thing that we agreed to play…
“The boss” is a tennis fanatic and plays tennis every day. In fact he stopped the tournament—which remember was only held on 2 courts—so that he could play from 2.30-4pm. Every day he would invite different girls from the tournament to come and play with him. After our tennis match he asked us to join him for dinner. Again at the time the only thing we knew about him was that he owned the hotel. My initial thought was what an honor and he must be such a kind gentlemen—which in some respects he is. Dinner consisted of a group of 10-15 other people who I will call his entourage. By his request Audra sat next to him and he spoke to her throughout the whole dinner.
Now let’s pause. What would you do if a billionaire offered to ensure that your dreams would come true and it would all be paid for only if you were to be his girlfriend? The next morning this is exactly what he proposed to Audra! At this point both of us were a little panicked thinking that if she says no he might kidnap her or something crazy like that. So she decided to call her mother during the wee hours of the night. If had a picture to go along with this it would be priceless. We were at practice courts that were surrounded by skyscrapers. That part of Dubai kind of looks like Gothem city in the Batman movie. The construction being done around Dubai produced a constant drone. Then there is Audra pacing around the court on the phone with her mother trying to figure out if she needs to flee the country! Needless to say with the drone, the wind which was a byproduct of the artificial produced paradise and the chaos that “the boss” added to the mix, it was not one of our best practices.
By this time it was Friday, time to sign in for qualies and more girls had arrived. There is always a buzz around the tournament, but this particular instance it was poignant information for me so I actually listened. The word around the street was that this was the tournament to come to if you were willing to sleep with someone of high rank for one year of an all expense paid sponsorship. Upon doing more investigation we realized that this is not uncommon at all. “The boss” often made these kinds of propositions, and for his chosen few he gives them a gift—a bag with a tiffany’s pen and a necklace. I only received one because I was rolling with Audra. We saw quite a few others sporting the necklace! So we quickly realized that this was no reason for Audra to flee the country. He was basically harmless this was just a part of the Arabic culture.
We decide to try and ignore the confusion and focus on tennis as much as we could. Since I had to play the next day we decided that she should decline the offer for dinner that night and we just went back to the hotel and hung out by ourselves.
On our way to dinner we stopped by the board to see what time I played the next day. I was looking she was looking neither of us saw my name on the draw or on the order of play list! We are both freaking out. Audra keeps asking me if I signed in. Of course I did! I remembered writing my name down. Anyway what happened was “The boss” gave me a wild card into the main draw basically because he wanted Audra, but I was also told that I got it because I am a minority. “The boss” thought I needed an opportunity. This caused me to question is it there such a big difference between America and here? Assumptions are made all around the world.
Anyway Monday finally rolls around and got to play a match. I played the 4th seed and lost 7-5, 6-4. Somehow I managed to play some good tennis in the midst of all the craziness. Despite the fact that I lost I think I played very well and implemented the things that I have been working so hard on. I was very proud of myself.
Now doubles is a different story… Audra and I played doubles the same day. I cannot say I was as proud of my doubles playing. We were up 4-0 in the first and lost the set 6-7. We won the second 6-2. We lost the third set 13-11 in the third set breaker. We had 3 match points
I am very frustrated with my doubles. I made the decision to pursue a professional tennis career because I wanted to do well in doubles. I mean let’s be honest who thought I was going to be able to crack the top 600 in singles. I couldn’t crack an egg in college. But now it seems like I am making these great strides in singles. I can see improvement almost every match I play. What about my doubles, my passion? I sometimes feel like I am playing worse than I did in college. Considering the fact that doubles was the reason why I continued to play, I hope everyone can understand my frustration with not doing as well as I expect in doubles.
Aside from me working on dealing with my frustration with doubles the one thing that I learned from the this tournament is that I need to learn to exercise cultural relativism. I could come into this country and judge the way that Arab men deal with women, but I don’t think that is fair. Who knows Donald Trump might do the same thing!
I am off to India tomorrow and I will spend Christmas there. My partner in crime went back to Miami so I am solo:( If I don’t write again before Christmas I wish everyone a merry merry Christmas and I happy new year!
Until next time…
Just a random entry from $75K Dubai last month :lol:
http://meganmoultonlevy.blogspot.com/2008/12/wow.html
Wow! (http://meganmoultonlevy.blogspot.com/2008/12/wow.html)
I don’t even know where to begin. This has been one of the most interesting weeks that I have had since I have been on the tour. Audra and I landed in Dubai late last Wednesday evening. On Thursday we arrived at the courts only to see that there were two courts on site. If we knew what was going to be in store for us we would have turned right around.
