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CJ07
Sep 20th, 2004, 02:32 AM
Ok so I was at Chipotle. A friend and I were there to get a bite after finishing a project. He had to leave, so I was all by myself.

But anyway.

So as I go toward where we sat, this guy passed me and smiled. I was like um, hi, or whatever. You know that akward acknoledgement. I think nothing of it and go and sit down.

As I was eating, I was looking out the window. Apparently, dude thought I was looking at him (he passed the window). Again he smiled, even bigger this time, and added a nod. Again I looked puzzeled.

I was like, well maybe he's not from around here. He could be southern.

Now usually I wouldn't think anything of it, as sometimes people who are from out of town do that, but this guy was doing this without any prior eye contact from me, and without and lead.

See this is what usually happens round these parks when someone looks at you

You either

1) Ignore
2) Modest Half-Smile, then look down
3) Half Smile, then turn away

NO ONE actually does anything other than that unless they're in to you.
So thats what tipped me off, especially since this happened twice without me even looking at him! He wasn't bad, but if it turns out he was trying to get a little poo-tang, I really have to ask myself why is it that I attract men so easily, but no girlies!? :shrug:

So was I hit on, or am I delusional?

Barrie_Dude
Sep 20th, 2004, 02:35 AM
Yes, you are delusional but that is beside the point here. I think this guy found you attractive for sure!

Mase
Sep 20th, 2004, 02:37 AM
I would have to agree, sounds like he was saying 'whats up' without saying it..... ;)

Bacardi
Sep 20th, 2004, 02:37 AM
You were hit on, don't worry ;)

Sally Struthers
Sep 20th, 2004, 02:39 AM
You hit on him first by saying hi!

CJ07
Sep 20th, 2004, 02:48 AM
You hit on him first by saying hi!
I didn't actually say hi, it was more of a faint facial expression.

Ok so ya'll think I was hit on? So should I inform him I'm probably half his age? :o :tape:

~ The Leopard ~
Sep 20th, 2004, 03:03 AM
You're delusional. That's not to say the guy wasn't attracted to you; he probably was. But you call this being hit on? Wow, you've had a sheltered life. At the very most it was a mild attempt at flirtation.

CJ07
Sep 20th, 2004, 03:12 AM
Well not "hit on"

Being hit on is when a girl comes up to you and asks if she can put make up on you and ends up giving you head.

THATS being hit on.

Cosmopolitan
Sep 20th, 2004, 03:30 AM
Mild flirtation it is.

esquímaux
Sep 20th, 2004, 09:40 AM
Yep, sounds like harmless flirtin' to me :D Besides, I've been hittin' on you for the longest and it's never seemed to bother you :D:D:D:D:D

decemberlove
Sep 20th, 2004, 10:13 AM
You're delusional. That's not to say the guy wasn't attracted to you; he probably was. But you call this being hit on? Wow, you've had a sheltered life. At the very most it was a mild attempt at flirtation.
not everybody is used to sexual predators such as yourself, professor :devil: :kiss:

"Sluggy"
Sep 20th, 2004, 10:18 AM
Sounds like you got hit on!

Mariangelina
Sep 20th, 2004, 10:24 AM
Mild flirtation. Not really to the "hit-on" level.

~ The Leopard ~
Sep 20th, 2004, 10:37 AM
not everybody is used to sexual predators such as yourself, professor :devil: :kiss:
Flirting with me again, Holly? I like it. :lick: :devil:

V-MAC
Sep 20th, 2004, 11:13 AM
Well not "hit on"

Being hit on is when a girl comes up to you and asks if she can put make up on you and ends up giving you head.

THATS being hit on.
:confused: excuse my ignorance but are you male or female??

Keith
Sep 20th, 2004, 01:34 PM
I would not call someone checking you out being "hit on", but it seemed clear he liked what he saw. Unfortunately, I'm sure he has forgotten about you by now :(

Experimentee
Sep 20th, 2004, 03:56 PM
I dont think thats really anything. It happens to me here all the time and its just a way of being friendly to strangers. Or maybe I'm getting hit on all the time but just being naive.

Barrie_Dude
Sep 20th, 2004, 03:58 PM
Well not "hit on"

Being hit on is when a girl comes up to you and asks if she can put make up on you and ends up giving you head.

THATS being hit on.No, that is delusional!:rolleyes:

Barrie_Dude
Sep 20th, 2004, 03:59 PM
:confused: excuse my ignorance but are you male or female??The answer would be "yes"!;) :devil:

Neely OHara
Sep 20th, 2004, 04:39 PM
Delusional. It reminds of the time when I was doing this TV movie called Hanging By A Thread and Bert Convy passed me as I was coming out of my trailer. I didn’t have my contacts in so I didn’t know who it was who walked by but I smiled at him just to be polite. Well, later that day I hear this loud knock on my trailer, I answer and it’s Anne Convy. She barges right in and says “Look you hussy. Bert is loyal to me and me only so don’t even think about it. You'll never be on Tattletales again!” I was dumbfounded, watched her storm off…and then quickly took some red ones.

Helen Lawson
Sep 20th, 2004, 04:45 PM
It really depends what you look like, what kind of body you have, and if you're a superstar. If you're good looking and/or world famous, then you were being hit on. If you're not good looking and not famous, then you're delusional.

Neely OHara
Sep 20th, 2004, 04:48 PM
That's brilliant, Hel, and quite accurate. SMM should have no problems now. I can't wiat to herra the verdict.

Fantastic
Sep 20th, 2004, 04:58 PM
I think he was just being nice. If he was really hitting on you, he'd try to talk to you. Friendly can sometimes easily be mistaken for being flirtatious. Just smile back and nod next time. Aussies do this all the time. There's usually nothing much behind it until they initiate a conversation. Depending on the topics they brooch, they could be hitting on you or still, just being friendly. Aussies are a friendly bunch. Most of the time, you won't even know when they are hitting on you until you've got your pants around your ankles or your skirt over your head.

CJ07
Sep 20th, 2004, 06:50 PM
well Hel hun, you know I'm no where near as famous as you, even in your decriped state.

Like I said, had this been say Georgia, I would think nothing of it. I remember people would wave to me when I was looking in the opposite direction :lol:

It's just not the first time thats happened to me thats all.

At least I know I shouldn't have trouble getting a b/f :lol: ....not that I really want one twice my age :o

:confused: excuse my ignorance but are you male or female?? I'm Male. That makeup/head exchange happened at a movie theater years ago.
Also I think at Cosmopolitans, this bar that Mase and Atheneaum can attest to I believe, I was walking in thinking it was a restaurant with my brother and I bumped into this guy and said excuse me and backed away, and he gave me this smile and said no Come Right on In :lol: Also once I was walking down the street and this guy just straight up said Hmm looking good.

So it happens often, should it be the case