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timmbo
Feb 25th, 2002, 05:12 PM
I know a million threats have probably been started about this subject, but I just wanted to get your reactions. Do u believe that their is someone out there that you were meant to be with? If so, have u found that person and if not, what are your thoughts.

Kisha
Feb 25th, 2002, 05:21 PM
:wavey: Tim.

there is someone for everyone! im sure of it. The thing is finding them. you can never really be sure if it his the person that you are with.
like, i'm not making sense so here is an example.
When i was with CJ he was everything to me, i thought he was the one, hell we were gonna get married but i found out that he wasnt the one, but i was so convinced he was.

there is someone out there for you Tim. Promise.

shirley
Feb 25th, 2002, 05:23 PM
I believe that that person is out there somewhere. I believe in soulmates, fate & destiny. I've just got to find mine ;)

Barrie_Dude
Feb 25th, 2002, 05:41 PM
I, too, believe that there is someone for everyone! The trick is finding that someone and having the courage to act upon it when it happens!Sometimes we let fear and/or logic prevent us from our happiness sometimes! I know I have! :hearts:

Daniel
Feb 25th, 2002, 06:07 PM
Yes, I think so.

:) :) :) :) :) :)

Jessica02
Feb 25th, 2002, 06:28 PM
I'd like to think so.

Im skeptical for many reasons

Love is such a beautiful thing, but I so far have never experianced it nor has anyone I know apart from my grandparents in Spain, they are so sweet still!

Everyone is always getting heartbroken, and it just seems like in alot of relationships there is just one person in them.

I love the idea of being in love. You know I cry at romantic movies and songs, but yet I dont ever think that kind of thing will happen to me.
Im too independant, and probably just a bit Boring really. lol!

I love the sprit of everyone on this board your all fantastic and I wish you true happiness, in whatever you do in your lives.

AjdeNate!
Feb 25th, 2002, 06:39 PM
When it comes to relationships - I'm a bit jaded and cynical. I guess If there's is someone for everyone, then we wouldn't have as many single people in the world as we do... Or maybe those people just haven't crossed paths. Probably, with my luck, there's an odd # of people in the world and I'll be the one left single.

Jessica02
Feb 25th, 2002, 07:10 PM
:wavey: Beige

I'd hope if i were to be in a relationship that I could keep my independence, I dont like the idea of being with someone every minute..I get sick enough of being with myself!!, but if i was in love things would probably change.

Im really glad you and your bf have an understanding, and your own independence, It would make the time you do spend together quite exciting, and probably down right naughty ;)

I bet if your bf saw you strut your stuff on the dancefloor he would want to join ya!

Anyway Beige you keep dancing!!

Seles - Dont ever think that Im sure that there are so many guy/girls out there that would love to be with you just have a little more sonfidence and you'll see

Zamboni
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:09 PM
I believe there's someone yes, but I also think that there's more than 1 someone. I mean, I can't believe that my someone would live in Brazil, and I would never meet him.

Daniel
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:10 PM
My someone lives so many miles away from me!!!!

:sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad: :sad:

timmbo
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:17 PM
Im sorry Danny, that must be hard. To u get to talk to them often?

Daniel
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:19 PM
Hi Tim!!!
yes, i talk to him by phone too often. He is a wonderful guy!!!

:kiss: :hearts: :kiss: :hearts: :kiss: :hearts: :kiss: :hearts:

timmbo
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:25 PM
I completely understand how it feels to want someone like that. To see them everyday and its impossible to see them. Im a hopeless romantic. lol

Daniel
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:26 PM
*drinking a Heineken with Tim*

:sad: :sad: :sad: :sad:

timmbo
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:35 PM
hehe, oh yeah, heres the Captial Morgan and coke as well. Lets just get drunk.

saki
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:39 PM
No, I don't believe in "soulmates" or One Special Person for everyone. In the same way that you grow out of friends, you can grow out of lovers. Sometimes you can go out with someone for a short period of time and have it be just as meaningful and special as a longer relationship. During the course of your life you'll meet many different people who will mean different things to you. Some of these people you'll have a sexual relationship with, and some will be friends. If you hold out for That Someone, you'll fail to appreciate all the other wonderful people you meet.

Kisha
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:39 PM
lol, did someone mention alcohol! lol!

timmbo
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:47 PM
I used to believe in "That One True Person" theory but now, I just cant see my self perscribing to that any longer. I do, however, belive that everyone comes into your life for a reason. Everyday, people make some type of impact on you in some form. I think that its up to you to decide what kind of impact or how deep the impact will effect u is. Maybe your one true love is right under your nose and you dont even know it.

saki
Feb 26th, 2002, 01:58 PM
Assumptions made by the "one true love" theory:

1. That the length of the relationship determines how meaningful it is.

2. That the most meaningful relationship in your life has to be a sexual/romantic one.

3. That you can get everything that you want from one person.

I'm not convinced by those. Sometimes someone can be with you for a short time, but really touch you. And I think friendship, and the relationships between parents and children, sibling bonds can be just as important as a romantic relationship. And you do need more than one person in your life. However much you care for someone, you need other people around.

AjdeNate!
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:01 PM
Let's just all get drunk and have a big ol' orgy.


:angel:

Scotso
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:04 PM
I certainly hope there is someone out there perfect for everyone. It would be rather depressing to think there isn't.

saki
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:10 PM
Not really, Scotso, in some ways it's more optimistic to think that there are plenty of people out there whom you could have relationships with than that there is just the one person.

Zamboni
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:13 PM
saki, for your assumptions:
1 no, cos your one true love can go away

2 that doesn't have to be, but your one true love (as you caal it), doesn't have to be the most meaningful relationships of your life (only the most meaningful love relationship)

3 yes, I believe in that

gentenaire
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:17 PM
there are plenty of people out there whom you could have relationships with than that there is just the one person.

I agree completely! But I do think that once you've found a soulmate, you can spend the rest of your life with that person.

It reminds me of this funny Onion article (for people who don't know the Onion, it's a satirical newspaper).

http://www.theonion.com/onion3806/finds_soulmate.html

Scotso
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:18 PM
saki.... just because there may be one perfect person for you out there doesn't mean it's impossible to make it work with someone else.

I am of the opinion that any two people can learn to love one another.

Tracey
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:19 PM
I do believe there is a commpatable person for everyone. I think that you have to be very carefull in relationships because just when you think you have met your soul mate they can turn out to be a totally different person. ie. I met this person on line and thought he was my soul mate but he turned out to be talking to and having relationships with other people behind my back. I thought I knew him so well and thought he was my "soul mate" I did finally meet him and found out he was married. Big news flash for everyone including myself....your soul mate wouldn't lie.
Just one word of advise to those of you finding your "soul mate" on line....you never ever know no matter what you think, until you see that person in person and can talk and spend time together, you can not be sure of anything. Save yourselves alot of heart ache if you think you have found that someone, set up a meeting before too much time has gone by. For those of you who have ever done that to someone on line you deserve everything you get in life and trust me it will catch up to you sooner or later. I also think that it is possible to have a friend soul mate too.

Scotso
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:20 PM
"How often does a person find their one true love at all, much less in the tiny rural Wisconsin town where they grew up?" Muntner said. "That's why me and Tammy are still going out even though she gave Danny [Corvo] a hand job in the Copps [Food Center] freezer a few months ago. You just don't give up on true love."


roflmao!

per4ever
Feb 26th, 2002, 02:25 PM
Originally posted by Tine


I agree completely! But I do think that once you've found a soulmate, you can spend the rest of your life with that person.

It reminds me of this funny Onion article (for people who don't know the Onion, it's a satirical newspaper).

http://www.theonion.com/onion3806/finds_soulmate.html

I agree with Tine here

and that article is really funny..lol

Daniel
Feb 26th, 2002, 03:32 PM
Timmmmmmmmmmmmmm

*hug*

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

Crazy Canuck
Feb 26th, 2002, 03:56 PM
I'm sure there is someone out there that was meant for me.

However, I'm also just as sure that whoever it is, I won't be right for them.

Oizo
Feb 26th, 2002, 04:04 PM
There must be for each of us that someone ;) :wavey: :cool:

timmbo
Feb 26th, 2002, 04:34 PM
Big HUG back Danny.

Scotso
Feb 26th, 2002, 04:36 PM
:kiss: Becca

You're a sweetheart and I'm 100% sure that when you find the perfect guy for you he'll fall head over heals for you.

After all, what perfect person wouldn't love you? :kiss:

:wavey:

SM
Feb 27th, 2002, 12:39 AM
not one , but many :kiss: :hearts: ....im nobody's bitch :cool:

nahx seriously i believe that there is somebody for everybody but i doubt that theyd cross paths...sometimes i wonder whether i'll find the right person , i dont believe in dissolving marriages.... :angel:

timmbo
Feb 27th, 2002, 06:54 PM
Steven and Becca, Im sure you two wont have a problem with finding someone.

SM
Feb 28th, 2002, 01:09 AM
any offers?:kiss:

Crazy Canuck
Feb 28th, 2002, 01:10 AM
Thanks Timmbo.

Its very hard for me not to be negative about the matter as I've been shit out of luck in love my whole life - well ever since I discovered a liking for the opposite sex anyhow.

But who knows- maybe it will straighten its self someday.

CanIGetAWhat
Feb 28th, 2002, 08:47 PM
i'm not sure i believe in the that someone theory anymore. after you give everything in a relationship and truly give your mind and soul to him and he doesn't care or gives back, you begin to feel a feeling of resentment toward him. you please him and you feel like you're the only giving, the one who calls, the one who drives and the one who's always listening, advising and caring. you give and give and give, and what does he do, he takes and takes and takes. it builds up in the end, you can only take so much, it's like, can he be that dense and don't realizes how selfish he's being? time after time, you think it'll pass because he's going through a tough time, but it doesn't. even some gentle honesty doesn't make him snap out of it. you tell yourself you don't need this kind of relationship where it's so one-sided and soon you come to realize you don't need this anymore and there will be a time when you are the one who needs support and you certainly deserve to have that someone who can give to you. what attracted you to him is now a turn-off and now you regret for becoming vulnerable. you think to yourself, a relationship is too much work and swear off guys for a while, it's you, you should concentrate on, not him.

after re-reading it, this post made no sense and didn't pertain to the topic :o

sartrista7
Mar 1st, 2002, 11:35 AM
The One Special Someone theory is totally, 100% false. And even if it were true, what's the likelihood - out of all the people on this planet - that you'd eve meet? And why would you want just one person?

sartrista7
Mar 1st, 2002, 11:47 AM
Beige - so, so true. One of my sister's friends is ENGAGED - at 16. Another is PREGNANT. Are these bints totally fucking dumb?! Do they not realise that they could be having FUN? (Not just fucking around, either.) Being young is all about freedom (but I'm getting old, I'll be 20 next year - shudder).

stevek
Mar 1st, 2002, 01:28 PM
Timmbo, to answer your question i think that there
is probably quite a few people out there for everyone and not just one, but maybe i'm being optimistic!
Some people go through life with many different partners and some people have very few, I don't know why that is, perhaps it's down to personal choice.

Viva
Mar 1st, 2002, 01:37 PM
Someone for everyone? So you mean there's someone out there for all those murderers too?

Nah, I don't think there is. Not enough nice guys in the world.

Williams Rulez
Mar 1st, 2002, 01:40 PM
I've not found that someone... but I know somewhere out there... there is someone for me :D

Daniel
Mar 1st, 2002, 02:23 PM
Hi Tim :wavey: :wavey: :wavey:

:drool: lol

timmbo
Mar 1st, 2002, 02:39 PM
:wavey: Danny

There may be someone for me, I hope so and Ive often thought about who it would be. When I was young I didnt want to settle down, but now at the ripe old age of 25 (amost 26) I would love to have that one person to share myself with.

SM
Mar 1st, 2002, 09:21 PM
Do it all! No judgments here but one shouldn't cheat themselves of their youth because it really does come around once so get out there and travel and have hot uncommitted sex and study and try drugs (if that's your thing)...essentially just live it up!
ditto , and ditto to sartrista i mean 1 person would definately get boring;)

Hurley
Mar 2nd, 2002, 04:50 AM
It's pretty sick to get married before 30, IMO.

But I am a bit of a romantic...I wouldn't mind finding That Special Someone. But there are quite a few Those Hot Anyones that I can sort through while looking. :)