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Cam'ron Giles
Sep 21st, 2004, 08:52 PM
Warning Switz...I'ts very intriguing...:devil:

OMG…I’m as giddy as a crackhead in Colombia…:devil: :crazy: :crazy:

So, we had been missing each other all week till Friday. On Friday, I was changing at the far end of the locker room. The locker room curves around so at the end, you have more privacy…and that’s the where I always change if there is space. Just as I was about to drop my boxers to put on my shorts he comes out of the shower with his towel around him. I just froze up and never just muttered, “what’s up man” and he did the same…I guess I was kind of scared that if I looked at him I might get hard and he would call me a fag and run off.

Today, me and my boy Mike were doing back and biceps and he just jumped in with us…We talked about reality shows…we both love the Amazing Race and The Aprentice. I decided to test him and said, Tyra Banks has a show too…” and he was like, “yeah, Americas Next Top Model”…:tape: I’m not saying anything…I’m just saying…:tape:

To make a long story short…He is 24…he is from Brooklyn…He lives in Fort Green Brooklyn now and his older brother is his roommate…He Went to Morgan State University in Maryland and he works for AIG. So he had his cell phone with him and took my number…I always leave mine in the office so he told me when he gets back to work he will call me from his cell phone so I can save his number…:drool: We are gonna try and have drinks on Friday after work but It depends because he is going to DC either late Friday evening or early Saturday Morning…But get this…he was like if not Friday, he will be back from DC late Saturday night so we can have brunch in the city on Sunday…Brunch? :bounce: :bounce:

KoOlMaNsEaN
Sep 21st, 2004, 08:54 PM
cool :)

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 21st, 2004, 08:56 PM
BTW...he is just like me...In a way I can see the "homey..lover..friend" thing popping off between us...He looks proffesional but has a street edge to him that I find so sexy...If nothing else maybe we can be good friends...;) I just love his style...:drool:

CJ07
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:05 PM
Brunch? Well Cam what are you going to make him for dinner the night before? :devil:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:12 PM
Brunch? Well Cam what are you going to make him for dinner the night before? :devil:
;)

tennisIlove09
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:14 PM
if things go well, you'll miss brunch, and have a late lunch ;) :drool: good luck Cam...go get'em!

Lee-Waters' Boy
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:29 PM
he works for AIG, funny i have to deal with them every dy maybe i know him :p

Helen Lawson
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:30 PM
Sounds like a love-match, Cam, you'll be on all fours begging for the big one in no time!

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:34 PM
Sounds like a love-match, Cam, you'll be on all fours begging for the big one in no time!
I'm a pitcher not a catcher...I give I dont take...:o

Helen Lawson
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:36 PM
I'm a pitcher not a catcher...I give I dont take...:o
Hon, I've been in Hollywood since the 1930's, I can tell the difference between a pitcher and a catcher, because Hollywood is full of both. A pitcher doesn't pine away in a romantic fashion for some guy at a gym, he goes up, makes the date, and gets laid, no bullshit! Maybe you just haven't met the right pitcher yet.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:43 PM
Hon, I've been in Hollywood since the 1930's, I can tell the difference between a pitcher and a catcher, because Hollywood is full of both. A pitcher doesn't pine away in a romantic fashion for some guy at a gym, he goes up, makes the date, and gets laid, no bullshit! Maybe you just haven't met the right pitcher yet.
Well, I guess there is a bit of both in all of us...but my roll is always the pitcher...wont have it anyway else...;) Thats what so great about boards like these...you say the things that you would normally keep to your'self...:angel:

Helen Lawson
Sep 21st, 2004, 09:47 PM
Well, I guess there is a bit of both in all of us...but my roll is always the pitcher...wont have it anyway else...;) Thats what so great about boards like these...you say the things that you would normally keep to your'self...:angel:
Whatever you say, hon, whatever you say! ;)

Pureracket
Sep 21st, 2004, 10:57 PM
Cam,
This cat is as gay as an Easter Parade. (Please, be gentle with him).

jenny161185
Sep 21st, 2004, 11:17 PM
cool I was wondering what happened with that and maybe he means brunch AFTER spending the night together!

martirogi
Sep 21st, 2004, 11:22 PM
what a happy, not really ending, but its a happy something :angel:

spartanfan
Sep 22nd, 2004, 02:28 AM
I'm a pitcher not a catcher...I give I dont take...:o

Hey, either way you're still playing ball!

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 02:30 AM
Hey, either way you're still playing ball!
;) :angel: :devil:

AjdeNate!
Sep 22nd, 2004, 03:51 AM
Get ya some Cam!!

