My love story

Okay here it goes.. I know it sounds abit like in the movie or what, but it's happening to me..

Remember the girl that I said earlier that is close to me and now she has a bf? Okay anyway, let me start from the beginning. Me and her can be considered as "new friends" as we had just met for like 4 months or less, but you know, both of us just clicked so well. She is in the same class with me for most of the class that I take. Well, we are really close.. she told me so many things.. from things that she likes to her guy dream and her childhood, everything, you name it. So, we would always hang out at Starbucks or you know anywhere, just sit down and talk and smoke.

So one day, after she joined this club, all of sudden, she became famous. All guys were all over her and interested in her. So many until she had to say that she'a attached and stuffs like that. So, well it worked. Well, not all believed it anyway. So there are 3 guys from engineering course that sticked with us. 3 of them like her (cause 3 of them always ask me about her!!) and 3 of them are classmates and good friends. So anyway, the battle began, you know.. so I asked her whether she realised that those 3 like her, she said yes and told me let things goes naturally.

Anyway amongst 3, there's only this guy that I think suit her the most. He's not bad looking.. athletic, loyal (in the sense that he would say something like err.. if she's happy with the other 2, I will let her go and happy for her.). He's just the type of boyfriend all girls want. He's rich, he's friendly bla bla bla.. So the ironic part is that I'm being the meddler and patch them up.

Last Monday, they told me that they are currently dating. MY feelings was a bit pissed as I thought at that time, I thought that perhaps this guy come and snatch my close friend and leave me alone. That's how I THOUGHT why i felt pissed. So as time went, whenever I saw them together I would feel a bit unease and you know upset. Last Thursday, on the way home, both of them were really into each other and you know were hugging. I was really really pissed and just felt like ask the guy to fuck off from her.

At that point, I know that I had fallen for her!!! It's very heartbreaking when you see someone you love, she love somebody else. The worst part is that I have to see them everyday smooching or hugging and she would tell me all the stuffs that she did. I don't what I should do now!! I like her and yet she doesn't know about it.

I thought of telling her at one point, you know, just tell her my feelings, but I'm afraid she will avoid me and you know just to make sure that she only like me as a friend. *sigh*

Help me please.. especiall the girls. What should I do!!! :sad:

:eek: It's very long!!

Felix, you poor, poor boy! You had the perfect oppurtunity and you blew it! When the 2 of you were meeting and talking at Starbucks, that is when you had the connection with her and could have done something about it! There is a saying we have here: "You Snooze, You Lose"! All you can do now is to wait it out or let it go.

Nah, at that time, that feelings was not therem you know. I didn't even realise i like her until last Thursday :sad:

Nah, at that time, that feelings was not therem you know. I didn't even realise i like her until last Thursday :sad:
You knew that she was something special. You knew you liked being with her! You knew you clicked. What more do you need? :scratch:

You knew that she was something special. You knew you liked being with her! You knew you clicked. What more do you need? :scratch:
We are close friend!! I mean at that point, how would I think that I like her, you know.

We are close friend!! I mean at that point, how would I think that I like her, you know.
**SLAP** You really are clueless aren't you? Of course you liked her! And she liked you! Are you going to spend that kind of time with someone you do not like? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Well, a couple of years ago I was in an almost identical situation. I had fallen hard for this girl and was furious when this other guy made the move and got in there first. I tried to avoid them as much as possible but it wasn't easy as they were closely linked into my circle of friends. But eventually, as I observed the two of them in the throes of an intimate relationship, I began to realise that it would never have worked out between me and her, and that by being too slow to make a move I had spared myself the difficulty of finding this out the hard way.

I guess that story doesn't help you much right now but if anything it shows you that a seemingly bad situation can turn out to be a blessing in the end.

Well from what you have said, it seems like she just took you as a good friend and nothing more, so i would say as far as she is concernet nothing has changed between you two, and if you try and make a move if they break up, you'll probably also lose the friendship