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Wendy Williams
May 12th, 2006, 10:51 AM
It happens to all of us. People "hate" on us for various reasons.

Why do people "hate" on you?

King Aaron
May 12th, 2006, 11:02 AM
Because you're easy to hate on? :shrug:

Martian KC
May 12th, 2006, 01:00 PM
They don't hate me, darling. They just can't stand that I hate them first.

rebel_ffighter
May 12th, 2006, 01:03 PM
“You hate someone whom you really wish to love, but whom you cannot love. That is a disguised form of love.”
Sri Chinmoy

:) That means that those who hate me subconsciously love me....awww,I feel so loved now

¤CharlDa¤
May 12th, 2006, 03:48 PM
Jealousy. Envy. Closed minds :wavey:

M2k
May 12th, 2006, 03:59 PM
cuz' they know I'm going places...and they can't stand it! :angel::devil:

No Name Face
May 12th, 2006, 04:16 PM
cuz they want to be me. :worship:

!<blocparty>!
May 12th, 2006, 04:16 PM
Because I'm a bitch.

Because I'm smarter than they are.

Because I'm right and they know it.

Because they love me really.

:p

Knizzle
May 12th, 2006, 04:46 PM
I'm not sure, esp the ones who don't even know me, I guess it comes with the territory of being a Knight. :)

SelesFan70
May 12th, 2006, 04:52 PM
Because I'm an independent thinker, self-confident, assured, and don't eat their bullshit they toss at me. :wavey:

GrandSlam05
May 12th, 2006, 04:53 PM
Because I'm a white, rich, beautiful, country club sorority girl and everyone wants to be me! :bounce:

SelesFan70
May 12th, 2006, 04:56 PM
Because I'm a white, rich, beautiful, country club sorority girl and everyone wants to be me! :bounce:

So, according to some on this board, you're the reason for racism, global warming, famine, disease, wars, hatred...no wonder people hate you. Oh, wait, you're a female...nevermind. :lol:

Aquanetta
May 12th, 2006, 04:56 PM
One has to be a 'player' first in order to be "hated on". I suspect that some people aren't aware of that stipulation.

CanadianBoy21
May 12th, 2006, 06:03 PM
Because I'm a white, rich, beautiful, country club sorority girl and everyone wants to be me! :bounce:

People like you actually make me feel good about myself. :lol:

Martian KC
May 12th, 2006, 06:04 PM
Because I'm a white, rich, beautiful, country club sorority girl and everyone wants to be me! :bounce:

Do you have huge knockers?

GrandSlam05
May 12th, 2006, 06:36 PM
Do you have huge knockers?
double D. Question is: are they real? It doesn't matter because when you're rich you can buy anything you want.

Denise4925
May 12th, 2006, 06:39 PM
Because I'm aggressive in putting forth my ideas, because they are jealous, because I'm well-liked, because I'm confident, because I don't take a whole lot of shit. :lol:

TF Chipmunk
May 12th, 2006, 08:32 PM
double D. Question is: are they real? It doesn't matter because when you're rich you can buy anything you want.
:haha: I think I love you already ;)

TF Chipmunk
May 12th, 2006, 08:32 PM
People hate me because they can't be bothered to try half as hard as they are trying right now to get the best grades that they can truly achieve :rolleyes:

meyerpl
May 12th, 2006, 10:00 PM
One has to be a 'player' first in order to be "hated on". I suspect that some people aren't aware of that stipulation.
I'm a 48 year-old married white guy with two kids, a job, a mortgage and a mini-van. I look and talk like I just stepped out of the movie Fargo. You bet I do. Can I still be a 'player' so I can be 'hated on'? I don't want to be left out if that's what the youngsters are doing. Do I need to start wearing my trousers low on the hips or what?

ampers&
May 12th, 2006, 10:18 PM
because i'm perfect and they're not.:)

Denise4925
May 12th, 2006, 10:18 PM
I'm a 48 year-old married white guy with two kids, a job, a mortgage and a mini-van. I look and talk like I just stepped out of the movie Fargo. You bet I do. Can I still be a 'player' so I can be 'hated on'? I don't want to be left out if that's what the youngsters are doing. Do I need to start wearing my trousers low on the hips or what?
:lol: You betcha.

Denise4925
May 12th, 2006, 10:18 PM
because i'm perfect and they're not.:)
:yeah: Michi :hug:

ampers&
May 12th, 2006, 10:20 PM
Do I need to start wearing my trousers low on the hips or what?
first step:
never, ever call them trousers again. :unsure:

Dee :hug:

Denise4925
May 12th, 2006, 10:21 PM
first step:
never, ever call them trousers again. :unsure:

Dee :hug:
:haha:

Don't worry meyer, I didn't see anything wrong with calling them trousers. :tape:

ampers&
May 12th, 2006, 10:25 PM
Don't worry meyer, I didn't see anything wrong with calling them trousers. :tape:
says the lady who created the 35 and Up/Old Geezers Club. :bolt:

Wiggly
May 12th, 2006, 10:26 PM
Because I'm rich and I say what I think when I want, too bad if it's amanzingly mean :devil:

Denise4925
May 12th, 2006, 10:32 PM
says the lady who created the 35 and Up/Old Geezers Club. :bolt:
:lol: :ras:

meyerpl
May 12th, 2006, 11:16 PM
says the lady who created the 35 and Up/Old Geezers Club. :bolt:
I love it! Denise, thanks for the affirmation. I'll get started with gettin' down. (Play that funky music white boy.........)

