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rocktheboat
Dec 2nd, 2002, 11:31 AM
Being plain nosey here ;) but mostly cuz am turning into one more and more :p Wanna know where I stand :p

So how do u like ur girls ?

Long hair or short hair?
Short but long hair is fine too :p

older or younger than u?
younger

Taller or shorter than u?
Doesn't matter

Brunette or blonde or other?
Brunette

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
not too girly

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
A bit of flesh :p

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
Not yet but hoping that it will be yes in a few weeks :p

u may add more questions (and answers!) to the above if u wish :)

DutchieGirl
Dec 2nd, 2002, 11:41 AM
So how do u like ur girls ?

Long hair or short hair?
LONG!!!

older or younger than u?
usually older, but younger is ok too

Taller or shorter than u?
Doesn't matter

Brunette or blonde or other?
blonde

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
girly... I'm not really into the whole Butch thing

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
skinny, but a bit of flesh is ok too

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?

umm no, and no :sad:

Cersei
Dec 2nd, 2002, 11:47 AM
Long hair or short hair?
Short, but sometimes long

older or younger than u?
doesn't matter

Taller or shorter than u?
not too tall

Brunette or blonde or other?
Brunette

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
not too girly, not too butch

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
not too skinny,not too much flesh lol

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
yes and yes

Elske
Dec 2nd, 2002, 04:48 PM
Long hair or short hair?
Short :hearts:

older or younger than u?
older

Taller or shorter than u?
shorter

Brunette or blonde or other?
blonde

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
girly

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
lots of flesh :o :cool:

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
yes and yes

Julie
Dec 2nd, 2002, 04:54 PM
Long hair or short hair?
Short, well shortish

older or younger than u?
Older

Taller or shorter than u?
Same height or a bit either way - not hugely bothered if they have that other something ;)

Brunette or blonde or other?
not fussed!!

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
Boyish leaning to girly.

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
doesnt matter

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
No and yes, but in hindsight she didnt really mean it anyway so blah lol ;)

Luna_Angel_84
Dec 2nd, 2002, 06:45 PM
Long hair or short hair?
Long hair preferably, but not too fussy

older or younger than u?
Either, preferably older

Taller or shorter than u?
Bout the same

Brunette or blonde or other?
Brunette

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
In the middle- no bimbos but no butch lesbos either

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
A bit of flesh

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
No cos never had someone to say it to.

*Bubbles*
Dec 2nd, 2002, 07:02 PM
Long hair or short hair?
long but short is okay

older or younger than u?
older

Taller or shorter than u?
doesn't matter

Brunette or blonde or other?
brunette

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
girly (not very girly but not butch)

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
skinny or a bit of flesh

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
double no

Jennifer's wife
Dec 2nd, 2002, 08:27 PM
1.long hair
2.pref older but not bothered rite now!
3.taller
4.brunette or gingery red (as long as its dyed!)
5.girly but not a dumass
6.flesh esp nice knockers!
7. yes to Jen Cap! and er no :(

Tammy
Dec 2nd, 2002, 08:47 PM
1. - long hair, but short hair is fine as long as it suits them..
2. - older
3. - same height/ a little taller
4. - doesn't matter
5. - er not too butch nor girly - normal, but then again who the hells normal? :confused::o
6. - doesn't matter..
7. yes & yes :)

Gonzo Hates Me!
Dec 2nd, 2002, 09:47 PM
I didn't know this many were lesbian. I honestly believe I am not!! I mean, I have only been intimate with men. But I find women attractive. Subconciously, maybe I am. So I'll answer these questions!!!!

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So how do u like ur girls ? I think girls with unique faces are gorgeous

Long hair or short hair? Omigod, it doesn't matter!

older or younger than u? there is nothing more attractive than a strong, independent woman in her mid or late twenties

Taller or shorter than u? I am tall, so, that's a rarity!!! I am used to smaller girls!! I think tall girls are so beautiful. I think models are the most beautiful, like some in my signature, Caroline Ribeiro, Ana Claudia Michels

Brunette or blonde or other? there are other hair colors... ultimately, why should that be final judgement

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not? funky girls, girls with nice teeth!

Skinny or a bit of flesh? either!

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u? yeah. and sometimes I wonder if maybe me and this girl really love eachother to that extent. I think she is so beautiful........?!?!?!?!

Melanie2
Dec 4th, 2002, 06:04 AM
Long hair.
Younger or older... doesn't matter.
Taller preferably... I'm 5'3 so shorter is getting... short.
Hair colour not important.
Girly is better than boyish... am not attracted to the boyish thing at all.
Not skinny.. not overweight either, in proportion I guess.
Yeh, I have said "I love you" to someone, and she said it to me.

Since we're asking questions... and I have nothing better to do, here are some more if you would be so kind ;)

Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?

Do your parents know you are lesbian?

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?

Do you want to have children?

Do you think you will have children?

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?



Julie.. sorry to hear she (whoever she was) didn't mean it.

Julie
Dec 4th, 2002, 07:41 AM
Ok - ill start the ball rolling with these new questions :) Someone has too dont they ;)


Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
I do now, i went through quite a long stage of denial, first subconsciously and then consciously until i couldnt take it no more. I dont mind what people call me tbh, so its by the by - and well if they're using the term derogatorily i can give as good asi get in terms of reply. So nope it doesnt bother me one bit :) Im a lesbian and proud :bounce:

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
I have some, i also have my share of straight friends - some of who know and some of who dont.

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
LMAO - see the coming out thread and the turmoil im having in telling my mom, part of me thinks she's sussed but when i try and lead a conversation about it she changes the subject - pffft

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
Lesbians only hold hands and kiss right :rolleyes:

Do you want to have children?
Yes i do, and being a lesbian will not preclude me from that, not in the slightest :)

Do you think you will have children?
Oops - answered that one already - of course it does depends if im in the right relationship - but id like to think so

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
having short nails becomes a necessity, im saying no more on the matter ;) :o

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
Angelina Jolie and yes - sorry am very fickle in the mornigns :p :p

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
Not so far - but then not too many peopel have asked me either - thankfully

Messenger
Dec 4th, 2002, 09:07 AM
Well I don't think the term Lesbian is ever derogatory, even though people tend to think it is it comes from the word Lesbos which is a Mediterannean island that was solely inhabited by women :)

I thought Angelina Jolie was bisexual anyway?

kes
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:25 AM
Long hair or short hair?
Short but long hair is fine too

older or younger than u?
doesn't matter

Taller or shorter than u?
Doesn't matter

Brunette or blonde or other?
whatever

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
I don't like make-up at all - its icky!!!! lol
I also like underarm hair etc. :)
I just like women to be themselves - if they are girly - then that is cool, if they are tomboyish - then that is also fine!!!! :)

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
A bit of flesh

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
Yesssssssssssss - Yesssssssssssss :)

kes
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:38 AM
Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?

Yes - though i didn't when i was younger.

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
Yes - and all my close straight friends know that i'm a lesbian.
If a friend does not accept me for who i am , then they are not my friend!! ;)

Do your parents know you are lesbian?

Yep - my mum is cool about it - my dad - not - but then i never talk to him about anything anyway - so it doesn't feel like a loss.

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
That i don't really have a life!!! My parnerships are not valid.

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
I think everyone has the potential to be gay - and if they are choosing not to, in this lifetime - then it is their loss - lol!!!!!!!

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
No.

.....and one final provocative question...
Is it true that Lesbians have the GREATEST sex???

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS


:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: (LOL)

rocktheboat
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:39 AM
Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
I prefer gay may be cuz it also means gay (joyous) :p but I am still figuring out if I am a lesbian or bi or straight or something else. Not easy :(

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
Online I do but irl only 2 ( one is a man the other one is a mad woman!:p)

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
OMG :eek:! No my dad would banned me from his life - Havent met my mum for some time now but I know shell be fine with it though. :)

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
In real life only my sister knows I am in love with a girl and after the first wave of shock has passed she has been real cool about it and is even paying for my special friends trip :D

Do you want to have children? Nope

Do you think you will have children? Nope

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
When you eye girls butts in the streets :p

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
The one I am in love with is already gay :p A famous person would be Cindy Crawford :p

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
No one has ever asked me directly!

rocktheboat
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:49 AM
More questions

If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
I don't know sincerely. But if that girl I am after turns out to like me a bit then I would not change for the world :)

Have u ever kissed with a girl?
Not yet but hoping to in a few weeks :p

Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
Yes :p It was quite hot :o Could not sleep at all after that ;)

Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
My 'girl' told me she had a very hot dream about someone but she said she could not tell me who. So I am secretly hoping that it was about me! ;)

DutchieGirl
Dec 4th, 2002, 11:32 AM
Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
I odn't use it actually, coz I still consider myself bi - but tending more towards les than straight!

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
In real life... no not really, I don't even know that many gay/les people! :sad:

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
I have told Dad I'm bi, but I don't think he believes...my Mum, I haven't told her, and I don't think she knows, but if she does, I don't care.

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
umm... haven't told that many people yet... but one of my friends assumes that I'm straight till I have tried it with a girl, coz I might not like it... :rolleyes:

Do you want to have children?
Not sure... I love kids, but I've never really wanted any of my own, weird as that may sound.

Do you think you will have children?
Probably not

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person? ehh...there are two people... one is a famous person that I sort of know, the other is a famous person I've never met! ;) Yes... I'd love a relationship with either, but I know it's never gonna happen! ;)

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
ehh...well, I'm bi, so yes, I have denied being a lesbian, but I've only been asked twice, and I did say that I'm bi both times! lol

DutchieGirl
Dec 4th, 2002, 11:34 AM
If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
well, I'm not a lesbian, but if I could choose my sexuality, I think I'd choose to be totally lesbian instead of "undecided" ;)

Have u ever kissed with a girl?
No :sad: :sad: :sad:

Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
Yes, lmao all the time! hehe About many different girls (not all at the same time of course) ;)

Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
umm I dunno... I don't go around asking every girl if they have hot dreams about me... but I doubt anyone has had a hot dream about me! :sad:

CC
Dec 4th, 2002, 12:54 PM
Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....." having short nails becomes a necessity, im saying no more on the matter

Don't mean to interrupt, but I was sooo not prepared for this response. :o

Maybe I should stay out to prevent further surprises. Nah.:p

DutchieGirl
Dec 4th, 2002, 12:57 PM
hmm, see I dunno how I'm gonna deal with the short nails thing, coz my nails are always long! lol

Tammy
Dec 4th, 2002, 04:18 PM
Originally posted by Julie
having short nails becomes a necessity, im saying no more on the matter ;) :o
lmfao :D - wow quite candid this morning weren't you hun :p :angel:

Tammy
Dec 4th, 2002, 04:29 PM
lalala i'll pick and choose some of the quessies *sigh*


Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
- er .. i don't mind it but it doesn't fit me entirely ;)

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
- i have a handful of them indeed :)

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
- er i think they're in denial or too dense to figure it out cuz i dont exactly go about hiding things :o

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
- hm luckily i haven't encounted many stupid assumptions/questions but one of them was "how & why" :rolleyes:

Do you want to have children?
- indeed at some point..

Do you think you will have children?
- indeed *sigh*

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
- i went around it .. didn't outrightly object though i supppose i would consider myself bi at this point? :confused:


If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
- er i'd keep my sexuality the same - i mean why choose? :o ..er i guess im greedy :o

Have u ever kissed with a girl?
- of course :)

baddy2heads
Dec 4th, 2002, 05:53 PM
1. Long hair or short hair?
either, whatever suits them..... i'd go for short on facial and body hair though

2. older or younger than u?
I'm 20 so older tends to be more...moral

3. Taller or shorter than u?
5'3" is just perfect :kiss:

4. Brunette or blonde or other?
I will allow both!

5. very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
Girly is good, some of the least girly people i know wear loads of make-up though....it's nice to see someone's actual face, but if it's done well, make-up is good

6. Skinny or a bit of flesh?
Skinny! i want to be able to see their kidneys through their top! no...um....excessively either way is not so good

7. have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u
yeah, to the current Mrs 2heads, she didn't even mind all that much

8. Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
It doesn't make me uncomfortable but i couldn't give a reasoned explaination (other than it not being the most aestetic of words) why i don't identify with it all that much, and i do (at least more so) with English or Female or....Cooooooool!

9. Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
Zippidy Doo Daa

10. Do your parents know you are lesbian?
yeah! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! i mean yes and i'm very comfortable and relaxed with that (!)

11. What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
that i want to sleep with every woman ever, that i am automatically open-minded (communists!) and less feminine

12. Do you want to have children?
I can see myself wanting them when i am a sensible age

13. Do you think you will have children?
Probably not....maybe...who knows

14. Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
um...you are attracted to and have sex with women/celebrities want to appear in your TV show/men assure you in a serious, but ultimately unconvincing tone, that they have no interest in your sexuality/

15. If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
i would make Laura Bush gay....very gay! and i'd make her announce it to the world before she told George, shave her head on live TV, start having sex with the camera girl whatever....i would also make Saddam a woman, a deeply attractive one and see what happens

16. Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
Have never been seriously sat down and asked that, is it normal for people to do that???? seems rude to me

17. If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
that's a kind of shit question...opp!....i mean it's a good question but hard to answer, the easy life is always desirable but, if it was a serious option, i couldn't do it. I couldn't give my girlfriend up for the world as relieving as she would no doubt find that

18. Have u ever kissed with a girl?
YOU BET YOUR ASS!...um, yes thank you i have

19. Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
um...see question 14

20. Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
it seems deeply unlikely

baddy2heads
Dec 4th, 2002, 06:38 PM
Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way)

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?

