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Iroda_Fan
Oct 11th, 2004, 10:29 PM
Alright you guys, i was celebrating my birthday last night in LA. My mom call me to tell me that my brother got into a really bad argument with this girlfriend.

Here is the story, my brother and his girlfriend are living together, they have a 9 month baby. Lately my brother's friends have told him that they have seen her and this other guy talking. I was with my sister and we saw them also too in a parking lot (I didn't say anything because it wasen't my business). I guess she talk to my sister and said that they are just friends. When my brother talks to his female friends (high school friends), his girlfriend goes crazy. So my brother doesn't really talk to them that much. Well last night my brother was waiting for her, he knows she gets out of work at 6pm and was waiting for her til 8pm and nothing and then him and his son drove by the place were they have been seen, and guess what???? they there were. My brother just drove by, and came to our house to drop off my nephew. He went back and talk to the guy, my brother said that they were pretty close, but then the guy was saying that he has a wife and a daughter. My brother got mad, and his girlfriend got really mad, for talking to the guy. She told him that she was going to crash the her car, which she did, she scratch my brother's car, stab the tires. My brother is really mad, but couldn't do anything because she did it this morning, and he was running late.

QUESTIONS?????????
1. What should my brother do???????
2. If they go to court who do you think is going to get custody of the baby?????
3. What should he do to get custody of the child?????
4. Should i write to CPS (child protective services)??????

Thanks for reading.:sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad:

bw2082
Oct 11th, 2004, 10:34 PM
get a lawyer

CondiLicious
Oct 11th, 2004, 10:34 PM
If it goes to the courts... I'm afraid he probably wont win custody. The courts still favor the mother. He needs to paint her as a psycho who is not capable of being the main care giver of a baby.

Iroda_Fan
Oct 11th, 2004, 10:45 PM
Thanks diva, as of right now she's doing a pretty good on being a psycho. And he does pay for everything her and the baby.

Tammy
Oct 11th, 2004, 10:49 PM
QUESTIONS?????????
1. What should my brother do???????
2. If they go to court who do you think is going to get custody of the baby?????
3. What should he do to get custody of the child?????
4. Should i write to CPS (child protective services)??????

Thanks for reading.:sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad:
..well indeed they'll probably give custody to the mother with visitation to your brother unless there is reason to do sth otherwise..

and well if its going to get to the point where its not gonna be worked out - his best bet would most likely be in hiring a lawyer in order to try to gain custody of the kid..

..tough situation..

Iroda_Fan
Oct 11th, 2004, 11:56 PM
Thanks Tammy. I know it's hard and i don't really wanna butt in since is not my business, but as long as my little nephew is ok am fine.