PatrickRyan
May 12th, 2006, 11:23 PM
as my old sig said "don't hate me just becuase u wish you were me"

RVD
May 12th, 2006, 11:26 PM
:lol: Good thread!! :lol:

Well, people hate on me because I can see the fun in life without having to always worrying about being liked. :p

I can see the beauty in all women, even when no one else does. :drool:

I am not afraid to be with someone, just for love's sake. :hearts:

And they especially hate on me because I'm not afraid to speak my mind...face-to-face, or on-line. :bounce: :angel:

darrinbaker00
May 12th, 2006, 11:54 PM
"Nobody hates me," Darrin modestly said. ;)

harloo
May 13th, 2006, 12:04 AM
One has to be a 'player' first in order to be "hated on". I suspect that some people aren't aware of that stipulation.

Some folks kill me with the idea that everyone is hating on them when most of the time they are suffering from paranoia. I chalk most of the "everyone is hating on me" talk to delusions of grandeur. You walk outside and people are hating, you go to the store someone's hating there. I mean is anyplace safe?:lol:

I had one friend who always thought people were hating on him. Everytime we talked it was about how someone was jealous of his education, background, and social status. He did come from old money and had a little problem with stunting which made certain people insecure in his presence.

I finally told him that most of the haterism directed towards him was because of his attitude moreso than people being jealous, but then he turned around and called me a HATER.:haha: :haha:

MH0861
May 13th, 2006, 04:07 AM
As always, Hilary Duff says it best:

"Haters"

Dont spit on me and shame yourself
Because you wish you were someone else
You look so clean but you spread your dirt
As if think that words dont hurt
You build up walls no one can climb
The things you do should be a crime
You're queen of superficiality
Keep your lies out of my reality
And when you're nice it's just a pose
You're one of those

[Chorus]
Haters
Traitors to the human race
Haters
What a drag
What a waste
I'd like to see them disappear
They dont belong anywhere
Haters

Spinning a web thats hard to see
Of envy, greed and jealousy
Feeling angry but you don't know why
Why dont you look me in the eye?
You want my friends
You want my clothes
You're one of those

[Repeat Chorus]

Different life form
Different species
Broken promises and treaties
Talkin' bout exterminating
Not the haters
Just the hating
You say your boyfriend's sweet and kind
But you've still got your eyes on mine
Your best friend's got her eyes on yours
It all goes on behind closed doors
And when you're nice it's just a pose
You're one of those

[Repeat Chorus]

Haters
Later for the alibis
Haters
Any shape
Any size
I'd like to see them disappear
They dont belong anywhere
Haters


:)

Kirt12255
May 13th, 2006, 04:39 AM
I can only think of one person that hates on me. It's a poster here who obviously has built up agression with her training bra.;)

drake3781
May 13th, 2006, 06:15 AM
I figure that they are unhappy people (the deep kind of unhappiness, not day-to-day). Some obviously have anger issues. And some actually get treated badly themselves frequently so it seems normal to be ugly to others. :rain:

And a lot of them are immature, mostly teenagers playing bullying teenage games, or unfortunately older playing bullying teenage games. :tape:

And it's not personal, they need somebody to attack and at the moment they found me, but it could just as easily be someone else.

And it makes them feel just a tiny bit better, relieves some stress or gives them a little thrill, but only momentarily, to harm someone else. But it doesn't last and have to do it again or look for another victim soon enough, to get that good feeling again.

Fortunately we get to choose our own crowd in real life.

Erika_Angel
May 13th, 2006, 07:39 AM
Why do people "hate" on you?

One Word: Jealousy :)

Maria Croft
May 13th, 2006, 07:56 AM
Some people hate me because I don't pretend to be anything different, they can't stand my honesty I guess lol

meyerpl
May 13th, 2006, 10:26 AM
Perhaps people hate on me because I possess every loathsome, repugnant, vile, antisocial quality known to man and have even invented a few new ones. There's nothing in the human spirit I haven't dabauched and perverted. To do anything other than hate on me would amount to embracing all things unwholesome and corrupt.

Martian KC
May 13th, 2006, 01:46 PM
Hilary Duff's "Haters"! Genius:worship:

fifiricci
May 13th, 2006, 06:07 PM
I know there are at least four people on here who absolutely detest me. BUT, I think I can count up to at least five who really proactively like me, so I'm happy with that :angel: , specially as the five who like me are plainly much much much nicer human beings than the four who detest me :devil:

Aquanetta
May 15th, 2006, 04:32 PM
I'm a 48 year-old married white guy with two kids, a job, a mortgage and a mini-van. I look and talk like I just stepped out of the movie Fargo. You bet I do. Can I still be a 'player' so I can be 'hated on'? I don't want to be left out if that's what the youngsters are doing. Do I need to start wearing my trousers low on the hips or what?

Yes for family, home and career.

No for the Fargo accent.

You can't have it all.

Snicker.

Aquanetta
May 15th, 2006, 04:42 PM
Some folks kill me with the idea that everyone is hating on them when most of the time they are suffering from paranoia. I chalk most of the "everyone is hating on me" talk to delusions of grandeur. You walk outside and people are hating, you go to the store someone's hating there. I mean is anyplace safe?:lol:

Thank you. Paranoia and/or delusions of grandeur indeed!

I had one friend who always thought people were hating on him. Everytime we talked it was about how someone was jealous of his education, background, and social status. He did come from old money and had a little problem with stunting which made certain people insecure in his presence.

I finally told him that most of the haterism directed towards him was because of his attitude moreso than people being jealous, but then he turned around and called me a HATER.:haha: :haha:

Your friend definitely fits the M.O. In my experience, the majority of the time the persons being labelled a "hater" were either barely aware of the accuser or indifferent to them. Even when I pointed the accuser out, they'd say something like "who is she again?"