~{X}~
Sep 22nd, 2004, 04:08 AM
If you get some, good for you! :) My school rules everyone attracts my eyes. ::sighs.:: We want details of the Friday drinks or brunch. ::grins.:: :) I live in NYC lmao you can call me and give me the exclusive!

UDiTY
Sep 22nd, 2004, 04:11 AM
Damn the awkwardness of not knowing if someone is gay.

But if he was straight, why would he want to meet another man alone for brunch. :shrug:

I wish I lived in NYC:hearts:

skanky~skanketta
Sep 22nd, 2004, 07:23 AM
Warning Switz...I'ts very intriguing...:devil:

OMG…I’m as giddy as a crackhead in Colombia…:devil: :crazy: :crazy:

So, we had been missing each other all week till Friday. On Friday, I was changing at the far end of the locker room. The locker room curves around so at the end, you have more privacy…and that’s the where I always change if there is space. Just as I was about to drop my boxers to put on my shorts he comes out of the shower with his towel around him. I just froze up and never just muttered, “what’s up man” and he did the same…I guess I was kind of scared that if I looked at him I might get hard and he would call me a fag and run off.

Today, me and my boy Mike were doing back and biceps and he just jumped in with us…We talked about reality shows…we both love the Amazing Race and The Aprentice. I decided to test him and said, Tyra Banks has a show too…” and he was like, “yeah, Americas Next Top Model”…:tape: I’m not saying anything…I’m just saying…:tape:

To make a long story short…He is 24…he is from Brooklyn…He lives in Fort Green Brooklyn now and his older brother is his roommate…He Went to Morgan State University in Maryland and he works for AIG. So he had his cell phone with him and took my number…I always leave mine in the office so he told me when he gets back to work he will call me from his cell phone so I can save his number…:drool: We are gonna try and have drinks on Friday after work but It depends because he is going to DC either late Friday evening or early Saturday Morning…But get this…he was like if not Friday, he will be back from DC late Saturday night so we can have brunch in the city on Sunday…Brunch? :bounce: :bounce:
u go girlfriend!:p :devil:

CooCooCachoo
Sep 22nd, 2004, 08:10 AM
Go get him Cam'ron!

:yeah: :woohoo: :) Don't let him escape you :p

"Sluggy"
Sep 22nd, 2004, 08:50 AM
Thanks for the report. that is just great. Fort Greene is nice, i lived there for a year... and my friend lives there. Hope this really blossums for you!

mandy7
Sep 22nd, 2004, 09:25 AM
go get 'em tiger :p :lol:

Mr_Molik
Sep 22nd, 2004, 10:46 AM
so hes gay im guessing?

bis2806
Sep 22nd, 2004, 03:01 PM
Cam, isn't your boy Mike jealous at all?

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 03:46 PM
Cam, isn't your boy Mike jealous at all?
Mike is a straight father of two...:tape:

kabuki
Sep 22nd, 2004, 04:39 PM
Um, none of my biz, but isn't that a lot of personal info about a person to post on a public site? What if he's not out at work, or to his family? Anyone could be reading this site. I'd say an edit is in order, but again, none of my biz. And no, I am not homophobic, internally or otherwise, I just think that it is the gym guy's info and his to choose with whom it is shared.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 04:54 PM
Um, none of my biz, but isn't that a lot of personal info about a person to post on a public site? What if he's not out at work, or to his family? Anyone could be reading this site. I'd say an edit is in order, but again, none of my biz. And no, I am not homophobic, internally or otherwise, I just think that it is the gym guy's info and his to choose with whom it is shared.

Gym guy...is that you? :retard:

matthias
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:05 PM
who is mike in this story, a lover or just a good friend of you?
just want to know it

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:08 PM
who is mike in this story, a lover or just a good friend of you?
just want to know it
My workout buddy / Trainer

Neely OHara
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:18 PM
Hon, I've been in Hollywood since the 1930's, I can tell the difference between a pitcher and a catcher, because Hollywood is full of both. A pitcher doesn't pine away in a romantic fashion for some guy at a gym, he goes up, makes the date, and gets laid, no bullshit! Maybe you just haven't met the right pitcher yet.

In other words, hon, you delude yourself into thinking you're Tyrone Power but in actuality you're cut from the same (frilly) cloth as Monty Clift.

matthias
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:21 PM
My workout buddy / Trainer
okay - i already thought you are looking for a new guy when your lover is with you :lol:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:22 PM
In other words, hon, you delude yourself into thinking you're Tyrone Power but in actuality you're cut from the same (frilly) cloth as Monty Clift.

Crawl back into the bottle you washed up old crow...:(

Helen Lawson
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:24 PM
Crawl back into the bottle you washed up old crow...:(
Hon, if you're going to try to insult Neely, at least make it good. That's about a 2 out of 10, and I'm being generous.

Neely OHara
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:26 PM
Hon, if you're going to try to insult Neely, at least make it good. That's about a 2 out of 10, and I'm being generous.

Hon, thanks but it's ok. The Monty clone will be laying it in on thick (again) tomorrow.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:26 PM
Hon, if you're going to try to insult Neely, at least make it good. That's about a 2 out of 10, and I'm being generous.
No, no insults intended...Just telling the truth...When will she realize that her time has passed and she no longer has a career outside of the Lifetime Network...I sure hope the old bytch can type...:tape:

Helen Lawson
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:31 PM
Hon, thanks but it's ok. The Monty clone will be laying it in on thick (again) tomorrow.
I'm not sure it's even at the Monty level. I'm thinking more Sal Mineo.

Neely OHara
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:37 PM
No, no insults intended...Just telling the truth...When will she realize that her time has passed and she no longer has a career outside of the Lifetime Network...I sure hope the old bytch can type...:tape:

Monty dear, I can only hope that you are as successful as I was. Oh, by the way hon, the TV movies, guesting on the likes of Judging Amy and posting on this board is how I kill time during my golden years. I’m glad that someone such as yourself sacrifices your precious youth to spend time with geriactresses like me and Hel. It’s so nice of you, Monty, considering that you probably have better things to do with your time but we’re flattered that we’re more interesting to you than going out to nightclubs or other social activities associated with your generation. It’s refreshing that you’re here at wtaworld so much because so many of your peers prefer doing other things like going to parties and the like. Aren't they pathetic?

Neely OHara
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:39 PM
I'm not sure it's even at the Monty level. I'm thinking more Sal Mineo.

Oy. More tragic than I thought. Sal had to be consoled on the set every day because Jimmy D didn't pay him that kind of attention (Jimmy preferred blonds).

Fantastic
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:41 PM
Don't mean to scare you or anything Cam'ron, but what if this guy turns out to be straight, homophobic and has a history of gay bashing? I guess that would be the worst case scenario, so you can't expect any worse than that... unless he's a serial killer with a penchance for torture, looking for his next victim. :tape: ;) Sorry, but anything is possible these days. I'd ask for a police clearance from him before doing anything with him. Lol.

AjdeNate!
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:42 PM
I'm not sure it's even at the Monty level. I'm thinking more Sal Mineo.
Poor Sal... such a tragedy the way he killed himself.
Such a fascination with fame and star power. He burned dimly and faded quickly.

Helen Lawson
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:44 PM
Neely, it took me a little while (but not too long) to find the right one!

http://www.nugrape.net/lg8.jpg

Neely OHara
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:46 PM
Don't mean to scare you or anything Cam'ron, but what if this guy turns out to be straight, homophobic and has a history of gay bashing? I guess that would be the worst case scenario, so you can't expect any worse than that... unless he's a serial killer with a penchance for torture, looking for his next victim. :tape: ;) Sorry, but anything is possible these days. I'd ask for a police clearance from him before doing anything with him. Lol.

That’s highly plausible! Monty Clift, the fragile fey thing, was beaten to a pulp when he was lured into the dimly lit shrubbery of The Coconut Grove (during an Oscar show, no less) by what he thought was an admirer. Be careful, Cam. We wouldn’t want anything to happen to you (that you don’t want to happen to you).

Neely OHara
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:50 PM
Neely, it took me a little while (but not too long) to find the right one!

http://www.nugrape.net/lg8.jpg

Bravo, Hel! That was that Sal we all remember. Jimmy D used to joke that Sal’s favorite book was The Catcher in the Lie. Ha! Though rumour has it that Jimmy himself “caught” on occasion. At least that’s what his gardener Jose blabbed in his accented English to Louella and Hedda.

Helen Lawson
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:50 PM
Personally, I think Cam likes it dangerous and rough. These days, you can't be too careful, though. Rent "Cruising" instead.

Helen Lawson
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:54 PM
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/6301640659.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg

For those who can't remember that lovely flick, here's a visual. I think I nominated this in a couple of categories.

