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^bibi^
Dec 20th, 2006, 05:05 PM
Some of you probably already know it, today was my very last day at my first work ever. I've worked there for two years but now it's over. I held on pretty well until almost the end but knew I would crack up at some point. At around 3pm I started to say goodbye to each of my colleague. When I arrived at one of m favorite, who i really consider a friend, I totally cracked up, i started crying, I could even really say goodbye to the ones left it was awful, it took me almost an hour to stop crying, it's really weird. I reall don't care about losing my job (I found another one anyway). But there are some eprson I won't get to see every day now and it really feels weird. I guess the fact that it's my first job doesn't help... I really don't feel well right now :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: (hugs welcome :sad: )

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 05:06 PM
:hug: If they are friends of yours, you can alway stay in touch and see them outside of work.

^bibi^
Dec 20th, 2006, 05:12 PM
:hug: If they are friends of yours, you can alway stay in touch and see them outside of work.

Yeah I know they keep telling me that but still it's weird, i guess also because it's a part of my life which is now over, and it's really the first time it has happened to me... it really feels weird

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 05:14 PM
Yeah I know they keep telling me that but still it's weird, i guess also because it's a part of my life which is now over, and it's really the first time it has happened to me... it really feels weird

It's not really weird, cause mostly you see your colleagues all week, even more than your friends and family.

Dexter
Dec 20th, 2006, 05:15 PM
:hug: x 100000000.

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 05:17 PM
Big hugs Greg :hug: :hug: :hug:

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 05:29 PM
Greg you were supposed to have an interview for a new job, weren't you? Any news?

~{X}~
Dec 20th, 2006, 06:36 PM
That is so funny because today is also my last day of work at my first job. I worked as a Retail clerk at Tower Records for about 13 months now and today is my last day there because the store is shutting down tomorrow. :sad:

:hug: Bibi. Lets go home and cuddle together to make each other feel better. :D

Yasmine
Dec 20th, 2006, 06:51 PM
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
Greg you were supposed to have an interview for a new job, weren't you? Any news?
cyrille you're late :lol: greg had an interview and is starting his new job in january if I remember right:p that's why he quit his job now rather than the end of his contract :cool:

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:02 PM
:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

cyrille you're late :lol: greg had an interview and is starting his new job in january if I remember right:p that's why he quit his job now rather than the end of his contract :cool:
Oh my dear, yes I'm late :eek: But I've had some changes in my life as well, even if that's not an excuse :lol: Btw congrats Greg for your new job! :banana: :yeah:

Andy_
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:06 PM
Well, Greg, I've had my last day at first job day little more than a year ago... and I remember I went through something similar. I knew I'd still be able to keep in touch with certain people I cared for, yet the very moment I started to say bye - it was also just before the summer holidays - I knew I was kinda walking up those stairs for the last time, walking along that corridor for the last time... and even though it wasn't even literally true - I've been there again, as a matter of fact - I knew it was the last time I was there as an employee... and that a chapter of my life was getting to the end.

I didn't cry, but on my way out, as I walked through the courtyard, I looked back and felt weird... and for some time I have kind of avoided driving by there, cuz it felt weird to do so without being a part of it anymore.

So here's a very big :hug: for you, and good luck with your new work experience! :cool:

-sugi-
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:09 PM
:hug:

Ballbasher
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:20 PM
:hug: :hug:all the best ;)

Yasmine
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:28 PM
Oh my dear, yes I'm late :eek: But I've had some changes in my life as well, even if that's not an excuse :lol: Btw congrats Greg for your new job! :banana: :yeah:
that hasn't stopped you from posting here has it :p

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:33 PM
that hasn't stopped you from posting here has it :pI post less than before though :p

Yasmine
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:34 PM
I post less than before though :p
you're so busy reading all the reported posts and all the rest, such a busy man you are :angel:

Marcus1979
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:35 PM
I post less than before though :p

say it enough and u may believe it :lol:

Yasmine
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:39 PM
say it enough and u may believe it :lol:
:haha: :haha: :haha:

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:48 PM
that hasn't stopped you from posting here has it :p

