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Wigglytuff
Oct 3rd, 2004, 05:48 PM
ok

-been datingsomeone she likes me more and more everyday, i like her more and more as a friend and less and less as a dating thing, i thinks we should talk about changing the course of this thing, we are not commited and she knows i am seeing other people.

-yesterday this girl started hitting on me, i felt just ewww. she was just everything i dont like. i tried to do my best with it, but she was still a little pissed. but what can you do?

-there is a girl i DO A LOT like, but alas i dont think shes too fond of me :sad:

-there is another i kinda like but she seems rather busy and i cant tell if she is interested


when all is said and done its fun to have so much going on but it really makes me wonder what the hell is the point of being involoved in the first place.

the girl that i am dating i like her a lot as a friend, we spent all day together yesternday and we are hanging out today as well but i just dont see us in a coupling way. blah, i dont really know how to tell her that without loosing her friendship because is a wealth of knowlegde and even though we are not official commited i think she is as i said earlier starting to get more emotional than i.

LOL i feel like just calling the whole thing off and being a nun

Bacardi
Oct 3rd, 2004, 06:37 PM
Relationships aren't worth it. My gf and I had like a falling out on Wednesday night, since then I've talked to her maybe twice by phone. The rest of the time, I've fonded myself with keeping busy so she can't reach me. Figuring I'd come home to the phone being loaded with messages yesterday, only to find out she'd not even called ONCE. BITCH :mad: :fiery:

beauty_is_pink
Oct 3rd, 2004, 06:39 PM
not to die alone

sarza
Oct 3rd, 2004, 07:40 PM
relationships suck :sad:

Federico
Oct 3rd, 2004, 07:54 PM
Ditto, men are bastards!

elena_k
Oct 3rd, 2004, 08:05 PM
A relationship with the right person worths a lot...,though it's totally unlikely to happen....

Spunky83
Oct 3rd, 2004, 08:43 PM
OMG...Iīve just started seing someone and you guys totally ruined it...;) Isnīt thre anyone who is in a healthy stable and long term realtionship?!?

Bacardi
Oct 3rd, 2004, 10:41 PM
Now I feel bad, like i screwed up somehow. Cuz my gf left me a voicemail yesterday night and I didn't get it until today. and she wanted me to call her back, I coulda swore I checked it last night and there was no messages. I dunno what's going on... :sobbing:

-cata-
Oct 3rd, 2004, 10:46 PM
OMG...Iīve just started seing someone and you guys totally ruined it...;) Isnīt thre anyone who is in a healthy stable and long term realtionship?!?

ME! ME! :bounce:

3 years... and It gets better everyday...:hearts:

Bacardi
Oct 3rd, 2004, 10:49 PM
Jiggly, or Searchlight. ;)
I know how it goes. Usually who you want doesn't want you, and who you can get you don't want. But sometimes you get lucky. I got lucky, but I'll warn you sometimes it's great, but when it's bad, it's very bad. I cried my eyes out on Friday over my gf for about 2 hours. :sad: Now today I'm worried sick she's mad at me for not calling her back sooner.

kabuki
Oct 3rd, 2004, 11:00 PM
OMG...Iīve just started seing someone and you guys totally ruined it...;) Isnīt thre anyone who is in a healthy stable and long term realtionship?!?

I've got six years, living together for five and a half. The truth is, relationships are hard fucking work. Before this relationship, I could never make it past six months. Once the infatuation cooled off, I could never sustain interest. This time, this may sound sick, I toughed it out, maybe just out of stubbornness (what a weird looking word), to prove that I could do it. What I found was a new level of committment and love. Not the "I have to see you tonight, or I'll die" love, but the, "I can't imagine waking up to anyone else when I'm 80" kind of love. I feel lucky.

AjdeNate!
Oct 3rd, 2004, 11:52 PM
Relationships are evil. Pure and unabshed. I refuse to allow the possibility to present itself for a relationship. That's why I only let my mind think of stuff that is completely inconceivable and unattainable.

martirogi
Oct 4th, 2004, 02:15 AM
love is a risk to always get hit out of nowhere and end up on your own

GBFH
Oct 4th, 2004, 02:30 AM
Relationships are evil. Pure and unabshed. I refuse to allow the possibility to present itself for a relationship. That's why I only let my mind think of stuff that is completely inconceivable and unattainable.
this is why we're getting married in about, uh...eight years, right? :kiss:

AjdeNate!
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:12 AM
this is why we're getting married in about, uh...eight years, right? :kiss:
:yeah: You got it, Wifey!!
Do I have to buy you like a ring and stuff tho :shrug: ? Cuz, I'd rather we just bought some hot hooker boys instead.

Wigglytuff
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:12 AM
Jiggly, or Searchlight. ;)
I know how it goes. Usually who you want doesn't want you, and who you can get you don't want. But sometimes you get lucky. I got lucky, but I'll warn you sometimes it's great, but when it's bad, it's very bad. I cried my eyes out on Friday over my gf for about 2 hours. :sad: Now today I'm worried sick she's mad at me for not calling her back sooner.

yeah, i can take the hard work and the challege i can, but its the ups and downs that get me, because the downs can go so far down.

