Join Date: Apr 2002
Location: Kissing my little Lolita
Just to follow up, my own nearest experience is this. A girl whom I loved very much dumped me...but later wanted me back, though she never said so in so many words. I only found out years later when she told me that was how she felt at the time. She and I are still very close. In fact she is just about my best friend, but we are not lovers. The thing is, I'm sure I would have picked up on her hints/behaviour if not for the feeling that I wasn't worthy of her.
That makes me encourage others not to be put off by those feelings of unworthiness.
Fortunately my love life has taken other (very good) directions, etc, etc, and I can't really regret what happened. But I do sometimes wonder what might have been, knowing what I know.
Vin, kvinder og sang