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*Karen*
Jul 16th, 2006, 11:53 PM
Your opinions please?

Apoleb
Jul 16th, 2006, 11:55 PM
when you're psychologically ready, go for it.

Cator
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:04 AM
a few months.

CondiLicious
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:09 AM
I recently waited like... 29 hours. I would recommend waiting much longer though.

No Name Face
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:11 AM
first date.

if you have a connection, then just have fun.

says the whore. :tape:

!<blocparty>!
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:11 AM
30 minutes, at least.

Ha, beat me to it.

I would say a week.

Sun*Kissed
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:13 AM
Depends on what kind of relationship it is

LoveFifteen
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:16 AM
If you want it to be something long-term, then wait as long as possible. Otherwise you may end up regretting it, and you'll wish you could snatch the cat back!

new-york
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:18 AM
whenever you feel it.

oakkao
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:25 AM
24 hours or less :o

Vincey!
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:30 AM
I think if is someone really special you should wait one week at least..but if you don't know go for it ;)

Derek.
Jul 17th, 2006, 02:32 AM
As long as it takes to slip that condom on. :lick:

Scotso
Jul 17th, 2006, 02:36 AM
a month or so.

drake3781
Jul 17th, 2006, 03:12 AM
Since the question says "should" I voted a couple months.

Practically speaking, 2- 4 weeks if it's gonna be a relationship.

Any time if it's understood it's just for sex.

égalité
Jul 17th, 2006, 03:24 AM
As long as you feel like is necessary!

Ems__
Jul 17th, 2006, 03:39 AM
1-2 weeks, depending on circumstances.

Sir Stefwhit
Jul 17th, 2006, 06:17 AM
Anytime before a week feels like it's too soon and anytime after two weeks seems to long- IMO. There's really no set time but 2-3 weeks seems like a fair amount of time to me.

Volcana
Jul 17th, 2006, 06:20 AM
I once got the waitresses phobe number, call that afternoon and we skipped the date and went straight to bed. I still wish that had lasted longer.

Practice safe sex, but as long as you aren't otherwise committed, let your clitoris do the talking.

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 07:11 AM
3 or 4 dates :p

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 07:14 AM
anyway, you SHOULD wait 4-6 wks IMO.

But what actually happens is a different story

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 07:15 AM
anyway, you SHOULD wait 4-6 wks IMO.

But what actually happens is a different story

would you be able to wait 4-6 weeks?
i'd have a hard time with that!

Andy.
Jul 17th, 2006, 07:16 AM
Its different for every situation, if you really lkie someone you really shouldnt sleep with them on the first date but after that its fare game, really its all about when you both want to and feel that the moment is right, probably the 3rd date thats the sex date isnt it ? LOL but if you just want a hook up theres no need even for introductions some times :tape: :lol:

Wigglytuff
Jul 17th, 2006, 07:24 AM
Your opinions please?
its up to you.

i have waited 8 weeks or more :angel: , or 1 hour and less :devil: , its all about the individual relationship.

*abby*
Jul 17th, 2006, 07:56 AM
well so far i have waited almost 19 months and things between us are still perfect :)
we want to wait as long as possible if not till were married but that is a long long way away!but there are other things to do apart form have sex that make waiting easier ;)

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 07:59 AM
well so far i have waited almost 19 months and things between us are still perfect :)
we want to wait as long as possible if not till were married but that is a long long way away!but there are other things to do apart form have sex that make waiting easier ;)

so the things you posted about in your thread don't count? :scratch:

furrykitten
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:00 AM
When you are both ready, if its first day thats fine

*abby*
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:01 AM
this thread is about sleeping with someone, we havent slept together!

Grohl
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:02 AM
I think it's hard to vote on this one.
I've dated girls which I never felt totally comfortable with, so I didn't sleep with them for weeks (months) and even when I did, it never felt right.
but then I met this girl who I felt quite comfortable with from the very beginning, she was really patient with me, so I slept with her quite soon after we met, eventhough I didn't go all the way the first few times :p

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:06 AM
this thread is about sleeping with someone, we havent slept together!

hey, if you're gonna have sex, might as well sleep with each other
doesn't matter what body parts you use
it's a bit odd to me
not wanting to sleep with someone before you get married, but have sex in other ways anyway
seems a bit off if ya ask me

-edit-
imo, if you have any type of sex before marriage, YOU'RE GOING TO HELL!! (not)
:haha:

*abby*
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:09 AM
having sexual intercourse is like the most intimate thing you can do with another person in my opinion and so we want to wait. sometimes its easier said than done and yeah we do other things but havent had sex. we want to wiat.

furrykitten
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:09 AM
Maybe *abby* is a religious girl

*abby*
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:12 AM
i try to be but to be honest it wasnt religion that made me want to wait. ive seen what sleeping with someone too soon can do to a relationship and i dont want that for me.i want my first time to be as special as possible and what can be more special than on your wedding night when you know youre gonna spend the rest of ur life with that person?
im not saying its what everyone should do, you should do what is right for you and this is what is right for me
:)

>>krew<<
Jul 17th, 2006, 09:35 AM
whenever you want! why wait! as long as your partner agrees there should be no delay :)

^bibi^
Jul 17th, 2006, 10:22 AM
why should you wait ? :)

Caro23
Jul 17th, 2006, 10:25 AM
Whenever it feels right, my record is 10-15 minutes! :drool:

controlfreak
Jul 17th, 2006, 10:30 AM
never!

Viktymise
Jul 17th, 2006, 11:21 AM
After a couple of dates like maybe after the 3rd 1 but it depends on wo the person your going to sleep with is, if its someone really sexy then maybe just after the 1st date but if its someone who you can see yourself with a future then dnt rush it :)

Freakan
Jul 17th, 2006, 11:41 AM
1 year!

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 11:47 AM
1 year!

i'd die

i spent the day with my baby yesterday
and had to wait 9 hours for some action
i have issues though :p

Hannah-Louise
Jul 17th, 2006, 11:54 AM
i think it should be after a few weeks, depends on the situation though and depends on how well u know your 'partner'. but if its just for sex then whenever but thats when its tricky especially if u dont know if its just for sex or not.

god im gonna have to shut up coz i can see im gonna end up talking about all my love life problems aarrrggghhh

>>krew<<
Jul 17th, 2006, 11:56 AM
Whenever it feels right, my record is 10-15 minutes! :drool:
:worship: we should meet some time?

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:02 PM
would you be able to wait 4-6 weeks?
i'd have a hard time with that!

4-6 weeks for actual penetrative sex.

now oral sex is a different story ;)

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:32 PM
4-6 weeks for actual penetrative sex.

now oral sex is a different story ;)

:sad: What happened to that shy little girl i spoke to in the week i came to Australia? :sad:

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:36 PM
:sad: What happened to that shy little girl i spoke to in the week i came to Australia? :sad:

that's still me Mandy :)

what happened to the bi-curious sex addict I knew back in 2005?

oh wait, she's still here :p

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:44 PM
that's still me Mandy :)

what happened to the bi-curious sex addict I knew back in 2005?

oh wait, she's still here :p

you kiss one or two girls while wasted
and all of a sudden you're bi-curious,
i love that :lol:

and I'M NOT A SEX-ADDICT! :unsure:

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:48 PM
you kiss one or two girls while wasted
and all of a sudden you're bi-curious,
i love that :lol:

and I'M NOT A SEX-ADDICT! :unsure:

of course you're bi-curious!

i thought it was more than a kiss :confused:

and about the sex thing... keep telling yourself that mandy! :lol:

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 12:55 PM
i'd die

i spent the day with my baby yesterday
and had to wait 9 hours for some action
i have issues though :p

case closed :bowdown:

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:00 PM
of course you're bi-curious!

i thought it was more than a kiss :confused:

and about the sex thing... keep telling yourself that mandy! :lol:

you thought that? :lol:
thinking has never been your strongest point :lol:

i'm NOT an addict

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:04 PM
*ahem* refer to previous post

i always thought thinking was my strongest point :sobbing:

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:08 PM
alright, you got me, i'm an addict
and totally bi-sexual, i don't even like men that much anymore to be honest
i might as well admit it
since you're the 2nd person this week whose trying to out me for no good reason :)

Highlandman
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:12 PM
Some weeks or months or so...but with some people rather :p ;)

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:13 PM
alright, you got me, i'm an addict
and totally bi-sexual, i don't even like men that much anymore to be honest
i might as well admit it
since you're the 2nd person this week whose trying to out me for no good reason :)

lol! i rock :D

who was the 1st person?

I THINK i'm bisexual, i don't know. :tape:

Highlandman
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:14 PM
lol! i rock :D

who was the 1st person?

I THINK i'm bisexual, i don't know. :tape:

Why don't you know this? :p

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:15 PM
lol! i rock :D

who was the 1st person?

I THINK i'm bisexual, i don't know. :tape:

oh god you're actually buying it

xtian is trying to out me too
in the pics thread
and somewhere else i don't remember

furrykitten
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:16 PM
alright, you got me, i'm an addict
and totally bi-sexual, i don't even like men that much anymore to be honest
i might as well admit it
since you're the 2nd person this week whose trying to out me for no good reason :)


The first part :yeah:
2nd, friends shouldn't say private stuff :(

drake3781
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:16 PM
hey, if you're gonna have sex, might as well sleep with each other
doesn't matter what body parts you use
it's a bit odd to me
not wanting to sleep with someone before you get married, but have sex in other ways anyway
seems a bit off if ya ask me

-edit-
imo, if you have any type of sex before marriage, YOU'RE GOING TO HELL!! (not)
:haha:

I agree with this too. Not to bash on Abby, who can do whatever she wants.

But to me the idea of drawing a line between intercourse and any other sex, and saying this is OK and this is not, is absurd!

Just decide if you are gonna express yourself sexually or not, then do it wholeheartedly.

mandy7
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:17 PM
i swear, i'm on the verge of starting a
"I'm NOT coming out" thread
argh!!!!

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:18 PM
oh god you're actually buying it

xtian is trying to out me too
in the pics thread
and somewhere else i don't remember

yep i bought it...

but at least it looks real when i quote it :p

Kunal
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:18 PM
and then sometimes u go to a club and u dont really need a date

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:21 PM
Why don't you know this? :p

cos i'm not experienced enough to know the difference between:

a) a crush, giving into the bi-sexual fad-as popularized by shows such as the OC (Marissa and Alex) and friends who get wasted and make out with each other, thinking some girls are sexually attractive and...

b) actually being bi-sexual

like... where do you draw the line?

Highlandman
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:23 PM
cos i'm not experienced enough to know the difference between:

a) a crush, giving into the bi-sexual fad-as popularized by shows such as the OC (Marissa and Alex) and friends who get wasted and make out with each other, thinking some girls are sexually attractive and...

b) actually being bi-sexual

like... where do you draw the line?

Ah okay! ;)

How do you mean this with the line? What I am? ;)

ampers&
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:24 PM
bisexuality rules.
embrace it. http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a220/20010/WTA%20World%20Smilies/drooldance9kt.gif

Highlandman
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:26 PM
bi-sexuals rule.
embrace it. http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a220/20010/WTA%20World%20Smilies/drooldance9kt.gif

:lol: :)

ceiling_fan
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:30 PM
Ah okay! ;)

How do you mean this with the line? What I am? ;)

huh? I don't get you...

I mean, where do you draw the line between bi-curious and bisexual

Highlandman
Jul 17th, 2006, 01:36 PM
huh? I don't get you...

I mean, where do you draw the line between bi-curious and bisexual

Difficult to say. I think bi-curious are people who make their experiences for a time and then they will decide which one they like more and bisexual are people for me who are loving both ones forever.

Difficult to say what I mean in English ;)

vesanto
Jul 17th, 2006, 02:36 PM
I think you should wait until your favorite wins the next tournament. That is the appropriate!

Rachel_
Jul 17th, 2006, 04:32 PM
depends on the situation as does everything.

SelesFan70
Jul 17th, 2006, 04:55 PM
30 minutes, at least.

Or at least until he gets in the door :angel:

meyerpl
Jul 17th, 2006, 06:59 PM
I think between the main-course and dessert is appropriate.

esquímaux
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:16 PM
Wedding day :)

Barrie_Dude
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:27 PM
this thread is about sleeping with someone, we havent slept together!Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!;) :p

!<blocparty>!
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:32 PM
Wedding day :)

:sad::sobbing::sad:

Barrie_Dude
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:33 PM
Actually, I genrally wait til they pay for it!

-Ph51-
Jul 17th, 2006, 08:35 PM
If it's only sleeping no reason to worry :p

firehorse
Jul 17th, 2006, 10:57 PM
I do not wait...if chemistry is there and you feel comfortable..just do it...it is just SEX anyway...love or not love..thats later..people take time to fall in love...but dicks can not wait for that long..

mandy7
Jul 18th, 2006, 08:57 AM
Actually, I genrally wait til they pay for it!

that ain't true
you usually wait till the atm machine gives you your money
:p

(and now don't come up with a lame joke about how i was cheap etc. etc. i'd never do an old guy and i'd never sleep with someone for money)

*abby*
Jul 18th, 2006, 10:29 AM
that ain't true
you usually wait till the atm machine gives you your money
:p


:spit: :spit: :spit:

esquímaux
Jul 29th, 2006, 03:39 PM
:sad::sobbing::sad:...although I can make an exception for ur sexy h@wt @$$ :hehehe:

!<blocparty>!
Jul 29th, 2006, 04:08 PM
...although I can make an exception for ur sexy h@wt @$$ :hehehe:

:hotflush::drool:

I'd ask you to expand on this but we don't wanna hijack the thread. :angel: