View Full Version : why is it ........??

Nov 22nd, 2002, 05:26 PM
..... That when your heart is taken and you are happily in a relationship - that all of a sudden a million and one other peopel suddenly start flirting and declaring there love for you??? :confused:

Is it because you exude that happiness and confidence or what - i dont believe i have changed much in my current relationship - but all these peopel are flirting with me and stuff and well its very flattering - but why werent some of them around when i was single??? :sad:

Answers on a postcard please, or alternatively in this thread ;)

Nov 22nd, 2002, 05:40 PM
Probably because people are fascinated by what is "forbidden" or "not done". ;)

Nov 22nd, 2002, 05:47 PM
Lol - so i am a forbidden fruit then??? :o :o - i See ;)

Nov 22nd, 2002, 08:01 PM
No just cos they care for/love you but don't dare to say it or something and then when you say you're happily taken, they realise it's maybe too late for them and they finally dare telling you their real feelings.

Crazy Canuck
Nov 22nd, 2002, 08:09 PM
Because life is just a big joke, and this is one of it's many punchlines.

Nov 22nd, 2002, 08:12 PM
Because desperation is not sexy ;)

Nov 22nd, 2002, 08:24 PM
Originally posted by griffin
Because desperation is not sexy ;)

But Julie wasn't desperate she used to have me! :sad: Now i'm the desperate one!

:kiss: Julie, you'll change your mind soon enough when we meet! ;)

Nov 22nd, 2002, 08:36 PM
Originally posted by griffin
Because desperation is not sexy ;)

what are you suggesting ms dictatorial one ;) :p

Nov 22nd, 2002, 09:15 PM
Because love makes us all a lot more beautiful. ;)

Nov 22nd, 2002, 10:24 PM
Indeed. I have often noticed how my female friends sometimes seem embellished by a kind of special grace which betrays their love - only not for me.

Dahveed has a point. Also, I might find it less difficult to tell someone that I love her if I knew that she was deeply involved in a relationship. Not because I don't want to become involved, but probably and more simply because I'd think that my feelings can't harm her bearing no consequence.