Neely OHara
Sep 22nd, 2004, 05:56 PM
Hel, here's another one of Sal.

http://www.poster.net/mineo-sal/mineo-sal-photo-sal-mineo-6204774.jpg

AjdeNate!
Sep 22nd, 2004, 06:11 PM
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/6301640659.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg

For those who can't remember that lovely flick, here's a visual. I think I nominated this in a couple of categories.
There's a hot hot hot fisting scene in that one. :tape:
lol

Awwww, poor Sallieboy... what a waste.

decemberlove
Sep 22nd, 2004, 06:14 PM
just cos he knows about america's next top model doesn't mean he's gay. i got my ex-boyfriend into that show... he loves it now.

and i'm too hot for any of my ex-boyfriends to be gay ;)

seriously thou, g'luck with him :kiss:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 07:47 PM
just cos he knows about america's next top model doesn't mean he's gay. i got my ex-boyfriend into that show... he loves it now.

and i'm too hot for any of my ex-boyfriends to be gay ;)

seriously thou, g'luck with him :kiss:
Thanks babe...and thanks Neely for your advise...BTW, Hollywood called...they want their star back...:tape:

Neely OHara
Sep 22nd, 2004, 08:14 PM
Thanks babe...and thanks Neely for your advise...BTW, Hollywood called...they want their star back...:tape:

They want it back?! Hon, Seanie paid the required fee to the committee. What more do they want? A kilo of red ones? Pffft.

Yes, Cam, please be careful because we’d all hate to see you post a thread about how the gym guy lured you back to his house and how he had dishonourable intentions and how you were physically and/or mentally hurt in the process. That would be just awful.

Oh it was my pleasure to give you advise but it’s not new because truthfully, hon, people always ask me for advise. Do they ask you for advise? I know they definitely ask Hel for advise. Right, Hel? She gives the best advise. Joanie gives great advise as well. Sal's husband is an expert at advise giving.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 08:28 PM
They want it back?! Hon, Seanie paid the required fee to the committee. What more do they want? A kilo of red ones? Pffft.

Yes, Cam, please be careful because we’d all hate to see you post a thread about how the gym guy lured you back to his house and how he had dishonourable intentions and how you were physically and/or mentally hurt in the process. That would be just awful.

Oh it was my pleasure to give you advise but it’s not new because truthfully, hon, people always ask me for advise. Do they ask you for advise? I know they definitely ask Hel for advise. Right, Hel? She gives the best advise. Joanie gives great advise as well. Sal's husband is an expert at advise giving.BTW, Just so you know...I'm nothing like that Sal person you keep talking about...I might screw dudes but I am all man and and can take very good care of myself...besides, you are not talking to some bumpkin...I was raised in NYC and I am both book and street smart...Helen is from Brooklyn...she know how we do...we will fuck anyone up...:wavey:

Helen Lawson
Sep 22nd, 2004, 09:54 PM
BTW, Just so you know...I'm nothing like that Sal person you keep talking about...I might screw dudes but I am all man and and can take very good care of myself...besides, you are not talking to some bumpkin...I was raised in NYC and I am both book and street smart...Helen is from Brooklyn...she know how we do...we will fuck anyone up...:wavey:
I can't understand the touchiness of some people, really, we're not calling you straight or something. I love it when gay men flip if they feel someone thinks they're more of a bottom, sort of strange, no? They have no problem with getting called gay, but a bottom? They go nuts at the thought.

Sal Mineo was from the Bronx and his family was Sicilian, so really, I even have to admit, that's tougher than being from Brooklyn. You shouldn't be so fast to say you're not like him! Who says a raging poof bottom can't be tough and from the Bronx? Too many stereotypes today, Cam, unless you're in bed with someone, how can you really know? I'm just saying you gush like a 14-year old girl about men you meet in public and have school-girlish fantasies about them. The pitchers I know generally aren't like that, but what the hell do I know, being a dame and having been married to straight gay-hating men.

I'm just glad Neely and I were able to set you straight today.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 10:02 PM
I can't understand the touchiness of some people, really, we're not calling you straight or something. I love it when gay men flip if they feel someone thinks they're more of a bottom, sort of strange, no? They have no problem with getting called gay, but a bottom? They go nuts at the thought.

Sal Mineo was from the Bronx and his family was Sicilian, so really, I even have to admit, that's tougher than being from Brooklyn. You shouldn't be so fast to say you're not like him! Who says a raging poof bottom can't be tough and from the Bronx? Too many stereotypes today, Cam, unless you're in bed with someone, how can you really know? I'm just saying you gush like a 14-year old girl about men you meet in public and have school-girlish fantasies about them. The pitchers I know generally aren't like that, but what the hell do I know, being a dame and having been married to straight gay-hating men.

I'm just glad Neely and I were able to set you straight today.
Nah...no fantasies about the dude...Just shared with you kind people someone I met and liked...Is that "school girlish"? I have tons of straight male friends from high school and college and they call me when they meet a chick and go on and on about her...is that "gushing"? Or is that only gay men gush? :confused:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 10:03 PM
I'm just glad Neely and I were able to set you straight today.
:rolleyes: You did no such thing :rolleyes:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 22nd, 2004, 10:14 PM
You know what? I started the first thread just to ask you guys what you think about the person...because I could not read if he was down or not...and here I got a bunch of people passing judgement!!!! And I am willing to bet it's from people who has zero ability to attract even an ant let alone an attractive person...:rolleyes:

Helen Lawson
Sep 22nd, 2004, 10:21 PM
Neely and I have been married to and/or involved with many men, all of whom were attractive, some of whom were rich, and some of whom were famous, so I hope you don't mean us! I mean, I was hot Hollywood hardbody superstar, I could land any man I wanted, and did. Jess and Floyd were hunks! Once a maharaja begged me for one of my stockings. He later strangled himself with it when I turned him down, so I can attract loads of men from various walks of life. Neely's had like multiple kids with loads of different men and been married a bunch on top of that, so she's had her siren days as well.

We may be old today, but we're not Baby Jane Hudson either!

Helen Lawson
Sep 22nd, 2004, 10:24 PM
I'm at least 20 years away from this, and I'm a lot older than Neely.

http://my.execpc.com/~reva/babyj6.jpg

http://www.prisma-online.de/image/44/mm2e012fed5cf96b44.jpeg

Neely OHara
Sep 23rd, 2004, 03:56 PM
BTW, Just so you know...I'm nothing like that Sal person you keep talking about...I might screw dudes but I am all man and and can take very good care of myself...besides, you are not talking to some bumpkin...I was raised in NYC and I am both book and street smart...Helen is from Brooklyn...she know how we do...we will fuck anyone up...:wavey:

Cam, why does it matter that you’re “all man”? If you like to be fruity like Monty and Sal, that’s your business. Whether you’re a catcher or a pitcher, in the end you’re still "light in your loafers" so it doesn’t matter what position you play. To say that you’re “all man” means you don’t want people to think you’re a Paul Lynde or Wayland Flowers type of gay guy but do you think homophobes are going to make that kind of distinction? Hon, it sounds like you do, that you think you’ll be accepted because you’re not a sissy. Trust Hel and I because we were around at a time when the likes of Rock Hudson was paying girls to be seen on his arm at the Brown Derby while his cabana boy was waiting for him at home. That was the 50’s so attitudes have changed. Yes, hon, there’s still some knuckleheads around but there has been some form of progression in the tolerance of homosexuals so you really can be yourself now.

Neely OHara
Sep 23rd, 2004, 04:00 PM
Nah...no fantasies about the dude...Just shared with you kind people someone I met and liked...Is that "school girlish"? I have tons of straight male friends from high school and college and they call me when they meet a chick and go on and on about her...is that "gushing"? Or is that only gay men gush? :confused:

Hon, it’s not often I say this so savour it. I agree with Hel. Pitchers don’t gush. Catchers, on the other hand, do and you talking about this gym guy like he’s all “dreamy” would lead me to the same conclusion as it did Hel. A pitcher talking about his latest conquest and how screwed the crap out of her is not the same as “there’s this guy at the gym and he winked at me, blah blah”.

Neely OHara
Sep 23rd, 2004, 04:04 PM
Neely and I have been married to and/or involved with many men, all of whom were attractive, some of whom were rich, and some of whom were famous, so I hope you don't mean us! I mean, I was hot Hollywood hardbody superstar, I could land any man I wanted, and did. Jess and Floyd were hunks! Once a maharaja begged me for one of my stockings. He later strangled himself with it when I turned him down, so I can attract loads of men from various walks of life. Neely's had like multiple kids with loads of different men and been married a bunch on top of that, so she's had her siren days as well.

We may be old today, but we're not Baby Jane Hudson either!

Thank you, Hel. I’ve been around the block a gazillion times and have attracted an ant colony in my many decades on this earth. 4 times married, a possible love child with Desi Jr, fending off simultaneously Fred McMurray and Dick Widmark. Pffft. I’ve lived, hon, I’ve lived.

Neely OHara
Sep 23rd, 2004, 04:05 PM
I'm at least 20 years away from this, and I'm a lot older than Neely.

http://my.execpc.com/~reva/babyj6.jpg

http://www.prisma-online.de/image/44/mm2e012fed5cf96b44.jpeg

Eek! Please, hon, it’s almost Yom Kippur.

bis2806
Sep 25th, 2004, 12:10 PM
Cam show me your pic :kiss: