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Cam'ron Giles
Sep 14th, 2004, 07:26 PM
I just cant figure him out...I WANT HIM SO BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And He comes and stand by the machine that I am on and wait till I finish my reps to say "whats up" and then thats it...He even mentioned one day that we should have drink after work...:drool: but it never happened...He is so foine...OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But check this...In the locker room today, they were playing Britney Spears over the sound system and he was singing along...:tape: He knew every word...Is that a sign? No? :scared:

kabuki
Sep 14th, 2004, 07:35 PM
Show me a straight man who can sing along to Britney.....and I'll show you a straight man who can be had. So, either way, you're in the clear.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 14th, 2004, 07:41 PM
Show me a straight man who can sing along to Britney.....and I'll show you a straight man who can be had. So, either way, you're in the clear.

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

TimBo
Sep 14th, 2004, 07:47 PM
Britney = gay. Yeah, if he sang along then he's gay. One can admire, but to sing along, no he's gay. Ask him to go out for a drink then take it from there.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 14th, 2004, 07:53 PM
Britney = gay. Yeah, if he sang along then he's gay. One can admire, but to sing along, no he's gay. Ask him to go out for a drink then take it from there.
I will...It was Toxic? I think it's called and I was getting dressed to go back to work and he was getting ready to shower...and the entire time he is singing this song and I'm like...:confused: ...:drool: OMG...He is hot!!!!!!!!!!! A little thugged out edge to him but still kinda Wall Street...:hearts: :lick:

heartBREAKeRS
Sep 14th, 2004, 10:28 PM
well I THINK he IS gay, just get over him and find another hunk there are many out there:devil:

Jericho
Sep 14th, 2004, 10:30 PM
Show me a straight man who can sing along to Britney.....
:wavey::p

Dava
Sep 14th, 2004, 10:35 PM
Cam, if you really like this guy just go for it...what do you have to lose, face? PUH LEAZE SWEETY!!! He obviously likes you in some way, maybe you should suggest you go for a drink take his cell number, and then get him very drunk. If it works out Im happy to just be your booty call.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 14th, 2004, 10:46 PM
Cam, if you really like this guy just go for it...what do you have to lose, face? PUH LEAZE SWEETY!!! He obviously likes you in some way, maybe you should suggest you go for a drink take his cell number, and then get him very drunk. If it works out Im happy to just be your booty call.
I dont know if I like him...I do want to sleep with him though...;)

You will always be my special something on the side...;)

Dava
Sep 14th, 2004, 10:48 PM
Well your not going to sleep with him waiting for him to knock on your door and say "Mr Giles, I heard you fancy a fuck" are you now ;)

I know :kiss:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 14th, 2004, 10:56 PM
Well your not going to sleep with him waiting for him to knock on your door and say "Mr Giles, I heard you fancy a fuck" are you now ;)

I know :kiss:
:lol: Well, I am Cam'ron Giles...He just might...:o

Mase
Sep 14th, 2004, 10:58 PM
I guess Im not good enough anymore..... :sad::haha::kiss:

tennisIlove09
Sep 14th, 2004, 11:03 PM
just ask him out and see what he says. the worst that can happen is he says no... :) I'm sure you'll be crushed for like 2 seconds...

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 14th, 2004, 11:17 PM
I guess Im not good enough anymore..... :sad::haha::kiss:

Oh shit...you were'nt supposed to see this...:bolt:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 14th, 2004, 11:18 PM
just ask him out and see what he says. the worst that can happen is he says no... :) I'm sure you'll be crushed for like 2 seconds...

I would use a lot more tact that that...I know how to work my way around a questionable prey...:angel:

Mase
Sep 14th, 2004, 11:19 PM
Oh shit...you were'nt supposed to see this...:bolt:
No shame in your game Cam....

You better make it in, I mean up to me..... :devil::devil:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 12:36 AM
No shame in your game Cam....

You better make it in, I mean up to me..... :devil::devil:
I think you meant put it up in you...;)

Foot_Fault
Sep 15th, 2004, 12:37 AM
:lol: Well, I am Cam'ron Giles...He just might...:o

Where's the fucking "Vomit" smilie when you need it!