Monogamy or lots of girls?

butch discuss

how important is physical attractiveness?

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?

How many women have you loved?

Julie
Dec 4th, 2002, 07:46 PM
Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
My boss :eek:

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way)
So who's question is it then? And am not answering - dont want to make CC or tams spit there drinks again do i ;)


I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???
You just wouldnt understand!!

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
I dont knock anythign but i wouldnt get married myself, its somethign that i consider necessary tp prove i love someone or they love me

Monogamy or lots of girls?
monogamy

butch discuss
A stereotype and an enigma - a nice one. Most butches i knwo have this thing about them, this outward confidence - but underneath they are the softest, sweetest things i have ever met - its like the pleasure pain type thing - a contrast of opposites :)

how important is physical attractiveness?
For me - its very important, i think those who say it isnt are fooling themselves - there has to be some sort of attraction there for things to move past a friendship stage - well for me there does anyway!

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
Nope

How many women have you loved?
just the one and she broke my heart :sad:

Kisha
Dec 4th, 2002, 07:57 PM
:wavey: everyone:)

Martian Mel
Dec 4th, 2002, 08:59 PM
Ok i'm not a lesbian but i am a bit confused so i will try to answer some questions ;)

1. Long hair or short hair?
[B]Doesn't really matter

2. older or younger than u?
doesn't matter, not too young or too old though

3. Taller or shorter than u?
doesn't matter

4. Brunette or blonde or other?
I will allow both!

5. very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
Girly

6. Skinny or a bit of flesh?
Skinny with a bit of flesh ;)

7. have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u
yeah, but that was more in a friendly way

9. Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
Nope

12. Do you want to have children?
Yeah

13. Do you think you will have children?
maybe

14. Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
i dunno tell me ;)

15. If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
i'm so NOT going to answer this lol

18. Have u ever kissed with a girl?
Yes

19. Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
;)

20. Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
[B]i dunno [B]

Luna_Angel_84
Dec 4th, 2002, 09:35 PM
Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?

My granny cos she might write me out of her will since she is an avid church-goer. :p

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way) Of a woman it might be legs, but never stick thin legs. Jen's are perfect.

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???

I'd just ignore him

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?

Fucking cool and wouldn't mind one although I would first of all have to find someone that was willing to get married to me. Not too fussed as to whether I do or not though (as in get married, I wanna find someone now!).

Monogamy or lots of girls?

Monogamy

butch discuss

Something which I hope I'm not. Certaibly doesn't float my boat anyway. Too much testosterone in some people me thinks.

how important is physical attractiveness?

Very, but not in the sense where you have to be classically beautiful. Some can just have something about them that really appeals to you, even if other people wouldn't find them all that attractive.

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?

No

How many women have you loved?

Dunno bout love. I guess it's mainly lust but I DO love jJen! So at least one. ;)

anabel
Dec 4th, 2002, 09:47 PM
It's great to see some female gay, not just boys.

DutchieGirl
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:22 PM
there are quite a few of us here anabel!

Jennifer's wife
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:22 PM
[B]Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
my mum coz she's quite happy ignorin it!! oh and dads little chat this summer was quite cringy!



What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way) face and boobs!

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???

coz u r the alternative!

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?

yes and yes

Monogamy or lots of girls?

just one would b good rite now.....

butch discuss
whats the point of it? if i wanted a girl who looked like a bloke i'd shag a bloke! but as i love all things womanly, feminine is the way to go 4 me!

how important is physical attractiveness?

Very, coz u hav to be in lust with sum1 in order to hav great sex!

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?

No

How many women have you loved?
a couple. right now i love jen:drool: :kiss: :hearts: :lick:

anabel
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:23 PM
lol im seeing. But most of the gay topics are relative to men, i didnt know lot of you here were lesbians

per4ever
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:23 PM
Originally posted by anabel
It's great to see some female gay, not just boys.

I'm starting to wonder if there are still straight people 'though lol

DutchieGirl
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:29 PM
Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
umm, not sure really. I didn't want to tell my Dad much, but he knows now so...

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way) to look at... stomach! That probably sounds weird, but I love cute belly buttons, and nice stomachs! lol

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???
I ask him why why why he always has to be drunk? ;)


What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
I think it's cool if lesbians want to marry...I wish more countries would make it legal. As for getting married myself, I don't know, I'd have to wait and see what happened.

Monogamy or lots of girls?
monogamy

butch discuss
I must say I'm really not into the whole "butch" thing. I mean, they are nice people, but I just don't really find that attractive.

how important is physical attractiveness?
It's important, but I seem to be attracted to people who my friends think are ugly! lol

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
Possibly, depends on how much I loved the person

How many women have you loved?
ehh... well, crush wise, I've had three main ones, but I dunno if you'd call that love as I didn't really know any of them that well.

Cersei
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:46 PM
Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
i don't really like labels...but i'm fine with being a "lesbian" ;)

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
uhm yeah quite a few :)

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
yep they do.mom is ok with it...dad probably isn't but we don't talk about uhm anything

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
uhhhhhhhh i can't really remember...i block out stupid people ;)

Do you want to have children?
at this moment i really don't,but i might change my mind someday

Do you think you will have children?
not really

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
Pink...and someone i know?uhmmm maybe this girl i used to know.


Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
nope

anabel
Dec 4th, 2002, 10:46 PM
Originally posted by per4ever


I'm starting to wonder if there are still straight people 'though lol

lol, well i am straight ;)

DutchieGirl
Dec 4th, 2002, 11:25 PM
lmao K... you are straight aren't ya? :p

DeniseM
Dec 5th, 2002, 06:18 AM
First set of answers

Well, the woman I'm deeply in love with has/is:

Long hair
Biologically quite younger but has an old soul
Shorter
Blonde
Looks femme
Slender

Yes, of course we've said "I love u" to each other and, I believe, meant it. :)

Next set of answers

Yes, I'm comfortable with the label "lesbian". I usually wear a double woman pendant. My girlfriend usually says "gay" or "queer". She has double woman earrings. :)

I have some lesbian friends. But no gay male ones; not that I'm opposed to the possibility.

I have no contact with my one living parent.

Stupidist assumption? I don't know.

I don't want children of my own, but my girlfriend has children. That's fine with me.

No, I wouldn't use magic powers to make anyone gay.

As I wear a double woman pendant, my being lesbian is not exactly a secret.

Next set of answers

Of course I'm for lesbian marriages, and yes, I would get married.

Monogamy is simpler, better, and just fine.

There's nothing wrong with butch. I think it can encompass a fair variety, and a "butch" can still be very feminine in some ways.

Physical attractiveness should be part of a relationship.

Yes, I could stay in a sexless relationship. (Though I'm not at all sure why that question is among the others. You do know, don't you, that there are ways for two women to have various nice forms of sex?)

As for how many women I've loved, I'm not particularly keeping count. But it is a fairly small number. :)

rocktheboat
Dec 5th, 2002, 07:33 AM
Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
My dad! He would kill me on the spot :eek:


What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way)
Lips and hair ---and the rest! :p

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???
Why not :p

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
Its cool and if my girl wanna marry me Ill be glad to oblige :D

Monogamy or lots of girls?
Monogamy. I am the loyal ---and boring type ;)

butch discuss
I like my girls to look like girls, a little boyish(tnot much make-up,short hair ) is fine too. But I dont see myself with someone too stout I am already too thin myself :(

how important is physical attractiveness?
As much as u love someone its important to be attracted physically. I dont see myself kissing or touching someone I don't find attractive.

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
It depends on the reason. Itd be hard but Id do it in the name of love :)

How many women have you loved?
One :D

rocktheboat
Dec 5th, 2002, 07:45 AM
Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
All the islands in the indian ocean :D

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
No.I dont want to end up in a hospital :p

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?
No and I hope it doesn't happen cuz it must be very hard :(

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
Now I think I will :eek No point in having regrets :p

Girls rule?
Of course :bounce:

Tammy
Dec 5th, 2002, 06:59 PM
Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
- er the vast majority of my family - seeing as how they already think im going to hell without then knowing im bi :o

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way)
- breasts, lips :angel:

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???
- em.. why not? :confused:

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
- find nothing wrong with it - in fact it seems normal to me.. and yeah someday if i find the right person :)

Monogamy or lots of girls?
- monogamy :)

butch discuss
- er i have no problems with one being "butch" but then again its just a stereotype - though i fail to find it attractive..

how important is physical attractiveness?
- very.. i mean in order for it to evolve into anything there has to be some to an extent - though that said everyone has a different perception of whats beautiful :)

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
- er probably not knowing myself :o (gee how pitiful does that make me sound? :o)

How many women have you loved?
- one

:wavey: everyone

Melanie2
Dec 6th, 2002, 12:09 AM
Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with? No particular person... I don't like talking about it to people who are homophobic or convinced it's wrong, just because it's impossible for either of us to change our minds, and it just depresses me.

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way) My favourite "part" is the mind (ohhhh, I'm so evolved)... but I'm also partial to cleavage. Favourite part of my partner.. the whole package is pretty lovely.

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; what is with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY??? I don't have an uncle like that.. if I did I would avoid him like the plague.

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself? I think everyone should have the choice... it is completely wrong to only let straight people get married... just because of the rights (immigration for example- legal rights). I would get married.. why not? If the law changed I might do it simply because I could...

Monogamy or lots of girls? Monotony thanks. Ooops, typo ;) Monogamy... please.

ButchEEdiscuss. That's a tough one. I don't like how it's the prevalent stereotype of lesbians... I don't know why it bothers me so much though. Arggg.

How important is physical attractiveness? It's important. But personality and all that jazz makes someone attractive at least as much, if not more, than their looks. But looks are important.

Could you stay in a sexless relationship? I think so.

How many women have you loved? It's a matter of degree really, innit? I have loved a lot of women (ohh, sounds like a song lyric), maybe about 4 that I felt completely "in love with."

Melanie2
Dec 6th, 2002, 12:24 AM
Where would I go on holiday with my girlfriend? Wherever she wanted to go... which would be Stonehenge ;) woooohooo

Do you flirt a lot with girls? No.

Have I ever fallen in love with a straight girl? I really loved a woman who was in a relationship with a guy... and then she dumped him and started one with a woman. So yes, i guess so, I thought she was straight at first.

Would i tell someone i was in love with them if the occasion presented itself? Yes, I think so.
:kiss: I love you pickle xxx

Gonzo Hates Me!
Dec 6th, 2002, 03:59 AM
Originally posted by Poofy
Ok i'm not a lesbian but i am a bit confused so i will try to answer some questions ;)

1. Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
I've never really been labelled one!

2. Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
Let's just say my university is called AU, but is referred to as Gay U... A LOT of gays

3. Do your parents know you are lesbian?
Do I know?!

4. What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
I want to see my assumptions first

5. Do you want to have children?
Children!!!!!!!! Baaaaaaaah!

6. Do you think you will have children?
See above

7. Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
You know

8. If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
ignorant people who don't understand and draw naive conclusions

9. Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
yeah, because I would be bisexual

10. If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
umm...

11. Have u ever kissed with a girl?
No!!... see I have kissed men and it pleasures me incredibly when I kiss them and when they feel my body and we play around!!! I just can't imagine that with a woman!!! But how do I explain my feelings today when watching my friend Stephanie dance?! Something came over me! I am so confused!!

12. Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
No

13. Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
No, but people have have dreams and thoughts about me, guys...!!! Yay!! I feel beautiful

baddy2heads
Dec 6th, 2002, 11:19 AM
Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
Ja Rule....sorry don't know where that came from...um...my brother maybe

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)?
women in general: it depends, everything that is good is good (??) i don't know i guess face is most nicest if it's nice (what the f...??) maybe tummy and chest as well
partner: blimey! everything! mouth, back, legs, hips...everything!

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; what is with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???
because of ....your wife/the chemical testing....jesus i ask some **** questions

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
seems bizarre that everyone doesn't have the right to get married, i guess it's tired up in religion but it's a civil contract when it comes down to it so it shouldn't matter. i don't know if i would... if i was asked, yes (i mean by someone i wanted to stay with forever not like by uncle jeff) but ...i don't know...hard

Monogamy or lots of girls?
one's as much as i can keep up with!

'Butch' discuss.
don't really understand its conection to lesbianism, i mean i'm aware it's more common for gay women to be "butch" but i don't know why, liking girls has never made me want to be like that (not that it's like a bad thing, just don't really understand...aaa the confusion!)

How important is physical attractiveness?
it's nice but i wouldn't say it was important in a relationship...i don't know, maybe i'm talking out of my....i'm so indecisive today...i think it's really personal what you find attractive anyway...i guess it is importnant, not for someone to look typically beautiful but for them to be attractive to...me i guess.

