Join Date: Jun 2003
Location: Raccoon City's Hive
Have men and women switched their expectations?
Have men and women switched their expectations in life?
I've noticed in recent years, it seems to me that more men are looking for the stability of commitment, marriage, and family while women on the other hand have started to avoid it.
For example, the past 2 males I have been involved with; one as recently as less than a month ago, has gotten rather smitten by me. He's calling, messaging, and telling his friends how much he likes me, misses me, and wants me. Now I only got together with him one afternoon for the sole purpose of sex. I even explained that to him, and he understood at that time. Besides, I thought all guys are just after sex anyway, so this shouldn't be an issue for him. Well since that day, I haven't seen him anymore but I've heard from him a lot. And he also talks to my friends about me all the time! So what's the deal?
The above situation has also happened to several of my female friends in recent years as well. And this isn't the first time it's happened to me. I'm happily involved with someone else on a very serious level so I don't have time for him. You would have thought with him being a 19 year old male, he'd be thrilled just getting a piece of ass. How weird!
So now, I seriously wonder, do the guys on here look more for commitment, marriage and family more than us females? Have the females grown to think that the times of the past when guys only wanted sex is how we should live? Basically what I'm wondering is, what is with this recent trend I'm seeing. Have we switched our expectations with the opposite sex?
I'm BACK & SINGLE. So lock up all the hotties!