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lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 01:47 AM
According to Friday's New York Post, J Lo was so upset over her breakup with Ben Affleck, she called P Diddy for a shoulder to cry on. Apparently that is all she is going to get if she is looking to get back with him because he is marrying Kim Porter, the mother of his second child.

kku
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:04 AM
J Lo was so upset over her breakup with Ben Affleck,

Is it official?

Rocketta
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:21 AM
Who knows if it is truly over but I seriously doubt that Puffy marrying Kim Porter either. Why would he? He hasn't had to yet. How old is their child? 5, 6??

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:37 AM
Is it official?

Yes. US Weekly, People Weekly and two of the tabloids are reporting it's over and Ben was the one who broke up with Jen.

Pureracket
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:41 AM
Something tells me that JLo's true depression is going to come when she looks up and sees that most of the world really doesn't give a damn about what she does.

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:42 AM
Who knows if it is truly over but I seriously doubt that Puffy marrying Kim Porter either. Why would he? He hasn't had to yet. How old is their child? 5, 6??

I doubt he is going to marry her either. He was supposedly engaged to her when he took up with J Lo in 1998 when Kim was eight months pregnant with their son, Christian, who is now 5.

But it is over between Jen and Ben. According to the latest (the NY papers have something new every day regarding these two ding dongs), Ben is in Georgia with his brother and Jen is in Miami with friends. She is hoping that he will come to her house in Miami so that they can talk things over because she really wants to get back with him, but his friends say that any chance of a reconciliation is pretty slim.

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:47 AM
Something tells me that JLo's true depression is going to come when she looks up and sees that most of the world really doesn't give a damn about what she does.

I think she is realizing that now. Plus, she looks like a damn fool for leaving her husband for a man who I don't think was ever really serious abot marrying her or who respected her. Supposedly, once he started sleeping with her, he would tell his friends how she was in bed. Pluls he had to realize that this is a woman who just turned 33 two months ago and has had two marriages that lasted less than two years combined. Did he seriously think it was going to be forever with her?

Rocketta
Sep 20th, 2003, 04:57 AM
Well honestly I think she used poor 'gay' Chris as a way to break it off permanately with Puffy. I think she knew he was no playa hata and would leave her alone if she was with someone else.

I just don't understand her fascination with big weddings. I mean when going in for your third shouldn't it be a quiet reflective time? Not a big shingdig. You would think someone would learn from the first two times...

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 05:01 AM
Well honestly I think she used poor 'gay' Chris as a way to break it off permanately with Puffy. I think she knew he was no playa hata and would leave her alone if she was with someone else.

I just don't understand her fascination with big weddings. I mean when going in for your third shouldn't it be a quiet reflective time? Not a big shingdig. You would think someone would learn from the first two times...

Do you think Cris Judd is gay? He doesn't strike me as the type, but you never know.

I can see having a big wedding for the first marriage, obviously, but after that, not only should the bride not wear white, I agree, she shouldn't have a big wedding.

BTW, I think she used Puffy when she was trying th get that singing career going and when she got what she wanted (and after the arrest for the shooting), cut him loose.

Rocketta
Sep 20th, 2003, 05:10 AM
Do you think Cris Judd is gay? He doesn't strike me as the type, but you never know.

I can see having a big wedding for the first marriage, obviously, but after that, not only should the bride not wear white, I agree, she shouldn't have a big wedding.

BTW, I think she used Puffy when she was trying th get that singing career going and when she got what she wanted (and after the arrest for the shooting), cut him loose.

Oh man do I think Chris is in the closet especially after seeing him on that celebrity survivor thing. I will say he has been extremely nice to JLO by not reeming her every chance he gets for her behavior. He's definitely a better person than her.

I think she gave Puffy a chance cause he had something to offer but listening to her co-workers from In Living Color, Jenny was truly from the block...:eek:

However, it seems she's getting pay back because it seems Ben used her to give his dorky ass some cool points. I mean he would have never been named People's sexiest man had he not hooked up with JLO.

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 05:43 AM
Oh man do I think Chris is in the closet especially after seeing him on that celebrity survivor thing. I will say he has been extremely nice to JLO by not reeming her every chance he gets for her behavior. He's definitely a better person than her.

I think she gave Puffy a chance cause he had something to offer but listening to her co-workers from In Living Color, Jenny was truly from the block...:eek:

However, it seems she's getting pay back because it seems Ben used her to give his dorky ass some cool points. I mean he would have never been named People's sexiest man had he not hooked up with JLO.


He might have.

BTW, Ben strikes me as someone who isn't really all that smart. Good looking, but dumb.

Rocketta
Sep 20th, 2003, 06:11 AM
He might have.

BTW, Ben strikes me as someone who isn't really all that smart. Good looking, but dumb.

Well he definitely wore the pants in that relationship....I mean the girl would change how she dressed because he said his mom wouldn't like it.

I don't think he's a Rhode's scholar either but I think he's bright enough to realize his ony publicity leading up to JLo was a rehab stint and that needed to change.

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 06:20 AM
Well he definitely wore the pants in that relationship....I mean the girl would change how she dressed because he said his mom wouldn't like it.

I don't think he's a Rhode's scholar either but I think he's bright enough to realize his ony publicity leading up to JLo was a rehab stint and that needed to change.

True, but he was dating the ice princess, Gwyneth Paltrow at one time. Wasn't that good for his image? And I am pretty sure his mom liked her.

BTW, word on the street is that his Mom and other members of his family weren't all that crazy about her and that his Mom initiated the breakup.

kku
Sep 20th, 2003, 07:11 AM
Yes. US Weekly, People Weekly and two of the tabloids are reporting it's over and Ben was the one who broke up with Jen.

Ah, well. I didn't really expect that to be long-lasting either. What kind of man would want to spend the rest of his life with a woman who want's half his ass when he's caught cheating? Although with J.Lo's long string of bad relationships and Ben's penchant for strip-clubs, this sort of "safe-guard" is understandable...

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 06:04 PM
Ah, well. I didn't really expect that to be long-lasting either. What kind of man would want to spend the rest of his life with a woman who want's half his ass when he's caught cheating? Although with J.Lo's long string of bad relationships and Ben's penchant for strip-clubs, this sort of "safe-guard" is understandable...

Can you blame him for having to go to the club to get away from her? Apparently something she did during a shoot for W magazine sent him to a topless joint and to break up with her.

harloo
Sep 20th, 2003, 06:31 PM
PLease Ben is not goodie two shoes himself like the media likes to portray him. He likes to sleep around, and that is a known fact. He moves from one woman to the next. They all do in Hollywood. I knew after their failed movie attempt Gigli, and Jen getting upset about him going to the media about it and his drinking and gambling problems it was over.

Jen is a wreck herself. She cannot attract a decent man, and just moves on from one man to the next. I really don't feel sorry for Jen
She will recover and get another man easily. She just will not keep him. She will treat him like her pet, and then discard of him. lol

I don't feel sorry for Chris Judd either. Hell, he got 10 million dollars for marrying someone he knew was not in love with him. He acts like he is so scorn. GET OVER IT! You knew what Jlo was about, and he knew he was the backup relationship. If I had the chance with Jlo and it did not work out and she gave me 10 mill we would still be friends. LOL.

Lets don't even start on Pdiddy. I hope jen did not call him because he probably would try to get back with her. puffy is nasty, and Kim porter is just the baby mama chick on the side. She was still trying to be with puffy even though he was with Jlo. Kim knows puffy was cheating on her but she is dumb enough to continue to chase him.

I could be wrong but I this might be a setup for everyone to think that the wedding is off, when it's really ON.

Mrs. Peel
Sep 20th, 2003, 06:34 PM
I just want to navigate through the bullshit and find out what's the real deal with this masquerade! omg...can't believe I want to know :o

Mrs. Peel
Sep 20th, 2003, 06:36 PM
PLease Ben is not goodie two shoes himself like the media likes to portray him. He likes to sleep around, and that is a known fact. He moves from one woman to the next. They all do in Hollywood. I knew after their failed movie attempt Gigli, and Jen getting upset about him going to the media about it and his drinking and gambling problems it was over.

Jen is a wreck herself. She cannot attract a decent man, and just moves on from one man to the next. I really don't feel sorry for Jen
She will recover and get another man easily. She just will not keep him. She will treat him like her pet, and then discard of him. lol

I don't feel sorry for Chris Judd either. Hell, he got 10 million dollars for marrying someone he knew was not in love with him. He acts like he is so scorn. GET OVER IT! You knew what Jlo was about, and he knew he was the backup relationship. If I had the chance with Jlo and it did not work out and she gave me 10 mill we would still be friends. LOL.

Lets don't even start on Pdiddy. I hope jen did not call him because he probably would try to get back with her. puffy is nasty, and Kim porter is just the baby mama chick on the side. She was still trying to be with puffy even though he was with Jlo. Kim knows puffy was cheating on her but she is dumb enough to continue to chase him.

I could be wrong but I this might be a setup for everyone to think that the wedding is off, when it's really ON.


ok...I like this synopsis...and with the way the media tries to manipulate us...anything is possible but it's time for the shit to be OVER!!!!!

Rocketta
Sep 20th, 2003, 07:25 PM
i seriously wouldn't be surprised if her and p. diddy hooked up again. i don't think he ever really got over her.

well her music has sucked since they split....:sad:

This last album Jenny from the block was sorry, well sorry doesn't even describe it more like throw-up. :mad:

SJW
Sep 20th, 2003, 07:53 PM
:eek: DD how can you say that, Jennifer has an amazing voice :fiery:

ROTFLMFAO :lol::p

decemberlove
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:05 PM
Do you think Cris Judd is gay? He doesn't strike me as the type, but you never know.

I can see having a big wedding for the first marriage, obviously, but after that, not only should the bride not wear white, I agree, she shouldn't have a big wedding.

BTW, I think she used Puffy when she was trying th get that singing career going and when she got what she wanted (and after the arrest for the shooting), cut him loose.

i think she actually was into puffy. i liked them together :o

but, why shouldnt the bride be able to wear white? not too many woman who get married today are virgins, and thats what the white is posed to represent. so by that, shouldnt they just have to wear a non-white wedding dress anyway? please this isnt the 1950s anymore, things have changed, weddings arent traditional anymore. and shit, the girls got the money, if she wants to blow it on as many weddings as she wants, she should be able too.

i just get pissed off cos so many people talk about her marriages, but theres MUCH worse in hollywood, and the men are usually twice as bad as the women yet they dont get any shit for their behavior. instead, its considered sexy. but girls gossip away about female celebs... one of the reasons i dont particularly care for too many women out there. its just sabotaging your own sex. *shrug

trust, ben is NO angel, im so sick of the media portraying men like saints in their relationships.

bis2806
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:14 PM
woohoo how cool is that... maybe coz ben affleck has just decided to turn gay :D bear with me people!!!! I've always wanted ben affleck to be one :)

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:15 PM
PLease Ben is not goodie two shoes himself like the media likes to portray him. He likes to sleep around, and that is a known fact. He moves from one woman to the next. They all do in Hollywood. I knew after their failed movie attempt Gigli, and Jen getting upset about him going to the media about it and his drinking and gambling problems it was over.

Jen is a wreck herself. She cannot attract a decent man, and just moves on from one man to the next. I really don't feel sorry for Jen
She will recover and get another man easily. She just will not keep him. She will treat him like her pet, and then discard of him. lol

I don't feel sorry for Chris Judd either. Hell, he got 10 million dollars for marrying someone he knew was not in love with him. He acts like he is so scorn. GET OVER IT! You knew what Jlo was about, and he knew he was the backup relationship. If I had the chance with Jlo and it did not work out and she gave me 10 mill we would still be friends. LOL.

Lets don't even start on Pdiddy. I hope jen did not call him because he probably would try to get back with her. puffy is nasty, and Kim porter is just the baby mama chick on the side. She was still trying to be with puffy even though he was with Jlo. Kim knows puffy was cheating on her but she is dumb enough to continue to chase him.

I could be wrong but I this might be a setup for everyone to think that the wedding is off, when it's really ON.

Who says Ben is an angel? I said he was dumb! He can't gamble for shit and can't stop drinking, though I can see why he was drinking when he was with her.

BTW, the wedding is definitely OFF. According to today's NY Post, she flew to Georgia to see him when he refused to fly to Miami to see her and according to a friend of his, he has absolutely no intentions of rekindling her relationship, but hey, we all can be wrong.

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:20 PM
i think she actually was into puffy. i liked them together :o

but, why shouldnt the bride be able to wear white? not too many woman who get married today are virgins, and thats what the white is posed to represent. so by that, shouldnt they just have to wear a non-white wedding dress anyway? please this isnt the 1950s anymore, things have changed, weddings arent traditional anymore. and shit, the girls got the money, if she wants to blow it on as many weddings as she wants, she should be able too.

i just get pissed off cos so many people talk about her marriages, but theres MUCH worse in hollywood, and the men are usually twice as bad as the women yet they dont get any shit for their behavior. instead, its considered sexy. but girls gossip away about female celebs... one of the reasons i dont particularly care for too many women out there. its just sabotaging your own sex. *shrug

trust, ben is NO angel, im so sick of the media portraying men like saints in their relationships.

Because it is tacky to wear white when you have been married before, as it is tacky to wear white when you are noticiably pregnant and had a kid outside of marriage. In addition, I think it is tacky for someone who has been married before to get married in a church, but I am a traditionalist when it comes to marriage.

decemberlove
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:22 PM
Because it is tacky to wear white when you have been married before, as it is tacky to wear white when you are noticiably pregnant and had a kid outside of marriage. In addition, I think it is tacky for someone who has been married before to get married in a church, but I am a traditionalist when it comes to marriage.

hmm... seems so.

i dont think its tacky at all. you think its tacky to wear white after labor day too? :devil:

marriage wasnt originally a religious bond, despite what many people like to believe.

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:27 PM
hmm... seems so.

i dont think its tacky at all. you think its tacky to wear white after labor day too? :devil:

marriage wasnt originally a religious bond, despite what many people like to believe.

No, but I wouldn't wear white after Fall starts.

decemberlove
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:30 PM
really? white & chocolate brown are my favorite colors to wear in the winter :)

wow liz, you are a traditionalist. ah well, respect for sticking to your beliefs!

decemberlove
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:33 PM
i am the complete opposite of a traditionalist :)

lizchris
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:39 PM
BTW, I always thought the not wearing white after Labor Day was stupid becasue technically, it is still Summer when Labor Day rolls around.

Dawn Marie
Sep 21st, 2003, 02:54 AM
Hmm even though J-Lo gets on my nerve, I really think she is in love with Ben. I think Ben was the ONE for her. Yet Ben got cold feet. He realizes J-Lo aint getting any younger and that she has a history of bad relationships.

I think Ben did her dirrty though. The wedding was only days away, then to suddenly break it all off? I am sorry but that is so wrong and that is playing with people's emotions.

Anyway, since Gigli got bad reviews Ben took a ste back and realized that staing with J-Lo could harm his movie career. J-Lo has lots of money and lots of other interest where as Ben only has his movies to hang onto.

From a movie star standpoint he made the best move, but from a human being standpoint his is plain wrong. He could have told her about his feelings before days before their marriage. Although she is better off knowing the truth now.


Anyway, J-Lo needs to get her a man like Puffy who can hold his own and who has there own money. They seem to be the better couple.. but does she want kids by a dark brotha? Hmmm ... she MARRIES the lights but screws the bro's? kinda makes u go Hmm... lmao.

Rocketta
Sep 21st, 2003, 04:40 AM
Hey I'm sorry I'm no traditionalist but frankly the wedding loses its luster when its your 3rd. Since she is the one wanting all the "wedding" stuff it just doesn't make any sense to me. I mean like I said I think she's in love with the "wedding" and not the marriage if you know what I mean. Its all about the pomp and circumstance and not the ever after with some people. :sad:

Well one thing is for sure we will never know the truth....:sad:....However, I know it's not any of our business to know but I'm nosey......:o

Rocketta
Sep 21st, 2003, 04:41 AM
Oh did anyone see Beyonce on Oprah? Oprah told her to look at what's happening to Ben and Jen and keep her business with Jay-Z private...:o