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
i think i would....would be difficult, if you were in love enough to stay in the relationship then you would want to...i'll shut up

How many women have you loved?
one

Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
sounds like it's stonehenge again for me...shall just rip up my tickets for the meddeterainian

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
not that i'm aware of, when i'm drunk sometimes

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?
not fallen in love with any no, liked? yes, of course

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
Right back atcha baby, i love you too :kiss:

Jennifer's wife
Dec 6th, 2002, 08:41 PM
Originally posted by rocktheboat
Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?

wherever Jennifer Capriati is playin!!

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
No.

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?

frequently, unless any1 knows better about mi Jenny??!!!

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
yup! bin single too damn long! :p

Girls rule?
women, yes!:bounce:

Julie
Dec 6th, 2002, 09:18 PM
Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
Thailand, very exotic ;) ;)

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
LMAO - its been said i do :o :o but never when taken - am always an :angel: then

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?
Yep, i have indeed - never told her though and dealt with it on my own and very well i may say so too ;)

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
I surely would - no point in hiding it, now is there???

Girls rule?
women do ;)

*Izzy*
Dec 6th, 2002, 11:40 PM
Well hello..how could I stay out of this thread? :p Whoa my god there appears to be quite an accumulation of questions here....

Long hair or short hair?
~Either. But I like running my hands thru short hair...

older or younger than u?
~Doesn't matter to me. But Not too much of an age gap is preferable

Taller or shorter than u?
~Taller

Brunette or blonde or other?
~Brunette

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
~Hmm...I have a thing for eyeliner, hehe. So I guess I could define it as girly-ish. But not too girly. (How fricken undecisive am I??)

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
~A bit of flesh

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
~Yes, and yes. :D It happened a few weeks ago, and I honestly could not be happier right now

Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
~Don't Label People!!! Don't do it!!!!!! sorry, private joke:p Yes I do, I mean, to myself I'm just.......me. Who happens to be attracted to women, but I don't have a problem with being labelled a lesbian.. I mean I can't really turn round now and say 'oi! Don't call me that!!! Cos I'm not'

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
N~ot really, I have more bi than gay friends.

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
~Yes, my dad was cool with it but my mum weirded out on me. Things are looking up now though cos she told me that me being happy is all that matters.

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
~That I wear yellow dungarees :p Or that I couldn't be gay because I had never had a gf :rolleyes:

Do you want to have children?
~Not right now, but things could change.

Do you think you will have children?
~I think maybe at some point in the future, but I'm only 17 for chrissakes so really, got plenty of time to think about it yet ;)

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
~You realise you've spent the whole weekend lying in bed with your beloved, drinking coffee and inadvertantly watching Madonna on VH1 and Angelina Jolie movies. Hum. Or when you can use KY Jelly as hair gel and not burst into fits of laughter.

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
~Jennifer Connelly (I had to say that really) and course I bloody would for a relationship ;)

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
~Yes, my best friend's bf asked me one time when I told him I wasn't into any blokes at the moment...he knows the truth now though. hehe.

If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
~I have an okay time with being gay, I don't get crap off people for it. So really, I wouldn't change it.

Have u ever kissed with a girl?
~Heck yes:drool:

Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
~See above

Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
~Apparently so...;)

Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
~I don't know really, I guess someone really homophobic. Or something. (can you tell I'm multitasking here?)

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way)
Woman- legs, boobs (well duh;))
Partner- Eyes, lips, arms, neck

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???
~Well he likes girls right? SO is he saying that it's wrong to find women unattractive....? uncle jeff, you are a tosser.

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
~I think it's cool, i mean if people want to do it then why not? I would get married myself, but I think i'd need to be with my gf for a bit longer than I currently have been before any proposals were made :eek:

Monogamy or lots of girls?
~monogamy

butch discuss
~I think it's pretty much a stereotype. Not all butch girls are gay, not all gay girls are butch. 'Noooooo!!!' I hear you cry. 'Neverrrr! I would never have guessed it if I hadn't heard it from the voice of wisdom herself.' :p

how important is physical attractiveness?
~If you don't find your partner attractive it's not going to be a brilliant relationship...so I'm saying it's pretty important

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
~Hehe, hell no

How many women have you loved?
~One. and still do.

Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
~Australia, she loves it there. Plus I need to work on my tan :o

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
~Lol, Yes. :o I wont elaborate

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?
Not love, but major, MAJOR lust. It was my best friend years ago, and I knew I didn't stand a chance.

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
Yes, because if you feel that strongly about her, chances are she feels the same. And if she doesn't there's always the opportunity to die of shame.

Girls rule?
We do indeed. ;)

If you read all that, I salute you

cunnihingis
Dec 8th, 2002, 02:21 PM
i don't have time to answer the questions but i will be back. this is a great thread! :D

just quickly i have fallen in love with straight girls. it happens too often. :sad: i'll tell you more later.

Sean
Dec 8th, 2002, 02:53 PM
Do u watch lesbian porn?
Would u take part in it?
Does it annoy u when men hit on u?

Jennifer's wife
Dec 8th, 2002, 06:22 PM
Originally posted by Sean
Do u watch lesbian porn?
Would u take part in it?
Does it annoy u when men hit on u?

1. no but i would if sum1 had sum!:p
2. no coz im shy!:o
3. yes, esp wen they r convinced they can convert me!:fiery: :mad:

cunnihingis
Dec 8th, 2002, 09:45 PM
Originally posted by rocktheboat
Being plain nosey here ;) but mostly cuz am turning into one more and more :p Wanna know where I stand :p

So how do u like ur girls ?
:kiss: feminine, smart and eccentric

Long hair or short hair?
:kiss: longish hair (blonde preferably)

older or younger than u?
:kiss: younger than me

Taller or shorter than u?
:kiss: a little shorter than me i suppose cos i'm do dominant

Brunette or blonde or other?
:kiss: blonde (though i wouldn't pass on a gorgeous brunette)

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
:kiss: no not too much. using loads of brian power would be nicer.

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
:kiss: not anorexic!

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
:kiss: yes and yes. (you make it sound as if it was such a difficult task)

new questions - were you nervous the first time you performed cunnilingus? have you ever had sex with a girl on the same day that you met her? do you think lesbians are competitive with each other? why are there loads of gay bars in cities but only one or two lesbian bars? what film (non-porno) had the most arousing lesbian scene?

DutchieGirl
Dec 9th, 2002, 12:22 AM
should have guessed that the non lesbians would come in and wanna talk about lesbian porn, or stuff like it! :rolleyes: ;)

Melanie2
Dec 9th, 2002, 01:16 AM
Do I watch lesbian porn?... no, I don't, because nature endowed me with a fertile imagination. I could be wrong, but isn't "lesbian porn" made for men? I guess there's some made by lesbians for lesbians (that sounds hilarious... not sure why) but I'm not really interested.

Would I take part in lesbian porn? No.

Does it annoy me when men hit on me? Kind of, depends on the situation. It can be flattering... it can be annoying.

Ok... another question...

Who was the first woman you had a crush on?

baddy2heads
Dec 9th, 2002, 02:23 AM
Do u watch lesbian porn?
listen, i'm from the West Country, we just don't do that sort of thing!
Would u take part in it?
funny, i would want to do that to the same exact degree that people would want to watch me
Does it annoy u when men hit on u?
well it's happened about twice so it's not annoying through repetitiveness
were you nervous the first time you performed cunnilingus?
that's rather a rude question
have you ever had sex with a girl on the same day that you met her?
define sex.....and met.....and day....and....
do you think lesbians are competitive with each other?
wouldn't have a bloody clue, although i did see two women with buzz cuts racing each other down the highstreet today
why are there loads of gay bars in cities but only one or two lesbian bars?
that's a good question, i guess lesbians are less likely to visit them, maybe less excitable about their sexuality
what film (non-porno) had the most arousing lesbian scene?
think i've only seen one, moderately arousing, not naming it
Who was the first woman you had a crush on?
that i know or out of anyone? out of anyone probably....Emma Forbes! god bless Going Live, or Kylie (although i wanted to be like them more than anyhing else) of people i know, god i'm not sure, have no memory.... arggggg!

King Lindsay
Dec 9th, 2002, 05:01 AM
lesbians. So more questions.

Do you ever find that people think because you are a lesbian you must also be a thespian?

do lesbians like gay men as much as straight girls?

where do you shop for clothes?

Do you think lesbian couples make good parents?

who is the sexiest female movie star?

are you fat?

King Lindsay
Dec 9th, 2002, 05:56 AM
Lesbians! Why won't you answer my queries! I need to know about you and your lifestyles.

DutchieGirl
Dec 9th, 2002, 10:21 AM
:rolleyes: This is getting worse... *bails from thread*

rocktheboat
Dec 9th, 2002, 11:38 AM
Originally posted by Sean
Do u watch lesbian porn?
Would u take part in it?
Does it annoy u when men hit on u?


The answer is NO to the above questions :p

rocktheboat
Dec 9th, 2002, 11:40 AM
do lesbians like gay men as much as straight girls? :confused:

Do you think lesbian couples make good parents? YES! Women are naturally more caring :p

who is the sexiest female movie star? Neve Campbell :drool:

are you fat? No I am too thin :(

King Lindsay
Dec 9th, 2002, 10:38 PM
Neve Campbell! Is that only because she did the threesome with that chick and that guy in that movie a couple years back?

DutchieGirl
Dec 9th, 2002, 10:44 PM
King Lindsay can't read the title!

rocktheboat
Dec 10th, 2002, 03:38 AM
Originally posted by King Lindsay
Neve Campbell! Is that only because she did the threesome with that chick and that guy in that movie a couple years back?

Did she? :p

King Lindsay
Dec 10th, 2002, 06:14 AM
damn right she did.

rocktheboat
Dec 10th, 2002, 08:07 AM
Originally posted by King Lindsay
damn right she did.

Thanks for the info :p

rocktheboat
Dec 10th, 2002, 08:15 AM
Who are the women u'd like to meet?

My 'girl' - if everything goes according to plan then this dream is becoming true in 10 days :D :eek:

Neve Campbell - she's hot :p

Cindy Crawford :p

DutchieGirl
Dec 10th, 2002, 12:59 PM
Neve Campbell was in "Wild Things" with Denise Richards and some other guy, and yeah, they had a threesome, which is the only bit in the movie I fecking missed, coz I was watching it in South Africa when my Dad rang me, and my friends are so prudish that they wouldn't rewind the video and watch it again! :fiery: ;) And of ocurse I'm too lazy to go hire the video now! ;)

Melanie2
Dec 11th, 2002, 07:10 AM
people talk about being gay as a "lifestyle"? It seems very odd... what does it mean, casual sex and gaypride marches every weekend or something? Do I need to work as a volunteer at a stall selling purple and green ribbons and woman symbol stuff (not that I'm criticising that)? Like "oh it would be a big lifestyle choice".. personally I don't think it's a choice, unless the choice is between being single and chaste forever (or having a boyfriend or husband) and being honest.

This is completely unrelated, but I just found this on a website dedicated to how miserable it is working as a JHS teacher in Japan. And it's not related to that topic either. It's probably really old but it made me laugh.

CHRISTMAS CAKE
Ingredients: 1 cup of water 1 tsp baking soda 1 cup of sugar 1 tsp salt 1 cup of brown sugar lemon juice 4 large eggs nuts 1 bottle Vodka 2 cups of dried fruit

Sample the vodka to check quality. Take a large bowl, check the vodka again. To be sure it is of the highest quality, pour one level cup and drink.

Repeat Turn on the electric mixer. Beat one cup of butter in a large fluffy bowl. Add one teaspoon of sugar. Beat again. At this point it's best to make sure the vodka is shtill OK. Try another cup .... just in case Turn off the mixerer.

Break 2 leggs and add to the bowl and chuck in the cup of dried fruit. Pick fruit off floor. Mix on the turner. If the fried druit gets stuck in the beaterers pry it loose with a drewscriver. Sample the vodka to check for tonsisticity. Next, sift two cups of salt.
Or something. Who giveshz a f***??? Check the vodka. Now shift the lemon juice and strain your nuts. Add one table. Add a spoon of sugar, or somefink. Whatever you can find. Greash the oven. Turn the cake tin 360 degrees and try not to fall over. Don't forget to beat off the turner. Finally, throw the bowl through the window, finish the vodka and kick the cat.

cunnihingis
Dec 12th, 2002, 09:34 PM
were you nervous the first time you performed cunnilingus?

that's rather a rude question

baddy i don't think it is but let me explain. my straight girlfriends asked me how it was to perform cunnilingus and how they were a bit disgusted about going down there and i answered that well it's fantastic and then asked them how they felt about sticking a penis in their mouths knowing full well that loads of men aren't diligent about hygiene. they fled the room.

baddy2heads
Dec 12th, 2002, 09:39 PM
ok, what a nice thought! ...i like your name btw

DutchieGirl
Dec 13th, 2002, 12:48 AM
I think alot of the questions are a bit rude/go to far in this thread!

Melanie... some people want to believe that being gay is a choice of lifestyle still... but that's actually pretty stupid, coz if you think about it, we (read:everyone) don't really get to choose our lifestyle anyway, coz it depends on how much money we have... ;)

cunnihingis
Dec 18th, 2002, 09:13 PM
thanks baddy. i like it as well. it embodies how i feel about my favourite player. :lick:

how many lesbians post here? i see loads of gay men
but how can you miss them. :eek:

Melanie2
Dec 19th, 2002, 08:03 AM
I just don't see that there is a lifestyle. Regardless of whether you can choose to be gay or not, there can be no such thing as a gay lifestyle. Is there a straight lifestyle? No, because they are acknowledged as diverse... it's nonsense to say that there is a straight lifestyle. Gay people are diverse as well, but it's not really acknowledged.

The questions here have gone a bit downhill... are we over it, or shall I ask some? They are a bit silly, but I am awastin' time at work before I head home.

1. What's the best book you have read in the last six months?
2. What's the best CD you have bought in the last six months?
3. What book have you read the most times in your life?
4. What CD have you listened to the most times in your life?
5. Who do you talk to when you are miserable?
6. What's your ideal job?
7. Where would you love to live?

... and I shall answer them myself....
1. Probably The Last Samurai.. made me wish I had been a child prodigy.
2. I didn't buy it, but Kathryn Williams', the one with the black cover. It's great... very sad.
3. Maybe the Narnia books, or Postcards from the Edge. Once, when I was mammothly depressed I read Postcards from the Edge over and over and over, god knows how many times. For some reason it took my mind off things. Have probably read it 30 times.
4. Probably Stevie Nicks' Rock A Little.... first album of hers I got, used to just switch cassette sides all night.... ahhh, 1989. It's all drum machine and synthesiser.
5. Myself, my girlfriend, my mum (once in a blue moon.
6. Scriptwriter. Uni lecturer would be good too.
7. Somewhere warm, somewhere with trees and the odd shrub.

baddy2heads
Dec 20th, 2002, 11:39 PM
1. What's the best book you have read in the last six months?
ummm...i read Walkabout again, good just because it reminds me of someone really cool
2. What's the best CD you have bought in the last six months?
i have bought so little in the last 6 months it's rediculous...um...Beth Orton: Daybreaker?....have been mainly playing to death Polly Harvey and Kate Bush
3. What book have you read the most times in your life?
tend not to re-read books, even when they blow me away, just never tend to get round to it again....maybe 'Cider with Rosie'
4. What CD have you listened to the most times in your life?
probably OK computer or the hissing of summer lawns.....hmmmm probably OK computer
5. Who do you talk to when you are miserable?
i am a nightmare when i'm miserable, tend to try not to seem miserable and end up just being a right pain in the arse, so it's preferable to be alone
6. What's your ideal job?
Barrister i guess, not sure anymore
7. Where would you love to live?
New York!! would be cool (i'm guessing), london is nice as long as you have the money for somewhere decent... i am pretty happy where i am now

DutchieGirl
Dec 21st, 2002, 02:37 AM
*remeber to reply here later* ;) I don't have time now! hehe

cunnihingis
Dec 21st, 2002, 08:30 PM
1. What's the best book you have read in the last six months?
the war against cliche (martin amis)

2. What's the best CD you have bought in the last six months?
love me or leave me: the best of mary coughlan

3. What book have you read the most times in your life?
the cultivation of hatred (peter gay)

4. What CD have you listened to the most times in your life?
blue (joni mitchell)

5. Who do you talk to when you are miserable?
no one. i don't burden people with my problems even really close friends.

6. What's your ideal job?
peace corps

7. Where would you love to live?
rio

Luna_Angel_84
Dec 22nd, 2002, 09:04 PM
1. What's the best book you have read in the last six months? Haven;t read one fully, but am currently in the middle of reading 'Firestarter' by Stephen King

2. What's the best CD you have bought in the last six months? No idea, maybe Vanessa Carlton's, Sugababes or J.Lo's new one. Hard to say really.

3. What book have you read the most times in your life? Probably some horse one!

4. What CD have you listened to the most times in your life? Shania Twain- Come On Over

5. Who do you talk to when you are miserable? Online friends, whoever will listen. Or myself. :p

6. What's your ideal job? Jen's personal masseur

7. Where would you love to live? Monte Carlo

cunnihingis
Jan 12th, 2003, 12:06 PM
no new questions eh? here's a new one.

what are you attracted to more?

lesbians who are more feminine?
lesbians who are more masculine?
lesbians who are a bit of both?

personally i've mostly favoured women who were bit of both. i like the balance of the two. :)

cunnihingis
Apr 17th, 2003, 07:02 AM
hello lesbians! :wavey:

rocktheboat
Apr 17th, 2003, 01:37 PM
no new questions eh? here's a new one.

what are you attracted to more?

lesbians who are more feminine?
lesbians who are more masculine?
lesbians who are a bit of both?

personally i've mostly favoured women who were bit of both. i like the balance of the two. :)

:wavey:

my girlfriend is very feminine :) so for the time being i will say feminine lesbos :p but then i am so skinny i look almost masculine :confused:i have no curves at all :sad:

Tammy
Apr 17th, 2003, 06:11 PM
no new questions eh? here's a new one.

what are you attracted to more?

lesbians who are more feminine?
lesbians who are more masculine?
lesbians who are a bit of both?

personally i've mostly favoured women who were bit of both. i like the balance of the two. :)
*yay* the thread is back ;):bounce::D

hm.. id go for fem more so than masculine.. but its rather that they present themselves as females furthermore (..and yes im sure some of you know what i mean.. :angel::p)

..but nth is sexier than a strong female :):lick::drool:

Melanie2
Apr 23rd, 2003, 08:17 AM
Prefer feminine, I guess, looks wise, but not just feminine behaviour.

I want to ask questions but my job has drained the life out of me.

:sad:

Julie
Apr 23rd, 2003, 08:33 AM
oh its back - wow!!!

Hmmm preferences, well i guess most of my ex's were boyish, androgynous :) and id say thats what i go for to all intents and purposes, although Fiona was reasonably femme considering. Maybe i should have known lmao ;)

toreador
Apr 24th, 2003, 02:50 AM
no new questions eh? here's a new one.

what are you attracted to more?

lesbians who are more feminine?
lesbians who are more masculine?
lesbians who are a bit of both?

personally i've mostly favoured women who were bit of both. i like the balance of the two. :)
she has to look feminine(not too girlie though:p) but have a strong personality;)

toreador
Apr 24th, 2003, 03:37 AM
Long hair or short hair?
~long:drool:

older or younger than u?
~older but younger is good too ;)

Taller or shorter than u?
~about the same

Brunette or blonde or other?
~doesn't matter but brunettes r :lick:

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
~er not too girlie not too butch

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
~A bit of flesh

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
~yes and yes:D

Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
~i never liked that word :p . i prefer "gay" but then again who told u i'm a lesbian?;)

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
~nah...even if they r they don't say it;)

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
~nop i haven't tol them but i wouldn't be surprised if my father did

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
~nothing really, granted i've only told it to *counting*...*doesn't remember*:o 4 people i think

Do you want to have children?
~yeah, one:)

Do you think you will have children?
~sure

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
~...can't stop thinking about her:hearts:

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
~jen cap. nah i wouldn't stand a chance:p but it would be hot to see her with another girl :drool:

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
~yes but i'm not one either;)

If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
~i wouldn't change anything. let nature do its work:p

Have u ever kissed with a girl?
~nop

Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
~duh!:p

Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
~yes:angel: :p

Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
~homophobics

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way)
eyes, lips, butt

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; what’s with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???
~why not

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
~i don't like the whole thing... i don't "believe" in marriage.

Monogamy or lots of girls?
~one drool girl is enough

“butch” – discuss
~stereotypes (is that enough:p)

how important is physical attractiveness?
~it's pretty important

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
~yeah i think so

How many women have you loved?
~One

Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
~whereever she wanted:angel: ..my bed would be fine:p

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
~nop

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?
it was lust..and a torture:sad:

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
idk..it hasn't happened..but it depends on my relationship with them

Girls rule?
nah women rule

toreador
Apr 27th, 2003, 07:43 PM
bump:)

any more questions?

rocktheboat
Apr 27th, 2003, 08:33 PM
:p

pick one song to slow dance with your girl :p

Take my breath away - Berlin ;)

toreador
Apr 27th, 2003, 08:42 PM
that's difficult;) ...there r so many good songs

*is thinking*

Jennifer's wife
Apr 27th, 2003, 08:44 PM
Broken dreams by Bassement jaxx! it has a kind of salsa feel which i think is way sexy! but i'd dance with Jen to anything! ;)

toreador
Apr 27th, 2003, 08:48 PM
i made up my mind:p

probably babyface's "everytime i close my eyes" ;) :hearts:

Jennifer's wife
Apr 27th, 2003, 08:54 PM
hey sophie, can u answer me something? im going to Lesbos on holiday and i was just wondering if its really full of lesbians or is that just another english stereotype? ;)

toreador
Apr 27th, 2003, 08:58 PM
hey sophie, can u answer me something? im going to Lesbos on holiday and i was just wondering if its really full of lesbians or is that just another english stereotype? ;)
lmao u're going to the right place;)

a part of lesbos is for us;) not the whole island though:p

toreador
Apr 27th, 2003, 09:01 PM
btw i've been on this island, i was much younger though and had the worst vacation of my life:(

Jennifer's wife
Apr 27th, 2003, 09:08 PM
that doesnt sound promising! well, my mum booked it so im sure i wont end up in the gay bit, but im hoping there will be a few stray lesbos who also hav ended up in the wrong bit! what part is it? just so i know whether to get excited or not?! ;)

toreador
Apr 27th, 2003, 09:14 PM
that doesnt sound promising! well, my mum booked it so im sure i wont end up in the gay bit, but im hoping there will be a few stray lesbos who also hav ended up in the wrong bit! what part is it? just so i know whether to get excited or not?! ;)
lmao

u never know;)

toreador
Apr 27th, 2003, 09:33 PM
ok i have a question:D

what's the "craziest" thing u'd do in order to be with ur girl?
~i'd leave everything and everyone(except for one person)

Jennifer's wife
Apr 27th, 2003, 09:41 PM
define crazy? ;)

toreador
Apr 27th, 2003, 09:42 PM
define crazy? ;)
something that u wouldn't normally do in any case;) :p

Tammy
Apr 27th, 2003, 09:48 PM
:p

pick one song to slow dance with your girl :p


"MyValentine" - Martina McBride :)

Jennifer's wife
Apr 27th, 2003, 09:53 PM
something that u wouldn't normally do in any case;) :p
fuck steven if it meant gettin to Jen!!! but it would have to be guarenteed, i aint puttin myself thru that for nothin!! :eek: ;)

Tammy
Apr 28th, 2003, 02:02 AM
Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
~whereever she wanted:angel: ..my bed would be fine:p


lol :p *wonders how adventurous your bed is* :p;):angel:

toreador
Apr 28th, 2003, 03:01 AM
lol :p *wonders how adventurous your bed is* :p;):angel:
u should know;)

Tammy
Apr 28th, 2003, 03:06 AM
u should know;)
..im sure i will soon.. ;):angel:

:p

Messenger
Apr 28th, 2003, 04:14 AM
Alright, I have a few. :)

Is it true lesbian relationships last longer because women have lower sex drives than men and are less tempted to cheat on their girlfriend.
Did you know that according to legend the Amazons cut off one of their breasts.
What's the most homophobic experience you ever had to go through.
Someone told me Tatu made them gay, do you think that's possible.

toreador
Apr 28th, 2003, 04:22 AM
Is it true lesbian relationships last longer because women have lower sex drives than men and are less tempted to cheat on their girlfriend.
~ i have no idea:D

Did you know that according to legend the Amazons cut off one of their breasts.
so u mean that the things we see in Xena are all lies? :sad: :p

What's the most homophobic experience you ever had to go through.
~ none really

Someone told me Tatu made them gay, do you think that's possible.
~nah i don't think it's possible to turn gay:p

Messenger
Apr 28th, 2003, 04:59 AM
Good answers. Xena was a cool show. Glad to hear you never had to go through anything bad. I really need to sleep. Later.

Bероника
Apr 28th, 2003, 12:45 PM
Long hair or short hair? long hair


older or younger than u?older


Taller or shorter than u? taller


Brunette or blonde or other? Definitely brunette


very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not? very girly,yes


Skinny or a bit of flesh? a bit of flesh


and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? yes,of course

and have another girl said I love u to u? yes

Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"? yes


Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends? yes


Do your parents know you are lesbian? yes,all my family knows about it.My father doesn't accept it,the rest is ok with it.


What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay? they always tell me i look too feminine to be a lesbian :rolleyes:


Do you want to have children? Not for the moment

Do you think you will have children? don't know,i'm too young

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....." when you can't help looking at all the pretty girls in the street


If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person? Salma Hayek


Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly? i've never been asked



If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian? yes,sure


Have u ever kissed with a girl? mmm,yes


Have u had HOT dreams about a girl? yes,all the time


Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u? yes

Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with? :confused: Don't know.My dad probably cause we always end up shouting


What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself? maybe,but i don't have a partner right now.

