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CanadianBoy21
May 17th, 2006, 07:36 PM
I think the word is depresased, since I've been feeling horrible the last couple weeks. :sad:

Can't wait until Friday, I think I'll go out and get drunk! Usually that's not my solution at all, but I need a good time at a gay disco and get drunk and dance and be so intoxicated to actually have a good time.

Usually when I feel down I know what makes me feel better, but nothing of that is working. Everything is so lifeless to me and I feel no energy to do what I am supposed to do (study), and it just so happens that I encounter the most idiotic people each day :(


I needed to get that out, because really I have no one to talk to right now, so this is supposed to make me feel better writing it out,m but it's not :sad:

timafi
May 17th, 2006, 07:40 PM
I'm sorry you feel that way :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

rebel_ffighter
May 17th, 2006, 07:40 PM
I had a shitty day myself and I feel close to how you feel...I can only tell you that this is something temporal and it will go away in a few days.You just have to wait,be strong and have hope for the better. :hug:

*about the "idiotic people":I meet them each day too!!And the most scary is to find out that some people u thought they had brain are the most idiotic of all

arn
May 17th, 2006, 07:46 PM
Whenever I feel depressed I start playing very sad songs that make me feel even more depressed. After doing that for 30min/an hour, I slowly start playing more upbeat, 'happy' music. Usually that helps unless the reason of my depression lies deeper.

Second option, maybe you can phone a friend and hang on the phone for a while?

Hopefully you will find the right answer to your feelings :)

CanadianBoy21
May 17th, 2006, 07:47 PM
I had a shitty day myself and I feel close to how you feel...I can only tell you that this is something temporal and it will go away in a few days.You just have to wait,be strong and have hope for the better. :hug:

*about the "idiotic people":I meet them each day too!!And the most scary is to find out that some people u thought they had brain are the most idiotic of all


Exactly. Those who you expect the most from, dissapoint you the most. I'm learning not to put too much hope in others.

Well I am going to go now, because this girl beside me in the computer lab is a fucking idiotic insane person and is getting on my nerves. Good example of running into another idiotic person to end the day.

WhatTheDeuce
May 17th, 2006, 07:48 PM
:hug:

CanadianBoy21
May 17th, 2006, 07:48 PM
Whenever I feel depressed I start playing very sad songs that make me feel even more depressed. After doing that for 30min/an hour, I slowly start playing more upbeat, 'happy' music. Usually that helps unless the reason of my depression lies deeper.

Second option, maybe you can phone a friend and hang on the phone for a while?

Hopefully you will find the right answer to your feelings :)

I don't have a phone :crying2: :sad:

myxomatosis
May 17th, 2006, 07:50 PM
If these feelings continue, maybe you should talk to your doctor? :hug:

arn
May 17th, 2006, 07:54 PM
I don't have a phone :crying2: :sad:

:hug: messenger?

Carolina Girl
May 17th, 2006, 07:56 PM
I think the word is depresased, since I've been feeling horrible the last couple weeks. :sad:

Can't wait until Friday, I think I'll go out and get drunk! Usually that's not my solution at all, but I need a good time at a gay disco and get drunk and dance and be so intoxicated to actually have a good time.

Usually when I feel down I know what makes me feel better, but nothing of that is working. Everything is so lifeless to me and I feel no energy to do what I am supposed to do (study), and it just so happens that I encounter the most idiotic people each day :(


I needed to get that out, because really I have no one to talk to right now, so this is supposed to make me feel better writing it out,m but it's not :sad:Ahh! This is exactly how I have been feelin the past couple weeks, I feel like I'm broken in a way. It sucks. And my addiction to Rascal Flatts new CD does not help because there are so many sad songs that fit right now.

Helen Lawson
May 17th, 2006, 08:04 PM
Sorry about your predicament, hon! Yes, drinking is a quick fix, and let's face it, sometimes you need a quick fix and that's all that will do! :D
Pop Valley of the Dolls or Mommie Dearest into the DVD or VCR machine, hours of laughter and enjoyment, at least for my generation. I guess your generation enjoys Showgirls a little more, or is there now something that is even newer than Showgirls? :confused:

CooCooCachoo
May 17th, 2006, 08:06 PM
I can assure you, depresased is not the word.

But good luck :hug: Overcome your problems :yeah:

Barrie_Dude
May 17th, 2006, 08:07 PM
I think the word is depresased, since I've been feeling horrible the last couple weeks. :sad:

Can't wait until Friday, I think I'll go out and get drunk! Usually that's not my solution at all, but I need a good time at a gay disco and get drunk and dance and be so intoxicated to actually have a good time.

Usually when I feel down I know what makes me feel better, but nothing of that is working. Everything is so lifeless to me and I feel no energy to do what I am supposed to do (study), and it just so happens that I encounter the most idiotic people each day :(


I needed to get that out, because really I have no one to talk to right now, so this is supposed to make me feel better writing it out,m but it's not :sad:Lets go to the Nudie bar and tie one on tonite! Do u live in Toronto?

WhatTheDeuce
May 17th, 2006, 08:10 PM
Lets go to the Nudie bar and tie one on tonite! Do u live in Toronto?
I wish I did, I'd join you guys. :p

meggz_star
May 17th, 2006, 08:11 PM
Whenever I feel depressed I start playing very sad songs that make me feel even more depressed. After doing that for 30min/an hour, I slowly start playing more upbeat, 'happy' music. Usually that helps unless the reason of my depression lies deeper.

Second option, maybe you can phone a friend and hang on the phone for a while?

Hopefully you will find the right answer to your feelings :)

I do the same thing, but sad songs really don't help. I mainly use messenger.

Barrie_Dude
May 17th, 2006, 08:11 PM
I wish I did, I'd join you guys. :pBut you have all those French Canadian Cuties!

Johno_uk
May 17th, 2006, 08:15 PM
I think the word is depresased, since I've been feeling horrible the last couple weeks. :sad:

Can't wait until Friday, I think I'll go out and get drunk! Usually that's not my solution at all, but I need a good time at a gay disco and get drunk and dance and be so intoxicated to actually have a good time.

Usually when I feel down I know what makes me feel better, but nothing of that is working. Everything is so lifeless to me and I feel no energy to do what I am supposed to do (study), and it just so happens that I encounter the most idiotic people each day :(


I needed to get that out, because really I have no one to talk to right now, so this is supposed to make me feel better writing it out,m but it's not :sad:


Im also a student 21, gay :) I'm an English guy studying in Germany...I know how it feel when things get on top of you. Last month it seemed everything was going wrong..my laptop broke, so I had to buy a new one (which cost more than the grant I got to come here!) , my mobile went on the blink, was having language difficulties, had a coursework deadline to send to England, which i nearly missed and just loads of other things too! Really annoying!

But I found it so ridiculous that I just laughed at it all, and everything sorted it self out! yay! Still have more assigments to do though,

Luckily the German people are soooo lovely, that getting annoyed for any length of time is impossible...I guess all the idiots from this country emigrated to Canada to annoy you then!

You should go and chat with your neighbours.... :)

Kart
May 17th, 2006, 08:18 PM
In a word : Chocolate.

~CANUCK~
May 17th, 2006, 09:27 PM
Lets go to the Nudie bar and tie one on tonite! Do u live in Toronto?

Barrie the last thing this guy needs is to see girl bits bouncing around on a stage. He wants to get over being depressed not get the urge to vomit all over himself.

CanadianBoy21
May 18th, 2006, 04:40 PM
Barrie the last thing this guy needs is to see girl bits bouncing around on a stage. He wants to get over being depressed not get the urge to vomit all over himself.

ditto :lol:

I'm gay by the way so seeing tits and bits as Rebecca put it, is not exactly the thing that would ger me over my depression.
I am in Germany at the moment until end of August.
I think just too much school and days pass by in such a rush and never really get as much done as I want. I've been here 7 months, and it hurts that I haven't found a friend or someone I can even call a pal. In fact, this girl who I've known as a good acquitence for seven months since I've been here, couldn't remember my name! Thinking she was an exception, a few more people don't even really remember me. I am not anti social and really a good guy, but can't find the equivalent. Oh well, I'll go to the gym now, and then run later, maybe the endorphins can save me.

watchdogfish
May 18th, 2006, 07:31 PM
ditto :lol:

I'm gay by the way so seeing tits and bits as Rebecca put it, is not exactly the thing that would ger me over my depression.
I am in Germany at the moment until end of August.
I think just too much school and days pass by in such a rush and never really get as much done as I want. I've been here 7 months, and it hurts that I haven't found a friend or someone I can even call a pal. In fact, this girl who I've known as a good acquitence for seven months since I've been here, couldn't remember my name! Thinking she was an exception, a few more people don't even really remember me. I am not anti social and really a good guy, but can't find the equivalent. Oh well, I'll go to the gym now, and then run later, maybe the endorphins can save me.


Hey chin up!

I know it's a cliché but every cloud has a silver lining, I'm sure you'll be feeling better soon! :hug: Do you still keep in contact with your friends back home? Maybe you should have a chat with them see how they're doing? It might help a little. If not, try and find something each day that makes you laugh out loud :) . Whatever you do please please don't drown your sorrows in drink because it solves nothing, only makes things worse!

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

P.S. Sorry about the amount of hugs but I thought you might like one! (ok make that seven! ;) )

neptuneslims
May 18th, 2006, 07:59 PM
Hope you feel better soon. I've been feeling down lately too. It'll pass.

:wavey:

Rtael
May 18th, 2006, 08:15 PM
ditto :lol:

I'm gay by the way so seeing tits and bits as Rebecca put it, is not exactly the thing that would ger me over my depression.
I am in Germany at the moment until end of August.
I think just too much school and days pass by in such a rush and never really get as much done as I want. I've been here 7 months, and it hurts that I haven't found a friend or someone I can even call a pal. In fact, this girl who I've known as a good acquitence for seven months since I've been here, couldn't remember my name! Thinking she was an exception, a few more people don't even really remember me. I am not anti social and really a good guy, but can't find the equivalent. Oh well, I'll go to the gym now, and then run later, maybe the endorphins can save me.

If you need someone to keep you warm at night, I'm always available. :)

Reuchlin
May 19th, 2006, 12:06 AM
It's an age thingy...you'll get over it with age.

Kirt12255
May 19th, 2006, 12:13 AM
Definately go out and have a good night, but remember that alcahol is a depressant.

I know back when I was roughly your age I did the same thing by masking problems with alcahol and that turned into a problem in itself. If you go out and have a huge night, it's guaranteed the next day you will feel 10 times worse than what you are now. Keep that in mind and take care of youreself.:hug:

PamShriverRockz
May 19th, 2006, 12:18 AM
:hug: Sorry to hear you're feeling under the weather :hug: Just remember that things can and WILL get better, you just have to believe. And talk to someone, anyone, it really helps :) Hope you feel better soon, I'm sure you will :)

Mother_Marjorie
May 19th, 2006, 01:24 AM
In a word : Chocolate.

:yeah:

Mattographer
May 19th, 2006, 01:33 AM
In a word : Chocolate.
That's what I always do :o

Anyway, I just send you via PM here and hope you reply me back :) :hug:

CanadianBoy21
May 19th, 2006, 12:16 PM
thanks all for the positive responses.
You are right about alcohol. I've never been the guy to drink, but it sure is tempting when you feel down. I did go exercise yesterday and felt better. Today I played tennis and now have school and then exercise again. Best to keep one busy when it gets though.

I think it's an age thing as well, because I heard the older yu get the more content you become and you resign yourself to a few things and appreciate life more.
I think I appreciate life now too, but I'm not a loner, so it's sometimes though sharing all the good moments by yourself.

watchdogfish
May 19th, 2006, 12:39 PM
thanks all for the positive responses.
You are right about alcohol. I've never been the guy to drink, but it sure is tempting when you feel down. I did go exercise yesterday and felt better. Today I played tennis and now have school and then exercise again. Best to keep one busy when it gets though.

I think it's an age thing as well, because I heard the older yu get the more content you become and you resign yourself to a few things and appreciate life more.
I think I appreciate life now too, but I'm not a loner, so it's sometimes though sharing all the good moments by yourself.


Sometimes if you've always been quite settled in your life and all of a sudden there's a load of major change you can feel quite lost and empty, it's like the comfort element has disappeared.

I'm glad you felt a little better after exercising yesterday :) it's good to do something that clears your head. Hopefully things will be back to normal for you soon! :)

The Last Unicorn
May 19th, 2006, 02:04 PM
Go to www.gayromeo.de (http://www.gayromeo.de), make yourself a profile and chat. It's fun and you'll get to know ppl to go out with. Where exactly in Germany are you?

esquímaux
May 19th, 2006, 05:56 PM
In a word : Chocolate.In another word : Pimples

:lol: :p :lol:

Mattographer
May 20th, 2006, 12:33 AM
In another word : Pimples

:lol: :p :lol:
That's not true. You only can get them from oil. That's the fact :) I never had a pimple in my whole life even I eat chocolate every day! I'm 21, by the way.

Brett.
May 20th, 2006, 01:46 AM
I got something for you to give you a best day! A nice cock up yours #$%@

esquímaux
May 20th, 2006, 03:02 AM
I got something for you to give you a best day! A nice cock up yours #$%@ :speakles: :sad:

AjdeNate!
May 20th, 2006, 03:07 AM
:speakles: :sad:
:esqui: :scandalous: :wavey:

esquímaux
May 20th, 2006, 03:23 AM
:wavey: Nate :bounce: :Ihopeyougetoutofthisfunkyou'vebeeninlately: :)

AjdeNate!
May 20th, 2006, 04:58 AM
:shrug: We'll see...

Summer Snow
May 20th, 2006, 05:00 AM
:hug:

CanadianBoy21
May 20th, 2006, 08:42 AM
Go to www.gayromeo.de (http://www.gayromeo.de/), make yourself a profile and chat. It's fun and you'll get to know ppl to go out with. Where exactly in Germany are you?

I'm in Heidelberg.
And what's that site you gave me? I am in the library at the moment. I don't want to open any porn sites. :o

arn
May 20th, 2006, 09:09 AM
Do you live on your own there or with other students? Maybe you can get your own internet-access, makes it easier?

Kart
May 20th, 2006, 09:31 AM
In another word : Pimples

:lol: :p :lol:

Another word : Clearasil.

;)

CanadianBoy21
May 20th, 2006, 11:13 AM
Do you live on your own there or with other students? Maybe you can get your own internet-access, makes it easier?

Then I'd be really distracted.
I am staying her euntil end of August, and maybe it's not worth getting it now.

I live on my own here. I do have a roomate, but he has no energy to do anything. For the past 6 months, I haven't seen the guy smile, much less laugh, once. Not ONCE.

:tape:

So as lonely as I am feéling, in comparison it's not that bad.
Yesterday, a girl in our building wanted to committ suicide. Scary stuff.

Josh
May 20th, 2006, 11:20 AM
Sounds like you have chosen a depressing place to stay at. :o
The area around Heidelberg is very nice, no? Maybe you can visit some of the area if that's something you like of course. A good idea might be to hang up a note at certain places in your uni asking for people to play sports with you or something?

arn
May 20th, 2006, 12:42 PM
Then I'd be really distracted.
I am staying her euntil end of August, and maybe it's not worth getting it now.

I live on my own here. I do have a roomate, but he has no energy to do anything. For the past 6 months, I haven't seen the guy smile, much less laugh, once. Not ONCE.

:tape:

So as lonely as I am feéling, in comparison it's not that bad.
Yesterday, a girl in our building wanted to committ suicide. Scary stuff.

2 years ago I went to Spain for a year. It was only after 6 months I bought a computer and asked for internet access. It is a huge investment I didn't really plan, but I'm glad I did. It's the perfect way to keep in touch with your friends at home and I still use my laptop here in Belgium. I also took tennis lessons, played tennis with Propi and visited the area to keep myself buzy. Isn't there a foreign students association or something?

Dahveed
May 20th, 2006, 01:03 PM
2 years ago I went to Spain for a year. It was only after 6 months I bought a computer and asked for internet access. It is a huge investment I didn't really plan, but I'm glad I did. It's the perfect way to keep in touch with your friends at home and I still use my laptop here in Belgium. I also took tennis lessons, played tennis with Propi and visited the area to keep myself buzy. Isn't there a foreign students association or something?

Weren't you in Zaragoza? Gosh is that the most depressing city in the world? :o (sorry propi, we love you! :p) but funilly enough, this was a place where i felt so lonely :D too bad i didn't get the chance to play tennis with propi :angel:

Anyway i haven't read the thread much but i know the feeling Canadian boy, but there will come a time when you'll meet so many people you'll wish for some more quality time alone with yourself, believe me! :)

Veeko
May 20th, 2006, 01:19 PM
I think the word is depresased, since I've been feeling horrible the last couple weeks. :sad:

Can't wait until Friday, I think I'll go out and get drunk! Usually that's not my solution at all, but I need a good time at a gay disco and get drunk and dance and be so intoxicated to actually have a good time.

Usually when I feel down I know what makes me feel better, but nothing of that is working. Everything is so lifeless to me and I feel no energy to do what I am supposed to do (study), and it just so happens that I encounter the most idiotic people each day :(


I needed to get that out, because really I have no one to talk to right now, so this is supposed to make me feel better writing it out,m but it's not :sad:

when i see this,i just want to write something to you.
of course,we are from different country,and when we feel sad or unhappy and so on,we will change our mind to think in other ways,we will not just think about ourselves,we will chang the way to think for others,and not just for ourselves,if we often just think for ourselves,we will think anything is lifeless,and everythink is bad,so i think it may be a good way for you.
when you face something horrible,don't be afraid,try your best to face the trouble,and not be sad,you must be stronger!
when you have something horrible,don't think that get drunk can work out everything,you know,drinking wine is bad for our health,and you must try a better way to relax yourself,or tell it to your friend.
i don't know if it's good for you,but i just want to do my best to help you.i hope you can be better
my english is very bad,so maybe something i can't describe clearly,so :cool: :)

The Last Unicorn
May 22nd, 2006, 06:59 AM
I'm in Heidelberg.
And what's that site you gave me? I am in the library at the moment. I don't want to open any porn sites. :o
It's not a porn site. It's a chat forum. But not like the chat things where everybody talks to everybody. you can surf through everybody's profiles and see waht ppl look like, what they are interested in and so on. You can do searches and look for people in Heidelberg and surrounding and so on. If you like somebody you can send a message or leave a footprint and you'll get in touch with so many ppl. If you wanna search for me, I'm TwistAndShout ;)

CanadianBoy21
May 22nd, 2006, 07:28 AM
It's not a porn site. It's a chat forum. But not like the chat things where everybody talks to everybody. you can surf through everybody's profiles and see waht ppl look like, what they are interested in and so on. You can do searches and look for people in Heidelberg and surrounding and so on. If you like somebody you can send a message or leave a footprint and you'll get in touch with so many ppl. If you wanna search for me, I'm TwistAndShout ;)


oh cool, thanks. I'll do that Wednesday. I have a big important presentation on Tuesday, have to prepare :tape: I have to speak half an hour in German :tape: .

But definitely Wednesday will look it up.

I am feeling a little better now. Instead of alcohol, I am drinking lots of coffee right now. Gets me going after a few cups and study study study leaves no time for feeling lonely.
Got to go. Thanks all for the responses! :)

Mattographer
May 22nd, 2006, 07:31 AM
:hug: :D

The Last Unicorn
May 22nd, 2006, 09:43 AM
Good to hear that you're feeling better. Have fun and good luck for your presentation. Hope to see you around - here or on www.gayromeo.de (http://www.gayromeo.de). :wavey: