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CC
Jun 7th, 2004, 11:55 PM
Should I be concerned if someone says "I love you" after the first date? :speakles: :help:

Martian Willow
Jun 8th, 2004, 12:04 AM
:scared:

Kart
Jun 8th, 2004, 12:06 AM
Only if you're going to give them a second date.

CC
Jun 8th, 2004, 12:14 AM
:unsure: The thing is, I like him.

But I'm worried because he says I might be "the one." And he keeps calling me "baby" and "honey" though we just met.

CC
Jun 8th, 2004, 12:21 AM
:sad: :sad: :sad:
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
:awww: :awww: :awww:
:tennis: :tennis: :tennis:

BigB08822
Jun 8th, 2004, 12:45 AM
Oh wow, I would run!!!

beauty_is_pink
Jun 8th, 2004, 02:20 AM
slap him over the head and say "get a grip loser. we known each other for like a day and you're acting as if we're gonna get married."

what did you say when he told you he L you?


or he can be a real jackass and sweeten you up to get u in bed...



whatever the reason for his corniness,
jus becareful.. he can turn out to be a physco :cuckoo:

:scared:

Rocketta
Jun 8th, 2004, 02:27 AM
Is it J Lo in drag? :p


u 2 can be married in a couple of months..:eek:

beauty_is_pink
Jun 8th, 2004, 02:29 AM
or even weeks...

Kart
Jun 8th, 2004, 02:32 AM
... maybe they're married by now :eek:.

esquímaux
Jun 8th, 2004, 02:34 AM
yes. you're dealing with a kling-on (as in...never wanna let you go) kinda guy. run! run away as fast as you can and never look back.
I thought you meant klingon as in star trek :unsure:

Wigglytuff
Jun 8th, 2004, 02:35 AM
run for your life. because if the person wants to marry after the first date, what will they want after the third date YOUR LEFT ARM IN PEA SOUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

this person is CRAZY!!!!!!!!!! RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Richie77
Jun 8th, 2004, 02:36 AM
LOL at esquimaux :p :kiss:

I agree, "I love you" after one date is a bit much.

decemberlove
Jun 8th, 2004, 03:40 AM
one date is insane . i was dating a boy for a week and he told me he loved me . and THAT scared the shit out of me . he broke my heart months later . ahhhh . young love

stay the fuck away from him . danger

Mrs. Peel
Jun 8th, 2004, 03:50 AM
yes. you're dealing with a kling-on (as in...never wanna let you go) kinda guy. run! run away as fast as you can and never look back.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

yes...run like hell!!!!

bw2082
Jun 8th, 2004, 03:54 AM
defintely creepy... maybe stalkerish type should you terminate the relationship :haha: :devil:

thalle
Jun 8th, 2004, 06:53 AM
is he any rich?
if so, marry him for his money
if not, leave him

SpikeyAidanm
Jun 8th, 2004, 09:04 AM
is he any rich?
if so, marry him for his money
if not, leave him

:rolleyes:

thalle
Jun 8th, 2004, 09:08 AM
oh come on spikey... love is only good if money is involved:drool:

SpikeyAidanm
Jun 8th, 2004, 09:11 AM
I disagree.

Money means nothing.

Tompier
Jun 8th, 2004, 09:21 AM
is he any rich?
if so, marry him for his money
if not, leave him

:lol: :kiss:

Avid Merrion
Jun 8th, 2004, 09:25 AM
dunno about a bad sign, but it's definitely not good! :lol:

run away! :bolt:

controlfreak
Jun 8th, 2004, 10:02 AM
Okay, I'm going to be the only person to go against the trend and say that you should give him a chance. All of the above posts may be true. But on the other hand, he could just be slightly overwhelmed... or inexperienced... or unsure about the correct use (in your view) of certain terms. I know this because I have acted in a similar way around a girl in the past, and I am no stalker or player.

If it's an issue for you then you should question him and put him in his place. Otherwise just ignore the things he says and see how the situation develops until you are able to make a better judgement about his character.

Svennovitch
Jun 8th, 2004, 11:45 AM
Okay, I'm going to be the only person to go against the trend and say that you should give him a chance. All of the above posts may be true. But on the other hand, he could just be slightly overwhelmed... or inexperienced... or unsure about the correct use (in your view) of certain terms. I know this because I have acted in a similar way around a girl in the past, and I am no stalker or player.

If it's an issue for you then you should question him and put him in his place. Otherwise just ignore the things he says and see how the situation develops until you are able to make a better judgement about his character.
Couldn't agree more :)

Wigglytuff
Jun 8th, 2004, 07:53 PM
Okay, I'm going to be the only person to go against the trend and say that you should give him a chance. All of the above posts may be true. But on the other hand, he could just be slightly overwhelmed... or inexperienced... or unsure about the correct use (in your view) of certain terms. I know this because I have acted in a similar way around a girl in the past, and I am no stalker or player.

If it's an issue for you then you should question him and put him in his place. Otherwise just ignore the things he says and see how the situation develops until you are able to make a better judgement about his character.

with a name like control freak, its hard to convince me that you AINT one, and that is 100% sane :tape: .

BUT: if the person is 16 or younger control freak here has a point.

if NOT however, the guy is :retard: and theres no doubt about it.

faboozadoo15
Jun 8th, 2004, 08:01 PM
is he any rich?
if so, marry him for his money
if not, leave him
precisely...

CC
Jun 9th, 2004, 12:51 AM
slap him over the head and say "get a grip loser. we known each other for like a day and you're acting as if we're gonna get married."

what did you say when he told you he L you?


or he can be a real jackass and sweeten you up to get u in bed...



whatever the reason for his corniness,
jus becareful.. he can turn out to be a physco :cuckoo:

:scared:
I didn't say anything. We were on the phone after he had dropped me off and I called to see if he reached home alright. He said it as he was about to hang up, so I just said "ok."



While we were on the date, he talked about his ex-girlfriend and then got into this long speech about waiting for the right girl, and having a dream that he would find her, blah blah blah.

Then this evening he was trying to reach me but couldn't and he was worried. I told him not worry unnecessarily, and he said, "But when it's someone you love ..." :smash:

Anyhoo, I chalk it up to culture or language barrier. In a little while I'll decide if I should make a run for it.

PointBlank
Jun 9th, 2004, 12:55 AM
:rolls:

Yes bad

CC
Jun 9th, 2004, 01:01 AM
Okay, I'm going to be the only person to go against the trend and say that you should give him a chance. All of the above posts may be true. But on the other hand, he could just be slightly overwhelmed... or inexperienced... or unsure about the correct use (in your view) of certain terms. I know this because I have acted in a similar way around a girl in the past, and I am no stalker or player.

If it's an issue for you then you should question him and put him in his place. Otherwise just ignore the things he says and see how the situation develops until you are able to make a better judgement about his character.
I also think he's a little overwhelmed. Hey, it happens. :cool:

:lol: :cat: :baby:

Carolina Girl
Jun 9th, 2004, 01:01 AM
I disagree.

Money means nothing.I agree :kiss:

PointBlank
Jun 9th, 2004, 01:02 AM
I agree :kiss:
youll agree with anything he says and we all know it so stop saying it :)

Dawn Marie
Jun 9th, 2004, 01:02 AM
I recently ran into a guy who told me he loved me and wanted me to get pregnant after one week of hanging out.

I thought he was crazy, yet still attractive.. anyway.. I soon realized that he is a controlling person.

RUN LIKE HELL!! Run and don't look back.. imho it is a huge red flag!!:)

CC
Jun 9th, 2004, 01:04 AM
erm, i hope he doesn't think saying I love you will get him in your pants- does that still happen:confused:
He doesn't have to. Hopefully that's what he thinks and he's not really an insecure psycho. One can hope.

CC
Jun 9th, 2004, 01:05 AM
I recently ran into a guy who told me he loved me and wanted me to get pregnant after one week of hanging out.

I thought he was crazy, yet still attractive.. anyway.. I soon realized that he is a controlling person.

RUN LIKE HELL!! Run and don't look back.. imho it is a huge red flag!!:)
That crossed my mind.