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CCCP1
Dec 24th, 2004, 05:43 AM
I like her and i think she likes me but i am too nervous to ask :)


Any suggetsions, by the way Merry X Mas :wavey:

Mr_Molik
Dec 24th, 2004, 09:48 AM
do it through sms or email (and make it really romantic ;))
and if she says no avoid her for a while or tell her u were paid to do it and it was just a joke :p

Majo
Dec 24th, 2004, 09:52 AM
first of all make sure she's not on the board and has seen your profile with like 100 times sex in it, cause she might be a bit scared off :p

"Sluggy"
Dec 24th, 2004, 10:10 AM
Are you a man or a woman?

Best solution is this. Buy one single rose. give it to her and kiss her. dont ask dont hesitate, just a straight, no tongue kiss on the lips. Tell her then that you gotta run, but that youd like to come by and get her at 8, that youll be there at 8 and you are taking her to the movies. when they turn the lights out, put your arm around her and snuggle up. like the NIKE Commercial, JUST DO IT! There is no shame in being rejected, only shame in not trying.

"Sluggy"
Dec 24th, 2004, 10:11 AM
worst thing to do is talk about how you feel, i love you, youre so pretty, etc etc. Just have some fun with her, and take her to a place she likes, the beach, a resto, a pub etc. laugh and joke, nothing more............................

Lord Chips
Dec 24th, 2004, 10:21 AM
first of all make sure she's not on the board and has seen your profile with like 100 times sex in it, cause she might be a bit scared off :p
Indeed! In fact, what if she's reading this thread right now?

sarza
Dec 24th, 2004, 11:12 AM
I always think that it is best to tell people how u really feel, however nervous or embarrased you might be. Otherwise you are never gonna know what you could have had with that person.

I mean whats the worst this girl can do, She can say NO sure but even if she does that im sure that she would still be flattered that someone likes her.

Give it a go, and good luck :D

"Sluggy"
Dec 24th, 2004, 12:40 PM
I always think that it is best to tell people how u really feel, however nervous or embarrased you might be. Otherwise you are never gonna know what you could have had with that person.

I mean whats the worst this girl can do, She can say NO sure but even if she does that im sure that she would still be flattered that someone likes her.

Give it a go, and good luck :D


I disagree. ONly tell her how you feel in like 6 months. You have to first surprise her with a show of affection. You should not be protesting love and feelings so soon. She has to earn your love. You are now attracted to her physically and emotionally, but only time will tell if it is "true love". maybe she just wants some affection, and not true love, in which case youd be depriving yourself and her of a nice moment shared together. :hearts:

sarza
Dec 24th, 2004, 02:29 PM
I disagree. ONly tell her how you feel in like 6 months. You have to first surprise her with a show of affection. You should not be protesting love and feelings so soon. She has to earn your love. You are now attracted to her physically and emotionally, but only time will tell if it is "true love". maybe she just wants some affection, and not true love, in which case youd be depriving yourself and her of a nice moment shared together. :hearts:


Im not saying tell the girl u love her and want to be with her forever etc :p I am saying that you have to at least tell the girl that you like her or else how the hell are they going to be anything other than friends.

Grohl
Dec 24th, 2004, 03:45 PM
you, out, tonight!
(short, hard way)

Andy Mac
Dec 24th, 2004, 05:43 PM
i like chaotic's way..dominate.......they dont call me andy MAC for nothing ya kno......jsut go for it i mean......what u got to lose..if she dont liek u she will say no thanks and at least u will know....and if she says yes then "jackpot"

!<blocparty>!
Dec 24th, 2004, 06:00 PM
do it through sms or email (and make it really romantic ;))
NONONO!
I couldnt think of anything more unromantic :lol:



and if she says no avoid her for a while or tell her u were paid to do it and it was just a joke :p
:haha: I did this :o

Sally Struthers
Dec 24th, 2004, 06:19 PM
Just don't tell her you'd give her money if she went out with you. The police have a dirty word for that. Prostitution.

Hayato
Dec 24th, 2004, 08:29 PM
Write her a love letter. compliment on her good things :)

Grohl
Dec 26th, 2004, 02:52 PM
i like chaotic's way..dominate.......they dont call me andy MAC for nothing ya kno......jsut go for it i mean......what u got to lose..if she dont liek u she will say no thanks and at least u will know....and if she says yes then "jackpot"
finally someone that has the same opinion on this.
In belgium we say: een nee hebt ge, een ja kunt ge krijgen!
which means: you have a no, but can get a yes!
Eventhough I'm a girl, it works, it's how me and my girlfriend got together!

Princess Fiona
Dec 26th, 2004, 04:03 PM
Are you a man or a woman?

Best solution is this. Buy one single rose. give it to her and kiss her. dont ask dont hesitate, just a straight, no tongue kiss on the lips. Tell her then that you gotta run, but that youd like to come by and get her at 8, that youll be there at 8 and you are taking her to the movies. when they turn the lights out, put your arm around her and snuggle up. like the NIKE Commercial, JUST DO IT! There is no shame in being rejected, only shame in not trying.
Wow... (This sounds very romantic... ;) )

Good luck *cory* - I'm afraid I don't really have any advice to add but I hope it works out for you... :)

CCCP1
Dec 26th, 2004, 10:58 PM
Well i am going to my friends house tonite and she will be there, so i think i am gonna ask.

Barrie_Dude
Dec 26th, 2004, 11:02 PM
I like her and i think she likes me but i am too nervous to ask :)


Any suggetsions, by the way Merry X Mas :wavey:Ask her how much 4 a bj! :haha:

HPNOTIKA
Dec 26th, 2004, 11:04 PM
Ask her how much 4 a bj! :haha:

That has worked....

Justeenium
Dec 27th, 2004, 12:34 AM
get her drunk and then let your actions do the talking

Almalyk
Jan 31st, 2005, 05:26 AM
get her drunk and then let your actions do the talking

so in other words rape her? you really are mental! :eek: :fiery:

Mrs. Peel
Jan 31st, 2005, 06:10 AM
get her drunk and then let your actions do the talking

Not surprised this would be your suggestion...I'm sure this is the only way you could get some...and then she'd have to be comatose! It wouldn't be an experience to remember!

I pity any girl that gets near you :tape: Let me guess...it's been a LOOOOOONG time!

Justeenium
Jan 31st, 2005, 06:19 AM
Not surprised this would be your suggestion...I'm sure this is the only way you could get some...and then she'd have to be comatose! It wouldn't be an experience to remember!

I pity any girl that gets near you :tape: Let me guess...it's been a LOOOOOONG time!

Is your sarcasm meter broken?

Volcana
Jan 31st, 2005, 07:50 AM
I like her and i think she likes me but i am too nervous to ask Pick something not-so-obviously date-like,and ask her to it. f you work together or have a class together, ask her to coffee afterward. You can sit and talk and get a better idea of whether or not she likes you, and especially what she likes.

Listen. Don't spend all your time talking.

beauty_is_pink
Feb 1st, 2005, 04:33 AM
cory... are you a guy or a girl?