Moderating is a hard job, my dear Yas. :p

Yasmine
Dec 20th, 2006, 07:53 PM
Moderating is a hard job, my dear Yas. :p
it sure is my darling James :angel:

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:01 PM
say it enough and u may believe it :lol::rolls: but "less than before" for me is still a huge rate for most of the posters here :lol:

Marcus1979
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:01 PM
Moderating is a hard job, my dear Yas. :p


what kind of hard job exactly is this :hehehe: :scratch:

hard work with the other mods ;)

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:02 PM
Moderating is a hard job, my dear Yas. :pI second that :p

Yasmine
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:07 PM
what kind of hard job exactly is this :hehehe: :scratch:

hard work with the other mods ;)
:devil: :lol:
I second that :p
oh look at you new mods, only here for a few weeks and already complaining! :devil: :lol:

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:08 PM
what kind of hard job exactly is this :hehehe: :scratch:

hard work with the other mods ;)

Having to delete all the posts where you take it too far. ;)

But at the end of the day there is the big jacuzzi in the mod headquarters to help us relax. :p

Helen Lawson
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:09 PM
Yeah I know they keep telling me that but still it's weird, i guess also because it's a part of my life which is now over, and it's really the first time it has happened to me... it really feels weird

Sorry, hon, too bad you're so upset and Helen isn't there to take away the pain for you. :D

With work, my experience is, you're upset for a day or so, and then you totally forget the people from the other job. Friends at work always say they'll keep in touch, they never do. It's actually sort of sad, but after a couple of days away, basically no one cares anymore. I guess the good news is, your tears and anguish will be short-lived.

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:10 PM
:devil: :lol:

oh look at you new mods, only here for a few weeks and already complaining! :devil: :lol:

Are you going to delete this post, Cyrille, or shall I? :devil: ;)

daniela86
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:11 PM
Bibi :sad: :hug: :hug: :kiss: I am very sad for you :awww: but I am sure you'll feel better with time and at your second job,you will probably meet interesting people too.:hug: :hug: :hug:

Yasmine
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:11 PM
Are you going to delete this post, Cyrille, or shall I? :devil: ;)
please feel free :devil: not that noone noticed it :cool:

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:14 PM
Having to delete all the posts where you take it too far. ;)

But at the end of the day there is the big jacuzzi in the mod headquarters to help us relax. :pshhh!!!

Yasmine
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:18 PM
Having to delete all the posts where you take it too far. ;)

But at the end of the day there is the big jacuzzi in the mod headquarters to help us relax. :p
a virtual jacuzzi, no seriously is that supposed to make us jealous? :devil: cos it's not working :angel:
Sometimes I imagine the kind of stuff that might be said down there, and I'ld rather not know in fact :rolls:

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:21 PM
a virtual jacuzzi, no seriously is that supposed to make us jealous? :devil: cos it's not working :angel:
Sometimes I imagine the kind of stuff that might be said down there, and I'ld rather not know in fact :rolls:

I could add in the massage parlor and thermal baths, but you might not be impressed by that either. :p

Our conversations are always on how to improve our job, we are hard working professionals. :D

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:23 PM
shhh!!!

We never use it of course, we are always hard at work. :angel:

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:24 PM
We never use it of course, we are always hard at work. :angel:Ed you talk too much :lol:

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:25 PM
Ed you talk too much :lol:
I'm trying to repair the damage. :angel:

Ceze
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:39 PM
I'm trying to repair the damage. :angel:I see but it's too late now :lol:

Marcus1979
Dec 20th, 2006, 08:52 PM
Ed spends all day taking Kart away from Rockeeta ;)

James
Dec 20th, 2006, 09:25 PM
Ed spends all day taking Kart away from Rockeeta ;)


Shhh, she is not supposed to know that. :eek: :o

LefandePatty
Dec 20th, 2006, 09:55 PM
Tant mieux mais tant mieux !

¤CharlDa¤
Dec 20th, 2006, 10:51 PM
Greg :sad: I know it sounds cheesy but it's just the start of sthing new, and hopefully better.

