Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: The Netherlands
Re: Question About My Sexuality
One of my best friends went through the same thing some years ago. He was totally gay, I mean, he's masculine and all but he'd been gay for as long as he could remember, and then all of the sudden this new girl comes into our group and he had a complete crush on her and they hooked up a couple of times. It ended up being just an affair, and it is still sort of a tabboo subject between us, as neither of us could really believe what was going on, but I honestly feel he had an infatuation on her. The psychological reasons beyond it are far from my reach, but I do believe he was genuinely attracted to her. After that, he just kept on with his normal life, being as gay as a goose.
I don't know, you're in a relationship right now, so maybe you should just think about monogamy other than just questioning your sexuality. You don't have to be bi, or gay, or whatever, you just feel attracted to her and that's it. Whether you act on it or not is up to you, but there's no need to question your whole grounds on it.