I wouldn't, but I wouldn't judge someone who did either.
Same here. (gurl we are so going to hell
It really isn't my thing, I don't know why but I attract dudes who are already in a relationship
and I am like "Um no" .
But this is not all black and white. In the best of the worlds, no one would cheat on their partner, marriages would be all successful. This is not the case.
What I find detestable is to lie to the other about your marital status. That's totally dishonest. You tell the other you are married, it's up to the other to have sex with you or not anyway. But if you hide that, and the other wants more with you... and one day, finds out you are married.
and your other half finds out too
I am not one to say adultery is 100% evil because it is too hard to judge on both sides. We all did mistakes anyway. What if the dude is really unhappy in his marriage (his wife is an awful bitch to her, cheats on him as well, etc etc)but doesn't want to leave because : kids, what the hell would happen after ? etc etc many questions.
Also there is not only adultery as in the sex outside from the bounds of marriage, but also feelings. And that, it is worse because you can't even control them.
That being said, I hope it will never happen to me.