Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: My sin, my soul.
wow. well im going to be different and go against everyone else in this thread.
friends/lovers/whatever arent always forever. true the relationship may not last forever, but thats not always the point of a relationship. i look at friendships/relationships as learning experiences.
i say if you have feelings about a friend and they feel the same way, then go for it. better to sit back and wonder your whole life. if you lose them, you lose them. pain is inevitable in life, you can try to avoid it by not taking risks, but it will eventually catch up to you.
when you finally find true love, it is so much better when youve been hurt in the past instead of sheltering yourself. you are wiser and not so naive. love isnt ALL about happiness. "the sweet is never as sweet without the sour"
as for my personal experiences, ive turn to friendships into relationships. one i am still friends with [thou i dont see him cos he no longer lives near me] and the other i never speak to at all. do i miss him sometimes? yes, but ive missed most people ive lost along the road. i learned a lot from both of those relationships and i reall believe i would regret not taking the chance.
"the sweet is never as sweet without the sour"
p.s. love is hundred times better than friendship cos love included friendship and the physical perks as well.
You cannot kickstart a dead horse
....This is fucked up, fucked up....
This is your blind spot, blind spot.
It should be obvious, but it's not.
You just crush yourself and walk away
I don't care what the future holds
Cause I'm right here in your arms today
With your fingers you can touch me
I'll be your black swan, black swan
I'm for spare parts, broken up.