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No. Sometimes I do.
Well of course I've had one night stands before I just don't call them dates.
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Re: Dating Thread - Ranting, Bitching, Story-telling, Advice, and of course Judgment!

So I'm currently on a break with my boyfriend, and have been for about 2 weeks now. The reason for the break was because I wasn't fully ready to commit and settle down and what not. Then last week I hooked up with a different guy, and it was amazing. He was a very good kisser :3. And tonight I'm going out clubbing with mates again and who knows what will happen. And I am completely comfortbale and don't feel any guilt or anything. Am I a horrible person?


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girl of course you're not a horrible person. You're just not ready to commit to him and it's not yours or his fault, just how things are and he's gunna have to accept that! Plus you're on a break anyway and so you shouldn't feel bad for having fun cause you guys technically aren't together. He's your first bf isn't he, I don't blame you for wanting to have fun since you're sitll heaps young too.

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Hopefully your bf isn't like Rachel from Friends!

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So I'm currently on a break with my boyfriend, and have been for about 2 weeks now. The reason for the break was because I wasn't fully ready to commit and settle down and what not. Then last week I hooked up with a different guy, and it was amazing. He was a very good kisser :3. And tonight I'm going out clubbing with mates again and who knows what will happen. And I am completely comfortbale and don't feel any guilt or anything. Am I a horrible person?
How does that work? I don't think I would like anyone putting me on hold. I would feel like the back-up plan.
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How does that work? I don't think I would like anyone putting me on hold. I would feel like the back-up plan.
They're obviously giving themselves space to figure out what they really want from each other.

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They're obviously giving themselves space to figure out what they really want from each other.
Obviously. But the break doesn't seem to be balanced. It's a result of Umberella's refusal to commit and settle down (which is understandable since he's only 21). I'm just saying that I wouldn't like to be in the bf's position.
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Obviously. But the break doesn't seem to be balanced. It's a result of Umberella's refusal to commit and settle down (which is understandable since he's only 21). I'm just saying that I wouldn't like to be in the bf's position.
Sometimes when you're in a long term relationship, it's easy for it just to become 'habit'. Sometimes you have to take a step back and work out if this is what you really want, or whether you're together just because your together (if that makes sense?).

It's normal for one person to have more doubts than the other, doesn't mean it's easy on either person, but it's better than settling down and regretting it later.



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Sometimes when you're in a long term relationship, it's easy for it just to become 'habit'. Sometimes you have to take a step back and work out if this is what you really want, or whether you're together just because your together (if that makes sense?).

It's normal for one person to have more doubts than the other, doesn't mean it's easy on either person, but it's better than settling down and regretting it later.
Plus, if Umbrell's boyfriend knows about Umbrella's discomfort about settling down with a committed relationship, the boyfriend should probably just cut himself loose. If what we want don't match up, I'm not going to stick around while you figure your shit out. I'm too busy for that.
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Just a question:

If I remember correctly, you have a certain preference (bottoming). Could you date someone who also was a bottom? And when you meet someone in real life, how do you go about asking them what their preference is? Should you do it on a first date?
Well since I pretty obviously look like a twink and I have a really huge ass it's implied. I'm pretty sure.

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clubbing is the best to get rid of negative emotions
Just alcohol can do it as well, or clubbing with another hot stranger.

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So I'm currently on a break with my boyfriend, and have been for about 2 weeks now. The reason for the break was because I wasn't fully ready to commit and settle down and what not. Then last week I hooked up with a different guy, and it was amazing. He was a very good kisser :3. And tonight I'm going out clubbing with mates again and who knows what will happen. And I am completely comfortbale and don't feel any guilt or anything. Am I a horrible person?
Been there, done it. You want the best of both worlds. The security of the emotional and physically connection with your BF and then hot random sex with hot random strangers. Ask your BF if he'd do an open relationship. If not, stay single because that relationship will drag you to hell.

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Plus, if Umbrell's boyfriend knows about Umbrella's discomfort about settling down with a committed relationship, the boyfriend should probably just cut himself loose. If what we want don't match up, I'm not going to stick around while you figure your shit out. I'm too busy for that.
Agreed. Like I said earlier, mention the open relationship, if you both dont want it. Cut loose.

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So both Justin and James have kinda been falling off the map the past few days and my patience is almost at it's limit. I've basically gotten over them now so if they text me that's fine but i'm not longer showing incentive where it appears I'm not wanted.

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