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Mightymirza
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:06 PM
This is not a thread for a riot or not meant to be offensive to women or anything just something I observed..

Like recently I moved to brooklyn and we were moving with veryyy heavy boxes and we had to get through the heavy spring doors and man! was it hard!! Anyways at the same time some women entered building(young,beautiful,haughty) I think its courtesy to just hold door for us to pass right??I mean it would have made our moving bit simpler..Anyways so the girls just banged the door in front of us and dint care to stop..This happened 3 times with young women!! Then a man came in when we were moving our next boxes and he was really nice enough to hold both front door and the gate to us..

I dont know but do you think that when it comes to generally helping out as humans, men are more willing to help? Or do you think that in this world of competition straight(especially!),young,beautiful women are turning out to be more cold towards others??I dunno I might be dead wrong but it just seems that way..Share your thoughts please!!

QuicKyMonSter
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:16 PM
I do think so. (Young) Women are mostly lazy, when it comes to helping guys. Unless they're interested in you, they won't ask u if they can help you.
I'm not generalizing though, it's just what I see and i'm telling from my experiences so don't come telling me i think you sexy ladies are all the same! :angel:

"Sluggy"
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:32 PM
I guess if you have to measure in those terms you might find a tendancy for men to be more compassionate and helpful. But considering that IMO some of has to do with our being larger and less likely to get into trouble by offering to help people, that it is probably just the way it has to be. I mean if a female is too nice, she might attract unwanted attention from a person whom she'd rather be left alone by. Women are also more competitive, especially towards each other, but obviously not only towards each other.

"Sluggy"
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:34 PM
I'm not generalizing though, it's just what I see and i'm telling from my experiences so don't come telling me i think you sexy ladies are all the same! :angel:

Most young ladies are sexy, are there any young ladies that don't think they are sexy? :confused:

Mightymirza
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:37 PM
I guess if you have to measure in those terms you might find a tendancy for men to be more compassionate and helpful. But considering that IMO some of has to do with our being larger and less likely to get into trouble by offering to help people, that it is probably just the way it has to be. I mean if a female is too nice, she might attract unwanted attention from a person whom she'd rather be left alone by. Women are also more competitive, especially towards each other, but obviously not only towards each other.
hmm I think you are right!! But a lot of them are soo cold that they can hardly smile their whole life!! Isnt it a waste of life if you dont enjoy your life and dont help out each other??I mean come on its just compassion towards fellow humans!!

Mightymirza
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:38 PM
Most young ladies are sexy, are there any young ladies that don't think they are sexy? :confused:
:p true..Everyone is sexy in their own way :p its just some people can see it and some cant..How can people like cold beauties?beats me

"Sluggy"
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:43 PM
hmm I think you are right!! But a lot of them are soo cold that they can hardly smile their whole life!! Isnt it a waste of life if you dont enjoy your life and dont help out each other??I mean come on its just compassion towards fellow humans!!

well, it's just the way it is. I cant go around teaching my daughter to be super-nice to people, it could cause real problems. I cant remember any woman ever treating me rudely really though, i wouldnt notice it either. If you are talking about women being unabashedly nasty to males, that's obviously not called for, and it can upset not only the men who witness it, but the females too. But if it is a question of just not holding the door, or not saying thank you when we do, i just kinda roll my eyes.

"Sluggy"
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:45 PM
hmm I think you are right!! But a lot of them are soo cold that they can hardly smile their whole life!! Isnt it a waste of life if you dont enjoy your life and dont help out each other??I mean come on its just compassion towards fellow humans!!

It is a rather "Unchristian" type of behaviour. I dont mean in the religious sense, but come on now, being Nasty to people goes against humanity.

Barrie_Dude
Aug 17th, 2006, 04:56 PM
Men are better in so many ways!

Il Primo!
Aug 17th, 2006, 05:08 PM
:p true..Everyone is sexy in their own way :p its just some people can see it and some cant..How can people like cold beauties?beats me

Cold beauties are sexy to me cause you know shes not that cold and you want to change her personality. Its like a challenge :lick:

TheBoiledEgg
Aug 17th, 2006, 05:15 PM
This is not a thread for a riot or not meant to be offensive to women or anything just something I observed..

Like recently I moved to brooklyn and we were moving with veryyy heavy boxes and we had to get through the heavy spring doors and man! was it hard!! Anyways at the same time some women entered building(young,beautiful,haughty) I think its courtesy to just hold door for us to pass right??I mean it would have made our moving bit simpler..Anyways so the girls just banged the door in front of us and dint care to stop..This happened 3 times with young women!! Then a man came in when we were moving our next boxes and he was really nice enough to hold both front door and the gate to us..

I dont know but do you think that when it comes to generally helping out as humans, men are more willing to help? Or do you think that in this world of competition straight(especially!),young,beautiful women are turning out to be more cold towards others??I dunno I might be dead wrong but it just seems that way..Share your thoughts please!!

the women didnt/dont help, cos you're a guy, so they think "you can manage",
a guy just knows.

Mightymirza
Aug 17th, 2006, 05:47 PM
the women didnt/dont help, cos you're a guy, so they think "you can manage",
a guy just knows.
Well I dont know..This is the age of equality and what not and I think its about time some women also stop considering themselves "to be rescued" all the time and start being the "rescuer" when they can..Infact a middle aged woman with kids and all was really helpful but the haughty blondies were :tape: Its nto about being super nice or something just have some ethics!!

kiwifan
Aug 17th, 2006, 06:43 PM
Women are more likely to "show concern" and talk about it with thier friends later. :devil:

Men are more likely to just do it and get on with their lives. :cool:

Last week a guy was pushing his stalled car and had lots of traffic behind him getting annoyed, I helped him push the car around the corner and out of the way (and I actually forgot I did that until I started this post :lol: :tape: )

Its probably the last vestige of "chivalry".

You see a chick with too many groceries you grab a bag or hold a door.

You see a guy who needs another hand on a project for a couple of seconds you give him a hand (I don't mean helping him paint his house, just holding a board in place while he's trying to nail it or something equally de minimus). :angel:

ToeTag
Aug 18th, 2006, 03:28 AM
Infact a middle aged woman with kids and all was really helpful but the haughty blondies were This surprises you? In NYC? They watched too much SITC.