Monogamy or lots of girls? monogamy

butch discuss
I don't like butchs,too manly for me.I like feminine girls.

how important is physical attractiveness? it's important,but not essential

Could you stay in a sexless relationship? yes

How many women have you loved? 3

Where would u go on holidays with ur girl? Paris


Do u flirt a lot with girls? no,i'm very shy


Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl? yes,and i told her and she told me she liked me only as a friend,So today we're good friends.


If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her? no,i'm too shy to do so.


Girls rule? Yeah



do lesbians like gay men as much as straight girls? i don't think so

where do you shop for clothes? too many places to name them all

Do you think lesbian couples make good parents? yes

who is the sexiest female movie star? Angelina Jolie

are you fat? no,but i'm not thin either


1. What's the best book you have read in the last six months?
Frida Kahlo biography-I loved it

2. What's the best CD you have bought in the last six months?
By the way-Red Hot Chili Peppers
3. What book have you read the most times in your life?
The purple colour-love the book and the movie
4. What CD have you listened to the most times in your life?
i don't know,so many...
5. Who do you talk to when you are miserable? my best friend
6. What's your ideal job? veterinary
7. Where would you love to live? in the country


feminine girls,i love them


Is it true lesbian relationships last longer because women have lower sex drives than men and are less tempted to cheat on their girlfriend. I don't think that's the reason,but that's true most lesbian relationships i know last longer
Did you know that according to legend the Amazons cut off one of their breasts.i didn't know :eek:
What's the most homophobic experience you ever had to go through. i hadn't any.
Someone told me Tatu made them gay, do you think that's possible.It's probably true.Who knows?

galadriel
Apr 28th, 2003, 01:35 PM
Long hair or short hair ? long hair

older or younger ? I don't care

taller or shorter ? I don't care

Brunette or blonde? brunette

very girly or not ? very girlie

skinny or a bit of flesh ? bit of flesh

have you ever said" I love you "to a girl ? Yes

Have another girl said "I love you" to you ? Yes

Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian" ? yes

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends ? yes

Do your family know that you are a lesbian ? Yes

What is the stupidest assumption anyone have ever made when they found out you are gay ? -

Do you want to have kids ? no

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian ..." when you are really in love with a woman

If you have the magical ,mystical power of someone making gay ,who would you wield that power on ? Idon't know

Have you ever denied to be a lesbian ? yes :sad:

If you could choose your sexuality would you still like a lesbian ? yes

Have you ever kissed a girl ? yes

Have you had hot dreams about a girl ? This question is too personal ;)

Who is the last person you would want to have a discussion about your sexuality ? My mother

What to you think about lesbian marriages ? I will never marry in my life

Monogamy or a lots of girls ? monogamy

Butch ? I prefer women and not men ;)

How import is physical attractiveness ? It's not very import for me

Could you stay in a sexless partnership ? yes

How many women have you loved ? This question is too personal

Where would you go on holidays with your girl ? Venice

Do you flirt a lot with girls ? No,I'm too shy

Have you ever fall in a straight girl ? yes

if you are in love with someone and have the occasion will you tell her ? yes


Girls rule ? Yes

do lesbians like gay men as much as straight girls ? no

Do you think that lesbian coubles make good parents ?yes

who is the sexiest female movie star ? Angelina Jolie

Are you fat ? no,not at the moment

1) best book that you read in last six months ? I have read so many good books

2)best cd that you have bought in the last six months ? I have bought so many good cds

3) what book have you read the most times in your life ? The Lord of the Rings

4)what cd's have you listened the most times in your life ? -

5) Who do you talk to when you are miserable ? My brother

6)What's your ideal job ? -

7)Where would you love to live ? -

chiara_ridolfi
May 1st, 2003, 04:56 PM
http://www.channel4.com/life/microsites/G/gayometer/gayometer.html

I got 56%.

rocktheboat
May 1st, 2003, 06:43 PM
50 % which is true i guess since i am bi :p

CondiLicious
May 1st, 2003, 08:28 PM
Long hair or short hair? Long!!! I'll have none of those man wannabes with greasy short hair and BO

older or younger than u?
Older but no more a few years

Taller or shorter than u?
Taller my gf is 6ft and my Monica is taller than me too

Brunette or blonde or other?
I like brown hair mostly but blonde is ok on Monica only

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
not too much make up but I demand a face that looks feminine

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
A bit of flesh

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
yes and yes


Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian" ? yea

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends ? nope

Do your family know that you are a lesbian ? hehe yea

What is the stupidest assumption anyone have ever made when they found out you are gay ? not many people know cos I like my business mine but people who know cant believe it cos they think lesbians are usually ugly and skanky and i'm neither

Do you want to have kids ? um...

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian ..." when keep your finger nails short

If you have the magical ,mystical power of someone making gay ,who would you wield that power on ? MONICA SELES

Have you ever denied to be a lesbian ? nah

If you could choose your sexuality would you still like a lesbian ? yes

Have you ever kissed a girl ? hell ya

Have you had hot dreams about a girl ? yes my gf

Who is the last person you would want to have a discussion about your sexuality ? my gran

What to you think about lesbian marriages ? um... silly all marriages are

Monogamy or a lots of girls ? monogamy

Butch ? I'd rather stick pins in my eyes and I wont be going near no stap ons either... I DONT WANT PENIS

How import is physical attractiveness ? my gf is very pretty imo but its not all that for me

Could you stay in a sexless partnership ? yes

How many women have you loved ? 1 and Monica haha

Where would you go on holidays with your girl ? dunno we went to rome already

Do you flirt a lot with girls ? No

Have you ever fall in a straight girl ? yes my gf was haha

Girls rule ? Yes

do lesbians like gay men as much as straight girls ? no

Do you think that lesbian couples make good parents ?yes

who is the sexiest female movie star ? Angelina Jolie and Catherine Zeta Jones tie!.... oh and Queen Latifah :hearts: Oh and Sigourney in Heartbreakers!

Are you fat ? nopety nope

1) best book that you read in last six months ? portrait of a killer

2)best cd that you have bought in the last six months ? Tatu's album haha

3) what book have you read the most times in your life ? From Fear to Victory

4)what cd's have you listened the most times in your life ? - Music Boc Mariah

5) Who do you talk to when you are miserable ? myself

6)What's your ideal job ? - Monicas PA

7)Where would you love to live ? - Monicas house

toreador
May 1st, 2003, 08:58 PM
lmao i'm only 36% :eek:

You're open minded between the sheets but rarely show your dyke side when out on the streets!

true;)

Big Fat Pink Elephant
May 1st, 2003, 09:04 PM
lmao tammy gave me this link.. ;) and i got

Marri is 46% Gay

Congratulations! You've scored right in the middle and are a happy and well adjusted hetero babe!

*muahah*

toreador
May 1st, 2003, 09:08 PM
lmao tammy gave me this link.. ;) and i got

Marri is 46% Gay

Congratulations! You've scored right in the middle and are a happy and well adjusted hetero babe!

*muahah*
lmao yeah right:p

it's wrong, wrong, wrong:(:(:(

btw do u know where tams is? she left from my bed when she woke up:confused: :p

Big Fat Pink Elephant
May 1st, 2003, 09:11 PM
what is wrong? the result?? lol :p

tammy's in my bed now :p :devil:

:p

toreador
May 1st, 2003, 09:13 PM
what is wrong? the result?? lol :p

tammy's in my bed now :p :devil:

:p
lol i can't be only 36% :confused:
so yeah it's wrong:p


seriously where is she?:sad:

Jennifer's wife
May 1st, 2003, 09:39 PM
cool, i got 70%!! :bounce: it sez it bets the guys at work are my mates and that is sooo true coz my best friend is a guy from work! spooky!

toreador
May 1st, 2003, 09:41 PM
i still think it's wrong though:sad:

i know i'm not straight *cries*

Tammy
May 1st, 2003, 11:32 PM
Tams is 46% Gay

You're very open-minded between the sheets and just as balanced when out on the streets!

..could the sayings be anymore quaint? :p

Giuliano
May 1st, 2003, 11:43 PM
Julien is 36% gay!
Loosen up straight mate! These days women like a man with some softer edges to grab onto.

DutchieGirl
May 2nd, 2003, 02:42 AM
Julien is 36% gay!
Loosen up straight mate! These days women like a man with some softer edges to grab onto.
erm - unless that woman is gay! ;) Then she doesn't really want a man at all! ;) :p

toreador
May 2nd, 2003, 04:17 AM
Tams is 46% Gay

You're very open-minded between the sheets and just as balanced when out on the streets!

..could the sayings be anymore quaint? :p
it's wrong ok?:(

Tammy
May 2nd, 2003, 04:24 AM
it's wrong ok?:(
lol :p - so cute :angel:

toreador
May 2nd, 2003, 04:25 AM
lol :p - so cute :angel:
come on we all know it's wrong:p

Tammy
May 2nd, 2003, 04:28 AM
come on we all know it's wrong:p
*waits for u to be straight* :p

..hmm maybe ill turn u straight after we meet - what do u say? ;):angel:

toreador
May 2nd, 2003, 04:30 AM
*waits for u to be straight* :p

..hmm maybe ill turn u straight after we meet - what do u say? ;):angel:
*spank* when i see u i'm gonna become 100% lesbian:angel:

Big Fat Pink Elephant
May 2nd, 2003, 09:31 AM
Tams is 46% Gay

You're very open-minded between the sheets and just as balanced when out on the streets!

..could the sayings be anymore quaint? :p

lmao :D haha... we got the same %, but different comments huh?? :p

lol *wonder which answers tammy gave* :angel:

and lmao @ julien! :p

*abby*
May 3rd, 2003, 12:56 PM
ok this mite sound like a really stupid and immature question but how do u no if ur a lesbian or not????????? :confused:
i am so confuzzled round about now and i cud do with a bit of help figurin shit out y'no

Chelra
May 3rd, 2003, 03:49 PM
Hi every1 :wavey:

Long hair or short hair?
short,she has short hair :hearts:

older or younger than u?
older,she is older than me ;)

Taller or shorter than u?
shorter,she is shorter than me ;)

Brunette or blonde or other?
Brunette,she is 1 :hearts:

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
not lots of makeup

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
i like curves

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
not directly 2 her but she knows it.n no1 said i love u 2 me :(

Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
dont care

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
no

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
no

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
not many ppl no i am so it is fine

Do you want to have children?
yes

Do you think you will have children?
yes

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
u want 2 make love with women ;)

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?

the girl of my life,but s/1 told me she is gay the other day :confused: n yes i'd do a/thing 2 have a relationship with her.

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
Yes :(

Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
dont no :confused:

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way)
lips n breasts.she has wonderful lips :kiss:

I am your bigoted, cynical, offensive and drunken uncle Jeff; whats with the girl thing??? tell me!! Why, why, WHY???
:confused:

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
i want 2 marry her!

Monogamy or lots of girls?
Monogamy

butch discuss
i like girls 2 look like girls

how important is physical attractiveness?
very!she is very attractive:D

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
not sure!everytime i c her,i want 2 do things 2 her ;)

How many women have you loved?
1

Chelra
May 3rd, 2003, 03:50 PM
ok this mite sound like a really stupid and immature question but how do u no if ur a lesbian or not????????? :confused:
i am so confuzzled round about now and i cud do with a bit of help figurin shit out y'no
i wil say that if u r,it wil no soon:)i did not no i was 1 until i saw the girl of my life on a road:hearts:i knew immediately:)

*abby*
May 3rd, 2003, 05:39 PM
mite sound gay...scuse the pun...but i think im in love with jennifer capriati.i find myself thinkin bout her all the time i swear im obsessed.eveyone thinks i am obsessed but no1 has twigged that i fancy the arse offa her. :hearts:
i also fell in love with my pe teacher she was a woman and i well liked her.
wot does that sound like 2 u guys?????

Chelra
May 3rd, 2003, 06:16 PM
mite sound gay...scuse the pun...but i think im in love with jennifer capriati.i find myself thinkin bout her all the time i swear im obsessed.eveyone thinks i am obsessed but no1 has twigged that i fancy the arse offa her. :hearts:
i also fell in love with my pe teacher she was a woman and i well liked her.
wot does that sound like 2 u guys?????

sound like u r gay!;)u just admited u like 2 women:Dn jenny is so beautiful:D

CondiLicious
May 3rd, 2003, 06:26 PM
mite sound gay...scuse the pun...but i think im in love with jennifer capriati.i find myself thinkin bout her all the time i swear im obsessed.eveyone thinks i am obsessed but no1 has twigged that i fancy the arse offa her. :hearts:
i also fell in love with my pe teacher she was a woman and i well liked her.
wot does that sound like 2 u guys?????

When I younger I had the hugest crush on Monica Seles and I had the hugest crush on 2 of my female teachers (one of them looked like Monica haha) but I had boyfriends cos everyone else did. But then I met my girl and now I'm a lesbian and yah...

*abby*
May 3rd, 2003, 06:28 PM
thanx :D i guess im one of you guys now
it feels kinda good lettin it out :)

Jennifer's wife
May 3rd, 2003, 06:39 PM
thanx :D i guess im one of you guys now
it feels kinda good lettin it out :)

welcome to the club!!! :D i knew u were a lezza even if u didnt!! :p well abby, we can swap Jen fantasies later, ok?! ;) ;)

Chelra
May 3rd, 2003, 06:45 PM
thanx :D i guess im one of you guys now
it feels kinda good lettin it out :)

yes!:D welcome n be proud of urself :D

toreador
May 3rd, 2003, 07:55 PM
welcome to the club!!! :D i knew u were a lezza even if u didnt!! :p well abby, we can swap Jen fantasies later, ok?! ;) ;)
count me in too!;)


:p

*abby*
May 3rd, 2003, 08:58 PM
youre on jennifermarie ;)
thanx u guys im not plannin on tellin anyone else tho ie parents. my mate at school knows she's bi and i kinda asked her bout it and everythin.i kinda thort 2 ask her cos i fancy her 2 :rolleyes: . its a bit wierd fancyin ur best mate she doesnt no that i do tho

Chelra
May 3rd, 2003, 09:29 PM
youre on jennifermarie ;)
thanx u guys im not plannin on tellin anyone else tho ie parents. my mate at school knows she's bi and i kinda asked her bout it and everythin.i kinda thort 2 ask her cos i fancy her 2 :rolleyes: . its a bit wierd fancyin ur best mate she doesnt no that i do tho

my parents dont no i like girls n i wont tell them soon.just have a car 4 my birthday,dont want my father 2 take it from me;)n me,i am in love with a girl who hates me now:(

toreador
May 4th, 2003, 02:01 AM
my parents dont no i like girls n i wont tell them soon.just have a car 4 my birthday,dont want my father 2 take it from me;)n me,i am in love with a girl who hates me now:(
nah i'm sure she doesn't hate you:)

Chelra
May 4th, 2003, 09:34 AM
nah i'm sure she doesn't hate you:)

she does!:sad:n its my fault.ive been bad 2 her sometime ago n she ignores me now:(n shes has some1 in her life :fiery:but i wont abandon the fight!

Elske
May 4th, 2003, 10:07 AM
Long hair or short hair?
short :drool:

older or younger than u?
older

Taller or shorter than u?
shorter

Brunette or blonde or other?
blonde :drool:

very girly(using lots of make up etc) or not?
girly

Skinny or a bit of flesh?
a bit of flesh :drool:

and last question - have u ever said I love u(and mean it!) to another girl? and have another girl said I love u to u?
yes&yes

Do you feel comfortable with the label "lesbian"?
no, i prefer 'bi' ;)

Do you have a lot of gay/lesbian friends?
no

Do your parents know you are lesbian?
my mum knows, my father doesn't :)

What is the stupidest assumption anyone has ever made when they found out you are gay?
not many people know it (yet)

Do you want to have children?
yes :hearts: 1 or 2

Do you think you will have children?
yes

Finish this sentence "You know you are a lesbian when ....."
errrr :confused:

If you had the magical, mystical power of making someone gay (sorry, very poorly expressed..) who would you wield that power on (famous person or someone you know)? And would you do it to have a relationship with that person?
Natalia (Idol 2003 ;)), no i wouldn't want a relationship with her though, i'm happy with my gf :cool:

Have you ever denied being lesbian when asked directly?
yes

If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
ok i'm bi but no, if i could i'd choose to be straight :(

Have u ever kissed with a girl?
yup

Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
yup ;)

Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
i hope so!

Who is the last person you would want to tell or have a discussion about your sexuality with?
my dad :o

What is your favourite part of a woman, and your favourite part of your partner (if applicable)? (This is not my question by the way)
eyes, breasts :o

What do you think of lesbian marriages? And would you get married yourself?
i dont wanna get married coz i don't believe I can be in love with one person for the rest of my life

Monogamy or lots of girls?
monogamy

how important is physical attractiveness?
very important

Could you stay in a sexless relationship?
yes!

How many women have you loved?
3

Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
err London! :D and Hawaii :hearts: Australia :hearts: somewhere hot ;)

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
i flirt with boys and girls lol

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?
my gf is straight lol :confused: :o :D

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
yes

Girls rule?
sometimes ;)


test: Elske is 36% gay

"How does a straight acting girl ever manage to get a date? Any more girlie and you'd have to be straight!"

lol :D

Chelra
May 4th, 2003, 02:11 PM
If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
yes n no:confused:the girl i love ignores me :sad:n men seem more interested in me:(

Have u ever kissed with a girl?
not as i wanted,only on the cheeks but it meaned a lot :hearts:

Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
yes.i dream of her very often ;)

Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
dont no.

Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
where she wants.

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
no.i have loved n wil love only 1 girl :hearts:

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?
yes!the girl i love is str8 but some1 said she is gay now :confused:it makes me mad that she is gay n dont care about me:fiery:

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
yes! when she return 2 work.i wil tell her!

Girls rule?
she rules me!;)

Do you ever find that people think because you are a lesbian you must also be a thespian?
dont u/stand

do lesbians like gay men as much as straight girls?
no

where do you shop for clothes?
good shops!i am spoilled n spend lot of money;)

Do you think lesbian couples make good parents?
if i have a kid with her.she wil make the best parent.she is wonderful with kids :hearts:

who is the sexiest female movie star?
no favorite


are you fat?
yes.at the moment i am.i get fat when i am stressed:(

Who are the women u'd like to meet?
i already meet the 1 i want n now i just have 2 make her love me n make her 4get the other girl ;)


What's the best book you have read in the last six months?
i dont read;)

What's the best CD you have bought in the last six months?
everything by pascal obispo

What book have you read the most times in your life?
i dont read a book more then 1 time.

What CD have you listened to the most times in your life?
pascal obispo n patricia kaas.last yr i was shania twain fan but not anymore:( my 'girl' loves her a lot n am jealous!;)

Who do you talk to when you are miserable?
my housem8.i used 2 talk 2 her but i spoilled everything:(

What's your ideal job?
i have my ideal job now:Di work 2 mts from her:hearts:

Where would you love to live?
where she wants

pick one song to slow dance with your girl
since she loves shania,1 of her songs then ;)

what's the "craziest" thing u'd do in order to be with ur girl?
kill :eek: ;)

*abby*
May 4th, 2003, 02:36 PM
thought it was about time i did one of these

If u could choose your sexuality would u still like to be lesbian?
i dont no ive not really had a lesbian experience to compare a straight one to

Have u ever kissed with a girl?
i kissed my best mate who i fance(also called abby) when i was pissed and we kiss on the cheek all the time but never anythin more :sad:

Have u had HOT dreams about a girl?
god yes all the time lately a lot bout jenny

Has a girl ever had hot dreams about u?
i dunno id like to think so :p

Where would u go on holidays with ur girl?
erm....*ponders question*...paris i guess v. romantic

Do u flirt a lot with girls?
not consciously

Have u ever fallen in love with a straight girl?
well my best mate abby is bi but my pe teacher was straight and so is jenny :sad: dammit

If u are in love/lust with someone(who's gay) and have the occasion will u tell her?
id have 2 b sure that they liked me 2

Girls rule?
damn straight :D

Do you ever find that people think because you are a lesbian you must also be a thespian?
wtf is a thespian

do lesbians like gay men as much as straight girls?
no

where do you shop for clothes?
erm...topshop morgan pink cadillac

Do you think lesbian couples make good parents?
i think a kid does need to have a male influence in their life but women are generally better parents so yes

who is the sexiest female movie star?
movie:sandra bullock
tv:maura tierney(abby in ER)


are you fat?
i hope not. im a uk size 8 and i weigh 7 stones but im stressed bout exams so im eatin loadsa chocolate

Who are the women u'd like to meet?
jenny capriati it is my dream to meet her!!!! :hearts:


What's the best book you have read in the last six months?
erm...a child called it-very sad true story bout a kid who was abused by his evil mom. :eek:

What's the best CD you have bought in the last six months?
avril lavigne-let go
im gonna buy evanescences new album soon 2

What book have you read the most times in your life?
book called the runaways i read it bout 7 times

What CD have you listened to the most times in your life?
probably shania twain-up

Who do you talk to when you are miserable?
my mate kath i wud trust her with my life

What's your ideal job?
jenny capriatis physio boy wud i love to get physical wiv her :drool:

Where would you love to live?
florida...well to be exact i wud love to live in jennys bedroom and b her sex slave :drool: :p :kiss: :hearts: ;) :devil:

pick one song to slow dance with your girl
aerosmith-dont wanna miss a thing
faith hill-there u'll be

what's the "craziest" thing u'd do in order to be with ur girl?
tell everyone i loved her :D

WOW!!!!!!!i cant believe i said all that :D

toreador
May 4th, 2003, 09:08 PM
she does!:sad:n its my fault.ive been bad 2 her sometime ago n she ignores me now:(n shes has some1 in her life :fiery:but i wont abandon the fight!
is she gay/bi?
then if she is and she had shown some interest in you then you could talk to her...not now though since she has someone else in her life(that is if she really cares about that person in that way)

Chelra
May 4th, 2003, 09:14 PM
is she gay/bi?
then if she is and she had shown some interest in you then you could talk to her...not now though since she has someone else in her life(that is if she really cares about that person in that way)

i dont no if shes bi/gay:(some1 said she likes girl now:confused:n no she has not shown interest in me except as a friend :sad:but perhaps if shes gay now i have 1 chance.but she already has some1 n i think she hates me:sad:i been very bad 2 her in the pass.:(i spoilled all my chances!

toreador
May 4th, 2003, 09:17 PM
i dont no if shes bi/gay:(some1 said she likes girl now:confused:n no she has not shown interest in me except as a friend :sad:but perhaps if shes gay now i have 1 chance.but she already has some1 n i think she hates me:sad:i been very bad 2 her in the pass.:(i spoilled all my chances!
nah i don't think anyone can hate someone so easily...unless you've been very (and i mean VERY) bad to her...
you never know unless you do something;)

King Satan
May 4th, 2003, 09:26 PM
wow !! :eek: so many lesbians here, eh?
I had no idea there were so many of you, atleast i know who NOT to hit on now ;) lol

King Satan
May 4th, 2003, 09:27 PM
oh and hi sophie :wavey:

toreador
May 4th, 2003, 09:30 PM
hey Joe :kiss:
yeah there's so many of us:D

i'll go take a shower and come in the morning:angel:

Chelra
May 4th, 2003, 09:34 PM
nah i don't think anyone can hate someone so easily...unless you've been very (and i mean VERY) bad to her...
you never know unless you do something;)

yes:sad:VERY bad.im surprised she still talks 2 me:confused:

toreador
May 5th, 2003, 01:38 AM
yes:sad:VERY bad.im surprised she still talks 2 me:confused:
see? she doesn't hate you:)

DutchieGirl
May 5th, 2003, 02:38 AM
wow !! :eek: so many lesbians here, eh?
I had no idea there were so many of you, atleast i know who NOT to hit on now ;) lol

yeah at least you get it - unlike Barrie dude who seems inpervious to the fact that sme of us are lesbians and still tries to hit on us! ;)

Chelra
May 5th, 2003, 02:49 PM
see? she doesn't hate you:)

she only talks bcoz she is the nicest person on earth but she does not want 2 love me:sad:

Jennifer's wife
May 5th, 2003, 07:22 PM
count me in too!;)


:p

youre on! :bounce: i was wondering if u (or anyone else) could tellm e about where im goin on holiday? u know i sed Lesbos? well its more specifically skala kalloni. just wanna know whether i should take my pullin pants! ;)


and abby, u fantasise about bein Jenny's sex slave? well so do i so i guess that confirms u r definately a lezza!! ;) :D is that good to know?! :p

*abby*
May 5th, 2003, 07:40 PM
yup yup yup
she is sooooooo hot!!!! :drool:

Jennifer's wife
May 5th, 2003, 08:01 PM
yup yup yup
she is sooooooo hot!!!! :drool:

ill say! http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif :lick: :lick: :lick: :drool: :drool: :drool: :hearts: :hearts: :hearts:

toreador
May 5th, 2003, 11:14 PM
youre on! :bounce: i was wondering if u (or anyone else) could tellm e about where im goin on holiday? u know i sed Lesbos? well its more specifically skala kalloni. just wanna know whether i should take my pullin pants! ;)


and abby, u fantasise about bein Jenny's sex slave? well so do i so i guess that confirms u r definately a lezza!! ;) :D is that good to know?! :p
some family friends have a house in lesbos but how could i ask them such things;) :p
but i'm sure u could find some usefull things on the net;) :angel:

*abby*
May 7th, 2003, 04:31 PM
ill say! http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif :lick: :lick: :lick: :drool: :drool: :drool: :hearts: :hearts: :hearts:

lovin those emoticons theyre so accurate :rolleyes: :p :devil:
dont u jennymarie :p :devil:

Chelra
May 7th, 2003, 05:21 PM
ill say! http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif :lick: :lick: :lick: :drool: :drool: :drool: :hearts: :hearts: :hearts:

lovin those emoticons theyre so accurate :rolleyes: :p :devil:
dont u jennymarie :p :devil:

having fun being 1 of us i c ;)

Jennifer's wife
May 7th, 2003, 09:01 PM
well, Jen does say she likes to come from behind during a match!!http://carkeyboi.com/dump/hump.gif ;) :D :devil:

toreador
May 8th, 2003, 01:11 AM
i have to admit sth:o i haven't thought about jen in that way for *counting* 4 months:eek:
..yeah it's a shame:p

btw yesterday i watched her playing for the first time after the aus open:o she played so strong:D
and i forgot how :drool: she is when she's sweating :lick:

Melanie2
May 8th, 2003, 02:26 AM
I am 40% gay. Have no idea how to change the oil.

more questions:

would you rather eat a delicious meal or have a shag?

what is the best way to get a woman's attention?

which would you choose:
a) to be gorgeous, with a average looking partner
b) to be average looking, but have a stunning girlfriend



if you were attracted to a male friend, would you act on it?

toreador
May 8th, 2003, 02:47 AM
would you rather eat a delicious meal or have a shag?
~delicious meal for me

what is the best way to get a woman's attention?
~er how would i know?:p women don't pay attention to me:p

which would you choose:
a) to be gorgeous, with a average looking partner
b) to be average looking, but have a stunning girlfriend
~i'd go for a;) (cos tams is stunning so yeah i have that;) ) cos if she leaves and i'll be left with sth good:cool:

if you were attracted to a male friend, would you act on it?
~ yeah i'm bi:p

Melanie2
May 8th, 2003, 06:36 AM
:)

when was the last time you laughed out loud, and what made you laugh?

what is the best thing you ever made (like a pottery duck or something)?

what was the last thing you complained about?

would you go on holiday for two weeks with your parents?

rocktheboat
May 8th, 2003, 07:45 AM
would you rather eat a delicious meal or have a shag?
Have a shag then eat a delicious meal :p

what is the best way to get a woman's attention?
Walked naked in front of her ;) No......just treat her good :)

which would you choose:
a) to be gorgeous, with a average looking partner
b) to be average looking, but have a stunning girlfriend

Well, i think b) is happening to me now:) but i don't mind as long as i have someone who cares about me:) Looks are good for some time but then it eventually subside and all is left is ur personality:)

if you were attracted to a male friend, would you act on it?
probably:p


when was the last time you laughed out loud, and what made you laugh?
Earlier my friend Joachim told me i am hot:eek: so that made me laugh out loud :p

what is the best thing you ever made (like a pottery duck or something)?
nothing!

what was the last thing you complained about?
that i don't have money :(

would you go on holiday for two weeks with your parents?
Yes!it would be good to see them together again :)

Tammy
May 8th, 2003, 04:26 PM
would you rather eat a delicious meal or have a shag?
- hmm why not have a "shag" while utilizing certain foods? ;):lick::angel:

what is the best way to get a woman's attention?
- er i have no idea.. im just my normal dorky self :D lol :o

which would you choose:
a) to be gorgeous, with a average looking partner
b) to be average looking, but have a stunning girlfriend
- ..neither looks don't mean a thing to me either way.. so how about someone who has some sort of personality? :p

if you were attracted to a male friend, would you act on it?
- ..um probably so if i wasn't with anyone of course ;)

Tammy
May 8th, 2003, 04:29 PM
~i'd go for a;) (cos tams is stunning so yeah i have that;) ) cos if she leaves and i'll be left with sth good:cool:


tss *spank* :kiss::kiss: - and hmm too bad since you already are :drool::lick:

:angel:

Tammy
May 8th, 2003, 04:32 PM
when was the last time you laughed out loud, and what made you laugh?
- just a few mintues ago when i read a very sweet and cute email from someone..:D

what is the best thing you ever made (like a pottery duck or something)?
- err i have no idea :confused: - i dont make things ok? :o

what was the last thing you complained about?
- er my health problems :sad: - i know i know *needs to stop whining* :p

would you go on holiday for two weeks with your parents?
- hell no are you insane :eek:

Melanie2
May 8th, 2003, 11:09 PM
ok then... which would you prefer:
a) to be piss yourself hilarious and a brilliant verbal sparing partner, but have a boring girlfriend
b) to have a girlfriend who knocks you out daily with her fantastic personality but have a sinking feeling that you are totally uninteresting :p

Melanie2
May 8th, 2003, 11:13 PM
A couple more....

if you had to sing a song at karaoke, what song would you choose? would it sound good?

which superpower would you like to have (one only ladies)?

baddy2heads
May 8th, 2003, 11:36 PM
would you rather eat a delicious meal or have a shag?
whoever's asking such a stupid question must have a right shit lay of a girlfriend

what is the best way to get a woman's attention?
buy her a delicious meal

which would you choose:
a) to be gorgeous, with a average looking partner
b) to be average looking, but have a stunning girlfriend
having a really good looking g/f is WEIRD ...but COOL. Would still go for (a) though


if you were attracted to a male friend, would you act on it?
i wouldn't not act on it because he was male, more likely not to cos he was a mate

when was the last time you laughed out loud, and what made you laugh?
today, general mental disturbance

what is the best thing you ever made (like a pottery duck or something)?
gotta be the Sistine Chappel - fucking fortnight that took me, nightmare to get the right bricks

what was the last thing you complained about?
certainly nothing trivial

would you go on holiday for two weeks with your parents?
pfffff not bloody likley 7th of june, North Yorkshire, bit of golf

a) to be piss yourself hilarious and a brilliant verbal sparing partner, but have a boring girlfriend
b) to have a girlfriend who knocks you out daily with her fantastic personality but have a sinking feeling that you are totally uninteresting
yes!

if you had to sing a song at karaoke, what song would you choose? would it sound good?
'X goin'a give it to ya' composed by DMX, no

which superpower would you like to have (one only ladies)?
USA

Melanie2
May 8th, 2003, 11:43 PM
noooooo... like xray vision or something, not a country!!!

baddy2heads
May 8th, 2003, 11:45 PM
ok.....x-ray vision?

Melanie2
May 8th, 2003, 11:48 PM
nooooo... think of your own one!

baddy2heads
May 8th, 2003, 11:52 PM
OH FOR FUCK'S SAKE! ....x-ray ...hearing

Melanie2
May 8th, 2003, 11:55 PM
okayyyy. good choice

baddy2heads
May 8th, 2003, 11:57 PM
thanks, i already have my lesbian superpowers anyway, why aren't you answering the damn questions nosey?

Melanie2
May 8th, 2003, 11:59 PM
cos they're MY damn questions.. ask me some if you want answers

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:06 AM
ok I WILL

how would you like to die? (not a threat)
have you ever been attracted to someone under 16?
what made you come into a gay thread?

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:08 AM
would you rather eat a delicious meal or have a shag?
probably a shag, unless i was really hungry, in which case I would have barbeque ribs and then a shag

what is the best way to get a woman's attention?
i don't know... difficult

which would you choose:
a) to be gorgeous, with a average looking partner
b) to be average looking, but have a stunning girlfriend
I would want a...

if you were attracted to a male friend, would you act on it?
no

when was the last time you laughed out loud, and what made you laugh?
watching french and saunders with my dad

what is the best thing you ever made (like a pottery duck or something)?
a scarf for my teddy when i was a kid, but I can't knit.. kept dropping stitches, so it had lots of holes :(

what was the last thing you complained about?
my job... my crapper than useless supervisor

would you go on holiday for two weeks with your parents?
yep... but not both of them together

a) to be piss yourself hilarious and a brilliant verbal sparing partner, but have a boring girlfriend
b) to have a girlfriend who knocks you out daily with her fantastic personality but have a sinking feeling that you are totally uninteresting
I choose b :)

if you had to sing a song at karaoke, what song would you choose? would it sound good?
I would choose A whoooollllleeeeee newwwww world..... and it would sound rubbish

which superpower would you like to have (one only ladies)?
setting things / supervisors on fire with the power of my gaze... and flying, so i could visit my girlfriend at the weekend

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:11 AM
why wouldn't you act on the male friend thing?

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:12 AM
how would you like to die? (not a threat)
- saving stevie nicks from a dragon, at age 98 :)

have you ever been attracted to someone under 16?
- not since i was about 10

what made you come into a gay thread?
- the voices in my head my love... actually the fact that i am in the closet to everyone around me, so it's nice to feel i'm not the only one in the world

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:15 AM
how long could you go without sex?
what's the favorite thing you own?

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:15 AM
because... it's unlikely as hell, but say I was friends with Brad Pitt... i might find him attractive visually, but I don't fancy the actual sex part at all. don't like the way guys kiss or anything about touching them/ being touched by them. so i wouldn't tell him i thought he was lovely, cos he might touch me and spoil it... man, am i strange?

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:17 AM
a little....but not because of that

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:20 AM
how long could i go without sex?
um... a long time i guess. if i was not in love, i wouldn't have sex

fav thing i own? nothing leaps to mind... maybe cds?

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:20 AM
what is your supervisor doing?

Bероника
May 9th, 2003, 12:20 AM
more questions:

would you rather eat a delicious meal or have a shag? I think a shag :devil:

what is the best way to get a woman's attention? Sending her flowers

which would you choose:
a) to be gorgeous, with a average looking partner
b) to be average looking, but have a stunning girlfriend




if you were attracted to a male friend, would you act on it?[/QUOTE]
I don't think so.Never happened so i don't know.

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:21 AM
why wouldn't you have sex if you weren't in love?

Bероника
May 9th, 2003, 12:22 AM
when was the last time you laughed out loud, and what made you laugh?
Tonight,watching " Mr.Deeds"

what is the best thing you ever made (like a pottery duck or something)?
Adopting my dogs

what was the last thing you complained about?the traffic

would you go on holiday for two weeks with your parents?
Depends to where we would go.

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:23 AM
thanks so much :(

how long could you go without sex?

do you find aloofness attractive?

if a train leaves Edinburgh at 7.12am and travels south at 118miles an hour, at what time will it smash into a train that leaves Cardiff at 5.53am and travels at 233 miles per hour?

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:27 AM
how long could you go without sex?
depends who i was waiting for

do you find aloofness attractive?
depends, not really, is usually accompanied by other not very nice features.....no, i don't

if a train leaves Edinburgh at 7.12am and travels south at 118miles an hour, at what time will it smash into a train that leaves Cardiff at 5.53am and travels at 233 miles per hour?
never, there'll be line repairs till monday

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:28 AM
my supervisor is just an incompetent, racist, sexist idiot with the social skills of a moldy stool

i wouldn't have sex if i wasn't in love, because if it wasn't serious i wouldn't trust the person

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:30 AM
what's the worst lie you've told?
what can i do to make you happy?

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:30 AM
would you rather have avril lavigne's voice, looks, or $?

Julie
May 9th, 2003, 12:31 AM
OMG *Sheds a tear* Its just like old times :D

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:31 AM
looks

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:32 AM
ha! hey julie

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:32 AM
worst lie: don't really lie... at the moment I feel bad cos a group of friends keep asking me why i don't want a japanese boyfriend, and i just evade the question without answering it... feel bad about that, but i don't know if it's really a lie.

to make me happy? just be you

Julie
May 9th, 2003, 12:35 AM
Hey to both of you, im off to bed now cos some of us have to work tomorrow, but will read this thread with interest tomorrow - wonder how many pages you'll manage to fill :)

Hope youre both ok sweets :kiss: :kiss:

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:35 AM
julie :) cool

would you rather
a) eat a gremlin
b) be a gremlin

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:36 AM
hmmmm ok.

can i kill your supervisor?

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:37 AM
be a gremlin... they looks so cool in shades

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:39 AM
you mean may you kill him? no... they have the death penalty here

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:41 AM
oh yeah! ...blimey!....i met a guy today, like 20 yrs old, hippy/student looking, said corporal punishment should be brought back, weird....better do a bit of work in a minute, send me an e-mail and tell me what your doing today?

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:41 AM
would you rather
a) be Kylie
b) see Kylie
c) shag Kylie

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:42 AM
be kylie, no question

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:43 AM
and this from the woman who thinks i'm strange! but the accent!!!! how could you live with the accent!!!????

baddy2heads
May 9th, 2003, 12:45 AM
Your xenophobia disgusts me. Goodbye.

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:46 AM
your fetishisation of antipodeans amuses and attracts me, goodbye :)

Melanie2
May 9th, 2003, 12:53 AM
Ok, questions in general:

Would you rather have a job that interests you, but pays poorly, or a job that bores you to tears but pays really well? Why?

Are you wearing jewellery?

Do you smoke?

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 02:39 AM
when was the last time you laughed out loud, and what made you laugh?
yesterday. i read post from one of my friends on another message board

what is the best thing you ever made (like a pottery duck or something)?
*doesn't remember*:o

what was the last thing you complained about?
er my grades:o ...i just want to make sure i'll pass ok?;) :p

would you go on holiday for two weeks with your parents?
hell no:p

King Satan
May 9th, 2003, 02:43 AM
will you give me your msn addy? :angel:

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 02:46 AM
which would you prefer:
a) to be piss yourself hilarious and a brilliant verbal sparing partner, but have a boring girlfriend
b) to have a girlfriend who knocks you out daily with her fantastic personality but have a sinking feeling that you are totally uninteresting :p

oh well... b applies to me now:cool: :p
so i would choose a;)

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 02:47 AM
will you give me your msn addy? :angel:
*slap*

get out of here:mad: :p

and no:p

King Satan
May 9th, 2003, 02:48 AM
what? can't i ask some questions to all my favorite lesbians? :confused:

*slaps back* :p

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 02:50 AM
if you had to sing a song at karaoke, what song would you choose? would it sound good?
me sing?:p ok probably "i will survive" just cos it's an alll time favorite song;)

which superpower would you like to have (one only ladies)?
er fly?:p :o

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 02:51 AM
what? can't i ask some questions to all my favorite lesbians? :confused:

*slaps back* :p
cos u're a man...right?:p

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 02:53 AM
how would you like to die? (not a threat)
~suicide:cool:

have you ever been attracted to someone under 16?
~nah i think she was sixteen:p

what made you come into a gay thread?
~cos i'm bi?:p

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 02:55 AM
how long could you go without sex?
~er 18 1/2 years?:o :p

what's the favorite thing you own?
my computer?;) :p

King Satan
May 9th, 2003, 02:57 AM
when did you know you were bi?

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 03:00 AM
i found out when i was 15

now get out:p

King Satan
May 9th, 2003, 03:02 AM
i found out when i was 15

now get out:p
NOOO :p
I wanna talk to steaming hott lesbians lol :p

Have you ever been with a woman? ;)

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 03:03 AM
Would you rather have a job that interests you, but pays poorly, or a job that bores you to tears but pays really well? Why?
~i think i'll have a job that bores me but pays well;) and idk...i guess the 2nd since i'll do that and of course cos it'll pay well:)

Are you wearing jewellery?
earrings;) and a lip ring but nothing else

Do you smoke?
nop

toreador
May 9th, 2003, 03:04 AM
ok i'm outta this thread:p

King Satan
May 9th, 2003, 03:05 AM
ok ok i'm leaving lol :kiss:

rocktheboat
May 9th, 2003, 06:16 PM
would you rather
a) be Kylie
b) see Kylie
c) shag Kylie

-None of the above :p

Would you rather have a job that interests you, but pays poorly, or a job that bores you to tears but pays really well? Why?
-definitely a job that bores me to tears but pays well:D why? simply cuz then i could go see my girlfriend again :D

Are you wearing jewellery?
-My g/f gold chain :)

Do you smoke?
-No but i have tried once but ended up coughing and spitting in ppl's face :O

which would you prefer:
a) to be piss yourself hilarious and a brilliant verbal sparing partner, but have a boring girlfriend
b) to have a girlfriend who knocks you out daily with her fantastic personality but have a sinking feeling that you are totally uninteresting

-well my g/f is perfect for me :hearts: i would not change for the world :)

if you had to sing a song at karaoke, what song would you choose? would it sound good?
-Take my breath away by Berlin :p well it'll probably sound crap;)

which superpower would you like to have (one only ladies)?
-fly!fly!fly!

how would you like to die?
:confused:

have you ever been attracted to someone under 16?
-yes:p

what made you come into a gay thread?
-cuz i started it! :p

how long could you go without sex?
-a long time,i dont mind as long as i know my g/f loves me :)

what's the favorite thing you own?
-the teddy bear my g/f gave me when we met :) i sleep with it every night :)

Melanie2
May 12th, 2003, 02:24 AM
:)

cunnihingis
May 20th, 2003, 07:46 PM
Ok, questions in general:

Would you rather have a job that interests you, but pays poorly, or a job that bores you to tears but pays really well? Why?

i've had both and i prefer having the interesting job cos the salary could be fantastic but it isn't worth it if you're dreading it the whole time.

Are you wearing jewellery?

only earrings.

Do you smoke?

i did. it's been 14 years. quiting was the smartest thing i ever did.

Melanie2
May 22nd, 2003, 08:09 AM
alrighty...

If you were someone else, would you go out with you?

Would you go out with me?

Which is worse, being too hot or too cold?

Have you ever been in hospital (other than to be born)?

and i am expecting answers from you baddythingywhatsit and julie, whereever you roamed....

:sad:

Can't remember if this has been asked yet, but what is the most romantic or touching thing someone has done for you?

If you could make it so that the world was predominantly gay, and straight personages were in the minority and couldn't have legally recognised relationships (generally), would you do it?

and now, i shall answer my own questions, for boredom is my friend :mad:

If you were someone else, would you go out with you? no way

Would you go out with me? ??? that would be with myself, again, no

Which is worse, being too hot or too cold? too cold is bad

Have you ever been in hospital (other than to be born)? yes, for three weeks... the food wasn't too bad actually

Can't remember if this has been asked yet, but what is the most romantic or touching thing someone has done for you? someone rang me until they were bankrupt and then found me a place to live with them xxx

If you could make it so that the world was predominantly gay, and straight personages were in the minority and couldn't have legally recognised relationships (generally), and were stereotyped on bad sitcoms would you do it? hell yeh!!! :)

*abby*
May 22nd, 2003, 10:35 AM
If you were someone else, would you go out with you?
yeh i guess
Would you go out with me?
well....i dont no u but yeh y not :p
Which is worse, being too hot or too cold?
too cold
Have you ever been in hospital (other than to be born)?
yup last year i had appendicitis
Can't remember if this has been asked yet, but what is the most romantic or touching thing someone has done for you?
erm.....probably when my best mate abby (who i fancy the arse offof) made me a cake 4 valentines day :D
If you could make it so that the world was predominantly gay, and straight personages were in the minority and couldn't have legally recognised relationships (generally), would you do it?
i dont no r gay relationship legally recognised?if no then YES

rocktheboat
May 22nd, 2003, 11:04 AM
If you were someone else, would you go out with you?
Probably not,thats why i am still shocked that she wanted me!

Would you go out with me?
Already found my girl :p

Which is worse, being too hot or too cold?
too hot

Have you ever been in hospital (other than to be born)?
only to visit ppl

Can't remember if this has been asked yet, but what is the most romantic or touching thing someone has done for you?
She put up with more than 10 hours in a plane to come see me and she said loved me :)

If you could make it so that the world was predominantly gay, and straight personages were in the minority and couldn't have legally recognised relationships (generally), would you do it?
I dont know :confused:

Melanie2
May 22nd, 2003, 11:51 PM
:) The legally recognised relationships thing, I meant if gays had "marriage" (and the same kinds of rights that go with it) and straight people couldn't get married. Just the op of what it is like now in almost every country.

and now, as boredom is now making a pass at me ...
would you rather
a) be Kylie
b) see Kylie
c) shag Kylie

I would see Kylie, but I'm not fussed actually.

Would you rather have a job that interests you, but pays poorly, or a job that bores you to tears but pays really well? Why?
I want the interesting job.... please god, give me the interesting job

Are you wearing jewellery?
Yep, ring and little bracelet thing

Do you smoke?
Given up... :)

toreador
May 23rd, 2003, 03:03 AM
If you were someone else, would you go out with you?
no way:p

Would you go out with me?
just like ronnie i found my girl;)

Which is worse, being too hot or too cold?
being too hot

Have you ever been in hospital (other than to be born)?
yep

Can't remember if this has been asked yet, but what is the most romantic or touching thing someone has done for you?
tell/show me her feelings about me

If you could make it so that the world was predominantly gay, and straight personages were in the minority and couldn't have legally recognised relationships (generally), would you do it?
nah i don't think so but then again...

Tammy
May 23rd, 2003, 03:33 AM
Would you rather have a job that interests you, but pays poorly, or a job that bores you to tears but pays really well? Why?
- ..one that bores me to tears which the money will glady make better

Are you wearing jewellery?
- er a chain, and all 10 of my piercings..

Do you smoke?
- when i get pissed off or and utterly stressed like now uh huh

Tammy
May 23rd, 2003, 03:41 AM
If you were someone else, would you go out with you?
- definitely not

Would you go out with me?
- you wouldnt want me

Which is worse, being too hot or too cold?
- hot

Have you ever been in hospital (other than to be born)?
- ugh i think they have a room reserved there just for me..

Can't remember if this has been asked yet, but what is the most romantic or touching thing someone has done for you?
- um i'd have to either say getting a dozen roses passed out to me by strange people (but in hind sight that was kindy creepy having all these people idk walk up to me handing me roses with little notes one by one) or sending me a song to listen too..

If you could make it so that the world was predominantly gay, and straight personages were in the minority and couldn't have legally recognised relationships (generally), would you do it?
- er no but id legally recognize gay relationships..

cunnihingis
Aug 18th, 2004, 12:50 AM
i suppose it's time for a new question. here's one-

do you find that in your world the dating pool among lesbians is much smaller than that of gay males? that is most definitely a reality in mine and i don't like it at all cos after awhile you've all dated and slept with each other. lol!

Wigglytuff
Aug 18th, 2004, 01:03 AM
i suppose it's time for a new question. here's one-

do you find that in your world the dating pool among lesbians is much smaller than that of gay males? that is most definitely a reality in mine and i don't like it at all cos after awhile you've all dated and slept with each other. lol!

i dont thats the case for me (then again i live in ny) but i do think lesbians have a special level of insanity that makes finding someone to date, and who wont run away because, god forbid, you care :retard: , but maybe i am just bitter.

Martian Willow
Aug 18th, 2004, 01:30 AM
http://www.channel4.com/life/microsites/G/gayometer/gayometer.html

I got 56%.

...yay...my fave poster... :wavey:

Bacardi
Aug 18th, 2004, 04:15 AM
I'll work this thread, since I'm lesbian and have a beautiful girlfriend.
Feel free to ask anything :)

cunnihingis
Aug 18th, 2004, 04:44 AM
i dont thats the case for me (then again i live in ny) but i do think lesbians have a special level of insanity that makes finding someone to date, and who wont run away because, god forbid, you care :retard: , but maybe i am just bitter.

lol! i will share your quote with some friends cos i know they'll appreciate and acknowledge that it's true. ;) it's amazing and disappointing in many ways cos it's always been alleged that we are the relationship-minded ones yet we play so many passive-aggressive mind games with each other making the promiscuity of gay men seem that much more appealing. :lol: can you recognise that i'm bitter as well? lol :o

Wigglytuff
Aug 18th, 2004, 01:51 PM
lol! i will share your quote with some friends cos i know they'll appreciate and acknowledge that it's true. ;) it's amazing and disappointing in many ways cos it's always been alleged that we are the relationship-minded ones yet we play so many passive-aggressive mind games with each other making the promiscuity of gay men seem that much more appealing. :lol: can you recognise that i'm bitter as well? lol :o

LOL!!! sometimes its good to be bitter! and yes you have a point. i dont understand the insanity, its like when we are in a healthy relationship, and have good pussy, sanity ends up in the back burner, but why?

Jennifer's wife
Aug 18th, 2004, 04:10 PM
:wavey: another bitter lesbian enters the thread! i swear i will never get involved with another 'straight' woman again in my life! :confused: :sad:

Ekkekko
Aug 19th, 2004, 05:33 AM
:wavey: another bitter lesbian enters the thread! i swear i will never get involved with another 'straight' woman again in my life! :confused: :sad:
Mind if I ask...Y?

cunnihingis
Aug 23rd, 2004, 08:54 PM
:wavey: another bitter lesbian enters the thread! i swear i will never get involved with another 'straight' woman again in my life! :confused: :sad:

was she experiementing? if she was then sorry to say but you should've realised that she could never be completely yours. i don't even get involved with bi women cos i don't like the competition. better luck next time!

Jennifer's wife
Aug 27th, 2004, 12:05 AM
god knows! she told me she loved me, was in love with me, fancied the arse off me and wanted to be with me. that she saw us having a future together blah blah blah. i like to believe that she meant it all but personally i just think ive been played for 6 months :sad: so ive learned my lesson, no more straight women or bisexuals...both have left me for men! im with u cunnihingis...too much competition, its strictly lesbians for me now!! now if only i could find some.....

Wigglytuff
Aug 27th, 2004, 12:18 AM
god knows! she told me she loved me, was in love with me, fancied the arse off me and wanted to be with me. that she saw us having a future together blah blah blah. i like to believe that she meant it all but personally i just think ive been played for 6 months :sad: so ive learned my lesson, no more straight women or bisexuals...both have left me for men! im with u cunnihingis...too much competition, its strictly lesbians for me now!! now if only i could find some.....

have come to believe that there is no goodness in peoples heart when it comes to love.

my ex told me the same thing, she was day, she told me the same thing, how she us together and having a life together and all those wonderful things 2 days before she broke up with me. :sad: :sad: :sad:

the best thing to do is to love no one but yourself.

Jennifer's wife
Aug 27th, 2004, 12:33 AM
not quite the same tho is it? i mean my heart's broken at the moment but it will mend in time. at least next time i will know what signs to look for. u know if they mean what they say or not. i mean it was the same for me. the night before she was toasting a new start with me over dinner and talking about redecorating the house and stuff. how fucked up is that? :confused: