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Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:08 PM
...they hit your dogs? This dude has been coming through to my crib...We have been haning out, watching movies and going to dinner and stuff...He is a nice dude but he seems a bit harsh to my dogs...They are the sweetest things...they trust and love EVERYONE!!!! He does not just haul off and smack them or anything but he screams at them. It's one thing to tell them to get off the bed or the couch but it's the way in which he says it....Then on Sunday, he was getting ready to take a shower and had a wash rag in his hand and just pop little Mickey with it...She jumped off the bed and ran into her cage...and he thaught the shit was funny...Along with my mom, my dad, my sisters, my brother and my nephew...my dogs are the most important things in my life...I love them almost as much as I love myself...I was so pissed!!!! Would you stop seeing someone for being mean to your pets?

Harju.
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:20 PM
I'd never date anyone who hits my pussy :fiery:.

-Em-
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:25 PM
my cousin tried to kick my dog once, even though he didn't manage to i kicked him as hard as i only could...i couldn't tolerate any one who would try to hurt my dog.

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:30 PM
my cousin tried to kick my dog once, even though he didn't manage to i kicked him as hard as i only could...i couldn't tolerate any one who would try to hurt my dog.
I agree...but some people think it's funny to scare pets...even if they dont intend to hurt them...they'll it them to scare them...I hate that...dont mess with my babies...:mad:

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:31 PM
']I'd never date anyone who hits my pussy :fiery:.
I would'nt hit your pussy...I would just stroke it...:D

mandy7
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:36 PM
kick the crap outta the dude and kick him out of your house
and never let him in again
he sounds like an asshole

DemWilliamsGulls
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:37 PM
Just tell him to stop hittin your dogs...or keep the dogs away from em..I wouldn't break up wit the boy over some dogs though..shit sometimes i have had to pop my dogs for gettin on my nerves a few times....LOL...some people think dogs are too playful, some think they are not clean, some folks dont respect them cuz they think they are dumb animals and he might just have a phobia against dogs...tell him to stop hittin em and keep them away from him..if he yo man and respect your feelings he will stop if u tell him to....my question is ..have u asked him to stop hittin em?

Harju.
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:46 PM
I would'nt hit your pussy...I would just stroke it...:D
so when can we meet? :haha:

Sonja
Dec 14th, 2004, 02:47 PM
Yes, I would never date someone who is a potential animal abuser. Hitting an animal is not the answer for behavioral problems.

There are too many wonderful people out there to waste your time on someone who obviously doesn't respect those you love. ;)

AjdeNate!
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:04 PM
I'd hit him 10x's harder than he hit my dog. Nobody messes with my baby. :armed:
If he's gonna hit an innocent dog, imagine what he'll try to do to you when you've been 'bad'. Mean people suck.

Harju.
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:06 PM
I'd hit him 10x's harder than he hit my dog. Nobody messes with my baby. :armed:
If he's gonna hit an innocent dog, imagine what he'll try to do to you when you've been 'bad'. Mean people suck.
i know but mean girls rock.

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:07 PM
Just tell him to stop hittin your dogs...or keep the dogs away from em..I wouldn't break up wit the boy over some dogs though..shit sometimes i have had to pop my dogs for gettin on my nerves a few times....LOL...some people think dogs are too playful, some think they are not clean, some folks dont respect them cuz they think they are dumb animals and he might just have a phobia against dogs...tell him to stop hittin em and keep them away from him..if he yo man and respect your feelings he will stop if u tell him to....my question is ..have u asked him to stop hittin em?I told him never to hit my dogs again but he acted like I was overreacting...:mad: He laughed!!!!!! :fiery:

Darop.
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:10 PM
No one who hits or mistreats animals is worthy of being dated, especially is he/she thinks it's funny....

I know I love my cat so damn much, and whoever hits him, will get his head cut off. :)

Darop.
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:12 PM
I would'nt hit your pussy...I would just stroke it...:D
:haha:

-Em-
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:13 PM
I told him never to hit my dogs again but he acted like I was overreacting...:mad: He laughed!!!!!! :fiery:

it's easy then: he hits your dog and doesn't take you seriously, tell him to fuck off, just as easy as that...:o

"Sluggy"
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:14 PM
Yes, politely kick him to the curb. if he shows that type of attitude towards the dogs, hes unlikely to be sensitive in other respects.

katiektc
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:14 PM
mi-oaw :cat:

thalle
Dec 14th, 2004, 03:15 PM
leave him. or make the dogs bite him in the balls. he deserves that. or maybe you'd do it next time

skanky~skanketta
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:18 PM
oh no he didnt!!

i would never date anyone who wasnt an animal lover, much less an abuser. sorry, its very important to me that my bf/best friend/potentials love animals. they may not necessarily be like me and love ALL animals (some ppl who like dogs dont like cats like my mom) but they must never be cruel to them and they must be civil and understand that animals have feelings too. this is so weird cuz i was just saying how i started datting my bf and that i only got serious cuz my dogs loved him too...

cam'ron, u gotta ditch the dude.

i'm so mad right now its not even funny!:fiery: :mad:

Mrs. Peel
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:20 PM
I'd hit him 10x's harder than he hit my dog. Nobody messes with my baby. :armed:
If he's gonna hit an innocent dog, imagine what he'll try to do to you when you've been 'bad'. Mean people suck.
Just what I was thinking...first he is hitting the dog....get involved with the guy deeper...he starts trying to hit you....

Just think what he might do to the animals behind your back :eek:

Frank Riley
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:29 PM
I have a couple of things to say:
1. why are your dogs on the bed?
2. why do you have the dogs around when you are in bed having sex with this guy?
3. Do you pay more attention to the dogs than to the guy you are seeing?
4. How is the sex, if it sucks then dump him and contact me for advice.
5. If he is an asshole and wants to torture the dogs how is he going to treat your future kids?

I should point out that dogs and cats do not belong in the bedroom when you are with a man! It is both unclean to have them on your bed and in the room you sleep in. (I am a Scientist and I can tell you the facts if you like)
I have dated girls with animals like this in the house and I always found that the pet owner is way to attached and has a mental problem by needing animals like this around her all the time. If you want to date a guy I would strongly suggest getting the animals out of the house and into the backyard were they belong. Dogs also tend to be very needy and are always working for attention, this gets in the way of any relationship you are going to have.
Ask yourself, are the animals in the way?

skanky~skanketta
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:30 PM
I told him never to hit my dogs again but he acted like I was overreacting...:mad: He laughed!!!!!! :fiery:
then wtf are u still doing with him???:fiery: :fiery: :fiery: :mad: :rolleyes:

honey, animals are like children. once in a while they deserve to be spanked. like my dogs, i have 6 of them and u can imagine how they behave sometimes, but i never have the heart to beat them cuz no matter how big they are, they all have their mother's eyes. tthe droopy sorrowful puppydog eyes. if they are way outta like, my mom just raises her voice at them and gives them a smack on the butt. and when she does that it'll take ages to coax them to come out from under my bed. even my sister who isnt much of a dog lover (she's a very detached person) gets mad at my mom when she smacks any of the dogs. i cant believe u'd actually stay with someone like that!how can u even ask for advise, the answer is SO CLEAR!grrrrr!

once my cousin brother grabbed a slipperr and whacked amber on the butt (when she was 6 months old) cuz she had nibbled on his shoe and i was so furious i slapped him so hard in ffront of the entire family (his and mine) he was 22 at the ttime and i'm 3 years younger and though my parents forced me to apologize i refused to and just told them "u wanna ground me?FINE!but at least i showed him what it feels like. and the is NOTHING you can do to make me say i'm sorry so there. if i said it, it would be a blatant lie. now u wouldnt want me to lie now would u mommy dearest?" my parents were so shocked. but it was worth it cuz amber is so protective over me and listens to whatever i say. richard (that idiotic cousin) is now terrified of her. he's sucha jerk. i remember that after than incident, he told my everyone that he'd debone amber (he's a chef and had just gotten a boning knife or something) and i told him that if he ever touched amber again, i would cut up his dick and feed to the the rats.

GermanBoy
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:32 PM
Of course, send him away. How could someone hit a dog? :fiery: :fiery: :fiery:

skanky~skanketta
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:34 PM
I have a couple of things to say:
1. why are your dogs on the bed?
2. why do you have the dogs around when you are in bed having sex with this guy?
3. Do you pay more attention to the dogs than to the guy you are seeing?
4. How is the sex, if it sucks then dump him and contact me for advice.
5. If he is an asshole and wants to torture the dogs how is he going to treat your future kids?

I should point out that dogs and cats do not belong in the bedroom when you are with a man! It is both unclean to have them on your bed and in the room you sleep in. (I am a Scientist and I can tell you the facts if you like)
I have dated girls with animals like this in the house and I always found that the pet owner is way to attached and has a mental problem by needing animals like this around her all the time. If you want to date a guy I would strongly suggest getting the animals out of the house and into the backyard were they belong. Dogs also tend to be very needy and are always working for attention, this gets in the way of any relationship you are going to have.
Ask yourself, are the animals in the way?
why is it a mental prroblem if u're attached to ur pets?u probably dont have pets so u dont know. many of us are attached to our pets cuz they dont judge us. all they do is love us. and what if the perrson u're fucking is just as dirty. it doesnt make a difference.

Wigglytuff
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:42 PM
...they hit your dogs? This dude has been coming through to my crib...We have been haning out, watching movies and going to dinner and stuff...He is a nice dude but he seems a bit harsh to my dogs...They are the sweetest things...they trust and love EVERYONE!!!! He does not just haul off and smack them or anything but he screams at them. It's one thing to tell them to get off the bed or the couch but it's the way in which he says it....Then on Sunday, he was getting ready to take a shower and had a wash rag in his hand and just pop little Mickey with it...She jumped off the bed and ran into her cage...and he thaught the shit was funny...Along with my mom, my dad, my sisters, my brother and my nephew...my dogs are the most important things in my life...I love them almost as much as I love myself...I was so pissed!!!! Would you stop seeing someone for being mean to your pets?

step away from the dogs for one minute. i have some questions, does he do things that he knows you dont like and think its fun? does he do mean things just because? does he display any other traits or habits that would be considered f-ed up? think about him and how he interacts with others.

if you feel taht this person has a pattern of f-ed up ness than i think you should really consder leaving. if not and you think this is are really a good person who has a long history of being wonderful good to everything you should have a SERIOUS talk with him. it could be that he is afriad of dogs or that he is a real shit with horrible tendencies and its just starting to come out or anything in between.

even if you have talked to him before about it, have sitdown serious talk about it about why its wrongs and why you will not put up with it. as well as why your dogs are important to you. let him know how serious you are and that you wont allow for the abuse of your lovely dogs to continue. and stick to it. if you abuses your dogs again be prepared ready and set to march and do just that. dont flip flop, i :fiery: flip flopping.

as an aside, i lost your number, my cell broke, but i got a new one, and so just give me a call this weekend.

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:44 PM
I wish that mother fucker would try and hit me...i'm 6-1 and built solid...I would whup his ass and infact if he hit either of my dogs again...he will get hit back...I'm not gonna marry the fucker...but kinda still want to see him...he's hot :o

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:46 PM
step away from the dogs for one minute. i have some questions, does he do things that he knows you dont like and think its fun? does he do mean things just because? does he display any other traits or habits that would be considered f-ed up? think about him and how he interacts with others.

if you feel taht this person has a pattern of f-ed up ness than i think you should really consder leaving. if not and you think this is are really a good person who has a long history of being wonderful good to everything you should have a SERIOUS talk with him. it could be that he is afriad of dogs or that he is a real shit with horrible tendencies and its just starting to come out or anything in between.

even if you have talked to him before about it, have sitdown serious talk about it about why its wrongs and why you will not put up with it. as well as why your dogs are important to you. let him know how serious you are and that you wont allow for the abuse of your lovely dogs to continue. and stick to it. if you abuses your dogs again be prepared ready and set to march and do just that. dont flip flop, i :fiery: flip flopping.

as an aside, i lost your number, my cell broke, but i got a new one, and so just give me a call this weekend.
Hi baby...I'll call you in a few days...You have been to my house...you met my babies...can you believe that someone would hit them...:fiery:

matthias
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:47 PM
kick him, no matter how hot he is
you have to take care for your dog

griffin
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:49 PM
I wish that mother fucker would try and hit me...i'm 6-1 and built solid...I would whup his ass and infact if he hit either of my dogs again...he will get hit back...I'm not gonna marry the fucker...but kinda still want to see him...he's hot :o

Someone losing their temper once or twice is one thing, that he thinks it's funny to scare/hurt an animal is another - so is the fact that he won't respect your request that he leave your dogs alone.

I'd vote for dumping him - but if you insist on thinking with the other head you really want to keep seeing him, at least see him at his place and keep him away from your babies.

GermanBoy
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:50 PM
I wish that mother fucker would try and hit me...i'm 6-1 and built solid...I would whup his ass and infact if he hit either of my dogs again...he will get hit back...I'm not gonna marry the fucker...but kinda still want to see him...he's hot :o
It is difficult. I am the last one who should give advice when it comes to feelings but I can`t understand how a person can hit a dog or another animal. If you decide on meeting him again you have to make him understand once and for all he can`t hit poor animals. Otherwise you have to send him away. I would send him to hell... :fiery:

GoDominique
Dec 14th, 2004, 05:51 PM
5. If he is an asshole and wants to torture the dogs how is he going to treat your future kids?
Yes Cam'ron, what about your future children? :sad:

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 06:41 PM
I have a couple of things to say:
1. why are your dogs on the bed?
2. why do you have the dogs around when you are in bed having sex with this guy?
3. Do you pay more attention to the dogs than to the guy you are seeing?
4. How is the sex, if it sucks then dump him and contact me for advice.
5. If he is an asshole and wants to torture the dogs how is he going to treat your future kids?

I should point out that dogs and cats do not belong in the bedroom when you are with a man! It is both unclean to have them on your bed and in the room you sleep in. (I am a Scientist and I can tell you the facts if you like)
I have dated girls with animals like this in the house and I always found that the pet owner is way to attached and has a mental problem by needing animals like this around her all the time. If you want to date a guy I would strongly suggest getting the animals out of the house and into the backyard were they belong. Dogs also tend to be very needy and are always working for attention, this gets in the way of any relationship you are going to have.
Ask yourself, are the animals in the way?
I have two small dogs that are so well trained that when I say "cage" they both go right to their separate cages and stay there...I love my dogs and do not make it a practice to have them on my bed...they sleep through the night in their very comfortable cages with the cage doors open and thats where they want to be...And where do you get that I have them on my bed while i'm having sex? :confused:

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 06:43 PM
Yes Cam'ron, what about your future children? :sad:
:scared: :scared: Not in Jesus Land :scared:

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 14th, 2004, 06:45 PM
oh no he didnt!!

cam'ron, u gotta ditch the dude.

i'm so mad right now its not even funny!:fiery: :mad:
YES HE DID!!!!! :fiery:

Thanks baby...we can team up and beat his ass...:wavey:

stenen
Dec 14th, 2004, 06:57 PM
...but kinda still want to see him...he's hot :o

I'm sure he's not the only "hot" guy in the world. IMHO anyone who's hitting, scaring or in any other way hurting animals (or another human being) is not sexy or hot and definitely not worth having around. Dump him!

Richie77
Dec 14th, 2004, 06:57 PM
Dump him.

If any guy hit my dog or cat, he wouldn't be able to have sex...after getting hit in a delicate area :fiery:

DevilishAttitude
Dec 14th, 2004, 07:39 PM
OMG this so OTT :o

He shouldn't being so touchy when your dogs do something wrong but it's not something to break up over :o

sarza
Dec 14th, 2004, 07:46 PM
If someone was nasty to my dog i would chuck them right out the door

Helen Lawson
Dec 14th, 2004, 07:51 PM
I'll dispense with my usual, AND APPROPRIATE, barb about pitcher/catcher, but someone who does what you're describing to animals is a psychopath with tortuous, violent, and evil intentions. You're messing around with someone who could snap and become Jeffrey Dahmer tomorrow. You should dump him immediately, if not for the safety of your pets, then for your own safety.

Barrie_Dude
Dec 14th, 2004, 07:54 PM
']I'd never date anyone who hits my pussy :fiery:.:scared: You have a pussy? :scared: I though you were a guy? :scared:

Barrie_Dude
Dec 14th, 2004, 07:54 PM
And top answer the question..... I would never date anyone that mistreats an animal

DemWilliamsGulls
Dec 14th, 2004, 08:44 PM
I told him never to hit my dogs again but he acted like I was overreacting...:mad: He laughed!!!!!! :fiery:

Tell that bitch to stay home then lol....i wouldn't bring him over to my house if he dont know how to leave your dogs alone.

harloo
Dec 14th, 2004, 08:55 PM
I always wonder what is the fascination with having a dog or cat laying up in your bed, or kissing it. I just don't get it, but if that's you thing then so be it. If the person that you are with mistreats something you cherish so much then kick him/her to the curb.

I was dating a female who was so in love with her cat that she sewed clothes, an took her cat everywhere she went. After a while it got distracting and I have to dump her. I did not mind her having a pet, but to treat it like a siamese twin was a bit too much for me.

tennisIlove09
Dec 14th, 2004, 08:56 PM
i'm not an animal person...i mean i like them, but when they lick me, it's gross...but you don't hit them. that's mean. youcan do better Cam ;)

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 15th, 2004, 03:51 AM
i'm not an animal person...i mean i like them, but when they lick me, it's gross...but you don't hit them. that's mean. youcan do better Cam ;)If you would only come to NY...:drool:

Dave B
Dec 15th, 2004, 04:21 AM
C. Giles-

Here's my two cents. It sucks how he hits your dogs, but I don't think its something to break up over. You should talk to him, and make sure he knows you are serious. To me, he seems to think its funny, and laughing at you when you say to stop means he probably still thinks its a joke. If he doesn't stop after you have a serious talk with him, you should break up with him, and not because of his behaviour towards your dogs, but because he doesn't respect your desires.

If you just want sex with him, let him host. Problem solved.

Some people were brought up in households were animals were treated very poorly and need some help learning how to properly treat animals. You guys are being a little unforgiving to this guy...besides, he's hot.

greenfunkTHREE.
Dec 15th, 2004, 07:28 AM
hahaha! yeahh felix. i thought you were a guy.

and cameron. poor dogs. whoops his ass to and laugh afterwards. have him feel what he does to the dogs.

greenfunkTHREE.
Dec 15th, 2004, 07:29 AM
and if you cant accept the fact that he still hits your dogs and stuff. maybe stay away from. him. i would.

Dawn Marie
Dec 15th, 2004, 07:56 AM
Cam'ron, the fact that you are asking for advice on this subject tells me that you know something just doesn't feel right.

Dude he hit/hurt your dogs and then laughed in your face when you told him how his actions hurt your feelings and made you angry. He flat out disrespected your feelings. Red flags are flying everywhere. Personally I don't think he is going to change overnight and I wouldn't trust him with my animals or with your person.

Hot sex is not as important as your doggies. Kick his violent or potential violent ass to the curb or see him at his place if you need his sex. Whatever you do keep your eyes open to these red flags.

P.S. I don't have time to change people to act right and mature/compassionate it is just too time consuming for me. When I see flags like this I quickly say bye bye and quickly move the hell on. :)

goodluck Cam and your doggies.

sixfeetfree
Dec 15th, 2004, 09:17 AM
Mr. Giles,

Feelings are feelings, no one has the right to abuse anything you value, period. If this person is a friend, then by all means sound off like you have a pair and rip his ass good for doing it, a true friend will apologize and cease all hositilities. If this person is more than a friend and you're uncomfortable to say anything, well then let your actions speak for you. The next time he hits one of your animals with a towel or mop or whatever, you go get the same towel or mop and do your best Babe Ruth right across his ass and then say, "How's that feel big fella, want more? who's yer daddy you chickenshit animal beater? Say it goddammit, WHO'S yer...." or <insert your own phrase>... If he doesn't get the hint then, escort him from the establishment in any fashion you desire, preferably with an errant elbow to the ear area, mixed with a spinning reverse backfist... better known as an 'updated' bitchslap... Good Luck.

You're better off by yourself for a while than to put up with that shit.

sixfeetfree
Dec 15th, 2004, 09:20 AM
Cam'ron, the fact that you are asking for advice on this subject tells me that you know something just doesn't feel right.

Dude he hit/hurt your dogs and then laughed in your face when you told him how his actions hurt your feelings and made you angry. He flat out disrespected your feelings. Red flags are flying everywhere. Personally I don't think he is going to change overnight and I wouldn't trust him with my animals or with your person.

Hot sex is not as important as your doggies. Kick his violent or potential violent ass to the curb or see him at his place if you need his sex. Whatever you do keep your eyes open to these red flags.

P.S. I don't have time to change people to act right and mature/compassionate it is just too time consuming for me. When I see flags like this I quickly say bye bye and quickly move the hell on. :)

goodluck Cam and your doggies.


I concur. Good post Dawn Marie.

Grohl
Dec 15th, 2004, 09:27 AM
break upn NOW

Andy T
Dec 15th, 2004, 10:53 AM
Yes:
1) because cruelty to animals is totally unacceptable.
2) because it shows deep disrespect to you.

GoDominique
Dec 15th, 2004, 11:27 AM
OK, to answer your question:

I agree that violent or cruel behaviour towards animals is totally unacceptable.
My advice: torture and/or kill that guy. :)

Cam'ron Giles
Dec 15th, 2004, 01:09 PM
Thanks guys...:wavey: