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selesfan1
Dec 10th, 2001, 02:44 AM
The majority of my friends at school are girls. I get a lot of crap from everyone for this but oh well.Being a boy people just find it strange . <img src="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> But some people thin Girls like me for other reasons. I also have guy friends but that's outside of school and we get together and talk about girls mostly and church and other things. <br />I also have another set of friend which are like the people I have known for a long time and some of them are included in the previous group. Just wondering about you all.

Scotso
Dec 10th, 2001, 02:54 AM
Ut oh... you're probably gay.

Crazy Canuck
Dec 10th, 2001, 04:33 AM
They are probably just jealous <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

I dont have that many male freinds... I dont know why that is, I just am sy around males I guess

Scotso
Dec 10th, 2001, 04:37 AM
you have me, Becca... not that you ever talk to me <img src="graemlins/sad.gif" border="0" alt="[Sad]" />

Crazy Canuck
Dec 10th, 2001, 04:59 AM
I talk to you.... your just silly.

I dont have aol on, cause i am supposed to be studying!

The Last Unicorn
Dec 10th, 2001, 08:18 AM
Mine are mostly female or gay men.

Zamboni
Dec 10th, 2001, 01:27 PM
Most of my friends are female, but I have some male friends too. We are just a mixed group <img src="wink.gif" border="0"> Like most groups at our school...

timmbo
Dec 10th, 2001, 01:42 PM
I have a mixed group of friends. I have one really good female str8 friend, 2 lesbian friends, couple male str8 friends

Mostly everyone else I would consider friends but these 5 people I consider my best friends

Scotso
Dec 10th, 2001, 02:09 PM
Other than people on this message board, I don't even talk to any straight men. So all of my friends are gay men or females. I actually don't think I have any lesbian friends either, but I wouldn't be sure about that.

I'm a sporty guy, but I just can't handle straight men IRL, they annoy me. hehe <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

*molests the Unicorn*

saki
Dec 10th, 2001, 02:28 PM
Well I went to a girls' school, so my schoolfriends, whom I'm very close to, are all girls.

My university friends are a mixture. Some of my closest friends are male. I get on very well with men - they're more given to abstract/logical conversations. But I still have quite a few female friends. Quite a lot of lesbian/bisexual female friends too.

timmbo
Dec 10th, 2001, 02:43 PM
I did have lots more male str8 friends, but they stopped talking to me after I came out. The two that still talk to me, im really close to them. We played sports together and we have a very strong bond, they are like my brothers. I think that when people have an open mind to anyone; gay, str8 or bi, then it makes us a better person. It interest me to gain perspective from different points of view and not just one way of thinking.

Monica_Rules
Dec 10th, 2001, 06:13 PM
In school my main group of friends is 6 girls and 1 boy but i'm friends with mainly girls but i have a lot of male friends!Because of this people assume i am gay but i am not i just don't have the typical sense of ladness(new word?)

for instance i am called gayboy or poof everyday but i am not gay so i have no idea why they call me this!!!!!!!!!!!

bulgar
Dec 10th, 2001, 07:08 PM
NO AND YES, I HAVE AS MUCH WOMEN FRIENDS AS I HAVE MALE FRIENDS, I HANG OUT WITH ANY RACE ANY SEX IT DOESN'T REALLY MATTER TO ME AT ALL.<br />BUT I LOVE WOMEN <img src="smile.gif" border="0"> AND I HAVE ONE I HANG OUT WITH ALL THE TIME MY SWEETHEART KATERINA <img src="smile.gif" border="0"> LOVE HER

AND OFCORSE I HAVE A SWEETIE ON THIS BOARD NAMED MARRI <img src="smile.gif" border="0"> <img src="biggrin.gif" border="0"> BEAUTIFUL

AND I HAVE OTHER ONES NAMED APOET, YS AND MIRANDA <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

[ December 10, 2001: Message edited by: bulgar ]</p>

ys
Dec 10th, 2001, 07:25 PM
Unfortunately, yes, in real life I'd like to have more female friends, almost all of my friends are males, or, well, females who are wives of formers.

Interestingly, most of my internet friends are females. And I am quite proud of having them my friends.

Scotso
Dec 10th, 2001, 07:34 PM
Monica_Rules... unfortunately many people are ignorant. Just ignore them, and be friends with whoever you want to be friends with <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

Big Fat Pink Elephant
Dec 10th, 2001, 08:38 PM
Hm... you're a curious guy aren't you, selesfan1??

Well, my best-best friends are girls, and I love them dearly! And I've a couple of buddies who I love too! All my friends are great... I'm truely blessed with my friends. It's true. <br />And on the board it seems like almost all my friends are male... <img src="rolleyes.gif" border="0"> <img src="biggrin.gif" border="0"> That's no problem! <img src="graemlins/kiss.gif" border="0" alt="[Kiss]" />

NejedlyKanepi
Dec 11th, 2001, 02:29 AM
im a male, and i have hardly any male friends. i have 1 male friend that im very close to, other than that im always with girls. im one of those cooking freaks too <img src="eek.gif" border="0"> hahaha but really, guys annoy the hell out of me most of hte time, and girls are nice to be with <img src="graemlins/angel.gif" border="0" alt="[Angel]" /> because you can hug your female friends and be very close to them in ways you cant be with males. i like how homophobic males in highschool are, but how if you have female friends they automatically wonder. if it wasnt for alice, id probably be a prime suspect.... <img src="rolleyes.gif" border="0">

Randy H
Dec 11th, 2001, 04:04 PM
Most of my friends are females. I used to have more male friends a few years ago, because I do like sports etc. but we sort of drifted apart mainly because they started getting into punk, and being skaters...which I didn't have a problem with, but it's just not what i'm interested in so it was pointless for me to tag along when i'm not interested in their interests. i still have some male friends, but the majority are female.

Gallofa
Dec 11th, 2001, 04:44 PM
Yes, most of my friends are girls... I really miss having good male friends, my last years at school I went to a boys school that had recently started to accept girls, so it was only 4 or 5 girls for class.. bliss <img src="wink.gif" border="0"> hehe, no, really, I think it's good to have both male and female friends, it's easier to talk to men, whilst women tend to understand better where you are coming from... I guess it can be more difficult to be friends with whatever sex you are attracted to... has anyone seen when Harry met Sally? <img src="wink.gif" border="0"> lol

Monica_Rules
Dec 11th, 2001, 07:41 PM
Thank you Anjelica for those kind words <img src="biggrin.gif" border="0"> !

I no i am friends with who i like and want to be friends with.These days most people have finally realized that i am not gay!All the ones who do think i am or say things to me i now stand up for myself and answer back it shuts them up everytime!

Kisha
Dec 11th, 2001, 09:59 PM
well my frienda are mixed really. my best mate is a boy, but i have 'my girls'.<br />Also there are people on this board who are lovely and i really like and respect.<br />Also, my brothers girlfriend is kinda like one of my closet mates as well.

Oasiatic
Dec 11th, 2001, 10:50 PM
I have a pretty even mix of friends, I have three best friends, 2 guys and a gal. Real close. I'm pretty much friends with everyone and i get the entire deal, cause unfortunately , sometimes girls especially tend to tell me all their problems and secret crushes and ask me what they should do and guys do the same so I end up being the middle person and I don't like it. When it gets nasty I end up being the hated one!<br />I never ask to know this stuff! They just approach me one day and start telling me stuff...<br />I feel like running off... the things I know, I'd be eventually killed for...lol

Jordan.
Dec 11th, 2001, 11:22 PM
I hang out with a majority of friends.Male cats,female dogs,male dogs,and every once in awhile I catch up with a female bird.Ok,that was kinda stupid.I have boy and girl friends,70% girls though <img src="smile.gif" border="0">

TennisToriTerrificTwosome
Apr 28th, 2002, 11:22 AM
Half and half

Monica_Rules
Apr 28th, 2002, 11:29 AM
Most of my friends are girls its something like a 35%/65% ratio i just find some boys are right twats!:(

Monica_Rules
Apr 28th, 2002, 11:31 AM
Just realized that i've already replied to this:o

~ The Leopard ~
Apr 28th, 2002, 11:42 AM
I'm male. Most of my friends are female.

Master Lu
Apr 28th, 2002, 02:07 PM
lol@ Oasiatic
I know exaclty what you mean. But I never ended up hated, so I like it :p All my friends confide in me. The problem is when eg, person a says something about person b confidentaly, then person b asks me what person a thinks about him/her. :rolleyes: I hate lieing, so I try to sidestep the question. I got very good at it during the years!! :cool:

But back to the post topic, I have about the same portion of guy and gall friends. I tend to trust girls more, though, because I got backstabbed a couple of times by guys, which never happened with girls.