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Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 03:18 PM
So I was in the hospital on New Year's eve for an infection in a wound that still hasn't healed completely btw and I'm not even a diabetic. :eek:

A 16 year old provisional driver created this chain reaction accident that I was caught in last Friday.

So of course this car that I've had for 6 years and have taken very good care of is going to be totaled by the insurance company.

Of course less than 7 days before I put a new side view mirror on, a new handle on the inside, new tires, new inspection sticker............3 months ago a complete service.

Now, I have to go out and get another car which means a car payment, and a lot higher insurance because the car will be worth more. :fiery:

I'm so not in a position to acquire a car payment. I'm probably going to have to work a weekend job. :eek: :tape: :unsure: Well that is if I want to still go on my trips....

I can get a knockabout car but I'm not guarenteed to get a car taken as well care of as mine was.........you know oil changed every 3,000 miles, service when required. :mad:

2005...........getting started off with a bang. :yeah:

Infiniti2001
Jan 22nd, 2005, 03:30 PM
and here I thought seating on an airplane next to a screaming baby and a woman with a spoiled dog was bad :lol: Poor baby :sad: hope things work out for you :p

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 03:36 PM
and here I thought seating on an airplane next to a screaming baby and a woman with a spoiled dog was bad :lol: Poor baby :sad: hope things work out for you :p
Rightttttt!!! I should go read some horror stories from the tsunami.....that will cure me of my need to indulge in self-pity! ;) Maybe? ;) ;)

King Aaron
Jan 22nd, 2005, 03:37 PM
:hug: Awwww...that's tough. Things can only get better. :kiss:

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 03:41 PM
:hug: Awwww...that's tough. Things can only get better. :kiss:
Thanks! :hug: Here's hoping! :angel:

King Aaron
Jan 22nd, 2005, 03:42 PM
Thanks! :hug: Here's hoping! :angel:
Never lose hope...if you do it's like losing food. ;) Speaking of which...I better get some supper. :lol:

skanky~skanketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 03:46 PM
awww rocky :hug:

girl, i know what u're going through. i had dengue on new years day (well, i was almost recovered but there was no countdown for me), amber (my dog) has taken a liking to peeing on my kirman rug which cost me a bomb. its really annoying cuz i trained her so hard to pee outside. i had to send it to the carpet cleaners and my parents told me to use my own money!pffft!

i'm on a break with my bf and that slut felicia seems to be getting cosy with him (fortunately i have spies around and nothing's going on). oh, and 2 weeks ago my baby sister peed all over my lavender silk blouse which i've only worn 3 times.(too many pee incidents surrounding me) i accidentally cought the sleeve of a sweater on a nail and it has a rip through it. i also broke a heel of my beloved charles david heels. the thing is that when it broke, i tripped and fell on a streetside and grazed my knee and slightly twisted my ankle. and a few people actually laughed, even my friends!GRRRR. AS IF!pfffffffft!my hairstylist totally messed up my hair. i told him i wanted it shoulder length, layered and now it looks like halle berry's in monster's ball, only slightly better. GAWD!

but in all honesty, you problems sound worse. but u know what they say about problems. its there so you can think of solutions.

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 03:56 PM
Haha, that is a lot of peeing going on around you. :scared:

No I hear you sometimes problems seem to be a ball rolling down a hill just gaining speed and momentum. :(

The funny thing is last year we (my family) said it can only get better in 2005....I guess we were wrong. :lol:

Last February we had a ice storm and a tree branch brought down the power line catching our house on fire. Luckily my mother heard it and woke up as soon as the house caught on fire, woke me up and called 911. However, we lost every appliance in the house except the washer, dryer, & stand alone freezer. It took almost 10 months to replace everything.

Then a week after we got back into the house our dog was hit and killed.

Then my sister had a miscarriage at 6 months pregnant.

Then her husband was diagnosed with skin cancer again...had 7 surgeries....only to have the cancer come back again. He has some weird genetic skin issue that's working against him.

Another Sister's toy poodle was hit and killed and he was like her baby....

Then I had surgery and had my problems.....

Oh well I know people have gone through worse and at least no one close to me has passed away that would be much much worse.....so here's to keeping things in perspective. :angel:

Joana
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:02 PM
:hug:
I totally understand you. My health as really got bad in the last month or so - constant headaches every day, dizziness, now matter how much sleep I get it still isn't enough and I feel like :zzz: all the time. I'm really starting to think I have the Justine virus thingy. On top of it all I fell and hurt my knee I injured 6 years ago and it hurts like hell.
But you know what they say: every cloud has a silver lining. :) I just can't see one now.

King Aaron
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:08 PM
:sad: :o I probably shouldn't complain about my life then...hearing you guys I know I have it better, much better.

:hug: Hang in there.

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:13 PM
:hug:
I totally understand you. My health as really got bad in the last month or so - constant headaches every day, dizziness, now matter how much sleep I get it still isn't enough and I feel like :zzz: all the time. I'm really starting to think I have the Justine virus thingy. On top of it all I fell and hurt my knee I injured 6 years ago and it hurts like hell.
But you know what they say: every cloud has a silver lining. :) I just can't see one now.
:hug:

I know what you mean.......but there is a silver lining.....somewhere. :unsure:

I forgot to mention the headaches that I've been going to a Neuroligist for a year for and all I have to show for it is a lot of medical bills....my headache occurance is less but not as much as I would like.

So I really know what you are going through. I'm sure it will get better (I'm telling myself this as well.).

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:14 PM
:sad: :o I probably shouldn't complain about my life then...hearing you guys I know I have it better, much better.

:hug: Hang in there.
Everybody's problems are important to them....I don't think that's wrong. :hug:

¤CharlDa¤
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:20 PM
[QUOTE=name_change]

i also broke a heel of my beloved charles david heels.
QUOTE]

I never thought i would see you write that :D Thanks Vernoica :D ;)

POoor Rocky, so sad.....Such a great person like you, everything will get back in place, you deserve the best!

Wigglytuff
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:23 PM
:hug:

well if it makes you feel better, jan 1, 2002 i got dumped by my then girlfriend (it when something like ME:happy new year!! HER: You know i would like to start things of fresh this year, this relationship is over, i never want to see you again) and it actually went DOWNHILL from there. NOW, in late march things turned around and 2002 was one of the best most wonderfullest years of my life. travel, romance, friendship, love, money. had it all that year by the end.

so keep your head up, things can and do get better.

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:24 PM
I never thought i would see you write that :D Thanks Vernoica :D ;)

POoor Rocky, so sad.....Such a great person like you, everything will get back in place, you deserve the best!
cd, are you a Fashion designer? :p

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:26 PM
:hug:

well if it makes you feel better, jan 1, 2002 i got dumped by my then girlfriend (it when something like ME:happy new year!! HER: You know i would like to start things of fresh this year, this relationship is over, i never want to see you again) and it actually went DOWNHILL from there. NOW, in late march things turned around and 2002 was one of the best most wonderfullest years of my life. travel, romance, friendship, love, money. had it all that year by the end.

so keep your head up, things can and do get better.
Yeah I know things can change in an instant.....like getting HIT while stopped in traffic and then having all your PLANS MESSED UP!:o :o :o Sorry i was digressing! :lol: ;)

I hear you and hope this too will be my lot for 2005. :)

BK4ever
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:27 PM
Damn Rocky and name change...I'm saying a prayer for the two of you that things turn around and the rest of 2005 is stellar...

Rocky both my sister and my cousin just lost their cars in the same way...i hate that they allow the insurance companies to do that, they should be allowed to give you back your same car if they can't fit it, why should you be punished because someone hit you :fiery:

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:37 PM
Damn Rocky and name change...I'm saying a prayer for the two of you that things turn around and the rest of 2005 is stellar...

Rocky both my sister and my cousin just lost their cars in the same way...i hate that they allow the insurance companies to do that, they should be allowed to give you back your same car if they can't fit it, why should you be punished because someone hit you :fiery:
I know. :fiery: Damn insurance companies and thier lobbyists. :rolleyes:

This is the 2nd time this has happened to me....the first time my car wasn't paid off and I was really screwed. :o

It really isn't fair that you have to be out all that money to find a new car..:fiery:

Thanks for the well wishes.

¤CharlDa¤
Jan 22nd, 2005, 04:46 PM
Love ya hag :kiss: :hug:

And yes, im a fabulous shoes designer, didn'ty you know that? :p

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 05:02 PM
Love ya hag :kiss: :hug:

And yes, im a fabulous shoes designer, didn'ty you know that? :p
Ha, no I missed that fact. Btw, where are you and the game. Let me know if your not coming back. :)

Cam'ron Giles
Jan 22nd, 2005, 05:45 PM
Awww...my poor babies...Killah Kam is gonna come over and make it all better...:kiss:

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 06:34 PM
Awww...my poor babies...Killah Kam is gonna come over and make it all better...:kiss:
Ohh, how much money are you planning to throw at this little problem? :bounce: :yippee: :rolls:

;)

Cam'ron Giles
Jan 22nd, 2005, 06:55 PM
Ohh, how much money are you planning to throw at this little problem? :bounce: :yippee: :rolls:

;)
Money...:scared: errrr...I'm a holla back at ya...:bolt:

(•_•)
Jan 22nd, 2005, 07:11 PM
:hug: Poor Rocketta!

But my year didn't start much better. In the first football match of the return round of this season last weekend I got a torn ligament in my left knee because such a f***ing arsehole fouled me! :mad: Six weeks of walking on crutches! THANKS:armed:

And my dog also must be operated because he is ill. :crying2:

This year really starts shit!

¤CharlDa¤
Jan 22nd, 2005, 07:52 PM
Just went to the game, i actually was in florida for the apst two tournies and couldn't predict....I jsut wnet now, but couldn't predict for rnd of 16 part 1, cause it is clsoed..But amtches aren't started yet! few hours left!

Kart
Jan 22nd, 2005, 07:57 PM
So I was in the hospital on New Year's eve for an infection in a wound that still hasn't healed completely btw and I'm not even a diabetic. :eek:

A 16 year old provisional driver created this chain reaction accident that I was caught in last Friday.

So of course this car that I've had for 6 years and have taken very good care of is going to be totaled by the insurance company.

Of course less than 7 days before I put a new side view mirror on, a new handle on the inside, new tires, new inspection sticker............3 months ago a complete service.

Now, I have to go out and get another car which means a car payment, and a lot higher insurance because the car will be worth more. :fiery:

I'm so not in a position to acquire a car payment. I'm probably going to have to work a weekend job. :eek: :tape: :unsure: Well that is if I want to still go on my trips....

I can get a knockabout car but I'm not guarenteed to get a car taken as well care of as mine was.........you know oil changed every 3,000 miles, service when required. :mad:

2005...........getting started off with a bang. :yeah:
:hug:

I hope you weren't injured in the crash.

Kart
Jan 22nd, 2005, 07:59 PM
I should add :hug: for all the other people in here with problems which I am sorry to read about :sad:.

moon
Jan 22nd, 2005, 08:21 PM
Try to think positive, and hang in there girl.
THIS TOO SHALL PASS. :)

kiwifan
Jan 22nd, 2005, 08:33 PM
You should all get together and start writing Country Music hits. :angel:

I'll spot you the chorus...

Its gonna be better next year
yeah, its got to get better next year
this year I've had all I can take
I just can't seem to catch a break
But its gonna be better, next year...

...yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw!!!

:hatoff:

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 11:17 PM
The Smasher, I hope your injury heals quickly. :hug:

Thanks Kart, & moon! :hug: :hug:

kart, I wasn't hurt at all the only injury I suffered will be to my wallet.

Kiwi, your crazy... :rolls:

cd, I see you got it all straightened out. :yippee:

RVD
Jan 22nd, 2005, 11:35 PM
Whoa Rocketta! I feel for ya kiddo. :sad: I hope all gets better very soon, and for everyone else here too.
I concur that 2005 pretty much sucks so far. I have so many problems that I don't even wanna go into it. Let's just say that twice I nearly died in my sleep. Two days ago was the last occurance. But oh well, such is life. Sleeping disorders and all.
Just do the things you like most and keep a happy outlook, and things will soon improve for ya. :yeah:

Rocketta
Jan 22nd, 2005, 11:38 PM
Whoa Rocketta! I feel for ya kiddo. :sad: I hope all gets better very soon, and for everyone else here too.
I concur that 2005 pretty much sucks so far. I have so many problems that I don't even wanna go into it. Let's just say that twice I nearly died in my sleep. Two days ago was the last occurance. But oh well, such is life. Sleeping disorders and all.
Just do the things you like most and keep a happy outlook, and things will soon improve for ya. :yeah:whoa, sleep disorders are tough. Well stay as safe as possible and thanks for the well wishes. I send the same to you! :hug:

rightous
Jan 22nd, 2005, 11:50 PM
Rockie i love you :kiss: things can only get better:)

Kuilli
Jan 23rd, 2005, 12:12 AM
:hug: Hang in there, Rocketta. Things will get better. :)

Rocketta
Jan 23rd, 2005, 02:08 AM
kuilli, Thanks....love the avatar! :hearts:

rightous love u too hubby! :couple:

Twisted, thanks for the well wishes. Y'all make me feel better. :)

harloo
Jan 23rd, 2005, 02:26 AM
Wow some of these stories are very sad.

Rocketta hang in there. I know it's hard. I remember crashing my first car and I'm paying for it right now. I thought I would be a smart ass and get the hook up on a used vehicle with no insurance. I was just a young 19 year old. The parents tried to warn me but I would not listen.

Hope things start looking up for you.:hug:

¤CharlDa¤
Jan 23rd, 2005, 02:35 AM
Yup it all got straightened out by one of your many vritual husbands ;)

Rocketta
Jan 23rd, 2005, 02:50 AM
Yup it all got straightened out by one of your many vritual husbands ;)
yup, except as soon as he gets an 'actual' divorce he'll be my 'actual' husband. I need to work on my stalking skills. :armed:

Thanks Harloo, unfortunately this is the 3rd time I've been rear ended and I had an almost rear end that I pulled off in just enough time not to get hit.

skanky~skanketta
Jan 23rd, 2005, 03:45 AM
rocky, think of it this way. you're cought in a massive snowstorm with only a few things to eat and a very very flimsy jacket. you'll freeze and you'll starve and your lips with be chapped like hell. but think of after the storm. you can make snowman, snow angels, snowballs, ski, snowboard, have snowcones...

or this is a HUMONGOUS black cloud and you're in the middle. so it might take some time to see that silver lining. or maybe you're wearing shades so you cant see the lining. as far as i'm concerned, you're not dead from the car wreck, this is an opportunity to see if you're a survivor, a fighter or a quitter, your family is healthy, your cats are fine, and youu have us.