Relationships are evil. Pure and unabshed. I refuse to allow the possibility to present itself for a relationship. That's why I only let my mind think of stuff that is completely inconceivable and unattainable.

i met someone, 2 people actually, that i was commited too and that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. now neither is even speaking with me. after all that love and compassion and all tht everything, its just blah. not the worst not the best just blah. and hell i could have all the blah you can muster without all this relationship stuff. but then how is one to cuddle. were it not for cuddle, i swear to you i would be relationship free for 25-50 years and not give a shit.

AjdeNate!
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:12 AM
We can be 2 bad bitches... or on here 2 Banned Bitches. :p

AjdeNate!
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:15 AM
i swear to you i would be relationship free for 25-50 years and not give a shit.

It's not that bad to be alone, independent, and self sufficient. I guess I'm just :shrug: that some people (not saying you ;) ) are always defined/defining in terms of another. Am I not good enough on my own? Why do I need someone to complete me? Can't I just be complete on my own?

*Sorry randomness spewing forth*

GBFH
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:22 AM
:yeah: You got it, Wifey!!
Do I have to buy you like a ring and stuff tho :shrug: ? Cuz, I'd rather we just bought some hot hooker boys instead.
you always come up with the best ideas :devil:

GBFH
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:23 AM
It's not that bad to be alone, independent, and self sufficient. I guess I'm just :shrug: that some people (not saying you ;) ) are always defined/defining in terms of another. Am I not good enough on my own? Why do I need someone to complete me? Can't I just be complete on my own?

*Sorry randomness spewing forth*
lol, hey, what about you being banned with me? do you define yourself by who you're living with in banville? huh? huh? do ya? do ya? do ya?

eddy
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:27 AM
ugh, relationships whats the point?

sex

Wigglytuff
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:32 AM
It's not that bad to be alone, independent, and self sufficient. I guess I'm just :shrug: that some people (not saying you ;) ) are always defined/defining in terms of another. Am I not good enough on my own? Why do I need someone to complete me? Can't I just be complete on my own?

*Sorry randomness spewing forth*

no i know i am grand, i dont need another to complete me, i do however understand one can not cuddle alone, at least in college one could have a cuddle puddle.

i know i am kick ass, i dont need completion from the outside, but being held and cuddle is really something to write home about.

and no the women were not complete bitch, just faulty humans is all.

lol

Wigglytuff
Oct 4th, 2004, 03:33 AM
sex

lol!!!!

honest honesty rocks!!!!

Wendy Williams
Oct 4th, 2004, 04:35 AM
It's not that bad to be alone, independent, and self sufficient. I guess I'm just :shrug: that some people (not saying you ;) ) are always defined/defining in terms of another. Am I not good enough on my own? Why do I need someone to complete me? Can't I just be complete on my own?

*Sorry randomness spewing forth*

It's not bad to be alone, independent and self sufficient unless it's making you depressed and resentful of people who are in relationships. The amount of people who really do well by themselves is small. The majority of us need to be loved, to be made love to, to be spooned. We all have a soft and pink side to us.

Mattographer
Oct 4th, 2004, 04:40 AM
It's stink! I'm worthless! Nobody came and ask me. I'm a shit and boring person. What should I do next? Keep looking and waiting? Don't think so! :rolleyes:

eddy
Oct 4th, 2004, 04:43 AM
It's stink! I'm worthless! Nobody came and ask me. I'm a shit and boring person. What should I do next? Keep looking and waiting? Don't think so! :rolleyes:
:haha: :haha: :haha:

Mattographer
Oct 4th, 2004, 04:48 AM
Glad you enjoyed it ;) LOL!

Couver
Oct 4th, 2004, 05:46 AM
I have never had a relationship :eek: And I don't want one, ever if I can help it! I guess I'd be considered a cold person but love doesn't touch me in that way. I love my close friends and family but I see everyone else as strangers, and I've never fancied anyone before!

I suppose in todays' society something is wrong with me, but I don't reallly care. I guess if you want a relationship then it's something you have to work for.

Me? I'm way to ambitious to put in the time. So many things I still have to do for myself. I really can't be bothered being worried about someone else. And since I know a relationship takes work I guess it's good that I don't want one since I could never commmit myself.

I think that's just the way life is. Some people like to be a "we" and some like to be a "me"

tennisIlove09
Oct 4th, 2004, 05:50 AM
I'm slowly turning anti-relationship. I'm tired, already, of the drama that comes from them. Being alone rocks

rand
Oct 4th, 2004, 07:44 AM
OMG...Iīve just started seing someone and you guys totally ruined it...;) Isnīt thre anyone who is in a healthy stable and long term realtionship?!?
Me Me! six years on and running :bounce:
we're getting married next year, we've just moved in an appartment we bought together(we ve been living together for 3 years before...), and we're still madly in love :)
can't keep my hands of her, she's one of my best friends too...
and we're just happy, that's the point of a relationship I think, commitment and happiness....