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Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 05:30 AM
Eeeeeeeeeeerr, have you ever?! My friend just told me about some on-line Jewish Dating Service... that is very cute they have subdivisions! LOL! But the guy didn't like her!

Shopgurl02: i see....i am talking to this guy on jdate that told me he does not think i am attractive....i guess he is not the one
MmeGuga: Aaaaaaaaaaww
MmeGuga: What is jdate?!
Shopgurl02: an online jewish dating service
MmeGuga: Aaaaaaaahhh
Shopgurl02: i know!!!!!!!!!!

I didn't know that!

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 05:32 AM
You have used on.

You used the dating service known as WTA World to find out that you wanted to fuck me.

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 05:34 AM
You have used on.

You used the dating service known as WTA World to find out that you wanted to fuck me.

Hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah! When are we gonna go on our first date Steam?!

Cariaoke
May 19th, 2003, 05:35 AM
i'm pretty good at meeting people on and offline so I think the idea is pretty lame for someone like me. But usually career-oriented people with not a lot of time on their hands find it useful. I am not one of those people since I have a GPA to worry about. :)

King Lindsay
May 19th, 2003, 05:36 AM
HELL NO. Dating services are for pathetic lonely ugly fat disgusting diseased ugly fat diseased disgustting losers. and Jewish people, apparently.

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 05:38 AM
Hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah! When are we gonna go on our first date Steam?!

Whenever you learn how to drive ;)

And I know that you pleasured yourself to those pics I sent you :p

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 05:39 AM
i'm pretty good at meeting people on and offline so I think the idea is pretty lame for someone like me. But usually career-oriented people with not a lot of time on their hands find it useful. I am not one of those people since I have a GPA to worry about. :)

I just think, they advertise those services by showing insanely beautiful girls. But ofcourse girls who actually look like that aren't gonna use the service. So why would any guy expect to get a girl like that from an on-line dating service, vice versa. It's just as ridiculous as going on TV to COMPETE for someones affections like on The Bachelor and Joe Millionaire... I wrote a paper on that! I got an A. LOL! Hahaha. I am sorry, but it was like, the best paper I ever wrote!!!!

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 05:41 AM
Whenever you learn how to drive ;)

And I know that you pleasured yourself to those pics I sent you :p

Um, girls don't masturbate. Only guys do... We have more, stamina--well, most of us, I find more guys get off to pictures of their girlfriends than girls do to photos of their boyfriends... not like I did a study, and not like I ever had a boyfriend. LOL! But us girls talk... and I can drive. I just don't have a liscense to allow me to, :(

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 05:43 AM
Pffff, and what's wrong with YOU Steam, that you can't drive down there? Lazy ass :p

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 05:45 AM
Pffff, and what's wrong with YOU Steam, that you can't drive down there? Lazy ass :p

Yes, I am lazy. She is the one who desparately wants to fuck me. Its the least she can do. Plus, my bed is much better.

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 05:47 AM
Yes, I am lazy. She is the one who desparately wants to fuck me. Its the least she can do. Plus, my bed is much better.

At least make him pay for your travel expenses. It's the least HE can do for the fantastic fuck you'll give him :p

Cariaoke
May 19th, 2003, 05:48 AM
I just think, they advertise those services by showing insanely beautiful girls. But ofcourse girls who actually look like that aren't gonna use the service. So why would any guy expect to get a girl like that from an on-line dating service, vice versa. It's just as ridiculous as going on TV to COMPETE for someones affections like on The Bachelor and Joe Millionaire... I wrote a paper on that! I got an A. LOL! Hahaha. I am sorry, but it was like, the best paper I ever wrote!!!!
well, it's been established that men are not that bright. ;)

I think there's good services and bad ones. Obviously, the pop-up ones are geared towards the horny male who lacks common sense while the big chains (the names escape me) advertise possible marriage. I think both are kind of sad because nothing is guaranteed, especially online. But the ones offering possible sexual hook-ups are the lowest of the low.

Mateo Mathieu
May 19th, 2003, 05:51 AM
Never!!

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 05:51 AM
Um, girls don't masturbate. Only guys do... We have more, stamina--well, most of us, I find more guys get off to pictures of their girlfriends than girls do to photos of their boyfriends... not like I did a study, and not like I ever had a boyfriend. LOL! But us girls talk... and I can drive. I just don't have a liscense to allow me to, :(
That was just a joke about girls not masturbating, wasn't it?

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 05:52 AM
That was just a joke about girls not masturbating, wasn't it?

:devil: *takes notes*

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 05:53 AM
Well, it's good we have a great distance between us Steam, because my birthday resolution is no more sex until I actually have a boyfriend. And I know then, that won't be until atleast 4 months from now because I am on summer break at home, and I am not some sort of exotic beauty here, so I won't find a man. :sad: I am not the All-American girl enough. I can't wait to get back to DC. Living here is complete torture. I really hope I can finally get a man when I go back to school!

hitman
May 19th, 2003, 05:54 AM
becca, you make jesus sad

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 05:55 AM
That was just a joke about girls not masturbating, wasn't it?

Girls definitely masturbate, but they aren't as dependent on it as males are. I could never imagine myself masturbating to someone's picture or a very descriptive love letter

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 05:56 AM
Well, it's good we have a great distance between us Steam, because my birthday resolution is no more sex until I actually have a boyfriend. And I know then, that won't be until atleast 4 months from now because I am on summer break at home, and I am not some sort of exotic beauty here, so I won't find a man. :sad: I am not the All-American girl enough. I can't wait to get back to DC. Living here is complete torture. I really hope I can finally get a man when I go back to school!


Well, it looks like you are left to dream about me. I hope those pics are enough for you when you know that the real thing is right here.

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:02 AM
Well, it looks like you are left to dream about me. I hope those pics are enough for you when you know that the real thing is right here.

lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooo :D :D :D

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:02 AM
becca, you make jesus sad
I do, don't I? :sad:

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:02 AM
I do, don't I? :sad:

:devil: *takes notes*

kournikovafan13
May 19th, 2003, 06:03 AM
No.....they're all fugly as hell.

King Satan
May 19th, 2003, 06:03 AM
I do, don't I? :sad:
but you make Satan proud! :)

:wavey: nite everyone!

hitman
May 19th, 2003, 06:03 AM
Masturbation is ugly! :sad:

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:04 AM
lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooo :D :D :D

Oh fuck off, you tramp. I am so fucking hot it isn't even funny.

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:04 AM
Girls definitely masturbate, but they aren't as dependent on it as males are. I could never imagine myself masturbating to someone's picture or a very descriptive love letter
I wouldn't say that either men or women are more "dependant" on masturbation than the other. It's a pefectly healthy practice that is seen in both sexes. Men are trained to be more visual than women, but masturbation is still commonplace among the female population...regardless of their method of arousal.

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 06:04 AM
Fernando, you never masturbate to the thought of Ferna?!

Leena
May 19th, 2003, 06:05 AM
This board is a dating service...

Who's going to win me?

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:05 AM
Masturbation is ugly! :sad:
Lmao...only when somebody else is doing it :D

King Lindsay
May 19th, 2003, 06:05 AM
Girls definitely masturbate, but they aren't as dependent on it as males are. I could never imagine myself masturbating to someone's picture or a very descriptive love letter

Um, who the hell masturbates to a love letter?

hitman
May 19th, 2003, 06:06 AM
Um, who the hell masturbates to a love letter?
lol. yeah, I wonder that too.

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:06 AM
This board is a dating service...

Who's going to win me?

That isn't a very select group to be in. You have been won more than the Stanley Cup.

kournikovafan13
May 19th, 2003, 06:06 AM
lmao! well maybe if it's really perverted they'll get aroused or something....can't imagine doing it myself though :confused:

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 06:07 AM
I wouldn't say that either men or women are more "dependant" on masturbation than the other. It's a pefectly healthy practice that is seen in both sexes. Men are trained to be more visual than women, but masturbation is still commonplace among the female population...regardless of their method of arousal.

I dunno about you, but I think men probably do it more, and in a room with an equal no. of girls and boys, the ratio of girls to boys who masturbate would be less:more.

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:07 AM
Oh fuck off, you tramp. I am so fucking hot it isn't even funny.

