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Anybody else divide their men into 2 categories
1.) Hookups
2.) Guys you actually want to date and get to know?

I use the hookup guys for sex before/after my date with the guy I actually wanna get to know. It keeps hormones in check during the date.
I cant believe we agree on something but it took sex and dating to do so. This is sooo me
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It just feels like that's a lot of pressure to put on it. Albeit if I like someone I'm much more apt to give it a minute, as putting doesn't necessarily equate to great boyfriend, but if we're available, and there's sexual spark I'm typically very much game.
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I agree. The less pressure the better, and be practical instead of idealistic. Gay men are fickle (myself included).
I like challenges in all aspects dating and sex included, mission impossible style even sometimes.
And shocking or not I have had more relationships than hook ups, a relationship is always my main goal when I'm dating.

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I like challenges in all aspects dating and sex included, mission impossible style even sometimes.
And shocking or not I have had more relationships than hook ups, a relationship is always my main goal when I'm dating.
I guess that explains why you're always crushing on straight men then...


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I guess that explains why you're always crushing on straight men then...
Hey, hey! We've all fallen prey to their dirty tricks and request for massages.
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Hypothetically, don't shit where you eat. But unless you hypothetically see a long-term, meaningful relationship with this hypothetical woman whom you think can significantly improve your hypothetical life, I wouldn't risk my hypothetical career.

The hypothetical age doesn't really matter. I'm in my hypothetical mid-late-early 20s, and I've hypothetically started getting into hypothetical men in their hypothetical 40s.
This isn't about my, it's about my friend! K?!

I'll be sure to pass on your message to him! I've got a strange feeling he'll agree.



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I'm totally making it obvious I'm looking for a boyfriend and I think its putting people off. I should really just calm my falm. But I'm really just not looking to hookup. It might be old fashioned but I want my first experiences to be with someone I care about.
Mate, people want what they can't have. Nothing is more off putting than someone throwing themself at you, and nothing makes you want something more than thinking it's slipping out of your grasp. Remember that.



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I guess that explains why you're always crushing on straight men then...
Yep. They start the flirting though, it's definitely not my fault.

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I agree. The less pressure the better, and be practical instead of idealistic. Gay men are fickle (myself included).
I think there's also a broader range of what's deemed ok in terms of when to put out with gay men.

That sounds awful.

What I mean to say is the range of when we expect to have sex is a lot larger, and when you have two guys with differing pov, it can get weird. Whereas generally, albeit not always, straight relationships have a formality to the courtship.

You can see it here how gay men sort of run the gamit which makes it more likely to lead to misunderstandings and what looks to be a fickle change of heart.
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Hey, hey! We've all fallen prey to their dirty tricks and request for massages.
LOL. So right though!

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I like challenges in all aspects dating and sex included, mission impossible style even sometimes.
And shocking or not I have had more relationships than hook ups, a relationship is always my main goal when I'm dating.
Well the sort of hunt of it all is so exhilarating. When it becomes a cat and mouse game though it can be pretty tiresome.
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LOL. So right though!
Straight men love attention, more than anything else. Many of them don't mind getting it from a gay boy. Don't fall for those dirty tricks. LOL


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Hey, hey! We've all fallen prey to their dirty tricks and request for massages.
Leaving the party to bum a cigarette has been a ploy I've seen pretty often.
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Straight men love attention, more than anything else. Many of them don't mind getting it from a gay boy. Don't fall for those dirty tricks. LOL
I think all men are like that. Well actually you either like to be hunted or prefer to hunt I think. I know plenty of guys who get pretty uncomfortable when they are getting attention like that.
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Mate, people want what they can't have. Nothing is more off putting than someone throwing themself at you, and nothing makes you want something more than thinking it's slipping out of your grasp. Remember that.
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Well the sort of hunt of it all is so exhilarating. When it becomes a cat and mouse game though it can be pretty tiresome.
The reward makes up for it all though.

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Straight men love attention, more than anything else. Many of them don't mind getting it from a gay boy. Don't fall for those dirty tricks. LOL
Yeah I know. It is so frustrating because some of them have told me they like me and I'm like "and you still claim your st8?", I think they're in denial about their sexuality or something. What's even more frustrating though is that these scenarios happen to me more often that you would think.

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