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stevos
Sep 12th, 2008, 02:56 AM
ME! [/longthreadtitles]

Some people on my floor asked me to go out to the bar tonight. But I really don't want to, and am really confused about what I should do. I'm just in a super-anti-social mood, but I also think being social is important early on in REZ. UGH

So how about everyone comes in here and talks about how they're going to enjoy a relaxing evening at home. :D

Vamos.
Sep 12th, 2008, 03:00 AM
I even had these types of moods in freshers week. Well, maybe once. I had a tough time settling in, I guess. And I always made the right decision; if I felt like I would have a bad time out, I would stay in.

I always felt awesome the next day. I've made that decision so many times; every single night its like what are we doing, where are we going? And sometimes I always felt I needed a break; so I let everyone else go without me. ;)

I've never regretted it once. Most of the time I missed nothing, almost like I sensed it wouldn't be a good night.

Go with your gut instinct, I say, and stay in. You will feel better for it tomorrow.

There is nothing worse than going out for the sake of going out. :shrug:...you shouldn't feel any social pressure to go out and have fun because that takes all the fun away from it. Only go out if you actually want to! :yeah:

Anyway, have a good night with whatever you choose to do!

stevos
Sep 12th, 2008, 03:36 AM
That's true, but from the other perspective I often just get shy about going out with people at times, but when I just get up and do it, I don't regret it.
However tonight I'm def just staying in.
Some friends of mine are going to be around rez too (it IS a thursday night) so I'm cool.