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Bacardi
Sep 20th, 2003, 12:35 AM
I've had horrendous luck with all the women I've dated or gotten involved with. One reason or the other, it always turns out to be a cold slap in the face. Even now, as I type this... Once again, horrible luck. So this past week I have seriously been considering dating men again. I haven't been out with one since February of this year, so it's been a relatively long break. And after all, the bitches I've been involved with make the jerks of this world look like princes! :eek:

So this past week I've been talking to this guy named Jeremy. He's a little younger than me, not much... but he seems like a super nice guy. And best of all he's not a saint like the other assholes I got involved with (damn they were boring). And I heard from a friend that Jeremy is gonna consider asking me out sometime within the next week. And this leaves me thinking, would it really be all that bad to throw the towel in on being bisexual... and bring back a man into my life? Because hell, at this point.... after all those women.... Anything, is starting to look good! And I am getting awfully lonely and in need of someone to have fun with, or at least talk to.

What do you all think? Should I try sticking to women, all 3 of which I was involved with found a new and creative way to shoot me down (some even done it more than once). Or should I go back out with men, where I had the upper-hand and called all the shots (I never had one of them dump me). What would you do, if you were me? :confused:

GBFH
Sep 20th, 2003, 12:39 AM
simple....M E N!

go for it, babe ;)

Car Key Boi
Sep 20th, 2003, 12:46 AM
:banana:

GBFH
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:10 AM
HAH!

what CKB said. TROOF :banana:

alexusjonesfan
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:17 AM
Bacardi, do any of the women at wtaworld offering to throw themselves at you know about this?! :o

Other than that, I only have one other thing to say:

Humidity's rising
Barometer's getting low
According to all sources
The street's the place to go

'Cos tonight for the first time
At just about half past ten
For the first time in history
It's gonna start raining men

It's raining men
Hallelujah it's raining men, Amen
It's raining men
Hallelujah it's raining men, Amen

Humidity's rising
Barometer's getting low
According to all sources
The street's the place to go

'Cos tonight for the first time
At just about half past ten
For the first time in history
It's gonna start raining men

It's raining men
Hallelujah it's raining men, Amen
I'm gonna go out
I'm gonna let myself get
Absolutely soaking wet

It's raining men
Hallelujah it's raining men
Every specimen
Tall blond dark and mean
Rough and tough and strong and lean

God bless Mother Nature
She's a single woman too
She took on a heaven
And she did what she had to do
She taught every angel
To rearrange the sky
So that each and every woman
Could find her perfect guy

It's raining men
Go get yourself wet girl
I know you want to

I feel stormy weather moving in
About to begin
Hear the thunder
Don't you lose your head
Rip off the roof and stay in bed

It's raining men Hallelujah
It's raining men, Amen
It's raining men Hallelujah
It's raining men, Amen

It's raining men Hallelujah
It's raining men, Amen
It's raining men Hallelujah
It's raining men, Amen

Bacardi
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:44 AM
I don't know if they know, or not.... all has seemed quiet around here... So maybe they just don't give a shit anymore?

I'm tellin ya, women = PROBLEMS! I'm one myself and can't even make a relationship work with one.. How's that for fuct up!?

I went to see Jeremy he was at work, nice guy... but he's 19 and I'm going to be 24 in Dec. :eek:

King Satan
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:45 AM
Yes, give me a chance!

lol

Mattographer
Sep 20th, 2003, 03:08 AM
I don't know if they know, or not.... all has seemed quiet around here... So maybe they just don't give a shit anymore?

I'm tellin ya, women = PROBLEMS! I'm one myself and can't even make a relationship work with one.. How's that for fuct up!?

I went to see Jeremy he was at work, nice guy... but he's 19 and I'm going to be 24 in Dec. :eek:
4 years behind is no big deal.

Mark43
Sep 20th, 2003, 04:00 AM
Drink up Bacard and see what happens.

Rocketta
Sep 20th, 2003, 04:38 AM
hey what happened to the girl who made the committment the other day? :unsure:

I say if Women is what floats your boat the most don't break some guys heart because you were never truly available to him.

or do what you want. :dance:

Dizzy Miss Lizzy
Sep 20th, 2003, 11:29 AM
4 years behind is no big deal.

I've dated a guy who was three years younger then me, he was 21 at that time, i was 24, and I can assure you that it is a big deal. First it worked out well, but after a week (:o) i realised that he was so immature. So i would never date anyone anymore who isn't older then 23.

Jennifer's wife
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:07 PM
how can you say i dont care, if thats me your reffering to? :eek: Ive been going thru some shit this week of my own. Men are all assholes, they want you for one thing and wen they dont get it they dont wanna be your freind anymore. well thats my opinion for what its worth. U know i want you Bacardi, u just dont seem to feel the same, which then makes you think im not interested. :sad: i just dont want to be hurt as usual :cryin2: getting my hopes up for nothing when all people do is let me down. :sobbing: if u think that means i dont care about you, you are wrong, but what can i do?

vs1
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:11 PM
If you find love with someone and it feels right and it feeds both your souls, then you are LUCKY. Why have any hang ups. Life's too short!!! Eat dessert first!! :lick: :lol:

Bacardi
Sep 20th, 2003, 02:29 PM
how can you say i dont care, if thats me your reffering to? :eek: Ive been going thru some shit this week of my own. Men are all assholes, they want you for one thing and wen they dont get it they dont wanna be your freind anymore. well thats my opinion for what its worth. U know i want you Bacardi, u just dont seem to feel the same, which then makes you think im not interested. :sad: i just dont want to be hurt as usual :cryin2: getting my hopes up for nothing when all people do is let me down. :sobbing: if u think that means i dont care about you, you are wrong, but what can i do?

Wasn't referring to you at all Lucy :hug: Just some other people around here who've gone back to giving me shit this week. So it's been one big mess here for me since Monday off and on.... and lately it's just been on. So I started thinking, since I was talking to this Jeremy guy up at the univ when I go to visit my friends what would be the harm in seeing about "one date" with him? Because the women here (and you're not here so I don't mean you at all :kiss: ) are real bitches! And I just miss some company, if I went out with him God knows it wouldn't mean sex or anything... it would be more to have a friend if anything. Since most of my so called friends from years and years have decided they hate me since I'm bi. Ah, the shit never ends.... maybe i should just jump off a bridge or something later. :retard:

Jennifer's wife
Sep 20th, 2003, 03:17 PM
you should make new friends. im spending lots of time with my girlfreinds at the moment coz u know how awkward my male friends are being! ;) having freinds is what you need to get u thru rough times. just dont complicate things with sex!! ive learnt that the hard way!!! :unsure: and just please remember that i am with you, even tho im not always online! :hug:

GBFH
Sep 20th, 2003, 06:10 PM
bacardi, i'm sorry to hear of your troubles. i really am. as a straight female, i really can't imagine being with another woman as there's just something about men that attracts like nothing else, you know? also, i can be real bitchy sometimes and for me to have to deal with more estrogen than i put out myself is beyond impossible for me. yup! i love men. no doubt.

here's my advice to you. go back to trying a relationship with a man. who knows? maybe jeremy will convince you that the male species does indeed have quite a lot to offer. one thing i'm sure you'll enjoy after all this time being away from men...the sheer physical differences between us. :)

well there goes my shot with DD :sad:

unfortunately, it looks as though our dear Bacardi has fallen into the clutches of the dreaded EX once again. poor jeremy...does he look anything like Martin Brodeur/Scott Stevens/Bill Guerin/John Lynch? if so, ship his fine ass to Dallas.

bis2806
Sep 20th, 2003, 07:38 PM
bacardi, try going out with jeremy or some other guys and see if going out with guys works out for and most importantly, come to reality which one is right for you, guys or girls..... i believe there are more people out there who are truly nice unlike assholes as you mentioned...

CC
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:10 PM
i can be real bitchy sometimes and for me to have to deal with more estrogen than i put out myself is beyond impossible for me.


This is one of the reasons I'm straight: there's only room for one bitch. :hehehe:

decemberlove
Sep 20th, 2003, 08:57 PM
bacardi, i'm sorry to hear of your troubles. i really am. as a straight female, i really can't imagine being with another woman as there's just something about men that attracts like nothing else, you know? also, i can be real bitchy sometimes and for me to have to deal with more estrogen than i put out myself is beyond impossible for me. yup! i love men. no doubt.


thats why i dont date girls, i only fuck them.


bacardi, you are a drama queen to the fullest, you should prolly stay away from other drama queens. not all girls are the same, but you seem to like them like that.

my advice, just lay low for a bit and try to avoid any type of relationship until you get your head straight, yknow?

g'luck :)

and remember: once a mistake, always a mistake

Barrie_Dude
Sep 21st, 2003, 04:29 AM
Bacardi, try me and I will show you alot about how a decent man can treat the woman he loves! :hearts: :kiss:

Jennifer's wife
Sep 21st, 2003, 03:04 PM
bacardi, you are a drama queen to the fullest, you should prolly stay away from other drama queens. not all girls are the same, but you seem to like them like that.

my advice, just lay low for a bit and try to avoid any type of relationship until you get your head straight, yknow?

g'luck :)

and remember: once a mistake, always a mistake

i second that!!!

CondiLicious
Sep 21st, 2003, 08:45 PM
I couldn't imagine ever dating a guy again. I'll stick with my girl. And if something went wrong with my relationship with her (highly doubt it but you never know) I'd still not go back to guys. I can't be doing with their dangly bits.