J/K:lol:

jean_genie
Sep 15th, 2004, 12:44 AM
I think you meant put it up in you...;)
:eek: :tape: :lol:
You two are bad. But go 'head and do your thing baby. Make a move on him. What can it hurt? Nothing and it sounds like he wants you too. Why wouldn't he?:kiss: :hearts:

Volcana
Sep 15th, 2004, 12:44 AM
He even mentioned one day that we should have drink after work...:drool: but it never happened.I don't know from Britney Spears, but I do know from dating. If he said you should have a drink one day after work, and it hasn't gone from there, HE'S WAITING FOR YOU TO ASK. He doesn't know anymore about you than you do about him. Maybe he IS gay, but YOU'RE Mr. Wrong! HE doesn't know!

Handle it this way. The next time you see him at the gym, just say 'how about next week for that drink. I know a place ....' yada yada yada. And have some time free THIS week, just in case he says 'what about today, after we work out?'

Don't assume he's gay OR straight. He's just a guy you want to know more about, who ALREADY made it clear he wants to know more about you. Go drinking with him once or twice, and you'll find out if he's into you or not. There ARE, incidentally gay men with straight male friends, and gay men who are just friends with other gay men. All you know is the guy expressed an interest in getting to know you better. So give him what you know he wants. A chance to get to know you better.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 02:49 AM
I don't know from Britney Spears, but I do know from dating. If he said you should have a drink one day after work, and it hasn't gone from there, HE'S WAITING FOR YOU TO ASK. He doesn't know anymore about you than you do about him. Maybe he IS gay, but YOU'RE Mr. Wrong! HE doesn't know!

Handle it this way. The next time you see him at the gym, just say 'how about next week for that drink. I know a place ....' yada yada yada. And have some time free THIS week, just in case he says 'what about today, after we work out?'

Don't assume he's gay OR straight. He's just a guy you want to know more about, who ALREADY made it clear he wants to know more about you. Go drinking with him once or twice, and you'll find out if he's into you or not. There ARE, incidentally gay men with straight male friends, and gay men who are just friends with other gay men. All you know is the guy expressed an interest in getting to know you better. So give him what you know he wants. A chance to get to know you better.
Great advice but let me tell you...The day he ask me for a drink...I dont care what I have to do...I am there...:lol: You are right...He might think I'm straight and he is just looking at me as a buddy he can have a drink with...and if thats the case then thats cool too...but I want him so bad...:sad: :devil: :angel: :tape:

Rocketta
Sep 15th, 2004, 02:52 AM
Cam you have the most stories......I need to move to NY...:o

SJW
Sep 15th, 2004, 08:00 AM
so your baby momma gets no love no more? :sad:

Hot 92 Jamz
Sep 15th, 2004, 01:12 PM
I just cant figure him out...I WANT HIM SO BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And He comes and stand by the machine that I am on and wait till I finish my reps to say "whats up" and then thats it...He even mentioned one day that we should have drink after work...:drool: but it never happened...He is so foine...OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But check this...In the locker room today, they were playing Britney Spears over the sound system and he was singing along...:tape: He knew every word...Is that a sign? No? :scared:

Maybe I should be more open-minded like Volcana and not assume so much but it's hard not to. You're at the GYM, he says that YOU and HE should have a drink some time, he sings along to BRITNEY SPEARS. To me it sounds like you were cruised. :o You like him so if he doesn't ask you out then next time you see him at the gym then you should take the initiative. Don't bother asking him if you're just into the 'will he ? or won't he?' game (if you're enjoying that more than anything else) because you might regret having that drink with him.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 01:56 PM
Maybe I should be more open-minded like Volcana and not assume so much but it's hard not to. You're at the GYM, he says that YOU and HE should have a drink some time, he sings along to BRITNEY SPEARS. To me it sounds like you were cruised. :o You like him so if he doesn't ask you out then next time you see him at the gym then you should take the initiative. Don't bother asking him if you're just into the 'will he ? or won't he?' game (if you're enjoying that more than anything else) because you might regret having that drink with him.
I rather enjoy the cat and mouse (is he...is he not) game...The thing is I never put myself in the position where I end up with egg on my face...I usually have my suspicians but I am very careful how I play the game because some straight men have a way of flirting with gay men and then flipping the script and make you out to be some kind of predatory homo after they had been playing along the whole time...But I think this one is very have-able (if he "think" he is straight)...:tape:

Andy_
Sep 15th, 2004, 02:15 PM
I guess now our curious selves can't wait for your next visit to the gym... :p Keep us posted ;) And good luck!

As Volcana wisely pointed out, it's not even much about the whole Britney Spears thing - for as gay as that can sound, I don't think one should turn stereotypes into serious criteria... go figure: I'm gay AND I honestly can't stand Britney that much... I inevitably happen to memorize verses from her songs, coz they're SO catchy, but you won't probably hear me singing along 'Toxic' :D
But this guy here suggested that you guys go have a drink together... just start from that, hopefully you'll learn more details!

:hug:

switz
Sep 15th, 2004, 02:40 PM
i'm not gay and i know all the words to toxic. i not in any way femimine either. it's a catchy song - sure i probably wouldn't sing it in the gym but if i was having some fun with my mates then i'd go for it without worrying what people think. ultimately i think it shows your more secure in your sexuality if you don't think that way.

is it just me or are you always talking about guys you want to get with? have you actually made a move on any yet?

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 02:45 PM
i'm not gay and i know all the words to toxic. i not in any way femimine either. it's a catchy song - sure i probably wouldn't sing it in the gym but if i was having some fun with my mates then i'd go for it without worrying what people think. ultimately i think it shows your more secure in your sexuality if you don't think that way.

is it just me or are you always talking about guys you want to get with? have you actually made a move on any yet?
I dont have a problem meeting members of either sex...I play around here but believe me, I have VERY high standards...A few people here know me in person and can attest to that...:wavey:

SJW
Sep 15th, 2004, 02:49 PM
you gets no love either :armed:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:02 PM
you gets no love either :armed:
You have not told me a thing about your recent trip...:mad: :mad:

switz
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:03 PM
I dont have a problem meeting members of either sex...I play around here but believe me, I have VERY high standards...A few people here know me in person and can attest to that...:wavey:

i wasn't questioning your standards or rate of success - just noting that you always seem to talk about someone different and the stories always have some kind of intrigue. i am basing this on the assumption that you are TopShotta so i may be completely off the mark.

we have something in common though because i also have very high standards when it comes to women - although my standards are personality based for the most part.

SJW
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:04 PM
You have not told me a thing about your recent trip...:mad: :mad:

you know the deal :angel:

but keep it on the d/l ;)

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:14 PM
i wasn't questioning your standards or rate of success - just noting that you always seem to talk about someone different and the stories always have some kind of intrigue. i am basing this on the assumption that you are TopShotta so i may be completely off the mark.

we have something in common though because i also have very high standards when it comes to women - although my standards are personality based for the most part.What can I say? :shrug: Would you rather me leave things out to make it more 'believable'? I live in the most exciting city in the world and I am young and attractive...I cant help it...:rolleyes:

switz
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:15 PM
can someone explain this on the downlow thing to me. i very rarely watch daytime tv but whenever i'm flicking through oprah or ricky lake seems to be running some show with a guy with a covered face talking about it.

it always seems to be african-americans as well. is it a big problem? it seems to get a hell of a lot of attention.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:16 PM
BTW...Maybe I am a little to open on here...But this board is kind of like therapy for me...I say things on here that I would not say to most people in life...Kind of like sharing on a radio advice show...:shrug:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:18 PM
can someone explain this on the downlow thing to me. i very rarely watch daytime tv but whenever i'm flicking through oprah or ricky lake seems to be running some show with a guy with a covered face talking about it.

it always seems to be african-americans as well. is it a big problem? it seems to get a hell of a lot of attention.
New Jersey Gov Jim McGreevy = On the DL :wavey:

switz
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:19 PM
i'm not questioning why you do it - feel free.

there are more exciting places than new york IMO

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:20 PM
i'm not questioning why you do it - feel free.

there are more exciting places than new york IMO
Like Buttingham? :drool:

switz
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:25 PM
New Jersey Gov Jim McGreevy = On the DL :wavey:

but he's not black. these shows always seem to the assertion that it's widespread amongst African-Americans - and the one time i actually watched the show the guy claimed that being on the DL didn't mean you were gay etc etc. if i'm not mistaken McGreevy admitted he was.

switz
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:28 PM
Like Buttingham? :drool:

i've never been there.

kabuki
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:29 PM
:wavey::p

As I said......

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:34 PM
but he's not black. these shows always seem to the assertion that it's widespread amongst African-Americans - and the one time i actually watched the show the guy claimed that being on the DL didn't mean you were gay etc etc. if i'm not mistaken McGreevy admitted he was.
They are making it seem like it's a black thing...Men of all races are on the DL...McGreevy was on the DL until he was forced to cum clean...I work out in a gym in NYC and you have more white men cruising the steam room with wedding bands on than not. You think their wives know? It's fucking disgusting. You cant change your clothes in the locker room without some old married man looking between your legs. I think because the subject of homosexuality is so frowned upon in the black community more black men (in proportion to the population) are forced to be DL. In sheer numbers, I am sure far more white men are DL than blacks. I will say though that since the vast majority of men that I have been with have been black, I can attest to the fact that ALOT of black men dabble with other men...I have had experiences with many dudes who have girlfriends and even wives. Because when you meet me, I dont come accross as being gay I find myself in this cat and mouse game with "straight" men all time...It can be fun but it also can be very disturbing.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:35 PM
i've never been there.
Sure you have...:rolleyes:

switz
Sep 15th, 2004, 03:47 PM
no, i really haven't.

i understand it would be hard to come out for most people (i doubt i would be able to if faced with the situation) but at the same i can't find much sympathy for someone who would hurt people they are supposed to love like that.

mboyle
Sep 15th, 2004, 06:06 PM
I don't get the "on the down low" thing. I just heard about it yesterday morning on some hip hop morning talk show thingie. I don't understand it at all. Does someone want to explain it to me?:angel: Is is gay people who pretend to be straight, or straight people who don't get enough sex and can't find a girl to cheat on? Or is it just bisexual people who can't do one at a time? Man it is confusing. But I just don't think straight people could suck cock. I mean, it is one thing to be sucked. I mean, you can always sit there and pretend it is a woman, cuz a mouth is a mouth as long as your eyes are closed. As for anal sex, I guess straight guys could do that, as it isn't as unrealistic as performing oral sex, but still. Ah people's sexual ways confuse me so much:sad: ...

CC
Sep 16th, 2004, 12:32 AM
A toe is a toe and a thumb is a thumb ...

CC
Sep 16th, 2004, 12:33 AM
Is that it? I forget :scratch:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 16th, 2004, 12:45 AM
and a booty is a booty...You Wendynista you...BTW CC, did you get her book yet...reading it right now...:lol:

CC
Sep 16th, 2004, 10:51 PM
and a booty is a booty...You Wendynista you...BTW CC, did you get her book yet...reading it right now...:lol:
I never got around to it. Which one are you reading - the first or second (if it's out already)? Is it any good?

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 16th, 2004, 11:08 PM
I read the first one before it hit the stores...I am reading the second one now and talk about scandality...:o

CC
Sep 16th, 2004, 11:11 PM
Yeah, I figure this one would be more juicy ... I need to take a trip to the bookstore.

spartanfan
Sep 17th, 2004, 03:56 AM
I don't get the "on the down low" thing. I just heard about it yesterday morning on some hip hop morning talk show thingie. I don't understand it at all. Does someone want to explain it to me?:angel: Is is gay people who pretend to be straight, or straight people who don't get enough sex and can't find a girl to cheat on? Or is it just bisexual people who can't do one at a time? Man it is confusing. But I just don't think straight people could suck cock. I mean, it is one thing to be sucked. I mean, you can always sit there and pretend it is a woman, cuz a mouth is a mouth as long as your eyes are closed. As for anal sex, I guess straight guys could do that, as it isn't as unrealistic as performing oral sex, but still. Ah people's sexual ways confuse me so much:sad: ...

As I was once told... It doesn't matter if you're pitchin or catchin, you're still playin ball.

CG, but on the real and I can see this from here, if a strange GUY ask you OUT for DRINKS while in a "GYM" "WORKING OUT" and KNOWS the LYRICS to BRITTANY SPEARS...I'm not quite sure how else to tell you this. but you were cruised and asked out. Balls (no pun intended) in your mouth, I mean hand, I mean court.:) BUt being a man from the ATL you allready knew this.

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 17th, 2004, 04:04 AM
As I was once told... It doesn't matter if you're pitchin or catchin, you're still playin ball.

CG, but on the real and I can see this from here, if a strange GUY ask you OUT for DRINKS while in a "GYM" "WORKING OUT" and KNOWS the LYRICS to BRITTANY SPEARS...I'm not quite sure how else to tell you this. but you were cruised and asked out. Balls (no pun intended) in your mouth, I mean hand, I mean court.:) BUt being a man from the ATL you allready knew this.
Who are you? How do you know I used to live in the ATL? :scared:

bis2806
Sep 17th, 2004, 03:25 PM
Cam, for god's sake, tell me your sexuality please? i haven't somehow figured out a way if you're gay or bi

bis2806
Sep 17th, 2004, 03:25 PM
Cam, for god's sake, tell me your sexuality please? i haven't somehow figured out a way to know if you're gay or bi

Sam L
Sep 17th, 2004, 04:28 PM
I just cant figure him out...I WANT HIM SO BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And He comes and stand by the machine that I am on and wait till I finish my reps to say "whats up" and then thats it...He even mentioned one day that we should have drink after work...:drool: but it never happened...He is so foine...OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But check this...In the locker room today, they were playing Britney Spears over the sound system and he was singing along...:tape: He knew every word...Is that a sign? No? :scared:
Oh I totally want someone from my gym too. But I think he's straight. :sigh:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 17th, 2004, 04:31 PM
Cam, for god's sake, tell me your sexuality please? i haven't somehow figured out a way to know if you're gay or bi
I am whatever you want me to be...If you're hot, I'll fuck you...:D

<3azza~my~love<3
Sep 17th, 2004, 04:33 PM
I am whatever you want me to be...If you're hot, I'll fuck you...:D

I'm hot. Would you fuck me?
:kiss: :fiery:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 17th, 2004, 06:30 PM
I'm hot. Would you fuck me?
:kiss: :fiery:
No, you're dead...:rolleyes:

CJ07
Sep 17th, 2004, 06:45 PM
Cam, I feel you.

There's this dude at my gym that's just beyond rediculous. Just a perfect specimen.
But I swear Barbara Schett was at my gym the other night. I was mesmorized.

PERFECT body. Gorgeous, and very nice too. We had a good chat. Now if I could get them both together.... :hearts: :lick:


But anyway, any progress?

<3azza~my~love<3
Sep 17th, 2004, 07:22 PM
No, you're dead...:rolleyes:

this discrimination against dead people is really depressing :sad:
azza is so special, he's the only one who appriciates us
:kiss: :fiery:

V-MAC
Sep 17th, 2004, 11:43 PM
hmm, I'm not too familiar with what the story is with gym culture in America but over here, 99% of male gym users are gay so Cam I'd say you're in with a chance with that guy :lol:

Sam L
Sep 18th, 2004, 12:13 AM
hmm, I'm not too familiar with what the story is with gym culture in America but over here, 99% of male gym users are gay so Cam I'd say you're in with a chance with that guy :lol:
99%? No way. If so, maybe I should move to wherever you're from.

kucharoo
Sep 18th, 2004, 03:05 AM
Just ask them out idiot :(

bis2806
Sep 19th, 2004, 05:54 AM
How hot are you cam ;) send me a pic to my pm!

spartanfan
Sep 19th, 2004, 06:15 PM
Who are you? How do you know I used to live in the ATL? :scared:

Oh just calm down nervous. lol. We responded back n forth when you were debating going to get your MBA a couple of months back and you mentioned that you went to college in the ATL.

CooCooCachoo
Sep 27th, 2004, 07:11 PM
Cam'ron.. We demand an update :lol: :tape:

Cariaoke
Sep 27th, 2004, 07:17 PM
there's some hoes in this house... :rolleyes: :p :tape:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 27th, 2004, 07:33 PM
there's some hoes in this house... :rolleyes: :p :tape:
Dont hate bitch...:lol:

fabifan#1
Sep 27th, 2004, 07:37 PM
give it a try i mean you've seen him naked (have u?) thats like an advantage lol isn't

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 27th, 2004, 07:41 PM
Cam'ron.. We demand an update :lol: :tape:
Well, in the last thread I mentioned that we were gonna try to have drinks on Friday after work but he could not because he had to get ready to drive to DC...So we said if he got back at a decent hour on Saturday night we would have brunch on Sunday at Cafeteria on Seventh Ave in Chelsea...but he got back early Sunday morning and I was out Saturday night and slept till 2 on Sunday...I was laying around my apt watching movies and he called around 5:30 Sunday...The good news is that we talked for about 45 mins and though neither of us came out and said it...When I asked him if he had a girl he laughed and said "I have'nt had one of those in a while"...We cut the call short when he had to answer his other line. I saw him today in the gyme and we worked out togather...he was very attentive and we gave each other one those hands across the chest hugs...I am pretty sure he is at least bi...We are gonna talk again tonight and I am gonna get bold (a few glasses of win should do it)...My fear is I dont want to make a mistake and have to see this dude all the time and then he is offended so he stop talking to me...:mad: But I am just gonna steer the convo in that direction tonight...:angel: :devil:

fabifan#1
Sep 27th, 2004, 07:55 PM
i have a question in the locker room have u seen him naked?

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 27th, 2004, 07:56 PM
i have a question in the locker room have u seen him naked?
From the waist up...:sad: He keeps his towel around him till he puts his boxers on...:mad: I do the same though...:lol: :o

esquímaux
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:07 PM
Good luck Cam :D

fabifan#1
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:08 PM
me too but how about when hes showering? is is like a wall of showers or wat? cause if he is u can go and join him you know

The Guilty
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:11 PM
me too but how about when hes showering? is is like a wall of showers or wat? cause if he is u can go and join him you know

That sounds like a porn film :tape:

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:13 PM
me too but how about when hes showering? is is like a wall of showers or wat? cause if he is u can go and join him you know
NO, I try to spend little time in the locker room...I hate the trolls that stay in the steam room and Sauna...:rolleyes: If he is gay and into me, I will find out soon enough...then I will see him naked...If he is straight or not interested in me sexually...then I am not gonna go through hoops to see him and violate his privacy...:angel:

fabifan#1
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:14 PM
That sounds like a porn film :tape:
not really where i go swimming theres always guys showering at the same time i never join them cause theres mostly old people :rolleyes:

fabifan#1
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:16 PM
NO, I try to spend little time in the locker room...I hate the trolls that stay in the steam room and Sauna...:rolleyes: If he is gay and into me, I will find out soon enough...then I will see him naked...If he is straight or not interested in me sexually...then I am not gonna go through hoops to see him and violate his privacy...:angel:
:haha: lol!!! :lol: good luck ;)

The Guilty
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:27 PM
not really where i go swimming theres always guys showering at the same time i never join them cause theres mostly old people :rolleyes:

Sorry, I misunderstood you :o When you said to Cam to join him in the shower, I thought you were meaning that he would go there to have sex with him ;) I guess it was just my dirty mind :o

fabifan#1
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:35 PM
gotcha i sometimes like my dirty mind to ;)

Helen Lawson
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:48 PM
I don't understand how you could talk to this guy on the phone for like an hour and you don't know if he's gay or what. I just don't get it.

From my experiences with Jess and Floyd, straight guys (actually most guys) aren't afraid to strut their stuff in the lockerroom, most certainly don't wear both boxers and a towel, so I think it's safe to approach him sexually.

fabifan#1
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:58 PM
good point!!

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 27th, 2004, 08:58 PM
I don't understand how you could talk to this guy on the phone for like an hour and you don't know if he's gay or what. I just don't get it.

From my experiences with Jess and Floyd, straight guys (actually most guys) aren't afraid to strut their stuff in the lockerroom, most certainly don't wear both boxers and a towel, so I think it's safe to approach him sexually.
Hel, when you have interest in a person beyond a quick fuck, there are tons more to talk about than sexuality...For your info, I was watching a movie when he called and I mentioned that...The conversation got on movies...went on to his day in DC...and other little stuff...I did ask him if he had a girl and we had that little exchange...but for whatever reason we went pass it...Please know that if it was just for a quicky...I would have stepped to him a long time ago...but he is a keeper I can tell and these things take time...;)

bis2806
Sep 28th, 2004, 12:38 PM
A quick tip cam, ask him who was the last person he dated ;) it worked very well with me in finding out if a person's gay or not..... tell me if it works aight?

Helen Lawson
Sep 28th, 2004, 01:45 PM
Well, I still don't get it that you still don't know, plus I figured you were watching a porno when he called, so talking about that would get things going.

Next time you're talking about movies, ask him his opinions of Mommie Dearest, Valley of the Dolls, Showgirls, and the Texas Chainsaw Massacre. If you still don't know after that, seek professional help immediately.

bis2806
Sep 30th, 2004, 06:35 PM
my technique didn't work for you cam?

Cam'ron Giles
Sep 30th, 2004, 07:26 PM
my technique didn't work for you cam?
I forgot to use it...:( sorry...but I got my answer...been trying not to say too much here cause people judge...but he claims..."BI"...I'll tell you more details later but we have been working out togather every day this week and talk at nights on the phone...:angel: :p

Dava
Sep 30th, 2004, 10:25 PM
See Cam I knew this would work out...'Bi' guys 99% of the time shag men anyway.