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banana
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:00 AM
Hey i just need to get something off my chest. I have been with my boyfriend for about six months, and he has this friend, right! best friend in fact. We get along well and everything is fine until we went away for our six month aniversary/mutal friends birthday where she confesses to me that she is in love with him. I react well saying it is okay. being completely aware of the fact they have slept together a few years back. now she keeps calling him, tryin to meet him for lonch etc. she even said she is staying at his house on thursday cos her brother is having friends over. i feel really uncomfortable but cant say anything because i dont want to break their friendship and be the bad guy.
HEEELLLLPPPP:eek: :eek: :eek:

Ferosh
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:11 AM
I wish that I could offer you any advice. However, I have never had to deal with these kind of relationships and once I sense drama, I end it. Sorry.

No Name Face
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:18 AM
push that homewrecking whore down a flight of stairs.
no, seriously.

TF Chipmunk
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:22 AM
push that homewrecking whore down a flight of stairs.
no, seriously.
What he said.

:armed:

banana
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:34 AM
I wish i could:devil: but they have been friends for years. & while i have a large group of aquaintances (sp?) he has a small group of very close friends & unfortunatley she is one of them... not sure what to do cos i dont want him to think i dont trust him. but i am anxious and nervous cos the pair of them will be alone for the entire night on thursday... she might make her move then.

TF Chipmunk
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:42 AM
I wish i could:devil: but they have been friends for years. & while i have a large group of aquaintances (sp?) he has a small group of very close friends & unfortunatley she is one of them... not sure what to do cos i dont want him to think i dont trust him. but i am anxious and nervous cos the pair of them will be alone for the entire night on thursday... she might make her move then.
Why don't you just lie and say your parents are inviting people over to stay at your house for the weekend, and they're gonna give your room to them. Therefore, you will tell your bf that you don't want to sleep in the den and if he really loves you he will invite you over to his house that night too :p

And then, while you're there, make sure you two have passionate, LOUD, sex in his room with the girl sleeping outside :devil:

Ferosh
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:48 AM
Beat that bitchez' ass with a shoe!

Conservative
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:52 AM
Have a threesome.

banana
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:54 AM
I don't live with MY Boyfriend, but that wont solve the problem. She needs to back off! but i am afraid that if i tell her to, i will look like the jealous over-possessive one. Its really awkward, she rings him at work and tells him that she will be there ready to have luch and if she "got lost on the way to ur house, i will turn the engine off and listen for you"

banana
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:56 AM
Have a threesome.

No way... Me n my boy r bi so that wont work cos she is not the most attractive girl

mandy7
Mar 28th, 2006, 04:00 AM
men don't think with their brains
if you give him better sex than she did
he won't make any big mistakes
and you shouldn't have to worry about a thing

No Name Face
Mar 28th, 2006, 04:14 AM
men don't think with their brains
if you give him better sex than she did
he won't make any big mistakes
and you shouldn't have to worry about a thing

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
yes.

No way... Me n my boy r bi so that wont work cos she is not the most attractive girl

hmmm...another layer. well if this bitch isn't even hot, then that's more reason for her to be dead. want me to do it? i'll cap that bitch for a grand or two.

Scotso
Mar 28th, 2006, 06:10 AM
push that homewrecking whore down a flight of stairs.
no, seriously.

I concur. Off her.

CooCooCachoo
Mar 28th, 2006, 07:42 AM
Have a threesome.

Yes, you so live up to your user name.

:rolleyes:

decemberlove
Mar 28th, 2006, 07:44 AM
They are fucking. Leave him.

controlfreak
Mar 28th, 2006, 09:36 AM
Invite her to a cliff-top picnic on a very windy day.

ZeroSOFInfinity
Mar 28th, 2006, 09:43 AM
HEEELLLLPPPP:eek: :eek: :eek:

How about asking your brother to date her? That solves the problem. :angel:

If not, well... invite her to dinner, and serve her a bottle of wine, laced with arsenic... :devil:

James
Mar 28th, 2006, 10:23 AM
Invite her to a cliff-top picnic on a very windy day.

That is risky, cause he could blow himself off the top too. ;)

pla
Mar 28th, 2006, 10:25 AM
How about you can do nothig? :shrug: I am sorry but you really can do nothing if you're not ready to look like "the jealous one". Just take it as it comes and that's it.

LostGlory
Mar 28th, 2006, 10:25 AM
I say if you love some one set them free....because regardless of what happens you will never have what is not yours.....

James
Mar 28th, 2006, 10:26 AM
I say if you love some one set them free....because regardless of what happens you will never have what is not yours.....

Is this directed at Banana or the friend?

LostGlory
Mar 28th, 2006, 11:22 AM
Is this directed at Banana or the friend?