Bit rich to call ME a tramp, you whore :p
Becca, Leena, Nwando...shall I go on? skank :p

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 06:08 AM
Um, who the hell masturbates to a love letter?

A very descriptive love letter

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:08 AM
Um, who the hell masturbates to a love letter?
I do it all the time. I usually leave off the part about how I wrote the love letter to myself, but just for today I'll share.

kournikovafan13
May 19th, 2003, 06:08 AM
:eek:

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:08 AM
Bit rich to call ME a tramp, you whore :p
Becca, Leena, Nwando...shall I go on? skank :p

I can't believe you are attempting to sully my good name.

You fucking bitch :fiery:

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:09 AM
I do it all the time. I usually leave off the part about how I wrote the love letter to myself, but just for today I'll share.

What about MY love letters? :sad:

hitman
May 19th, 2003, 06:09 AM
That isn't a very select group to be in. You have been won more than the Stanley Cup.
LMAO! :o

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:10 AM
I can't believe you are attempting to sully my good name.

You fucking bitch :fiery:

good name????
bwah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!!!! :D :D :D

You fucking slut :p

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 06:10 AM
I was just giving an example of what people masturbate to. My best friend's ex-boyfriend enjoyed her love letters where she would write very sexual stories, and he would masturbate to them.

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:10 AM
I dunno about you, but I think men probably do it more, and in a room with an equal no. of girls and boys, the ratio of girls to boys who masturbate would be less:more.
The numbers do indicate that more men masturbate than women...at least any numbers that I have seen. However, there are scores of factors that effect those numbers... more than I am educated enough to speak about, honestly. It is not as simple as "men need it more".

hitman
May 19th, 2003, 06:11 AM
I dunno about you, but I think men probably do it more, and in a room with an equal no. of girls and boys, the ratio of girls to boys who masturbate would be less:more.
The ratio of girls to boys that ADMITEDLY masturbate. That would be accurate.

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:11 AM
What about MY love letters? :sad:
The ones that detail our exchanges in the Marty Party? For sure, those ones are at the top of the pile!

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:12 AM
The ones that detail our exchanges in the Marty Party? For sure, those ones are at the top of the pile!

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:13 AM
The ratio of girls to boys that ADMITEDLY masturbate. That would be accurate.
That is one thing. It is mroe socially acceptable for a guy to say he masturbates than it is for girl to admit it. Not to suggest that it's unacceptable for women to say it, but for some reason it's considered more taboo, even still. Social factors such as these can effect how one decides to answer questions about their sexuality on a poll.

kournikovafan13
May 19th, 2003, 06:13 AM
I think you should post a few of your letters, Becca....

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:14 AM
good name????
bwah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!!!! :D :D :D

You fucking slut :p

Don't you call me a fucking slut you dime store hooker. It is not my fault that I am loved and you are just gutter trash :fiery: :fiery:

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:15 AM
Don't you call me a fucking slut you dime store hooker. It is not my fault that I am loved and you are just gutter trash :fiery: :fiery:

You're loved? pfffffff
you are a tramp, nothing more. If you were loved, Nwando would go see you no matter what :p

She sees what I see: you're a cheap two-bit man-whore :p

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 06:16 AM
That is one thing. It is mroe socially acceptable for a guy to say he masturbates than it is for girl to admit it. Not to suggest that it's unacceptable for women to say it, but for some reason it's considered more taboo, even still. Social factors such as these can effect how one decides to answer questions about their sexuality on a poll.

Well, maybe... well, college girls will admit anything. LOL! Atleast at my uni

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:16 AM
I think you should post a few of your letters, Becca....
*ahem* They are for MY viewing only. If I shared them with the world I would have even more people stalking my at McDonalds.

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:18 AM
You're loved? pfffffff
you are a tramp, nothing more. If you were loved, Nwando would go see you no matter what :p

She sees what I see: you're a cheap two-bit man-whore :p

Oh get a grip you skank. If I wasn't loved you wouldn't constantly reply to my posts and follow me into threads :p

And she would come up to see me if she could. She knows how cute I am and all about the <ahem> equipment that I have.

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:21 AM
Oh get a grip you skank. If I wasn't loved you wouldn't constantly reply to my posts and follow me into threads :p

And she would come up to see me if she could. She knows how cute I am and all about the <ahem> equipment that I have.

WHAT?? you fucking lying psycho!!! YOU were the one who started shit in the song thread last night, YOU replied to ME in that other thread this morning. Lying drunk whore :p

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:22 AM
WHAT?? you fucking lying psycho!!! YOU were the one who started shit in the song thread last night, YOU replied to ME in that other thread this morning. Lying drunk whore :p

Pffffff you are so fucking out of it. You are the one who obviously wants my shit due to some bizarre event that happened almost three years on another board. You have been waiting all that time just to talk to me. Yeah, I'm the psycho :rolleyes:

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:23 AM
Pffffff you are so fucking out of it. You are the one who obviously wants my shit due to some bizarre event that happened almost three years on another board. You have been waiting all that time just to talk to me. Yeah, I'm the psycho :rolleyes:

um, no, I don't want you. And it also has nothing to do with annak.org. :rolleyes:

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:25 AM
um, no, I don't want you. And it also has nothing to do with annak.org. :rolleyes:

Whatever you say stalkie. Now go back to UMass and stop baiting me. :fiery:

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:26 AM
Well, maybe... well, college girls will admit anything. LOL! Atleast at my uni
I guess it's just your uni ;) Or it's just mine that is the exception.

I was in a room for of about 6 girls a while ago, and ever yone of them claimed that they had NEVER experimented with masturbation... riiigghttt. For one thing, it's pretty much human nature to experiment at some point, even if you are only 11 at the time. For another, I think they were full of shit, cause they got awfully defenseive about it. "I don't NEED to mastubate, I have a boyfriend!" As if people in relationships don't masturbate; au contraire, if you have any confidence in Kinsey's work the opposite occurs - apparently those in relationships were found to masturbate just as much if not more. Not to suggest that his studies were flawless, but it was an interesting finding.

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:28 AM
Whatever you say stalkie. Now go back to UMass and stop baiting me. :fiery:

:rolleyes: god, you are retarded. no wonder that chick believed your coworkers.

Gonzo Hates Me!
May 19th, 2003, 06:30 AM
I guess it's just your uni ;) Or it's just mine that is the exception. I was in a room for of about 6 girls a while ago, and everyone of them claimed that they had NEVER experiemented with masturbation... riiigghttt. For one thing, it's pretty much nature to experiment at some point, even if you are only 11. For another thing, I think they were full of shit, cause they got awfully defenseive about it. "I don't NEED to mastubate, I have a boyfriend!" As if people in relationships don't masturbate; au contraire, if you have any confidence in Kinsey's work the opposite occurs - apparently those in relationships were found to masturbate just as much if not more. Not to suggest that his studies were flawless, but it was an interesting finding.

Really, a lot of the girls on my floor admitted to doing it. I think if you've had sexual experience, and for a while, you're lacking in the sex life, that is great reason to masturbate. Although I've never used my own finger. If I could buy a vibrator, I would. But--I'm poor.

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:30 AM
:rolleyes: god, you are retarded. no wonder that chick believed your coworkers.

Yeah, cause thats how I act in real life. When I'm "angry" my face gets all red and I blow out fire.

And don't bring that up anymore.

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:33 AM
Yeah, cause thats how I act in real life. When I'm "angry" my face gets all red and I blow out fire.

And don't bring that up anymore.

Really? that's amazing, you should consider the circus.

No prob.

Steam
May 19th, 2003, 06:33 AM
Really? that's amazing, you should consider the circus.

No prob.

Anyway, I'm going to bed

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:34 AM
Really, a lot of the girls on my floor admitted to doing it. I think if you've had sexual experience, and for a while, you're lacking in the sex life, that is great reason to masturbate. Although I've never used my own finger. If I could buy a vibrator, I would. But--I'm poor.
Well that's the wonderful thing about being female! You don't need to use the finger if you don't want to. Clitoral orgasms are often more easily attainable, and just as satisfying as other orgrams. Women, we have more options than men ;)

But having a sex life does not correlate negatively with masturbation. At least, not in what I have read. Admittedly I ahven't read that much on this subject yet though, so if somebody has alternative arguements I'd be happy to hear them.

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:45 AM
No, I'm rather enjoying this discussion Rebecca. Please, continue :devil: *taking notes*

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:55 AM
What else is there for me to say about it? :o

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 06:58 AM
Some women - according to Naiomi Wolf's "The Beauty Myth" - say that while masturbating they fantasize that they are the guy inside of the female, because they envy the absolute pleasure that men are able to obtain from womens bodies; pleasure that women are trained to think they are unable to access in the same way.

I don't really have an opinion on that, mind you, but it sounded interesting if nothing else.

GBFH
May 19th, 2003, 06:59 AM
Hell, I'll believe it.

Crazy Canuck
May 19th, 2003, 07:10 AM
I'm off to bed, but I'll be back with more tomorrow :p

hitman
May 19th, 2003, 04:03 PM
my fucking connection let me down and I went to bed. Look at all I missed!

F-U-C-K !

decemberlove
May 19th, 2003, 09:20 PM
true DD... theres a dating service for every race, religion, hobby, etc. there are actually some beautiful people on dating services. my friend met her girlfriend on one of them... and both of them happen to be gorgeous.

yes, there are a fair share of ugly, fat people on dating services, but it seems the majority on dating services are just too busy to look around, dont like the corny club scene, etc. match.com is a famous one [thats the one my friend used]. adultfriendfinder.com is geared more towards the sexual freak community. nerve.com is more for the artsy type of person.

would i ever use one? prolly not. i dont have trouble meeting people... and im not too busy to meet people either. but im not one to say never.


masturbation shouldnt just be cos a girl is lonely. it should be about discovering one's self.. what one likes etc. no wonder so many women in america donthave orgasms during sex... many of them dont know what they like and even when they do, are afraid to tell their partner [dont wanna hurt the itty bitty male ego]. i think its something like only 28% of women in america have orgasms during sex. thats HORRIBLE.

also, i think a lot more women masturbate then will admit to it. for men, its accepted... theres constantly talk of it on tv, jokes on sticoms... rarely do you see any type of female masturbations jokes... i think sex and the city was maybe the first to ever talk about females masturbating. many women are still very uncomfortable about the subject.. its sad. hopefully one day well be able to talk about it like men do.

Helen Lawson
May 19th, 2003, 09:40 PM
Anne Welles is using an on-line dating service. Lawrenceville really does not have too many eligible men, even the local innkeeper is a little old for Anne. After Lyon strung her along for years and finally proposed marriage to her after dumping her twice, she told him that she had wanted to hear that for so long, but that now, she felt nothing. Then she left him alone in her house and went for a walk in the snowy woods with a stick.

She did later return to her house and now is looking for Mr. Right and using an on-line dating service. It is called something like "washed-up hair product models who need men" or along those lines. Neely and I cannot believe how desperate she is! Anne was the girl with the million dollar face and all the bad breaks. Apart from being jilted by Lyon, strung along by Lyon for years, and being addicted to the green ones, she has had a pretty nice life, though, I never understood that "all the bad breaks" stuff. She made a lot of money from the Gillian Girl ads.

Keith
May 19th, 2003, 09:56 PM
Everytime someone tells me they've met their newest trick/boyfriend/lover/friend/whatever it is from online, I can't help but think about how brave they were for admitting that out loud. I hate to say this, but I tend to slightly look down on people that do that. I've met people from online before, but ya know, it's never ever better than what I expect. It always sucks and they stalk me.

BritneySpearsIsHot
May 19th, 2003, 09:56 PM
Well i've never used one but if people do then that's there choice, it's the people that abuse the people that do that are sad, they must feel the need to put people down as they feel either inadequate or something, anything to make them feel above others.

As for masturbation, it's all statistics, like many say, 84.78% of statistics are made up. men and women of all ages masturbate, people are made to feel as if it's dirty thus don't admit it, such is the judgemental world we live in and the low life people we meet from day to day, people in relationships masturbate, partners aren't always going to be around to satisfy when that 'feeling' comes along, i guess it depends on your sex drive

Keith
May 19th, 2003, 09:58 PM
A dating service would be out of the question! Besides, I've been in a relationship for 3 years now.