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post #1 of 42 (permalink) Old May 20th, 2003, 11:59 PM Thread Starter
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Serious question: Is there a 'good' age to get married, have kids blah?

i'm fortunate that i get to meet a lot of amazing gurls, hot, smart, interesting, and responsible. some are nice, some are "dirty", some old, some yuong, but i just cant picture getting married to any of them

in fact, i cant picture myself getting married at all..

when i ask my single friends the same question as to why they haven't settled down yet, most of them reply "i havent met the right gurl yet blah" but i assure you that in my case i have -- a few times...

i've just turned 30. I'm supposed to be thinking about this stuff now. On one hand i love my life just the way it is, but on the other hand, if i'm not careful, i could see myself in 20 years becoming some sad old fucktard who spends all his time surfing internet porn or paying yuong hookers to go down on him (yes, i know some of yuo are gonna post that i'm already a sad old fucktard who blah blah blah )

so for now, i don't really wanna get married blah, but i'm wondering if i should before it's too late.....

thoughts on this kinda stuff?

opinions from gay bois and lesbos also welcome

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post #2 of 42 (permalink) Old May 21st, 2003, 12:08 AM
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I think it is different for everyone. I just got tired of working, to be honest, and my shelf time was coming up. I'm still hot and all, but not like yuo need to be for my business. I didn't mind being single, but being single was a big financial responsibility. I pegged Ronnie and figured it was my way to stop working, so I got pregnant and trapped him. It was a selfish move, motivated solely by money, but once we actually lived together and got married and Ronnie, Jr. came, things came together and I am really happy, though not at the moment as I am miserable with this second pregnancy.

While I am not wild and crazy for Ronnie in the sexual sense (he is really old) and would not have given him a second look if he didn't have money, there is something nice about having someone to support me and buy me things and I don't have to work. I do really "love" Ronnie in the larger sense because I feel we are together now, but I cannot tell yuo one day yuo will meet a gurl who you just cannot stand not to be around. Other things motivated me, and I think a lot of marriages are like that.

You either will or won't find a Mrs. Right Car Key Gurl. As long as yuo like what you're doing, keep doing it until something changes.

BTW, there is nothing wrong with electing to be single and getting hookers.
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*claps* excellent post, Celeste.

Marraige is fairly pointless unless you just want to sit around all day with the kids while your husband works. That's the only motivation I'd have to get married.
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i'm fortunate that i get to meet a lot of amazing gurls, hot, smart, interesting, and responsible.
Blah blah blah... do you think anyone falls for this shit?

Please, just go away...

Every man is a loser on this board... why do I bother coming here?
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Very funny, but at least I am honest. Plus, should Car Key Boi find himself a lonely, childless mid-40's guy, he will have enough money to land some young hottie. By that time, he won't care if she's after money.
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Blah blah blah... do you think anyone falls for this shit?

Please, just go away...

Every man is a loser on this board... why do I bother coming here?
hey there sexy!
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post #7 of 42 (permalink) Old May 21st, 2003, 12:31 AM
 
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thoughts on this kinda stuff?
You're, sorry, yuo're just having a crisis because yuo've just hit the big 3-0.

Yuo'll be over it in no time.

If not then remember there's no point in getting married if yuo're not ready for it.

It's not age specific.
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Age is but a number, no right time, just meet the right person and go with the flow, life's too short to worry
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Car Key boi, I'm not sure what the right age for marriage and kids is, but the one thing i can tell you is that it sure as hell is not 15.
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life's too short to worry
but that's never stopped anybody before.
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but that's never stopped anybody before.
It hasn't, but 30 isn't old, everyday you 'meet' new people, one day it will just click with someone, and marriage isn't for everyone
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It hasn't, but 30 isn't old, everyday you 'meet' new people, one day it will just click with someone, and marriage isn't for everyone
Jelenadokicishot, 30 is incredibly old, and you better believe when I'm 29 and 364 days I will have my stepladder and noose out.

no no, I kid. I don't want to be 29 either!

no no, I kid. i'm sure CKB will meet somebody nice, and if he doesn't, maybe he can write a great book about his suffering. bad times breed great art.
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post #13 of 42 (permalink) Old May 21st, 2003, 01:21 AM
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Car Key boi, I'm not sure what the right age for marriage and kids is, but the one thing i can tell you is that it sure as hell is not 15.
I second that, and what's more my advice is that you wait as long as possible and discover yourself and what YOU want before anything else. Marriage and kids are not something we should rush into. Again, marriage and kids are NOT for everyone. There are so many who goes down that path when they're not really suited to it at all. That's when you see the divorces, the single parents and lengthy legal battles. It shouldn't be compulsive like just buying something.

So I suggest you think hard about it. There are too many people in the world who thinks having kids is like buying a pet. We all need to be more responsible for our actions.
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King Lindsay....how old are you?
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post #15 of 42 (permalink) Old May 21st, 2003, 01:32 AM
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The big plus is, men can have children at a much much older age than women.
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