Directed at the Banana, he should leave the boyfriend enough space to make his own decision....Otherwise hell will break through and the girlfriend will be there to pick up the pieces....oldest trick in the book.....

mandy7
Mar 28th, 2006, 11:23 AM
i'm telling ya, if you're good in bed
you ain't gonna lose your guy

oh, also, hook up his best friend with someone cool

No Name Face
Mar 28th, 2006, 11:23 AM
Yes, you so live up to your user name.

:rolleyes:

:haha:

Sally Struthers
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:32 PM
Corner the bitch and tell her to back the fuck off of your man.

rebel_ffighter
Mar 28th, 2006, 03:51 PM
Have a threesome.


I agree :angel:

!<blocparty>!
Mar 28th, 2006, 04:32 PM
For a minute there I thought you were saying your BF was a girl. But yeah, what decemberlove said.

Kart
Mar 28th, 2006, 05:44 PM
Hey i just need to get something off my chest. I have been with my boyfriend for about six months, and he has this friend, right! best friend in fact. We get along well and everything is fine until we went away for our six month aniversary/mutal friends birthday where she confesses to me that she is in love with him. I react well saying it is okay. being completely aware of the fact they have slept together a few years back. now she keeps calling him, tryin to meet him for lonch etc. she even said she is staying at his house on thursday cos her brother is having friends over. i feel really uncomfortable but cant say anything because i dont want to break their friendship and be the bad guy.
HEEELLLLPPPP:eek: :eek: :eek:

Either trust him or move on.

Pushing someone down the stairs won't stop you being jealous in the future - well unless it's him you push.

Kart
Mar 28th, 2006, 05:45 PM
They are fucking. Leave him.

:lol:

Dana Marcy
Mar 28th, 2006, 11:16 PM
I don't live with MY Boyfriend, but that wont solve the problem. She needs to back off! but i am afraid that if i tell her to, i will look like the jealous over-possessive one. Its really awkward, she rings him at work and tells him that she will be there ready to have luch and if she "got lost on the way to ur house, i will turn the engine off and listen for you"

If you really are into this guy then LOOK LIKE A JEALOUS OVER-POSSESSIVE girlfriend! First of all, this girl needs to know her place AND YOU NEED TO TELL HER (nicely). Secondly, it says a lot about her that she doesn't love your boyfriend enough to let him go and be supportive of his new relationship with you. I like the fact you're trying to come across as not clingy but this chick needs a reality check and you're the one to give it her! :D

TF Chipmunk
Mar 28th, 2006, 11:22 PM
That is risky, cause he could blow himself off the top too. ;)
Wait a minute.

:scratch:

Banana is a guy? :o I didn't know that.

Anyway, like others have said, there's really nothing you can do. I mean, how do you even know he's having trouble deciding between the two of you? Maybe a week from now, the girl will tell you that your boyfriend spent the whole night talking about you (in a good way) or something :shrug: You just never know. However, just be prepared for him to pick the girl. If you're a guy and she's a girl, there's really no competition between the two of you :o

Dana Marcy
Mar 28th, 2006, 11:28 PM
Wait a minute.

:scratch:

Banana is a guy? :o I didn't know that.

WHAT??? :o (Sorry)

Well my advice applies to a guy also. :wavey:

banana
Mar 29th, 2006, 02:15 AM
Wait a minute.

:scratch:

Banana is a guy? :o I didn't know that.

Anyway, like others have said, there's really nothing you can do. I mean, how do you even know he's having trouble deciding between the two of you? Maybe a week from now, the girl will tell you that your boyfriend spent the whole night talking about you (in a good way) or something :shrug: You just never know. However, just be prepared for him to pick the girl. If you're a guy and she's a girl, there's really no competition between the two of you :o


I am not concerned. I have voiced my opinion about the situation and he feels as uncomfortable as i do. so uncomfortable in fact that he said i have to stay over on thursday when she is there:hearts: :worship: :bounce: However i am not sure what to do in regards to her behaviour???:rolleyes:

Cage
Mar 29th, 2006, 03:04 AM
i think you should aproach it calmly about it. Say your point of veiw and wait for him to respond. If you get angry at him it is the response the other person is looking for and that will make her feel like she has done the damage so she can try and make a move on him. So i think the calmer you can be the more your likely to win :)

sorry if this doesnt help just a thought i spose :)

Scotso
Mar 29th, 2006, 03:33 AM
So wait, you're a gay guy and your boyfriend is up in a woman's junk? Maybe you don't bend over for him enough?

Belco
Mar 29th, 2006, 03:37 AM
push that homewrecking whore down a flight of stairs.
no, seriously.

:lol:
do that!

TF Chipmunk
Mar 29th, 2006, 03:47 AM
I am not concerned. I have voiced my opinion about the situation and he feels as uncomfortable as i do. so uncomfortable in fact that he said i have to stay over on thursday when she is there:hearts: :worship: :bounce: However i am not sure what to do in regards to her behaviour???:rolleyes:
Problem solved, you've got the good guy ;)

Junex
Mar 29th, 2006, 05:54 AM
As long as you've done fucking him..let him have him...


We had a term for that...a dishwasher!