I don't generalize people here , i said i don't believe it now i hope i'm wrong because otherwise it would be even more pathetic !
You think i only have suppositions but you don't know that , it's not because i'm only 21 that i know nothing , that i don't have a brain attached to my body or that i make judgements just because i feel like it . Excuse me but i'd rather not believe that someone's happy just because this person is smiling or saying so , apparenceas are deceptives and i've learned that at my expenses so yeah now i think too much of such simple things but at least if there's something there i'll see it and if i am wrong i'll move on ! It's funny that you talk about actors/actresses because there's a saying in France that says 'Be the main actor of your own life' , if someone wants to show or hide things from you , they'll succeed , and then there's the denial chapter , which is a pretty strong feeling and a hard one to get ride of
But once again it's not the same story for everyone , i'm not the voice of reason ! I keep pointing that out because you obviously think i'm cynical simply because i don't believe/want/need that in my life to feel complete (
) when i only have high expectations for myself .
You were born alone and you'll die alone , why all of a sudden you need to have someone other than a friend or a family member to make you feel complete ? You're on your own in this world , and if that's not enough to make you happy that you need a significant other to help you stand on your feet i find it very sad ! You need to love yourself and your life in order to even begin to love someone else . If you're not fulfilled as an individual i don't get how you can be between two entities .
I believe in Love don't get me wrong , but i don't believe in Forever . Then again love is not just destined for the person you decide to share your life with , i'm in love with plenty of things and people . Loving and Being in love is also another story
It look like you're taking this discussion on the subject to seriously , i though we were able to have a debate and keep our cool while doing so around here but my mistake
Maybe it's because you have your grandparents exemple and though i was taking them for granted or something like i said previously ' if they're lucky , strong and honest they'll have a shot at it ' i don't pretend to be able to figure out every single person and in my mind it was clear that my post wasn't made to shoot anyone in the foot but i'm used to these kind of conversations since my opinion is most of the time wrong and shocking in other's eyes ! My words are simply not made to be palatable to anyone's heart
I choose to see the bigger picture , and THIS is for me just a tiny piece of my puzzle
( and don't worry about my sexual appetite , i feed the beast when it's hungry
Now i hope you won't let that disagreement interfere around this place , because i won't .