Do u ever love some one, but u cant get closer to her? When u need to be her man but she doesnt need u? I have a girl friend, only friend but we are very close. When she fallin love to other man, I feel nothing and I let her gone. But after that, i feel it hurts when i met her with her boyfriend, i'm jealous. Since she's gone i feel i lost my bright lights, i lost my way, i lost my happyness and i feel like a sore loser. Now the only thing i need to do is forget her forever because she'll never see me.
May 15th, 2003, 11:48 PM
I told her i love her, but she answer me that she only see me as a friend. She ask me to control my love to her, it means she doesnt want me to love her and maybe she want me to forget her. I sad when i call her by phone, she never at home. When I send e-mail and waiting for the reply, nothing comes. When i send Short Message (SMS) she didnt reply me. So it's clear that she never see me :sad: :sad: :sad:
I really really want to forget her but i dont know how. Her face always in my mind and her voice always sounds in my heart.
May 15th, 2003, 11:53 PM
Hang in there, things might seem bad just now but you will feel better and I'm sure there will be someone else that will come along that you end up liking even more than this girl. It might take a while but it will happen.
If she's not answering you, then you should move on to someone who will bother, all people should only bother about someone who will care as much back.
May 16th, 2003, 08:25 AM
oh you poor thing!*hug*
May 16th, 2003, 09:20 AM
Unfortonately I know the feeling. now use youe talents, paint a picture, wrighte a poem, create something, allow yourself to feel sad, and in the end you get stronger of this. You will feel better, and she might as well admire you for it. This is called life experience, and is the reason to why someone have greater insight to the path of live´s mysterious passages than others.
May 16th, 2003, 03:52 PM
It's rough, i've had 2 jobs in the last year where i have liked someone who wouldn't like me, although i have never told them.........and i think they both had partners. The job i just finished had a lovely young lady, very elegant for one so young ~(i'd say 20-23 years maybe) polite and friendly (a rare quality it seems) yet she wouldn't touch me, so i never felt confident enough to even talk to her.
You just have to move on and find someone else, and unless you look like me, you will do........but never give up, she may split and turn to you one day, although i know it seems like they'll be the only couple to succeed right now, have hope but move on
May 18th, 2003, 01:12 PM
Be confident, time heals many things, or at least makes them fade away. Whether this is a good or a sad thing is another question.
May 18th, 2003, 01:47 PM
:kiss:, you' ll have better days soon :) !!!!!
May 18th, 2003, 02:40 PM
ns, I am going through something very similar right now. I'm suddenly head over heals in love with this guy who I work with. It's so strange because he's 48yrs old. But he's so so sexy, and his personality is incredible. Although I am in a relationship with a wonderful man, I just can't help fantasizing about my co-worker. This man has a daughter my age, and has been with his girlfriend for many years. I hope this is just a crush and will soon pass, because I just can't see myself expressing these feelings to anyone in my life. I feel terrible. Love stinks :sad:
May 20th, 2003, 03:54 PM
Tomorrow I call her and we talked about 50 minutes... When the last time I saw her, Im shocked :eek: because I never see her wearing skirt, with a long hair, wear a girl shoes, very girly. And of course she was with her boy friend :fiery: I call her to ask what happen with her right now, because she'll never be the same, her boy successfully changed her to a real girl :o But i prefer her old style, simple style :)