^bibi^
Dec 21st, 2006, 06:26 AM
Greg you were supposed to have an interview for a new job, weren't you? Any news?


They hired me ;) that's why I left so early i was supposedto say theretill february ;)

Ceze
Dec 21st, 2006, 06:28 AM
They hired me ;) that's why I left so early i was supposedto say theretill february ;):cool: :wavey:

^bibi^
Dec 21st, 2006, 06:31 AM
Tant mieux mais tant mieux !


euh ?? faucra que 'expliques mon ptit mat :scratch:

^bibi^
Dec 21st, 2006, 06:31 AM
Anyway, thanx everybody for your kind words, it really helps :kiss: :kiss: Sorry I don't have enough reps for everybod :kiss:

CooCooCachoo
Dec 21st, 2006, 07:34 AM
Some of you probably already know it, today was my very last day at my first work ever. I've worked there for two years but now it's over. I held on pretty well until almost the end but knew I would crack up at some point. At around 3pm I started to say goodbye to each of my colleague. When I arrived at one of m favorite, who i really consider a friend, I totally cracked up, i started crying, I could even really say goodbye to the ones left it was awful, it took me almost an hour to stop crying, it's really weird. I reall don't care about losing my job (I found another one anyway). But there are some eprson I won't get to see every day now and it really feels weird. I guess the fact that it's my first job doesn't help... I really don't feel well right now :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: (hugs welcome :sad: )

:sad: I guess being drunk doesn't help for your emotional stability ;) But I understand that it is tough to 'lose' those people, as you will never be around them that much anymore. But that doesn't stop you from staying in touch with them. Is your new job close to the old one? If so, you could go out to have lunch with them for instance.

CooCooCachoo
Dec 21st, 2006, 07:35 AM
Having to delete all the posts where you take it too far. ;)

But at the end of the day there is the big jacuzzi in the mod headquarters to help us relax. :p

Yeah, no need for you to have Mark if you have all these mods :wavey:

James
Dec 21st, 2006, 07:38 AM
Yeah, no need for you to have Mark if you have all these mods :wavey:

Now that you are rubbing it in, I will give Mark a call again, he likes men who are in charge.

:wavey:

"Sluggy"
Dec 21st, 2006, 07:38 AM
Oh that's ok bibi. Dealing with change and/or loss is the hardest thing about life IMO. It's around the holiday time too so we tend to get a bit melancholy. dont feel bad! BIG HUG!

CooCooCachoo
Dec 21st, 2006, 07:44 AM
Now that you are rubbing it in, I will give Mark a call again, he likes men who are in charge.

:wavey:

He doesn't, actually. He will hang up on you :D Please call him, I'd like to see your face when he does that :cool: ;)

James
Dec 21st, 2006, 07:55 AM
He doesn't, actually. He will hang up on you :D Please call him, I'd like to see your face when he does that :cool: ;)

Don't you think it would be strange to call someone who is already lying beside you? :rolleyes: :p

LefandePatty
Dec 21st, 2006, 03:23 PM
euh ?? faucra que 'expliques mon ptit mat :scratch:

On s'expliquera d'accord. :)

^bibi^
Dec 21st, 2006, 05:53 PM
:sad: I guess being drunk doesn't help for your emotional stability ;) But I understand that it is tough to 'lose' those people, as you will never be around them that much anymore. But that doesn't stop you from staying in touch with them. Is your new job close to the old one? If so, you could go out to have lunch with them for instance.

Yeah i'll still have occaisons to hang out with at least some of them. Today I received a SMS from one of my ex-colleague, and what she said in it really touched me. I realize I love her much more than I thought (oh shit i'm starting to cry again.. STOP STOP STOP STOP... feels better :p)

fufuqifuqishahah
Dec 21st, 2006, 06:13 PM
Yeah i'll still have occaisons to hang out with at least some of them. Today I received a SMS from one of my ex-colleague, and what she said in it really touched me. I realize I love her much more than I thought (oh shit i'm starting to cry again.. STOP STOP STOP STOP... feels better :p)

awww :hug:

u sound like a sweet, sensitive kiddie =)