Obviously because there were only two courts finding a time and a court to practice on was difficult. We were approached by a girl from china who asked us to come and hit with her. Given the limited practice situation we jumped on the opportunity to get some hitting in. We began warming up and 10 minutes into the hitting session there were some men on the court telling that we could only play until “the boss” came. Everyone was talking about the boss, the boss.
“The boss” was the owner of the hotel where the tournament was held and quite frankly he could have owned Dubai for all we know. This man is stinking rich, I am talking like one of the richest men in the world. We did not know this when he asked us to play doubles against he and his friend. I am still not sure if it was a good or a bad thing that we agreed to play…
“The boss” is a tennis fanatic and plays tennis every day. In fact he stopped the tournament—which remember was only held on 2 courts—so that he could play from 2.30-4pm. Every day he would invite different girls from the tournament to come and play with him. After our tennis match he asked us to join him for dinner. Again at the time the only thing we knew about him was that he owned the hotel. My initial thought was what an honor and he must be such a kind gentlemen—which in some respects he is. Dinner consisted of a group of 10-15 other people who I will call his entourage. By his request Audra sat next to him and he spoke to her throughout the whole dinner.
Now let’s pause. What would you do if a billionaire offered to ensure that your dreams would come true and it would all be paid for only if you were to be his girlfriend? The next morning this is exactly what he proposed to Audra! At this point both of us were a little panicked thinking that if she says no he might kidnap her or something crazy like that. So she decided to call her mother during the wee hours of the night. If had a picture to go along with this it would be priceless. We were at practice courts that were surrounded by skyscrapers. That part of Dubai kind of looks like Gothem city in the Batman movie. The construction being done around Dubai produced a constant drone. Then there is Audra pacing around the court on the phone with her mother trying to figure out if she needs to flee the country! Needless to say with the drone, the wind which was a byproduct of the artificial produced paradise and the chaos that “the boss” added to the mix, it was not one of our best practices.
By this time it was Friday, time to sign in for qualies and more girls had arrived. There is always a buzz around the tournament, but this particular instance it was poignant information for me so I actually listened. The word around the street was that this was the tournament to come to if you were willing to sleep with someone of high rank for one year of an all expense paid sponsorship. Upon doing more investigation we realized that this is not uncommon at all. “The boss” often made these kinds of propositions, and for his chosen few he gives them a gift—a bag with a tiffany’s pen and a necklace. I only received one because I was rolling with Audra. We saw quite a few others sporting the necklace! So we quickly realized that this was no reason for Audra to flee the country. He was basically harmless this was just a part of the Arabic culture.
We decide to try and ignore the confusion and focus on tennis as much as we could. Since I had to play the next day we decided that she should decline the offer for dinner that night and we just went back to the hotel and hung out by ourselves.
On our way to dinner we stopped by the board to see what time I played the next day. I was looking she was looking neither of us saw my name on the draw or on the order of play list! We are both freaking out. Audra keeps asking me if I signed in. Of course I did! I remembered writing my name down. Anyway what happened was “The boss” gave me a wild card into the main draw basically because he wanted Audra, but I was also told that I got it because I am a minority. “The boss” thought I needed an opportunity. This caused me to question is it there such a big difference between America and here? Assumptions are made all around the world.
Anyway Monday finally rolls around and got to play a match. I played the 4th seed and lost 7-5, 6-4. Somehow I managed to play some good tennis in the midst of all the craziness. Despite the fact that I lost I think I played very well and implemented the things that I have been working so hard on. I was very proud of myself.
Now doubles is a different story… Audra and I played doubles the same day. I cannot say I was as proud of my doubles playing. We were up 4-0 in the first and lost the set 6-7. We won the second 6-2. We lost the third set 13-11 in the third set breaker. We had 3 match points
I am very frustrated with my doubles. I made the decision to pursue a professional tennis career because I wanted to do well in doubles. I mean let’s be honest who thought I was going to be able to crack the top 600 in singles. I couldn’t crack an egg in college. But now it seems like I am making these great strides in singles. I can see improvement almost every match I play. What about my doubles, my passion? I sometimes feel like I am playing worse than I did in college. Considering the fact that doubles was the reason why I continued to play, I hope everyone can understand my frustration with not doing as well as I expect in doubles.
Aside from me working on dealing with my frustration with doubles the one thing that I learned from the this tournament is that I need to learn to exercise cultural relativism. I could come into this country and judge the way that Arab men deal with women, but I don’t think that is fair. Who knows Donald Trump might do the same thing!
I am off to India tomorrow and I will spend Christmas there. My partner in crime went back to Miami so I am solo:( If I don’t write again before Christmas I wish everyone a merry merry Christmas and I happy new year!
Until next time…